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There s this girl we have been charting calling since last three month now

We finally met last weekend and I took her out order for what she like, after we went to a hotel and we lash like twice and she told me she s tired because I still want to go once more

My surprised s since that day we depart, although we still talk on phone but I can see some changes, this girl doesn't call me nor chart me like befier I don't know what happened.

Waste of time.

You are a nuisance to her. No emotional connect!

Change is inevitable

Anakogheri

Love800:
You are a nuisance to her. No emotional connect!

Oni je eyan, Omo adanu, Omo irole aye, na your papa be nuisance.

Leave her na

I don't mean to insult you. Sorry for dat. What am trying to say is that you just allowed her in your life too sudden and in a non-dignify way. Forget about all these things they say about girls, concerning money. Try to bring out the best in her. Improve her. Not just with money but in the wisdom you have when talking with her, your message you across, your productive style of living. Let her see that you love her beyond sex.
That is what i mean by no emotional connect and being a nuisance to her, instead of value!

Thanks so much.
Goodmorning!

Smilleydr:
Oni je eyan, Omo adanu, Omo irole aye, na your papa be nuisance.

Most likely because your sexual performance was horrible.

But on a sidenote, the relationship has a faulty beginning, so do not expect it to end right.

You said you guys went to lash in a hotel, which presupposes that you do not have your own house. Thats a bad flex from your part. Dont you have a house?

You probably have her strictly for lashing, and she knows that. No girl wants to be booty-call.

Your shield as a man is in self-actualisation. It will make you not worry if anyone, be it a man or a woman walk out of your life, because you know you have something to offer.

You know that it is their loss, and you are operating from a position of strength, not weakness. You will know that your kind is hard to find, and if they did not realise it now, they will realise it later.

Your worry stem from a place of weakness, lack, and neediness.

Work on that first, and you will notice that the case will most likely reverse. It will be women who are worried you aint responding, not you

Love800:
I don't mean to insult you. Sorry for dat. What am trying to say is that you just allowed her in your life too sudden and in a non-dignify way. Forget about all these things they say about girls, concerning money. Try to bring out the best in her. Improve her. Not just with money but in the wisdom you have when talking with her, your message you across, your productive style of living. Let her see that you love her beyond sex.
That is what i mean by no emotional connect and being a nuisance to her, instead of value!

Thanks so much.
Goodmorning!

am also sorry I withdraw my words, the fact s that we av being talking verywell av we also talk about life be we didn't stay the same place

I just come around to do something, and I need inviting her, not me using money to etiles her, where s the money self, beside I didn't really spend like that, my observation to her changing to me self, s may be I didn't spend to her expectation.

pansophist:
Most likely because your sexual performance was horrible.

But on a sidenote, the relationship has a faulty beginning, so do not expect it to end right.

You said you guys went to lash in a hotel, which presupposes that you do not have your own house. Thats a bad flex from your part. Dont you have a house?

You probably have her strictly for lashing, and she knows that. No girl wants to be booty-call.

Your shield as a man is in self-actualisation. It will make you not worry if anyone, be it a man or a woman walk out of your life, because you know you have something to offer.

You know that it is their loss, and you are operating from a position of strength, not weakness. You will know that your kind is hard to find, and if they did not realise it now, they will realise it later.

Your worry stem from a place of weakness, lack, and neediness.

Work on that first, and you will notice that the case will most likely reverse. It will be women who are worried you aint responding, not you

I don't even unstd all your Grammer here, but I know you are makin sense

Thank you!!!

Okay.
Then try spending on her to show you care, if that is the case. Maybe she is looking at you like a stingy human being. That's alright.

The best relationship to have is friends with benefits. No sexual emotional connect. Just real love and helping each other with nothing attach. Both of you will grow amazing but individually without any feelings and emotional problems and still like eachother. You can still do sex, but its just for fun and not for serious hooks!

I nor dey do girlfriend again. Its too complicated and too much money spending!

Smilleydr:
am also sorry I withdraw my words, the fact s that we av being talking verywell av we also talk about life be we didn't stay the same place

I just come around to do something, and I need inviting her, not me using money to etiles her, where s the money self, beside I didn't really spend like that, my observation to her changing to me self, s may be I didn't spend to her expectation.

Love800:
Okay.
Then try spending on her to show you care, if that is the case. Maybe she is looking at you like a stingy human being. That's alright.

The best relationship to have is friends with benefits. No sexual emotional connect. Just real love and helping each other with nothing attach. Both of you will grow amazing but individually without any feelings and emotional problems and still like eachother. You can still do sex, but its just for fun and not for serious hooks!

I nor dey do girlfriend again. Its too complicated and too much money spending!

the thing be say to spend no b problem but nowadays if I spend money for woman I dey feel like say Dem dey see me as Taataa and may be probably you don't love me you just love my money, that s why I just stop to dey spend unnecessary money

Befoer I dey always spend money for woman by gift but at the end one tell me say what av you even done for me, na that time my brain open.

I am very sorry to say this. Please forgive me in advance.
For a woman to give you sex without money on commitment given to her,it means there was an attraction.

That is why when you chat someone up online don't delay past 1 week before meeting,to know how much you will be attracted to them physically.

She didn't like what she saw or experienced.
Forgive me,but your grammar while typing shows that alot of work needs to be done.

There is a reason why well meaning people are still single.some habits,mannerisms or even something you have no control over(looks or height) comes in place.

That is why you see some virgins still in their father house. Could be hygiene issue,pettiness, miserly (order for breakable bottle coke instead of rubber coke in order to save money. Or maybe when you put her in bike,you waited to collect change).

Men are moved by their eyes,women are moved to bonding moments ,intimacy, conversations etc... did you get to know her? Or you just climbed her and tatata.


Don't feel bad . At least your intentions were just sex,and not pure.you haven't invested emotionally. So don't feel bad

Okay.

Sometimes, just try allow the relationship grow naturally. What do i mean by that? After developing her and spending money, just withdraw back, step-back, relax. Temporary forget about her. Chat her once in a week. She will start missing you and always eager to hear from you if she really loves you. This way will make each of you to grow strong individually because both of you will be missing eachother qualities, so the day you unexpectedly chat her again, she will cherish that moment!

Smilleydr:
the thing be say to spend no b problem but nowadays if I spend money for woman I dey feel like say Dem dey see me as Taataa and may be probably you don't love me you just love my money, that s why I just stop to dey spend unnecessary money

Befoer I dey always spend money for woman by gift but at the end one tell me say what av you even done for me, na that time my brain open.

pansophist:
Most likely because your sexual performance was horrible.

But on a sidenote, the relationship has a faulty beginning, so do not expect it to end right.

You said you guys went to lash in a hotel, which presupposes that you do not have your own house. Thats a bad flex from your part. Dont you have a house?

You probably have her strictly for lashing, and she knows that. No girl wants to be booty-call.

Your shield as a man is in self-actualisation. It will make you not worry if anyone, be it a man or a woman walk out of your life, because you know you have something to offer.

You know that it is their loss, and you are operating from a position of strength, not weakness. You will know that your kind is hard to find, and if they did not realise it now, they will realise it later.

Your worry stem from a place of weakness, lack, and neediness.

Work on that first, and you will notice that the case will most likely reverse. It will be women who are worried you aint responding, not you

I would beg to differ @bolded.

A lot of girls would be excited and overjoyed at the idea of being C. Ronaldo, LeBron James, Burna Boy or Chris Brown's booty call.

If any of these men put out a call for application to be their booty call (strictly fucking with no money payment), so many women will apply, including people's wives and serious GFs.

Kipaji:


I would beg to differ @bolded.

A lot of girls would be excited and overjoyed at the idea of being C. Ronaldo, LeBron James, Burna Boy or Chris Brown's booty call.

If any of these men put out a call for application to be their booty call (strictly fucking with no money payment), so many women will apply, including people's wives and serious GFs.

The issue here is the Op,any of this persons you listed?

You just want attention or argument by quoting

You redpillers and attention seeking eh

Kipaji:


I would beg to differ @bolded.

A lot of girls would be excited and overjoyed at the idea of being C. Ronaldo, LeBron James, Burna Boy or Chris Brown's booty call.

If any of these men put out a call for application to be their booty call (strictly fucking with no money payment), so many women will apply, including people's wives and serious GFs.

Differentiate between damage girls and undamaged girls

She has collected your destiny

Tightpussy2024:
I am very sorry to say this. Please forgive me in advance.
For a woman to give you sex without money on commitment given to her,it means there was an attraction.

That is why when you chat someone up online don't delay past 1 week before meeting,to know how much you will be attracted to them physically.

She didn't like what she saw or experienced.
Forgive me,but your grammar while typing shows that alot of work needs to be done.

There is a reason why well meaning people are still single.some habits,mannerisms or even something you have no control over(looks or height) comes in place.

That is why you see some virgins still in their father house. Could be hygiene issue,pettiness, miserly (order for breakable bottle coke instead of rubber coke in order to save money. Or maybe when you put her in bike,you waited to collect change).

Men are moved by their eyes,women are moved to bonding moments ,intimacy, conversations etc... did you get to know her? Or you just climbed her and tatata.


Don't feel bad . At least your intentions were just sex,and not pure.you haven't invested emotionally. So don't feel bad

no be lie shaa but the thing be say if we no Bleep that day we no know when we go jam again, that s why I say make I no come later loose her, mind you no be say me self force am ooooo,


We don already talk am for phone say we go run am Anyday we see

Eberechukwu4u:
She has collected your destiny

Alaye baje which destiny your papa get

Smilleydr:
no be lie shaa but the thing be say if we no Bleep that day we no know when we go jam again, that s why I say make I no come later loose her, mind you no be say me self force am ooooo,


We don already talk am for phone say we go run am Anyday we see

Torh, as you don collect puna,wetin you want again??
Move on.

Or you dey vex say na she wey move on and not the usual case of "what are we now?" from her?

When you refused to lash her very well in order to forget name. Maybe you refused to pay her well.

Smilleydr:
There s this girl we have been charting calling since last three month now

We finally met last weekend and I took her out order for what she like, after we went to a hotel and we lash like twice and she told me she s tired because I still want to go once more

My surprised s since that day we depart, although we still talk on phone but I can see some changes, this girl doesn't call me nor chart me like befier I don't know what happened.

Smilleydr:
There s this girl we have been charting calling since last three month now

We finally met last weekend and I took her out order for what she like, after we went to a hotel and we lash like twice and she told me she s tired because I still want to go once more

My surprised s since that day we depart, although we still talk on phone but I can see some changes, this girl doesn't call me nor chart me like befier I don't know what happened.

Smilleydr:
There s this girl we have been charting calling since last three month now

We finally met last weekend and I took her out order for what she like, after we went to a hotel and we lash like twice and she told me she s tired because I still want to go once more

My surprised s since that day we depart, although we still talk on phone but I can see some changes, this girl doesn't call me nor chart me like befier I don't know what happened.

Is she lightskin?

It just wasn't a great experience for her. Just let it go.

You win some,you lose some

MrCork:


Is she lightskin?

yes you know am?

Abi na your girlfriend?

Smilleydr:
Oni je eyan, Omo adanu, Omo irole aye, na your papa be nuisance.

Ntin you won tell me, nah from oje or beere from IB you come from

Cerebellum:


Ntin you won tell me, nah from oje or beere from IB you come from

Odamo

Love800:
I don't mean to insult you. Sorry for dat. What am trying to say is that you just allowed her in your life too sudden and in a non-dignify way. Forget about all these things they say about girls, concerning money. Try to bring out the best in her. Improve her. Not just with money but in the wisdom you have when talking with her, your message you across, your productive style of living. Let her see that you love her beyond sex.
That is what i mean by no emotional connect and being a nuisance to her, instead of value!

Thanks so much.
Goodmorning!

This na waste of time, you only do this for someone who is interested, after having sex and chatting for 3 months of she isn't into you just move. The reverse should ne the case after sex . OP give her space

Exactly!

If you see my other comments to the OP, i advised to give her space. After doing everything for her and she is ghosting you, make sure to give her distance too(leave her). If she really likes you, she will come back!

idahme:



This na waste of time, you only do this for someone who is interested, after having sex and chatting for 3 months of she isn't into you just move. The reverse should ne the case after sex . OP give her space

Love800:
Okay.
Then try spending on her to show you care, if that is the case. Maybe she is looking at you like a stingy human being. That's alright.

The best relationship to have is friends with benefits. No sexual emotional connect. Just real love and helping each other with nothing attach. Both of you will grow amazing but individually without any feelings and emotional problems and still like eachother. You can still do sex, but its just for fun and not for serious hooks!

I nor dey do girlfriend again. Its too complicated and too much money spending!

Wont mind this FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS arrangement but e go dey scarce cos all dem ladies don open eye wella.