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Which of These 2 Situations Is More Hurtful for a Man?

Situation 1:

You're a rich guy called Nedu and you checked your woman's phone and saw a text with her bestie discussing you and she said, "I'm just with him for his money."

Situation 2:

You're a good-looking man called Timi, but broke and you checked your woman's phone and saw where she told her bestie, "I'm dating Nedu just for his money, but I love my boyfriend Timi."

One situation makes you feel you're not good-looking enough but your money is enough cover up and the other makes you feel poor, but at least, you're good-looking.

Which of these situations would you feel hurt more? And which would you rather be in if you're forced to choose one in an exam hall.

Which kind scenerios be this?

I go with number3
I am Richmond, Rich and goodlooking and I dont have time checking my womans phone cos I value my sanity and peace of mind

None of these is as painful as been told "I didn't tell him he was the father of our son, he just assumed he was the father"

richmond500:
Which kind scenerios be this?

I go with number3
I am Richmond, Rich and goodlooking and I dont have time checking my womans phone cos I value my sanity and peace of mind

You're funny. You created your own happiness by inventing number 3.

These women hate condom. I hope when she cheats and infects you with an incurable sickness, you'll forgive her? Because some of you say real men don't check or react.

Lalami3232:

None of these is as painful as been told "I didn't tell him he was the father of our son, he just assumed he was the father"

Ah! I'll run mad. Nedu Wazobia's case.

Enjoy your day when you can... You have an eternity to worry about things you should have done or not alone in the grave...

Damn, these two options are screwed up but at least the first guy has the resources the second one would die to have. My so-called "good looks" haven't done so much for me especially as someone who grew up in a screwed up environment.

Well, maybe, it might...just like it did for Jeremy Meeks .

SuperOnyi:




Damn, these two options are screwed up but at least the first guy has the resources the second one would die to have. My so-called "good looks" haven't done so much for me especially as someone who grew up in a screwed up environment.

Well, maybe, it might...just like it did for Jeremy Meeks .

You're not even half as good-looking as Jeremy Meeks. If you follow his path, you go tey for kirikiri

richmond500:
Which kind scenerios be this?

I go with number3
I am Richmond, Rich and goodlooking and I dont have time checking my womans phone cos I value my sanity and peace of mind

This guy get sense.
I go with number 3

Lalami3232:

None of these is as painful as been told "I didn't tell him he was the father of our son, he just assumed he was the father"

Then she'll add " Even the one I'm currently carrying is not his own and he is shopping for baby items already"

iLegendd:
You're funny. You created your own happiness by inventing number 3.

These women hate condom. I hope when she cheats and infects you with an incurable sickness, you'll forgive her? Because some of you say real men don't check or react.

this isn't about real men, I don't check a woman's phone.
The best way to catch a woman is not to check her phone or become suspicious

CallTheCops:
You're not even half as good-looking as Jeremy Meeks. If you follow his path, you go tey for kirikiri

... Unfortunately I am , despite growing up in a complete ghetto and gone through the hottest fire on Earth — something he couldn't survive halfway in. I'm tougher than he would ever be, and my life is way tougher than he could ever imagine...

richmond500:
this isn't about real men, I don't check a woman's phone.
The best way to catch a woman is not to check her phone or become suspicious

Catching is medicine after death. By then she has already infected you. If you had checked, that period she was planning to go meet the guy you would've known and avoided sleeping with her raw as you used to.

So, there is regret at the end of your strategy. You'll break up with her and spend a lot trying to cure yourself.

If it works for you, I'm fine with it.

The first one is more painful because there is nothing Nedu can go to make her love him. He is already wealthy, so what other threshold should he reach? He has done all.

As for the second guy, he should leave her if she is double dating and cheating on him. Being broke as a man should not make you a simp. Your character should be unshaken in wealth and in brokeness.

iLegendd:


Catching is medicine after death. By then she has already infected you. If you had checked, that period she was planning to go meet the guy you would've known and avoided sleeping with her raw as you used to.

So, there is regret at the end of your strategy. You'll break up with her and spend a lot trying to cure yourself.

If it works for you, I'm fine with it.

that's not how it works, u won't know when she wants to meet a guy except u always check her phone. And if u always check her phone, she will delete every messages cos she knows u will check and u won't easily catch her.
But if u do not check her phone, she won't have any interest deleting messages and it's easier to catch her if she isn't hiding anything from u

The problem about modern men nowadays is;

They just dont get it.


— Men listen,

Women rarely ever reject a man because of his looks.

Women mostly reject a man because of how he feels about his looks.

Simple but deep lesson in there.

It is folly to try to make someone good for you. cos when the power u exert is removed , they revert to prior mode. It is easier to find an already good person by subtly being ruthless in judgement of their habit, ability and responsibility. By the time u say let's start a relationship it's already halfway to game over. Why would u police her if she knows u have options.

Both scenario is horrible and i will bail out

Either ways, I would break up with her

I get high standards and i cant deal with people with multiple personality trying to fit into anything

The first one go sweet cus omo you don at least attain financial stabilility. So far the gold digger ain't your wife, then you're a winner.
Seeing the chat means you've been redeemed, you can now do with her whatever you will


But you see the Timi, that one no be parasite nor host. He's just there to fill the bf position. Can be dropped anytime hunger hit aunty

iLegendd:
Which of These 2 Situations Is More Hurtful for a Man?

Situation 1:

You're a rich guy called Nedu and you checked your woman's phone and saw a text with her bestie discussing you and she said, "I'm just with him for his money."

Situation 2:

You're a good-looking man called Timi, but broke and you checked your woman's phone and saw where she told her bestie, "I'm dating Nedu just for his money, but I love my boyfriend Timi."

One situation makes you feel you're not good-looking enough but your money is enough cover up and the other makes you feel poor, but at least, you're good-looking.

Which of these situations would you feel hurt more? And which would you rather be in if you're forced to choose one in an exam hall.

Someone should help me with 5k please ,E don red for my side like this 😭😭

pansophist:
The first one is more painful because there is nothing Nedu can go to make her love him. He is already wealthy, so what other threshold should he reach? He has done all.

As for the second guy, he should leave her if she is double dating and cheating on him. Being broke as a man should not make you a simp. Your character should be unshaken in wealth and in brokeness.

Not to undermine your assertion, but I think a good number of women tend to “grow in love”.

ItisWell22:


Not to undermine your assertion, but I think a good number of women tend to “grow in love”.

if you are a man, Will you risk it? As a woman, will you risk it?