NewStats: 3,261,569 , 8,174,398 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 04:45 PM p10r

dominique:


Did she bring him into the world, does she owe him anything from of physical and emotional in his formative years? Your comparison between an absentee father and wife/girlfriend is completely dumb

@Yes! Especially if the stranger add more value and bring more happiness to your life. Irresponsible parents deserve every form of abandonment they receive from the children they refuse to raise

You are wasting your breathe on this knockheads.

Who they want to forgive,they will forgive.wjo they want to crucify,they crucify.

If a 16 year old girl gets pregnant out of wedlock,even when she is 36(20 years later),they will be holding her able and asking why she opened her legs and why she should deal will the consequences of her actions. But when the man shows up,they will start forcing forgiveness and claiming she poisoned the kids against him.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.



Your starting vex me before

But ur ending make me happy

Asake no try

One of his brother came out lately, said all things about Asake I think say an an lie

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

E get the way father go abandon you and your mama after much turture way be say you go find am hard to forgive.make God just give every victim out there the grace to forgive and let go.

Tightpussy2024:

You deadbeats men believe that children you abandon owe you something.

Read his full story,asake is his mother name. She single handedly raised him as a single mother. If he were not famous today will the man him?

Let this be a reminder to all you deadbeats that think it's like before when you will abandon a child and the child will come looking for you.

Things are changing

Say na Deadbeat men, well guess what ? You hoe women pick the men ! Take some ability for y’all stupidity for once !

Let's wait and hear from Asake.

HedgesTV:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrR_oH_UmKk

AfroBeat Superstar Asake is trending as his Father Fatai Odunsi aka Malo was left paralysed in some parts of his body after suffering from a stroke.

Mr. Fatai unable to pay for hospital bills came online to cry and beg for help from Nigerians to help him.

The act generated mixed feelings from fans as they found it unbelievable that Asake as rich as he his would let his own blood father suffer like this.

Full video above.

the fall of asake

Smilleydr:
thank you for your write up bro, me like this no matter waiting I hear say my papa do for me, may abadone me not not takin care of me

If I don make am reach asake like this, bro I go help everybody ooo including my papa wey abadone me, him go chop my money tired self, e get how I want make God bless me reach make I start to dey bless my enemies self.

God will surely bless you my brother. Your talk go make dem dance for heaven bring your file come table for divine attention today sef.
Congratulations 🎉🎉 🎉

Tightpussy2024:

Will you maintain this energy when a single mom comes to complain that the father doesn't contribute? Or you will say "why did you open your legs?"

You people have forgiveness for deadbeats but for single mum condemn them a fate of perpetual suffering, scorn and singlehood.

The way you can't force a man to take care of a child he wasn't ready for,or force a man to raise another man kids(step dad) ,should also be the way you shouldn't force kids to take care of their fathers that abandoned them

You’ve mentioned two different scenarios here, and it’s important to clarify them. First, the idea that "you can’t force a man to take care of a child he wasn’t ready for" doesn’t hold up. Whoever has sex without protection is, by default, accepting the possibility of a child. Readiness isn’t the issue; it’s a responsibility. You don’t need to force anyone when such individuals fail in their responsibility, you hold them able legally.

Second, no you cannot force someone to take care of another person’s child, like a stepfather or stepmother. If they choose to do so, then you should thank them for their kindness and sacrifice.

As for Asake and his father, it’s ultimately up to Asake to decide what he wants to do. The truth is, no one can force him to act against his own moral will. Even if his father wasn’t a deadbeat, no court of law would prosecute him for abandoning his father.

All I did was argue against the idea of helping parents (or others) only when they’ve acted rightly or ed us when we needed them. Generosity doesn’t really depend on familial ties. In fact, I believe that someone who struggles to help strangers or humanity in general will rarely be there for their parents,even if those parents sacrificed everything to get them through school.

Trending121:


Say na Deadbeat men, well guess what ? You hoe women pick the men ! Take some ability for y’all stupidity for once !

I agree! The father took should take some ability and not request anything from asake!
If you can't force a man to provide for his kid,why should asake be made to care for the man?

Dpaulie:
Iro ni o There are some stage u reach especially in show biz where u must have dine with the devil in other to attain a certain level or wealth.. I don't know the level of negligence or wicked your father could have done that warrant paying back with this level of abandoning your father, whoever has a spirit of God can never do that... na me talk am

Shut your fucking mouth, when asake was suffering and hustling without any helper whatsoever did you know him, did anybody know him..... The father in question that you are sympathizing for has a big question to answer, Asake is not a kid for neglecting his father, there must be a fucking reason he is doing that.....

You people just come online and spew trash, all in the name of likes.....

Maybe his dad is faulting of something, a grown man that has made it, won't act such if there is nothing the father in question has done, we need to hear from asake's mouth before any further validation....

Nothing anyone will give as a reason for Asake to do this , this is crazy . Regardless of what ones parent may have done for you, it is totally wrong to neglect them to the point of crying out . It is not good what so ever ..

zombieHUNTER:
Asake is a mad man

Shut up your mouth?

blowjohn:


We saying the same point...
Should the son pay him back in the same coin?

Many useless fathers do that.

That a stupid father made a stupid decision doesn't mean the son should leave him in old age.

Anyway, there are consequences for every action.
Don't belittle the scar the father may have engraved in his heart. Everyone knows there is pay back, most just ignore it. Many people will still see this and still would prefer to be a deadbeat. If they pay a little for their sins, it's not too much. In the end forgiveness is the key.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

u are right my brother, that is why I always advise men to take responsibility of the children and stop living the burden for women alone to carry

Are you for or against the person you quote?🤔

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

Trending121:


Me sef I weak. With all that money you no fit help your papa ?

in career no pure

Karleb:
You can't be a deadbeat and expect to reap where you did not sow.

But a girlfriend who didn't suffer with him could be bought a state of the art car, luxurious wigs,set up a business for,taken on expensive vacations for,splashed luxurious gifts on right? I am also a woman for your information!!

But no matter how dead beat any of my parents were and I am as wealthy as Asake I will take care of them till my last breath Asake no dey spend on his lady? was she there when he was suffering too? this is so bad.

Smilleydr:
thank you for your write up bro, me like this no matter waiting I hear say my papa do for me, may abadone me not not takin care of me

If I don make am reach asake like this, bro I go help everybody ooo including my papa wey abadone me, him go chop my money tired self, e get how I want make God bless me reach make I start to dey bless my enemies self.

Ajeh. Nothing dey this life

Wordly musicians and their music are Satan! Sorry to those who listen to them. Imagine a story like this. You cant help someone under the yoke of Satan with Satanˊ money, pure and simple!

ultraviolet27:


But a girlfriend who didn't suffer with him could be bought a state of the art car, luxurious wigs,set up a business for,taken on expensive vacations for,splashed luxurious gifts on right? I am also a woman for your information!!

But no matter how dead beat any of my parents were and I am as wealthy as Asake I will take care of them till my last breath Asake no dey spend on his lady? was she there when he was suffering too? this is so bad.

You can take your petition to the supreme court.

His father should go meet those he cared for instead of his son.

What Asake chooses to do with his money is non of our businesses.

BloomingDale:


Hmm

K

Karleb:


KNDF

K

luminouz:

K

Oma K ku ni.

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

The woman for dey him side cos na she born am.l

Tightpussy2024:

I agree! The father took should take some ability and not request anything from asake!
If you can't force a man to provide for his kid,why should asake be made to care for the man?

what sort of heartlessness is this? so because the Father wasn't rich enough to take care of him he should abandon him to die of stroke when he has made it uoin how wealthy Asake is ooriibu omo ale gbaa ni ee I am a woman toohow can you be so cruel?

Have we even heard from Asake to confirm if his dad neglected him? probably it was the condition given to him by the people I high places (demonic forces) for him to be rich that he musn't spend his money on his parents may your kids neglect you at old age especially if they are wealthy and let's see if people won't assume you were a dead beat Mom

my paternal grandmother wasn't involved in bringing up her kids after her Husby(my grandpa) died early when the kids were still little probably because she was only a tailor even though she could have still hustled to bring up her kids, it was her brother in-law who raised her kids to tetiary level because he was a millitary man (Rtd major general) so when her kids including my dad was of age shouldn't they have left her to rot because she couldn't train them? even the rtd soldier who brought them up was their really a chance to reward him as he died early?

A woman in my vicinity suffered to raise her two kids(girls) alone didn't remarry when her husband died early living them in penury yet when the 2 girls grew up the first child neglected her mum upon how wealthier she is than the 2nd child,she would send money sparingly, not even consistently even as her proximity to her mum is still closer than the 2nd child she will always form busy never visiting her mum the2nd girl never did that she took care of their mum very well, even as her mum's neighbour were observing how cruel she (the first born) treated her mum till the extent when the mum fell sick and was dying she was called she never came until after 3 days thank God the mum cursed her before she died!!

Had you being a bystander there you would have said her mum deserved it because she abandoned them abi?? let's be guided abeg!!

LoneSoldier:


Shut your fucking mouth, when asake was suffering and hustling without any helper whatsoever did you know him, did anybody know him..... The father in question that you are sympathizing for has a big question to answer, Asake is not a kid for neglecting his father, there must be a fucking reason he is doing that.....

You people just come online and spew trash, all in the name of likes.....

No need to insult me sir... my opinion not an advice

Carazon:


Even if you're the devil himself, helping your own father be it foster or biological is none negotiable no matter what he did to you.

Apt

gateleo:
some of you here are just ignorant and will start judging without hearing from the other side. As a father, you abandon your children only for them to make it in life and u start telling people they abandon you..Who does that?

This Man never even abandoned him he took care of him as a single father go and watch the video and hear recommendations of people confirming the man was good.

And even if his Dad didn't care for him hasn't asake made it now? God has turned his sorrows into joy he should have let bygone be bygone their is a Yoruba adage that says'ti olorun ba ti gbeja eda ki ni oluwa e tun binu fun'?or the girlfriends he lavishes cash on how did they help him make it too?

how can you reach that level of wealth and can't care for your sick an aged father?this is demonic no wonder Olamide dropped the
bastard anyway Asake will reap what he sowed

LoneSoldier:


Shut up your mouth?

open your mouth

ultraviolet27:


what sort of heartlessness is this? so because the Father wasn't rich enough to take care of him he should abandon him to die of stroke when he has made it uoin how wealthy Asake is ooriibu omo ale gbaa ni ee I am a woman toohow can you be so cruel?

Have we even heard from Asake to confirm if his dad neglected him? probably it was the condition given to him by the people I high places (demonic forces) for him to be rich that he musn't spend his money on his parents may your kids neglect you at old age especially if they are wealthy and let's see if people won't assume you were a dead beat Mom

my paternal grandmother wasn't involved in bringing up her kids after her Husby(my grandpa) died early when the kids were still little probably because she was only a tailor even though she could have still hustled to bring up her kids, it was her brother in-law who raised her kids to tetiary level because he was a millitary man (Rtd major general) so when her kids including my dad was of age shouldn't they have left her to rot because she couldn't train them? even the rtd soldier who brought them up was their really a chance to reward him as he died early?

A woman in my vicinity suffered to raise her two kids(girls) alone didn't remarry when her husband died early living them in penury yet when the 2 girls grew up the first child neglected her mum upon how wealthier she is than the 2nd child,she would send money sparingly, not even consistently even as her proximity to her mum is still closer than the 2nd child she will always form busy never visiting her mum the2nd girl never did that she took care of their mum very well, even as her mum's neighbour were observing how cruel she (the first born) treated her mum till the extent when the mum fell sick and was dying she was called she never came until after 3 days thank God the mum cursed her before she died!!

Had you being a bystander there you would have said her mum deserved it because she abandoned them abi?? let's be guided abeg!!

I have not heard from asake so I am not telling him what to do or not. It's his money. He and his father know what is going on.

I am only calling out the hypocrisy of Nigerians for always pursuing for reconciliation and care of men even when it's alleged that they are deadbeats but never pushing men to do the needful by caring for their child and the woman.

If a woman comes online to complain that the man that impregnanted her doesn't send it upkeep and has never cared to visit the child,Nigerians reactions will be"why did you open your legs " "be able for your actions" "say no to single mothers" . "The man knows what he saw that made him run away"

But when a man comes to allege that his children doesn't help him,the reactions will be "the woman has poisoned the kids mind" ,"you don't know how bitter single mums can be" "forgive and forget" "he is your father regardless "



Why is they sauce for one and none for the other?
@acidiosis

taiwolomo1:
Well, no one should judge Asake until we hear his own side of the story. I listened to an interview whre someone was talking bout asakae that he suffered throughout is school life. He had no accommodation. If this man had been responsible, how will he not have accommodation of all things oh!

You're not wise