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RevenuesBoost(f): 5:39pm On Mar 20
Yes you're right, the best way to enjoy your marriage is to understand your man and let him live his life the way he loves it.

A peaceful home is a home where the couple have maximum understanding and cooperation.

I still ask how and why men cheat because mine doesn't.

I have full access to all his phones and I haven't suspected or caught him cheating for once, same with my Dad.

I'm really lucky to have a husband that doesn't cheat and I'm grateful to God for that.

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ibechris(m): 5:47pm On Mar 20
May be men are not meant for one woman.
We4all: 7:01pm On Mar 20
Mami, you are glowing. Motherhood looks good on you.

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RevenuesBoost(f): 7:08pm On Mar 20
We4all:
Mami, you are glowing. Motherhood looks good on you.

Thanks ❀️
RevenuesBoost(f): 7:09pm On Mar 20
ibechris:
May be men are not meant for one woman.



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RevenuesBoost(f): 7:20pm On Mar 20
ibechris:
May be men are not meant for one woman.



Maybe women are not meant for one man either πŸ€”
Kobojunkie: 8:00pm On Mar 20
ibechris:
May be men are not meant for one woman.
Doesn't that equally mean women who cheat are also probably not meant for one man?

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Samantha125(f): 8:03pm On Mar 20
You guys just got married and are still on a honeymoon phase... Come back after ten years to give your opinion once again.

But I wish you guys all the best.

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Kobojunkie: 8:05pm On Mar 20
RevenuesBoost:
➜Yes you're right, the best way to enjoy your marriage is to understand your man and let him live his life the way he loves it. A peaceful home is a home where the couple have maximum understanding and cooperation. I still ask how and why men cheat because mine doesn't. I have full access to all his phones and I haven't suspected or caught him cheating for once, same with my Dad. I'm really lucky to have a husband that doesn't cheat and I'm grateful to God for that.
There are no formulas as far as a man/woman or marriage for that matter. Know and understand this and then you will realize that even in marriage it isn't really about you and woman/manβ€” like you have become coned souls/beings by virtue of being married to each otherβ€”, but rather still just about you experiencing life the same way you did when you had no marriage to speak of. If he cheats on you or you get tired of it, it is OK to walk away either for your well-beingβ€”mental, physical, or emotionalβ€” or you are just in need of something else for your life and self. Otherwise, enjoy where you are in this phase to the fullest. undecided
light101: 10:49pm On Mar 20
RevenuesBoost:
Yes you're right, the best way to enjoy your marriage is to understand your man and let him live his life the way he loves it.

A peaceful home is a home where the couple have maximum understanding and cooperation.

I still ask how and why men cheat because mine doesn't.

I have full access to all his phones and I haven't suspected or caught him cheating for once, same with my Dad.

I'm really lucky to have a husband that doesn't cheat and I'm grateful to God for that.

So you are on the lookout for evidence. Why searching his phones for the sole aim of "catching him". It seems like you are not very sure, hence the regular searching. It's well with you
Alphajunkee(m): 7:18am On Mar 21
RevenuesBoost:
Yes you're right, the best way to enjoy your marriage is to understand your man and let him live his life the way he loves it.

A peaceful home is a home where the couple have maximum understanding and cooperation.

I still ask how and why men cheat because mine doesn't.

I have full access to all his phones and I haven't suspected or caught him cheating for once, same with my Dad.

I'm really lucky to have a husband that doesn't cheat and I'm grateful to God for that.
This is probably the main reason he doesn't cheat as he has no reason to. Some women would be treating their guy anyhow and expect him to die there.
Some would see the signs but choose to ignore then when it happens they start crying all men are cheaters. Women cheat too though lol
RevenuesBoost(f): 4:00pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
You guys just got married and are still on a honeymoon phase... Come back after ten years to give your opinion once again.

But I wish you guys all the best.


How about my parents that have been married for 33 years now?

I know our marriage is just two years old but you can know a man who cheats from the start of a relationship.

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Samantha125(f): 4:25pm On Mar 21
You can't tell me that you keep track of your parents' every movement... There are some things that our parents have done that we as their children will never know about.

You and I are on the same boat... Our marriages are still very young and everything is going great... But as for me, I've left a small room for disappointments in my heart because I don't want to end up drinking poison or getting itted in a psychiatric hospital due to heartbreak.

But who knows? maybe you're speaking from experience when you say you can know a cheating man from the start of the relationship, which would be understandable.

So what are the traits of a cheating man? I want to check something.
RevenuesBoost:



How about my parents that have been married for 33 years now?

I know our marriage is just two years old and you can know a man who cheats from the start of a relationship.

RevenuesBoost(f): 4:36pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
You can't tell me that you keep track of your parents' every movement... There are some things that our parents have done that we as their children will never know about.

You and I are on the same boat... Our marriages are still very young and everything is going great... But as for me, I've left a small room for disappointments in my heart because I don't want to end up drinking poison or getting itted in a psychiatric hospital due to heartbreak.

But who knows? maybe you're speaking from experience when you say you can know a cheating man from the start of the relationship, which would be understandable.

So what are the traits of a cheating man? I want to check something.


The main trait of a cheating man is: They are very secretive...

They will never give you access to their phones.
Mariangeles(f): 5:10pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
You can't tell me that you keep track of your parents' every movement... There are some things that our parents have done that we as their children will never know about.

You and I are on the same boat... Our marriages are still very young and everything is going great... But as for me, I've left a small room for disappointments in my heart because I don't want to end up drinking poison or getting itted in a psychiatric hospital due to heartbreak.

But who knows? maybe you're speaking from experience when you say you can know a cheating man from the start of the relationship, which would be understandable.

So what are the traits of a cheating man? I want to check something.



You keep sounding more Nigerian with each ing day.πŸ˜€
Nairaland has kwarupt you. grin
Samantha125(f): 5:30pm On Mar 21
How?πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”
Mariangeles:





You keep sounding more Nigerian with each ing day.πŸ˜€
Nairaland has kwarupt you. grin
Samantha125(f): 5:38pm On Mar 21
Your man giving you access to his phone doesn't mean he's not capable of cheating... Some men have secret phones that they keep away from their wives and would usually leave them in their workplace.

Those phones are specifically used to communicate with their side chicks... I'm not saying your husband is doing the same thing, but anything is possible.
RevenuesBoost:



The main trait of a cheating man is: They are very secretive...

They will never give you access to their phones.
Mariangeles(f): 5:40pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
How?πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

Trust issues. 😌
RevenuesBoost(f): 5:52pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
Your man giving you access to his phone doesn't mean he's not capable of cheating... Some men have secret phones that they keep away from their wives and would usually leave them in their workplace.

Those phones are specifically used to communicate with their side chicks... I'm not saying your husband is doing the same thing, but anything is possible.


Hubby and I work from home, so no secret phone.
Samantha125(f): 5:55pm On Mar 21
I'm just being realistic...πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

Whenever I do something, I always leave a room for those unforseen circumstances.

That's why my husband and I even got married out of community of property, it was even my idea because marriage in community of property can drag for years if things don't go well between the couple and they want a divorce... That alone will only fuel hatred between the couple, as they'll be busy fighting over their assets... But I'm looking forward to hubby and I growing old together till death do us apart.
Mariangeles:


Trust issues. 😌
Samantha125(f): 5:57pm On Mar 21
Okay... That's nice... I wish you and your husband a wonderful marriage... smiley smiley smiley
RevenuesBoost:



Hubby and I work from home, so no secret phone.
RevenuesBoost(f): 6:04pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
Okay... That's nice... I wish you and your husband a wonderful marriage... smiley smiley smiley

Thanks Dear

I wish you same
Samantha125(f): 6:13pm On Mar 21
Thanks... I also have full access to my husband's phone... But I'm still leaving that small room for disappointments...πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…
RevenuesBoost:


Thanks Dear

I wish you same
pocohantas(f): 6:19pm On Mar 21
Person say her husband no dey cheat, you dey expend energy to say make she wait 10yrs? For this country where some men have used machete to kill their wives in less than 6mths of marriage?

So she should wait 10yrs to celebrate him for being faithful? Lol!

Nne biko enjoy your husband.

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Mariangeles(f): 6:32pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
I'm just being realistic...πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

Whenever I do something, I always leave a room for those unforseen circumstances.

That's why my husband and I even got married out of community of property, it was even my idea because marriage in community of property can drag for years if things don't go well between the couple and they want a divorce... That alone will only fuel hatred between the couple, as they'll be busy fighting over their assets... But I'm looking forward to hubby and I growing old together till death do us apart.

I don't think there's such thing as community of property in Nigerian marriages.
It's strange.

In Nigerian traditional marriages, once a man marries you, you become part owner of whatever he owns.
Valwezzy: 6:34pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
Thanks... I also have full access to my husband's phone... But I'm still leaving that small room for disappointments...πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

You’re thanking her after you don give her ideas finish, you this southy witch 🌚 β€” I’m very SURE @op will ransack their house for clues in no distant time.
Samantha125(f): 6:39pm On Mar 21
Leave me alone...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Valwezzy:


You’re thanking her after you don give her ideas finish, you this southy witch 🌚 β€” I’m very SURE @op will ransack their house for clues in no distant time.
RevenuesBoost(f): 6:51pm On Mar 21
pocohantas:
Person say her husband no dey cheat, you dey expend energy to say make she wait 10yrs? For this country where some men have used machete to even kill their wives in less than 6mths of marriage?

So she should wait 10yrs to celebrate him for being faithful? Lol!

Nne biko enjoy your husband.

Thank you ❀️
RevenuesBoost(f): 6:52pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
Thanks... I also have full access to my husband's phone... But I'm still leaving that small room for disappointments...πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

πŸ˜„πŸ˜„
RevenuesBoost(f): 7:00pm On Mar 21
Alphajunkee:

This is probably the main reason he doesn't cheat as he has no reason to. Some women would be treating their guy anyhow and expect him to die there.
Some would see the signs but choose to ignore then when it happens they start crying all men are cheaters. Women cheat too though lol

πŸ‘πŸ‘
Valwezzy: 7:00pm On Mar 21
Samantha125:
Leave me alone...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

You should be dealt with, you're not a good person 🌚😏

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RevenuesBoost(f): 7:09pm On Mar 21
Valwezzy:


You’re thanking her after you don give her ideas finish, you this southy witch 🌚 β€” I’m very SURE @op will ransack their house for clues in no distant time.


No no Valwezzy, no ransacking.
I believe in giving adults their freedom to do what is wrong or right for them.

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