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Lionessza6(f): 12:06pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
Silentgroper, Lionessza6, Starzo, legitnow1, and Afolue, you guys are depressing me... Now my thread has turned into a warzone and filled with corpses and skulls.

This is why I always try to avoid banters on this forum... Now can you guys go and create your own threads where you'll continue your with your banters? Because I've been calling the mods to take down this thread, but it's like they're just useless.

I created this thread with the sole purpose of seeing the opinions of Nigerians on an SA man getting married to a Nigerian lady.


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Hilarious!

From the first two pages you got your *opinions * of Nigerians grin grin grin. And their opinions were no different from any other thread that involves SA or SA men grin grin.

This is nairaland.unblockandhide.com..... the most anti-SA men forum on earth...and you thought this thread would be any different? grin grin grin. The mods didn't take you seriously because if you truly didn't like the banters you could have called them to take down the thread from page two when you got your * opinions* grin grin. You waited till a SA replied before you were bothered grin grin grin grin grin grin. Cutegrin.

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Stolen: 12:06pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
Silentgroper, Lionessza6, Starzo, legitnow1, and Afolue, you guys are depressing me... Now my thread has turned into a warzone and filled with corpses and skulls.

This is why I always try to avoid banters on this forum... Now can you guys go and create your own threads where you'll continue your with your banters? Because I've been calling the mods to take down this thread, but it's like they're just useless.

I created this thread with the sole purpose of seeing the opinions of Nigerians on an SA man getting married to a Nigerian lady.

It is your zulu sister posting skulls.

I dont know if she is a girl or a he/she.

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Lionessza6(f): 12:08pm On Feb 18
Stolen:


It is your zulu sister posting skulls.

I dont know if she is a girl or a he/she.

Cry me a river grin grin grin grin grin
Lionessza6(f): 12:13pm On Feb 18
Stolen:


Trash talking is unbecoming and unlady behaviour.

Ngozi started her journey in Nigeria, the picture was of her with her Husband in Nigeria.

He grew to the global stage and will make her return to Nigeria once again.


I'm no good SA lady and have no intention of ever being one grin.....try taming tame-able SA women who are stupid enough to fall for your manipulation grin...you will be stressed out with this one grin

Ngozi was a nobody on the world stage when she left Nigeria the first time. She became popular after making a name for herself using the USA as her home grin grin....that's when you made her a minister grin wink
Stolen: 12:18pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:



I'm no good SA lady and have no intention of ever being one grin.....try taming tame-able SA ...you will be stressed out with this one grin

Ngozi was a nobody on the world stage when she left Nigeria the first time. She became popular after making a name for herself using the USA as her home grin grin


Like i said, u are talking about things u know nothing about.

Even from Nigeria she had her input, although like most Nigerians, she moved abroad to complete her eductaion at Harvard University. etc
Samantha125(f): 12:19pm On Feb 18
I don't know about his nationality, but he sounds like a typical Pedi person who has never left the village before... They always see it as a shock when a Pedi person gets married outside of his or her tribe and of course Limpopo is dominated by Bapedi people and majority of them will get married within their tribe, not because they're tribalists, but because they date and get married to whoever is available at that time.

Same thing goes to the Zulus in KZN, Xhosas in the Eastern Cape, Coloured in the Western Cape,Tswanas in the North West, Sothos in the Free State, and Swazis in Mpumalanga province.

I've seen Pedi people getting married outside of their tribe or race a number of times... So I don't know what that guy is talking about.

But if you think he's being realistic, then go ahead and believe everything he tells you.
Silentgroper:
what is he lying about?? He being a South African or he saying the bapedi's are tribalistic


And how you know his life revolves around a certain village ..

Are you trying to say he has never for once in his life left the so called village for any other purposes ..

Can we be realistical here pls..
Samantha125(f): 12:20pm On Feb 18
Because unlike you, some of us don't like getting involved in these SA vs Nigeria banters...🤦🤦🤦

Sometimes you just need to be the bigger person and ignore the trolls because you guys have been bantering about the same things long before some of us even ed this forum.

Create your own threads and banter each other there and may the best country win.
Lionessza6:



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Hilarious!

From the first two pages you got your *opinions * of Nigerians grin grin grin. And their opinions were no different from any other thread that involves SA or SA men grin grin.

This is nairaland.unblockandhide.com..... the most anti-SA men forum on earth...and you thought this thread would be any different? grin grin grin. The mods didn't take you seriously because if you truly didn't like the banters you could have called them to take down the thread from page two when you got your * opinions* grin grin. You waited till a SA replied before you were bothered grin grin grin grin grin grin. Cutegrin.

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Lionessza6(f): 12:25pm On Feb 18
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Like i said, u are talking about things u know nothing about.

Even from Nigeria she had her input, although like most Nigerians, she moved abroad to complete her eductaion at Harvard University. etc

What public portfolio did she hold before leaving? grin grin

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zhike: 12:29pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
If your entire life has only revolved around a small village in Limpopo, then of course you'll reason like this... You only know about Vendas and Tsongas because they're also based in Limpopo.

I've seen a lot of Bapedi people getting married to other tribes outside of Limpopo and also other nationalities... And don't forget that Bapedi tribe also extends to Gauteng and Mpumalanga.

I think you are quoting me out of context , I am not saying that is not possible for Pedi's to marry other tribes, I am saying is rare.
I hope you understand, same as Pedi marrying foreigners is extremely rare.

Are you married to a foreigner?
Stolen: 12:30pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:


What public portfolio did she hold before leaving? grin grin

She had her duties within the Royal court as a Princess before leaving to further her education at Harvard in 1973.

Born in the late 1950s, the Biafra war in the 1960s was very destabilising and majority of the fighting was done in her Kingdom.

That in it self does not allow for much public portfolio, plus Nigeria was under military rule.


Once we returned to civiian rule and following her graduation she was offered Finance Minister.

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zhike: 12:31pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
Keep my husband out of this... You're a one big fat lier and I've even once called you out for your lies before.

On many occasions I've seen you lying on this forum, but I chose to ignore because I thought it's none of my business.

The problem with you, you think we are acting. You need to be realistic, and stop your dramas.
You are the only south African who is pulling to the wrong direction.
Stolen: 12:33pm On Feb 18
Ngozi Okonjo Iweala would make an excellent Female President of Nigeria.


That could happen as early as 2031 after she leave WTO.
Samantha125(f): 12:35pm On Feb 18
I think that we're acting?🤣🤣🤣 In which drama? Skeem Saam or Generations?🤣🤣🤣
zhike:


The problem with you, you think we are acting. You need to be realistic, and stop your dramas.
You are the only south African who is pulling to the wrong direction.

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Lionessza6(f): 12:35pm On Feb 18
JaceBlaze come and see foolishness about to play out grin grin. That's why naive people need to stay away from international forums and engagements grin grin. Explaining yourself to a grigampa with emotion grin grin ;Because another grigampa is baiting you and getting you into a vulnerable position....total foolishness grin grin grin grin. Why is the SA not coming for me or any other SA on this forum? grin grin grin grin grin...predators know prey when they spot one grin grin

Nigerian men are suddenly interested in details about SA tribes and relations Jace....look at how concerned he's acting. The fool thinks he's smart...looking for ammunition for another thread grin grin. They failed for years when the likes of Xhosanostra were here...they are now seeing prey grin grin

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Samantha125(f): 12:36pm On Feb 18
It's only rare for those Pedis who've been living in villages their entire lives.
zhike:


I think you are quoting me out of context , I am not saying that is not possible for Pedi's to marry other tribes, I am saying is rare.
I hope you understand, same as Pedi marrying foreigners is extremely rare.

Are you married to a foreigner?
Lionessza6(f): 12:38pm On Feb 18
Stolen:
Ngozi Okonjo Iweala would make an excellent Female President of Nigeria.


That could happen as early as 2031 after she leave WTO.

True. But would never happen when the vast majority of men over there see women as people to * take care of*. Would you trust her to take care of your country? grin grin
Stolen: 12:41pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:


True. But would never happen when the vast majority of men over there see women as people to * take care of*. Would you trust her to take care of your country? grin grin


Nigeria man no get wahala, if you dont have, he will happily budget for the two of you inclusive.

If u have, even better.

No time did a Nigeria force any woman to work or not to work.

Women by their nature will be less work especially wen kids are involved anyway.

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Lionessza6(f): 12:43pm On Feb 18
Stolen:



Nigeria man no get wahala, if you dont have, he will happily budget for the two of you inclusive.

If u have, even better.

No time did a Nigeria force any woman to work or not to work.

Women by their nature will be less work especially wen kids are involved anyway.


This is men in general not Nigerian men grin grin grin

And you didn't answer my question about Ngozi as president grin grin

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Stolen: 12:45pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:



This is men in general not Nigerian men grin grin grin


U keep running from pillar to post.

No go scatter your brain for Nigeria men matter.


NOI is busy today because she has raised all her kids.

There was a time she was just having kids.

That is for you asking about her portfolio.
Lionessza6(f): 12:46pm On Feb 18
Stolen:



U keep running from pillar to post.

No go scatter your brain for Nigeria men matter.


NOI is busy today because she has raised all her kids.

There was a time she was just having kids.

That is for you asking about her portfolio.



Why are you crying now shocked grin grin grin
Stolen: 12:48pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:



Why are you crying now shocked grin grin grin

The man in that picture i posted would be her husband. grin
Lionessza6(f): 12:49pm On Feb 18
Stolen:


The man in that picture i posted would be her husband. grin

I know that ...and ? grin grin
ultraviolet27(f): 12:50pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:



LMAO grin grin grin grin grin grin

What has angered you so much in my post,was it the natural skin part? grin

Point me to where I said anyone was superior to the other....that's a Nigerian language not ours....we don't do the better our neighbor rubbish here. But the reality is that Nigerian women and men do stand out here because of their skin; that looks unnatural most times because of all the chemicals they use even on the kids faces. That's a reality not a diss. You can go and jump over a cliff if that hurts you.

This will be my last reply to you as I am an hustling hardworking lady who has no time for the useless trash you spew here south African women work,feed and maintain theirselves blah blah blah yet you have been on this thread since page 5 spewing trash!!!how useless,hopeless, jobless, miserable and unfortunate can you be??

reply me again if you want to be unfortunate you ugly, shapeless, mentally retarded,low
i.q,hate filled, pauper!!Bleep off my mention ka a ye irandiran e afofungbemu.

and for the men replying her here you guys should stop since she can only be relevant and useful by the replies you give her here

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Afolue(m): 1:01pm On Feb 18
Stolen:


It is your zulu sister posting skulls.

I dont know if she is a girl or a he/she.
thank you for letting her know this. South Africans no get respect at all. We are their eldest by all standards. The earlier they come to know this the better. Too much Arrogance..!

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zhike: 1:07pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
I think that we're acting?🤣🤣🤣 In which drama? Skeem Saam or Generations?🤣🤣🤣

Why you don't think or have perception of South Africans.
I am starting doubting your identity.
zhike: 1:10pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
It's only rare for those Pedis who've been living in villages their entire lives.

Where does other Pedi's live, if not villages.
What I know about Pedis even if they can own a house in Sandton they will still build a home in the villages.
It seems you are a different Pedi, if indeed you are a pedi.
FYI, Pedi's will never get married to a sotho, because they undermine and they call them makgatla.
Starzo: 1:11pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:


We protest for service delivery every week ,does that mean we are in a crisis because newspapers report it as such ? grin grin. If rape,murder,robbery are on the rise ,ofcourse we will hit the streets for the government to pay attention.

And Nigerian women can't protest shyt in Nigeria without the men's approval grin grin grin grin. If they do,they won't be fed. So why would you see them on the streets raising concerns about rape,cultism, money ritual killings ,kidnappings and terrorism when the same people committing these crimes are their husbands who feed them ?grin grin. In Anambra Rapists have been given license to molest " she was dressed indecently at night " grin grin grin.

A black south African female trying to diss with rape....its like you're suffering from brain paralysis

And what is your obsession with Nigerian women? Why are you bitter at the fact that they get taken care of?.... they're not the reason for your rape epidermic.

You're trying to dissing people who's men stay around to Carter for them while yours see you as only useful for rape-a-thons.... everything about you reeks of sorrow and frustration


Nigerian women are not the reason why your men place zero value on you. Leave them alone. Frustrated bitter wrench.
Afolue(m): 1:12pm On Feb 18
Samantha125:
Silentgroper, Lionessza6, Starzo, legitnow1, and Afolue, you guys are depressing me... Now my thread has turned into a warzone and filled with corpses and skulls.

This is why I always try to avoid banters on this forum... Now can you guys go and create your own threads where you'll continue your with your banters? Because I've been calling the mods to take down this thread, but it's like they're just useless.

I created this thread with the sole purpose of seeing the opinions of Nigerians on an SA man getting married to a Nigerian lady.
you have gotten a Lioness in your midst to wrestle with the giants. What do you expect.? You guys should cage her, if not we will be forced to. South Africans have no respect. You guys should always learn to behave yourselves. We (Nigerians) are the elders by all ramifications. 10 South Africans can’t stand a Nigerian unless we don’t have your time
Starzo: 1:13pm On Feb 18
ultraviolet27:


This will be my last reply to you as I am an hustling hardworking lady who has no time for the useless trash you spew here south African women work,feed and maintain theirselves blah blah blah yet you have been on this thread since page 5 spewing trash!!!how useless,hopeless, jobless, miserable and unfortunate can you be??

reply me again if you want to be unfortunate you ugly, shapeless, mentally retarded,low
i.q,hate filled, pauper!!Bleep off my mention ka a ye irandiran e afofungbemu.

and for the men replying her here you guys should stop since she can only be relevant and useful by the replies you give her here
She envies you as a Nigerian woman
Starzo: 1:16pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:


True. But would never happen when the vast majority of men over there see women as people to * take care of*. Would you trust her to take care of your country? grin grin
You've got to be the most stupid black San I've come across. And that is saying alot

Which country's men made her a finance minister before she headed to the world bank?


Your men are truly suffering if this is the level of stupidity they have to deal with everyday of their lives
Afolue(m): 1:35pm On Feb 18
Lionessza6:



I'm a nairaland Psychiatrist grin


I'm not here to make friends but to ease delusional Nigerians into reality grin. I'm the necessary evil in your lives grin grin grin. I'm very patient .....I'll work you through the whole process.....las las you'll be realistic and stop living in dreamland. Even Tinubu said that you were living fake lives ....he needed to get rid of the subsidy to make you see how poor you people really are grin grin grin grin. Reality is brutal though grin
I offered because it appears no man has ever treated you like a woman. The economy of Nigeria has never been so palatable as you think may be before the subsidy removal. Poverty is a norm every where even in you own country. So stop capitalizing on it. Subsidy removal has brought in more wealth even if you think it is the other way round then have a rethink. If not that the decision was drastic, stability is taken a turn
Samantha125(f): 1:39pm On Feb 18
I give up...🤦🤦🤦... Have a good day.
Lionessza6:
JaceBlaze come and see foolishness about to play out grin grin. That's why naive people need to stay away from international forums and engagements grin grin. Explaining yourself to a grigampa with emotion grin grin ;Because another grigampa is baiting you and getting you into a vulnerable position....total foolishness grin grin grin grin. Why is the SA not coming for me or any other SA on this forum? grin grin grin grin grin...predators know prey when they spot one grin grin

Nigerian men are suddenly interested in details about SA tribes and relations Jace....look at how concerned he's acting. The fool thinks he's smart...looking for ammunition for another thread grin grin. They failed for years when the likes of Xhosanostra were here...they are now seeing prey grin grin

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