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Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys through if it's just normal.

If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

END it!

If a girl likes you, you will become her SAFE SPACE.
Anything bothers her, you will be the FIRST to know.

She used to call you every 2 hours 'cause the relationship was FRESH and the attraction was FIRE.

Now she ducks your calls for 2 full days because the relationship is STALE and the attraction has EXPIRED.

IGNORE the excuse.
BLOCK her everywhere.

And whatever you do, DON'T "talk it out" before you VANISH.

Make it ABRUPT.
DENY her closure.

Drives them CRAZY.

And for fucccck's sake, STOP engaging in LONG DISTANCE relationship!

Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

Goodmarlian:


I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

Talk to her about that.

Manipulations can mess up your mind.
Don't get yourself entangled in it.

Na their way . This is the trick, when they ghost u don't pursue, don't ask her why . She will come back.

Exceed15:
Na their way . This is the trick, when they ghost u don't pursue, don't ask her why . She will come back.

My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

Me and a girl that's sweet on each other are like that.. we're literally on and off ..

Since I called the last time and she told me she was busy, we haven't talked in four weeks nw .. lol

The good part is she usually the first to come around after the long silence ..

It happened during Christmas and new year until she texted a week after , we went on chatting and calling for like a week till the above happened..


Now if she dare text me before Valentine or on Valentine's Day looking for one shitty gift or the other, I ain't responding..

Goodmarlian:


My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

So una don normalize bad behavior?

There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

Silentgroper:
Me and a girl that's sweet on each other are like that.. we're literally on and off ..

Since I called the last time and she told me she was busy, we haven't talked in four weeks nw .. lol

The good part is she usually the first to come around after the long silence ..

It happened during Christmas and new year until she texted a week after , we went on chatting and calling for like a week till the above happened..


Now if she dare text me before Valentine or on Valentine's Day looking for one shitty gift or the other, I ain't responding..

Na man you be

🤐

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.
More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

🤐

Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

Let’s await his TALES soon…

Stephen0mozzy:

So una don normalize bad behavior?

Your girlfriend was in another man's house collecting kpa kpa kpa kpa.

Her pùnna was sweating under his holy rod for two days straight as he poured his thick akamu inside her oil rig without remorse.

She was indeed in a bad mood getting dìcked down by a bad niggèr.

The sweetest pùnna to knack is another man's girlfriend, it is like stealing meat from a pot at midnight when everyone is asleep.

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

This is the perfect explanation of what happened.
Every man who has had experience with women knows this.

Somebody booked her for straight two days hook-up. Wize up

No evidence or proof

Get out abeg

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight,didn't call,didn't pick my calls,didn't reply chats,I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while i stay in lagos,a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore,I have already moved on,only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days,I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls.this is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo,we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style,I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys through if it's just normal.

Rabiu4190:


Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection..

Finally, someone was a brain....

The best way to treat ghosts is to let them remain dead

She was actually “cheating” if na you be the “main BF” ooo

Goodmarlian:


My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

It's only normal with 304's cos it's how they make room to be with other dicks. They create an atmosphere of tension and friction then they use the opportunity to be with the other guy on those days U guys aren't talking and when they're done they get back to U after being used. Una dey try for accepting rubbish sha. You and Ur friends are even making excuses on her behalf 😂

This is a sign of disloyalty as stated by my elders above I will not tell u what to do but this is what I would do.
The motive might have been to establish a relationship that would blossom into something beautiful at the end but signs like these changes motive, I would just keep playing my card, do small follow up and wait till the day we meet in person then bleep the living hell out of her, from the moment she ghosted me, she became my sex object and that she will remain till I get tired of the punnani

I no go leave her, na my motive go just change!

No Be Small Thing ooooo

Should we tell him? Lol.

Be a man. Hustle hard if u r done with school. If not read hard. Women r a neccesary distraction. They r drainning emotionally, psychologically and intellectually.
Focus ur intellectual capacity of leaving a mark in ur generation.
Marriage will give u plenty of time and opportunity for woman love and drama. For now build ur life and a personal empire. great luck

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys through if it's just normal.

It doesn't make sense calling your girlfriend multiple times in a day what are you talking about..na why una relationships no dey reach 6months.
Can u call the same person 8 to 10 times in a day for 20yrs..not possible
Dont start what you can't finish you can only increase the intensity with women..the intensity must never reduce except you don't plan on staying with her for long..if I want to be with a woman for a short time I go all out get what I want and move for a woman I really want to go long term with I go gradually so she can observe progress and be better committed.

She will unghost herself when she sees me proposing to another lady. No time for yeye

Should we?

Lol

My brother if you listen to some certain comments you will get here you will think stupidly. Just two days not that you both are married. Did you bother to know exactly what was bothering her because that should be your major focus not expecting to hear that she was with someone else or whatsoever. If a woman wants to cheat on you she will not even give you any reason to suspect her. I mean she can even be with a man and a dick in her pussy and take your calls.

So maybe she has family issues or personal issues she needed to leave boyfriend matter one side and you never know if she also ignored all her friends as well not just you. Show her more love to be able to confide in you when she has issues and not look into just ignoring your calls for mere two days.

Don't be insecure as a man

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.



Person wey go collect opueh
For 2 solid days
Them drill ur nanny 🤣🤣
I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys through if it's just normal.

We no dey do girlfriend!

Na wife dey ghost us!

love, understanding and honesty.

Ghosting and calling back is tricky cos u dont know the real reason and have to accept what they tell u is true and rely on ur 6th sense.

Ogun wan kìll her shebi?


No girl has tried that rubbish with me before, the only reason I won't bother about it is if she travelled to where there's no network.....If I call and she didn't pick or text me I block her line immediately. I don't tolerate nonsense from anybody.