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Send You Money Or Attend Your Wedding? - Family - Nairaland 4r5ty
Send You Money Or Attend Your Wedding? (553 Views)
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| Thinkfree(m): 1:39am On Feb 17 |
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Which among the two options do you prefer? Would you prefer my presence in your wedding or I send you my financial . I am from kogi state but with a permanent residence in Nasarawa state, I have a cousin whose wedding is coming soon in ugheli in delta State, he invited me specially to be with him on his special day (not his best man but one of his favourite cousins) to celebrate and rejoice with him, but I'm not really comfortable travelling from lafia Nasarawa state capital to ugheli in delta State to attend a wedding for the following reasons... Firstly, the stress of travelling the distance of over 550km Secondly, transportation to and fro, sewing of agbada with other things is going to cost me around 180k to 220k. The above reasons are why im asking... If you are the celebrant would prefer I send you 100k as my financial or be in attendance. Please, I need your opinions on this because i don't want to too selfish in my decision. |
| sleek214(m): 4:11am On Feb 17 |
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Send your
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| Wealthyonos(m): 4:25am On Feb 17 |
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Omo, send money o. It's UGHELLI not Ugheli 2 Likes |
| Edimakan(m): 5:35am On Feb 17 |
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I guess it depends on your cousin .If his well to do ,your money doesn't really matter while on the other hand your money will go a long way
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| Thinkfree(m): 6:51am On Feb 17 |
Edimakan:Thanks. He doesn't have much |
| Thinkfree(m): 6:52am On Feb 17 |
Wealthyonos:Thanks for the correction. |
| ruzell86: 7:37am On Feb 17 |
Thinkfree:Omo, send money and attend the wedding from his/her WhatsApp status. That location far, and with all the happenings on Naija roads lately. Life is so simple, but people make it complicated. Peace! ✌️ 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Thinkfree(m): 8:02am On Feb 17 |
ruzell86:Thanks |
| Aimerosa25(f): 9:14am On Feb 17 |
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Send your please The road is risky 1 Like |
| Zooboy: 11:15am On Feb 17 |
Thinkfree:Since you are ready to die go na But when ungun know men kidnap u , come dagger map of ugehili on ur face na den u go understand 1 Like |
| Hopez456(m): 4:47pm On Feb 18 |
Zooboy:Attending the wedding is a burden to both you and the attendee while sending money is a blessing to you and stress/burden reliever for the supposed attendee. 1 Like |
| missidy: 12:23am On Feb 19 |
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That journey is too risky. Please send your financial , he will appreciate it more.
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| Lance008(m): 5:45pm On Feb 25 |
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Send am above 100k he go appreciate am
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| Praise202(m): 11:50pm On Feb 25 |
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My cousin brother did his wedding August last year. I traveled from Lagos to Enugu. The Journey and other things cost me close to 200k. If I had known I would have sent him 100k and save myself from the risk, stress and other unforseen expenses. My dear send him your T- fare ( to and fro) which should be close to 100k He will appreciate it more. But come up with a good lie/ excuse why you will not be able to attend. 2 Likes |
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