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A 37-year-old woman, Linda Stephen, on Tuesday, approached a Kaduna Customary Court, seeking divorce over her husband, Felix Stephen’s excessive sexual demands.

In her petition, Mrs Stephen, a resident of Ungwan Sunday in Kaduna, also accused her husband of beating her whenever she rejected his sexual advances. They have been married for six years.

She told the court that she was no longer interested in the marriage as she can no longer cope with the husband’s excessive demand for sex.

“I urge the court to dissolve this marriage because I can’t stand his excessive sexual urge. He likes sex too much, and I can’t bear it.

“Most times, he would have sex with me from midnight till early hours of the morning. Even when I am crying, he will not stop.

“It has been three months since I moved out of his house, his relatives have been pleading with me to go back to him, but they do not know what I am facing,” she said.

She further said that her husband does not control himself whenever he needed sex, and that whenever she refused his sexual advances, he would beat her up, even in front of their two kids.


‘I’m ready to control my urge’ - Husband

Stephen, in his response, told the court that he is in love with his wife.

He pleaded with the court to help him pacify her, and not to grant her wish.

Stephen said he had been pleading with her wife not to seek for divorce, as he was now ready to control his sexual urge.

“I took my uncles and friends to her parents house to plead with her. But she refused to listen to us instead she walked out on us,’’ Stephen said.

He further pleaded with the court to give him time to sort things out and reconcile with his wife.

The judge, John Dauda, adjourned the matter until May 6 for a and outcome of the reconciliation, while advising them to maintain peace.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/03/my-husband-makes-love-from-midnight-till-dawn-kaduna-woman-wants-divorce/

What do we women really want?

Love shouldn’t hurt, if it does, walk away and save yourself.

No divorce will be granted on such grounds!

HonNatasha:
What do we women really want?

too much of everything is bad, things need to be done in moderation. Why u go knack person piking from night till dawn? Is there an prize/award attached to it? You can go and replace her in the marriage since you're a lady.

What does this gender actually want sef? You do well, they will say you overdo. You don't do well, they will say one minute man.

HonNatasha:
What do we women really want?

So in your head, what a woman wants is to have her body plowed for 6 hours of the night, depriving her of well-needed sleep? And then for the man to give her a violent beating when she refuses him, abi? 🫤

pdppower:
What does this gender actually want sef? You do well, they will say you overdo. You don't do well, they will say one minute man.

This is do well for you? This is a result of terrible education.

HonNatasha:
What do we women really want?

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accused her husband of beating her whenever she rejected his sexual advances.

Kobojunkie:
So in your head what a woman wants is to have her body plowed for 6 hours of the night, depriving her of well-needed sleep? 🫤

But he already paid for the damn body by paying the bride price.

The lady should allow him enjoy what he paid for,money is not easy biko.

Lol....and someone believes the husband has sex non-stop for 6 hours as she claims....

Sigh

Aren't you a female?

HonNatasha:
What do we women really want?

How do you spend hours knacking tho... That's absurd

advanceDNA:
Lol....and someone believes the husband has sex non-stop for 6 hours as she claims....

Sigh

Of course, it's at intervals.
Use your head.

Not possible...

Mariangeles:


Of course, it's at intervals.
Use your head.

....I only quoted what the woman said..... But u that u are using your head cannot read

Most male comments on here cannot read smh, they read the topic then quickly type nonsense to insult women generally.

LordBiden:

But he already paid for the damn body by paying the bride price.

The lady should allow him enjoy what he paid for,money is not easy biko.

How old are you

JovialJune:



How old are you

Old enough to be your boss.

LordBiden:

Old enough to be your boss.

I highly doubt that, cos sane adults will not reason like you, but then, we have fools at 40 and you fit that description.

SoftSport:
Love shouldn’t hurt, if it does, walk away and save yourself.

Those who walked away, are they happier?

No sex till after marriage things

Most times, he would have sex with me from midnight till early hours of the morning. Even when I am crying, he will not stop.

This is rape. Too much of everything is not good. How do you enjoy sex when the other person is not enjoying it? That's a mental problem. He may even be suffering from delayed ejaculation. How someone has sex for hours is beyond me.

They have 2 kids, how did they do it? This uncontrollable behavior is not a good thing for the kids.

"Daddy, why is mummy crying"
"Mummy why did Daddy beat you"

"Daddy has been a naughty boy, he can't control himself when he sees food and he eats too much"

Men should know that women get sore down there too. Na person pikin, no be sex doll.

fuckingAyaya:
too much of everything is bad, things need to be done in moderation. Why u go knack person piking from night till dawn? Is there an prize/award attached to it? You can go and replace her in the marriage since you're a lady.

The Paradox of this post is in your name but well said

African men like sex a lot. This is why some of them sleep with their daughters.

advanceDNA:


....I only quoted what the woman said..... But u that u are using your head cannot read

Yeah, right!
Try to manipulate your way out of it as always.

Na man power he dey take every evening..he wants to kill himself, thinking he is killing his wife..

Mariangeles:


Yeah, right!
Try to manipulate your way out of it as always.

Lol.....Manipulate my way out of what ?? U rushed into my mention to throw jabs without reading the story yet u are still being a cry baby..

if u know anything the biology of men to begin with...u would know it takes a lot blood pumping to sustain erection and the heart can't take such pressure for 6 hrs weda there's rest or non stop....but hey!! u are the one using your empty head

advanceDNA:


Lol.....Manipulate my way out of what ?? U rushed into my mention to throw jabs without reading the story yet u are still being a cry baby..

if u know anything the biology of men to begin with...u would know it takes a lot blood pumping to sustain erection and the heart can't take such pressure for 6 hrs weda there's rest or non stop....but hey!! u are the one using your empty head

Ugh! Here we go again! 🙄

Mariangeles:


Ugh! Here we go again! 🙄

U welcome...read before u comment

advanceDNA:


U welcome...read before u comment

Next time, understand before you comment.
You're welcome.🤝🏼

Mariangeles:


Next time, understand before you comment.
You're welcome.🤝🏼

Yawn!!