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Gboom:

I know a handsome man in those days, he never got married and no kid either but womanize a lot. One day, a woman whose first born senior me like 2 years came to his office and they started cracking adult jokes. When the woman left, this baba told me a how he deflowered the woman and few others in the environment because they always like him. Although, I cannot conclude this was the root of his problem because some people's challenge of life has many roots

That's exactly...narrowing all life challenges of men to Deflowering women is parochial.... They're numerous reasons ...Sex is not the issue ...people have sex whether successful or not ...
Infact the bible talk about the rich falling into divers lust not even the poor yet still successful were do they get just this conclusion from

Mrfeel:

I'm not married, i became a father when I was 17 , so I raised my daughter not to make same mistake me and her mother made

It's great, I pray God give u grace to nurture her more in the ways of the Lord and when it's time for her to make choices, I pray she makes good choices in Christ name

Doctordan:


The bible tells us that when two people have sex, they are no longer two but one. Dr Olukoya is not trying to misquote the bible in any way. He was merely pointing out(in reference to that information from the bible) the problem that comes as a result of having careless sex. Moreover , it doesn't matter if the man used condom. Spiritual transactions from sex does not respect protection worn during the act. Even if a lady doesn't have a demon, fornication is still sinful and wrong.

"The two shall become one flesh" - may be misinterpreted. This could just mean the zygote that is formed when the sperm meets the egg. Else if you're indeed one flesh with your wife, why don't you have malaria when she does? Why don't you feel the same pain at the same time as your partner?

Using a condom means there's no exchange of body fluids or DNA. There needs to be a for any transaction (or covenant) to be made. What you said (bolded), the Bible didn't say that.

This is not to say extramarital sex is not a sin. It is sin in every way. But we shouldn't quote bible out of context to buttress a point and create fear.
We should start "dividing word of truth carefully" and not just quote Bible inaccurately, even if we're making a valid point.

Dpaulie:

It's great, I pray God give u grace to nurture her more in the ways of the Lord and when it's time for her to make choices, I pray she makes good choices in Christ name

Amen , thanks

Kobojunkie:
Dem don use your head mix cement finish be this.😂😂😂😂😂

You claim that Life is teaching me some terrible experiences. You don't know of these experiences, and though I have never displayed evidence of any kind to back the existence of such experience but you are certain it is so with me?😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Anyone else examining this would immediately pinpoint who the true Yabaleft inhabitant is... hint: it ain't me. 😆😆😆😆😆😆

It is impossible for you to display you worries and anxiety here but there are signs in your writings. Rubbishing other peoples' experiences because you felt they are lying is like madness is residing in you.

Was she disflowered forcefully?

Gboom:
➜It is impossible for you to display you worries and anxiety here but there are signs in your writings. Rubbishing other peoples' experiences because you felt they are lying is like madness is residing in you.

It is impossible for me, however, it is possible in your case. I mean your posts are riddled with your worries and anxieties in your every attempt to provide irrational reasons for the many ridiculous ideas you label as your experiences. None of these ideas, however, can be corroborated by those around you.

Kobojunkie:
It is impossible for me, however, it is possible in your case. I mean your posts are riddled with your worries and anxieties in your every attempt to provide irrational reasons for the many ridiculous ideas you label as your experiences. None of these ideas, however, can be corroborated by those around you.

It is madness in you that is making you to argue or rubbishing other people fact you are not in their shoes

Gboom:
✓ It is madness in you that is making you to argue or rubbishing other people fact you are not in their shoes

Your anxiety is palpable. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

So what if you marry her and you guys later divorce because of her bad character? Just say premarital sex is a sin and stop saying what is not scriptural and making the heathens to make jest of the church.

PexinPikin:

So according to u d old Testament z null n void? Or z it not longer part of d bible?

Do you have selective reading

Nigeria is now under democracy, do we need old military laws to rule in this dispensation?

If you don't understand usage of Bible, stop quoting it

purples25:


Why did you sleep with a person you consider senseless in the first place. You know you cannot settle for her, yet you settled for her brand new vagina.

I had good intentions and to be candid, a 23 years old lady is old enough to get married.

Majesty33:
I had good intentions and to be candid, a 23 years old lady is old enough to get married.

You would have done your investigations without sleeping with her.

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"The two shall become one flesh" - may be misinterpreted. This could just mean the zygote that is formed when the sperm meets the egg. Else if you're indeed one flesh with your wife, why don't you have malaria when she does? Why don't you feel the same pain at the same time as your partner?

Using a condom means there's no exchange of body fluids or DNA. There needs to be a for any transaction (or covenant) to be made. What you said (bolded), the Bible didn't say that.

This is not to say extramarital sex is not a sin. It is sin in every way. But we shouldn't quote bible out of context to buttress a point and create fear.
We should start "dividing word of truth carefully" and not just quote Bible inaccurately, even if we're making a valid point.



Regardless of whether there is exchange of body fluids or not, (or for that matter, whether the man is using protection or not), as long as the couple have sex, the spiritual transaction will still take place. The two are ed and will become one. This is the raw truth, take it or leave it.

Doctordan:
Regardless of whether there is exchange of body fluids or not, (or for that matter, whether the man is using protection or not), as long as the couple have sex, the spiritual transaction will still take place. The two are ed and will become one. This is the raw truth, take it or leave it.

Truth according to who? Tell us where that is written in the Bible. If you can't just keep quiet.
If you're indeed a Christian, you will know better than to make claims when the bible did not say so.
I acknowledge the message here - no sex outside of marriage - simple. But to start "adding" things to the scriptures - God did not send you to do that.

WeirdAlien:


Truth according to who? Tell us where that is written in the Bible. If you can't just keep quiet.
If you're indeed a Christian, you will know better than to make claims when the bible did not say so.
I acknowledge the message here - no sex outside of marriage - simple. But to start "adding" things to the scriptures - God did not send you to do that.

No-one is adding anything to the bible. We are just explaining. Once two people have sex, there is a spiritual exchange. Not even wearing protection can prevent it. Mark my words. Protection is physical. Sex is both physical and spiritual.

Kobojunkie:
Eyin o. niro oshi! Since when did the Constitutional Law belonging to the descendants of Jacob that only applied only before YHWH destroyed the same Israel become the Constitutional Law to apply to people born in a far away country called Nigeria? You people are fraudsters!

It is written📝📝📝
A CANAL MAN CANNOT UNDERSTAND THE THINGS OF D SPIRIT!!!

Kobojunkie:
✓ I am angry at the stewpidity of you quoting another country's Constitutional Law at your fellow Nigerians both in arrogance and ignorance.

✓ I am angry at the wickedness of a Nigerian such as yourself who for the sake of his ego alone things it reasonable to suggest that Laws which applied to a country that was eventually demolished by YHWH -- the God of that Country --- over 1900 years ago, should now apply in Nigeria because he wants them to.

✓ I am angry at the level of disrespect and disregard that you religious people particularly you Christians have toward YHWH -- God of Israel -- who swore by His name that Israel is His one and only people on the planet of men. You fraudsters are incapable of knowing him but your lying nature can't seem to keep you from lying that you do.

U CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND D THINGS OF THE SPIRIT

PexinPikin:

U CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND D THINGS OF THE SPIRIT

vagina and dick issues are things of the Spirit? You people need the stewpidity flogged out of you is what. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Doctordan:


No-one is adding anything to the bible. We are just explaining. Once two people have sex, there is a spiritual exchange. Not even wearing protection can prevent it. Mark my words. Protection is physical. Sex is both physical and spiritual.

How did you know that?
You keep saying the same thing without reference to any scripture. No one will mark your words oga, they don't hold any weight without the Bible.

WeirdAlien:


How did you know that?
You keep saying the same thing without reference to any scripture. No one will mark your words oga, they don't hold any weight without the Bible.

Comedian,

WeirdAlien:


How did you know that?
You keep saying the same thing without reference to any scripture. No one will mark your words oga, they don't hold any weight without the Bible.

Never underestimate the power and results of sexual intimacy. It is deeper and more complex than most people may believe and it still has life-long ramifications. The bible does not have to talk about any "condom" which may or may not allow (as you claim it) the bonding that occurs as a result of two people engaging in sex. That is the reason that sex has always been left within marriage.

Doctordan:

Comedian,

Name calling abi.

Doctordan:

Never underestimate the power and results of sexual intimacy. It is deeper and more complex than most people may believe and it still has life-long ramifications. The bible does not have to talk about any "condom" which may or may not allow (as you claim it) the bonding that occurs as a result of two people engaging in sex. That is the reason that sex has always been left within marriage.

Bible didn't mention condom because it wasn't existing in that time or space. There's also no related cases we can use as yardstick. So you can't make any authoritative assertions about it. So I pointed out some facts about it that may or may not indicate any covenant between the duo.

The bible did not also say sex is deeper and powerful as you claim so authoritatively. This is where I fault you. Don't create doctrines out of matters that the bible did not expressly talk about. That is what Pharisees do.
This is what happens when you dogmatically take what a "religious leader" said out of respect, because you think they are infallible. And that implies that you don't prove their messages against the scriptures. Which means you don't have independence of thought when it comes to your spiritual life.
Wake up.

Doctordan:


No-one is adding anything to the bible. We are just explaining. Once two people have sex, there is a spiritual exchange. Not even wearing protection can prevent it. Mark my words. Protection is physical. Sex is both physical and spiritual.

"Spiritual exchange" of what exactly?

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JmyNigaa:


Sir is there a Bible scripture that bears this message?

WeirdAlien:

Name calling abi.



Bible didn't mention condom because it wasn't existing in that time or space. There's also no related cases we can use as yardstick. So you can't make any authoritative assertions about it. So I pointed out some facts about it that may or may not indicate any covenant between the duo.

The bible did not also say sex is deeper and powerful as you claim so authoritatively. This is where I fault you. Don't create doctrines out of matters that the bible did not expressly talk about. That is what Pharisees do.
This is what happens when you dogmatically take what a "religious leader" said out of respect, because you think they are infallible. And that implies that you don't prove their messages against the scriptures. Which means you don't have independence of thought when it comes to your spiritual life.
Wake up.

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The only person asleep here is you
I c

triplechoice:


"Spiritual exchange" of what exactly?

Once someone has sex with a woman, he is transferring his spirit inside her and vice-versa plus there is a soul-tie.That is why the bible is against sleeping with prostitutes because one does not know the kind of spirit/spirits that is already inside them. That is why the bible warns us against sexual immorality. Sex is not just a physical act, it is a lifelong contract.

purples25:


You would have done your investigations without sleeping with her.

well, the damage has been done..

Doctordan:


Once someone has sex with a woman, he is transferring his spirit inside her and vice-versa plus there is a soul-tie.That is why the bible is against sleeping with prostitutes because one does not know the kind of spirit/spirits that is already inside them. That is why the bible warns us against sexual immorality. Sex is not just a physical act, it is a lifelong contract.

What's your definition of spirit you're referring to?

And how do you know that one's spirit is transferred into another during sex?

Or what proofs do you have of this happening during sex?

Finally, what Bible verse or verses your claim of spirit transfer during sex?

Majesty33:
well, the damage has been done..

You can easily say that. As a man and especially a man in Africa, the physical consequences are not visibly on you.

triplechoice:


What's your definition of spirit you're referring to?

And how do you know that one's spirit is transferred into another during sex?

Or what proofs do you have of this happening during sex?

Finally, what Bible verse or verses your claim of spirit transfer during sex?

Go and do a thorough study of the bible again concerning sex and ask The Holy Spirit to open your eyes. Stop over relying on what you think you know.

Doctordan:
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The only person asleep here is you
I c

Do you know why I'm tackling you?
There's been too much noise about sex, such that many people forget about other sins, and tend to believe they're not doing badly if they don't commit fornication/adultery. You will see churches suspending people because of extramarital sex, but don't even notice when others tell lies, hold malice/grudges, exhibit covetousness, etc.
When they brought the adulterous woman to Jesus, He said "he that has not sinned should be the first to cast stone", didn't say he that has not committed adultery. There's no big or small sin before God.
But today, we're repeating what those people did - bringing the adulterous to public justice, while we forget we're equally guilty in so many ways.