NewStats: 3,261,682 , 8,174,761 topics. Date: Friday, 30 May 2025 at 06:14 AM 5l6w18

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NoSmoking:
Na wa o...

Na why I dey wonder why he prefers to dey answer him Mama name "Ashake"

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Well balanced submission, nothing to add or subtract…

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

Did she bring him into the world, does she owe him anything from of physical and emotional in his formative years? Your comparison between an absentee father and wife/girlfriend is completely dumb

@Yes! Especially if the stranger add more value and bring more happiness to your life. Irresponsible parents deserve every form of abandonment they receive from the children they refuse to raise

Did you even read well what he wrote? Either you didn't understand what he wrote, or you didn't think through before you typed as you said.

but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

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taiwolomo1:
Well, no one should judge Asake until we hear his own side of the story. I listened to an interview whre someone was talking bout asakae that he suffered throughout is school life. He had no accommodation. If this man had been responsible, how will he not have accommodation of all things oh!

even Joseph forgive his brothers

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Makunahatata:
u don miss your pills again

wake up from yiur slumber,you are miserably delusional as you don't know whtsup in world order

taiwolomo1:
Well, no one should judge Asake until we hear his own side of the story. I listened to an interview whre someone was talking bout asakae that he suffered throughout is school life. He had no accommodation. If this man had been responsible, how will he not have accommodation of all things oh!

Are u saying the father killed an entire village?

No excuse for this nonsense unless the father committed a satanic crime like murder of his blood.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Well said

Maybe the father is a very useless irresponsible kind who shirked his duty and responsibilities towards his children. I would never give such a father a dime ..! He can go rot in hell for all I care!
No born pikin you no fit take care of and if you do , ensure you do your best. Most children don't forget or forgive the rubbish their father did trust me, they'll pay dearly for the fukk up, e dey mind

Nawa o

dominique:


Did she bring him into the world, does she owe him anything from of physical and emotional in his formative years? Your comparison between an absentee father and wife/girlfriend is completely dumb

@Yes! Especially if the stranger add more value and bring more happiness to your life. Irresponsible parents deserve every form of abandonment they receive from the children they refuse to raise

Absentee or not absentee. Have we ever sat to hear from our fathers why they did some of what they did?

I don’t subscribe to a child after making it big abandoning his parents or siblings on the talks of they were never there for me when I was struggling.

Just help and move on. All that man needs won’t be up to what the guy spends on drinks and women in the club.

There is no way on earth one will claim his father did absolutely nothing for him or her as a child. It may not be much, but the parents father or mother did something to help you grow. Just use that to help them.

Karleb:
You can't be a deadbeat and expect to reap where you did not sow.

Can we relate this to the broader society where we are deadbeat citizens expecting to reap where we have not sown money, time and talents into the political process as well as the governance process.

Does that make us thieves- wanting to reap what we have not sown

anonimi:
“The worst illiterate is the political illiterate, he doesn’t hear, doesn’t speak, nor participates in the political events.

He doesn’t know the cost of life, the price of the bean, of the fish, of the flour, of the rent, of the shoes and of the medicine, all depends on political decisions. The political illiterate is so stupid that he is proud and swells his chest saying that he hates politics.

The slowpoke doesn’t know that, from his political ignorance is born the prostitute, the abandoned child, and the worst thieves of all, the bad politician, corrupted and flunky of the national and multinational companies.”

― Bertolt Brecht

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Some valid points especially the first line but rest nah just stories or should I say lamba.

If the man is truly Asakes biological dad and he's sick, then he should help him it's as simple as that. He's rich enough to do so.

If Askake can spend millions on his present girlfriends and concubines buying them cars and houses then he can as well help his dad. After all all didn't build with him but at least one donated sperm.

Ololade mi Asake ...you go who he love .... Anyway always leave room for forgiveness no matter what anyone did to you .. make one person no stop you from entering Heaven.

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

You need to take your own advice and think before typing.

What bring about a stranger woman here?

Have you ever paid a strange driver for taking you to your destination?
How about paying a strange plumber who fixes your pipes?
Or paying a strange company to watch some video?

Or do you rant to them that since they are strangers and didn't build with
you, they don't deserve anything from you?

There are even people who are sponsoring the education of people they
have never met before.

I don't know Asake's relationships but if he were to have an arrangement
with someone where he agrees to help them grow, I don't see how that
is anybody's problem even if they do nothing in return. After all, it is his money.

As to the father, he is obviously useless to him, hence the abandonment.
He is no special than a random sperm donor.

They both contribute biological material to the child but nothing more after that.
There is this sickening belief by deadbeat father that the child must ask and
search for them when fully grown but that appears to not be true anymore.

If you must reply, make sure you logically explain why a sperm donor deserve special treatment
from the offspring?

dominique:


Did she bring him into the world, does she owe him anything from of physical and emotional in his formative years? Your comparison between an absentee father and wife/girlfriend is completely dumb

@Yes! Especially if the stranger add more value and bring more happiness to your life. Irresponsible parents deserve every form of abandonment they receive from the children they refuse to raise

It seems people don’t understand the damage an absentee parent does to a child while growing up

I can’t blame him for whatever decisions he decides to melt on the Man after all we see how he adores his mother to the extent of adopting her name as his Stage name(Asake), that shows he acknowledges her effort on his upbringing

The only thing is to just beg him secretly so he can forgive and forget rather than coming online to create social media frenzy

Very well said bro
Don't mind some of those Simp on social media,no matter what your father did to you it doesn't warrant you to treat him badly
You'll definitely be a father some day

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

Very stupid man, the boy almost lost his life in the struggles…you did not only forget him but tou sabotaged his growth, if no be GOD, that man go don destroy the this great destiny…now that GOD proved himself, you kom dey ask from help, you were not there when he needed you, he simply doesn’t want you to be a part of his life because he doesn’t trust you won’t sabotage his growth like you did before…oga you be evil, you and your new wife wey later give you stroke…forgiveness apart, you can’t reap where you did not sow… Asake would forgive you but pls dey your dey, forgiveness is the only thing the bible taught us, bible didn’t tell us to reward evil especially when them wan sabotage person growth, you deserve the stroke sha…after all the spiritual attacks wey you attack the boy!! You no go chop stroke keh… na that stroke go later kill you and your new wife!

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

You nailed it big time!

They want to reap where dey did not sow.

Such even have a sense of entitlement to not what you give but what you have.

He should help but not allow them to bring their toxicity into his life.

HedgesTV:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrR_oH_UmKk

AfroBeat Superstar Asake is trending as his Father Fatai Odunsi aka Malo was left paralysed in some parts of his body after suffering from a stroke.

Mr. Fatai unable to pay for hospital bills came online to cry and beg for help from Nigerians to help him.

The act generated mixed feelings from fans as they found it unbelievable that Asake as rich as he his would let his own blood father suffer like this.

Full video above.

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

Is not about the Dad never helping him. There may be more to the side of the story. But as someone already said, no matter the grievances he should be able to overlook things for the sake of the status he has attained. I can tell you for real that there are Fathers that can be very wicked and heartless, and memories shape we humans. He has no previous memory of the girl in question you are talking of no matter how bad the girl may be now or in the future, so they don't relate.

This is very Sad oooo.......I'd give anything to bring my late father back to life[color=#990000][/color]

Maybe his father was a deadbeat father like Reno Mockery the newfound god of Lukumi tribe

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Me sef I weak. With all that money you no fit help your papa ?

did you hear the narrator at all? Emotional blackmailer.

I don't subscribe to abandoning your own blood but our blood should be careful with what they do because of the future. You can't tell

PARADIZEPRIEST:
wake up from yiur slumber,you are miserably delusional as you don't know whtsup in world order

there's nothing like world order here, his Father abandoned them, what do you expect?
Is his mum not enjoying his wealth?..
Abeg go sleep

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

oremi! Spot on!

Asake f*ck up big time. No matter what happened in the past, the fact that God has so blessed him is enough to forgive, and even show to the father that until you are ready to return from the farm, you don't call your dog.

Forgiveness is both divine and fulfilling.

The young man can now imagine the wreck this story has caused his brand.

Let him quickly make amend because even God will not be happy with him

Eagleways:
did you hear the narrator at all? Emotional blackmailer.

I don't subscribe to abandoning your own blood but our blood should be care what they do because of the future. You can't tell

A family friend to Asake’s family just exposed that The man was present in the early years of askae’s life, even Asakes teacher sef don put mouth for the matter.
It’s all over twitter, ASAKE don mess up.
Mr. Money with the vibes but your papa wan kpai ! (Rhymes lol)

SOLD HIS SOUL TO THE DEVIL! WINE WITH THE DEVIL! ........ WHAT DO U GUYS EXPECT ? HIS PARENT NO DEY USEFUL TO HIM ANYMORE.

Makunahatata:
there's nothing like world order here, his Father abandoned them, what do you expect?
Is his mum not enjoying his wealth?..
Abeg go sleep

Don’t mind that person

People just justifying irresponsibility