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IfnobeGod20(m): 8:04am On Feb 08
maasoap:

The message is that it is dangerous regardless of who goes to whose house and who dies between the two.



That's a lie to disagree with the Op. Like husbands and wives are not dying overnight and how many have you seen being arrested? Lol
If a wife die in your custody and her parents is suspicious of her death, my brother, police go chop money for the husband's hand o. If you know how many cases of such in police stations
ruffhandu: 8:07am On Feb 08
OKOATA:
What if you meet at a public place and she died, they will still say you used her especially make God catch you make two of una just chop gala or coke finish. Dey go say you kpai am. I can't count the number of ladies that have slept at my place. Make God just dey protect us abeg.

Sure, but at least they didn't see you make any incarntations. Most people will believe it was just a coincidence. My point actually is that if a girl is destined to die at anytime, she will die. The bottomline is, STAY AWAY FROM PRE-MARRITAL SEX and preserve your body and focus your energy into other developmental ventures, this can only, more often than not, bring sorrow. The best thing a young man can do for self is to give his life to Christ.
DenreleDave(m): 8:10am On Feb 08
Maobichek:


Good morning, if you sleep in her house and she dies, won't you be arrested?

We should just pray against evil report oh!

Security in Nigeria no advance reach dt..

U still fit run comot, destroy her phone for no trace.. And find a place to go hid your head..


E better make she die for her house than in Ur house
OKOATA(m): 8:11am On Feb 08
ruffhandu:


Sure, but at least they didn't see you make any incarntations. Most people will believe it was just a coincidence. My point actually is that if a girl is destined to die at anytime, she will die. The bottomline is, STAY AWAY FROM PRE-MARRITAL SEX and preserve your body and focus your energy into other developmental ventures, this can only, more often than not, bring sorrow. The best thing a young man can do for self is to give his life to Christ.
Mr pastor. Lol 😆
IfnobeGod20(m): 8:23am On Feb 08
otherway:


Balderdash..

Death happens wether you sleep over, she sleeps over or even already married.

As long as you are innocent, you are good.

Yes in a country like Nigeria you will be detained but you will be free in the long run.
You're correct but you will be detained any where in the world but autopsy will reveal the true nature of her death in a serious country and not the kind in Nigeria that they will be chasing shadows.
ruffhandu: 8:25am On Feb 08
OKOATA:
Mr pastor. Lol 😆
Call me whatever you wish. But, that is the fruf.

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OKOATA(m): 8:34am On Feb 08
ruffhandu:
Call me whatever you wish. But, that is the fruf.
Yeah you are right but everyone can't be equally super righteous. Even Isaiah 45:7 said it all. For the world to be good, evil must prevail. So for people to commit formication the seeds of Abraham must spread across the world. So be righteous while we that aren't spread our seed on the Universe.
janeedema(f): 8:59am On Feb 08
I would never understand how people spew obscene things in a public forum. Being dignified isn't expensive-- I promise.

You and the lots that liked your comments need help.

How you sexualize women is so pathetic. A woman is more than sex. Please, grow up!

Anyways, you are referring to the ladies who would stoop to co-habit with guys. You and them are birds of a feather.

Uchman1759:
She must sleep oo so I can salvage dat sweet pussy and breast. Everybody must not be lucky, that your babe died at your house doesn’t mean mine die too.

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Psoul(m): 9:40am On Feb 08
DenreleDave:
I said it in 2020

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/5932019/guys-never-invite-lady-

And I am telling you again in 2025... Don't allow any lady sleep over in your house...... Even if her family knows you, they can easily deny you..

See this post on front page for today

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8334888/ogun-man-arrested-after-girlfriend

It better you go sleep in her house ...


Be wise oooo...

How can you go and be sleeping in women's house?
Are you normal?
kollyhaykon(m): 10:17am On Feb 08
So, you think the guy is free if he went to the girl's house and the girl died in the process? Police will still arrest the guy.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Best advice yet this year.

Common sense.
MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 10:59am On Feb 08
kollyhaykon:
So, you think the guy is free if he went to the girl's house and the girl died in the process? Police will still arrest the guy.


👀😒
MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 11:01am On Feb 08
Psoul:


How can you go and be sleeping in women's house?
Are you normal?

If I'm homeless and she took me in,.. her house 👀😒
ruffhandu: 11:06am On Feb 08
OKOATA:
Yeah you are right but everyone can't be equally super righteous. Even Isaiah 45:7 said it all. For the world to be good, evil must prevail. So for people to commit formication the seeds of Abraham must spread across the world. So be righteous while we that aren't spread our seed on the Universe.
Nej, marry and start reproducing. Discipline is good for a man, don't be in the league of those who would make the world evil in order for it to be good, body go tell you.
OKOATA(m): 11:59am On Feb 08
ruffhandu:

Nej, marry and start reproducing. Discipline is good for a man, don't be in the league of those who would make the world evil in order for it to be good, body go tell you.
Who tell you I never marry. Oga rest jare. Pursue your own righteousness no be force. Lol
MrBroke(m): 12:07pm On Feb 08
calabaman:
A word they say is enough for the wise.

Don't wait till e affect you.

Especially cohabitating with a woman that is not your wife.

Hmm!

Modified: first to comment in a post in 2025. 🥳
How I wish I can cash out from this feat😁😁

Even if na your Wife, na still the same yawa you dey
MrJames007: 12:14pm On Feb 08
Uchman1759:
She must sleep oo so I can salvage dat sweet pussy and breast. Everybody must not be lucky, that your babe died at your house doesn’t mean mine die too.

📌
Psoul(m): 12:14pm On Feb 08
MondayOmoAdugbo:


If I'm homeless and she took me in,.. her house 👀😒

That is totally different from what is in the post. The post is saying instead of her sleeping over in your apartment, it's better the guy goes to her apartment and sleep over.

What breed of men do we have these days.
You'll feel comfortable going to sleep over in a woman's apartment. Tufiakwa
MrJames007: 12:16pm On Feb 08
emmabest2000:


What if u go to her house and you become the one who die nko ?

Death is inevitable dude
Death can happen to anyone at anytime in any location,

Even if you're married and your wife died in her sleep without any signs of sickness before that night

Police will still arrest you
Exactly

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ruffhandu: 12:35pm On Feb 08
OKOATA:
Who tell you I never marry. Oga rest jare. Pursue your own righteousness no be force. Lol
If you don marry then stick to your wife.
ultraviolet27(f): 12:42pm On Feb 08
Tendd:
What of if it's a male friend or relative that came for a visit that later slumped and died in your house?A lady might come for a visit with the intention of leaving the very day but collapsed while sitting on your soffa.People slump and die eventually in different places every now and then.
The crux lies on us as a people.We believe so much on fetism and superstition.There are no natural occurrences anymore in our society, everything is cursed by somebody/enemy.

Tell that to the Nigeria police force dem dey warn you still dey do strong head you think Nigeria is USA or UK that autopsy is conducted on a corpse? It's even better the Guy spends the night in the lady's house instead!!
ultraviolet27(f): 12:44pm On Feb 08
Psoul:


That is totally different from what is in the post. The post is saying instead of her sleeping over in your apartment, it's better the guy goes to her apartment and sleep over.

What breed of men do we have these days.
You'll feel comfortable going to sleep over in a woman's apartment. Tufiakwa

My Man sleeps in my house what is wrong with that? even though I the night in his sometimes too.and I prefer mine to his
tunize(m): 1:36pm On Feb 08
MufasaLion:


Stop sleeping with every women.
Still contradicting your post. Your post says do not allow a girl spend the night at your home and how does it relate to stop sleeping with every girl? Either you are advocating against pre marital sex to avoid diseases or advocating for people to be healthy by going for check up. “From your post you said its best for a guy to sleep over at a ladies place should incase anything goes wrong. Assuming the same guy dies at the lady’s home, what then happens to her? You still haven’t given me an answer what is your point?
MufasaLion: 1:50pm On Feb 08
tunize:

Still contradicting your post. Your post says do not allow a girl spend the night at your home and how does it relate to stop sleeping with every girl? Either you are advocating against pre marital sex to avoid diseases or advocating for people to be healthy by going for check up. “From your post you said its best for a guy to sleep over at a ladies place should incase anything goes wrong. Assuming the same guy dies at the lady’s home, what then happens to her? You still haven’t given me an answer what is your point?

Your post is riddled with lies due to comprehension problems.
PARADIZEPRIEST: 1:54pm On Feb 08
This is how they eventually marry themselve, especially among yoruba youths undecided
MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 2:02pm On Feb 08
Psoul:


That is totally different from what is in the post. The post is saying instead of her sleeping over in your apartment, it's better the guy goes to her apartment and sleep over.

What breed of men do we have these days.
You'll feel comfortable going to sleep over in a woman's apartment. Tufiakwa

Oh I'm sorry I don't read that part that says you can go over to her space and sleep regardless 🤣

Away game is a goal but what if I pahin overnight,,,..
maasoap(m): 3:30pm On Feb 08
IfnobeGod20:
If a wife die in your custody and her parents is suspicious of her death, my brother, police go chop money for the husband's hand o. If you know how many cases of such in police stations

This is normal now if there is any slightest form of suspicion, I fully it.
But in the case bf/gf sleeping over, na cell straight!
tunize(m): 4:30pm On Feb 08
MufasaLion:


Your post is riddled with lies due to comprehension problems.
Could you please state the lies? Abi nor be u say make person nor let woman sleep e house instead the man should go and sleep over should incase something goes wrong did you or did you not write it?
tunize(m): 4:34pm On Feb 08
MufasaLion:


Your post is riddled with lies due to comprehension problems.
Thought you were the op that posted it. There was no lies there nor vex.
Person that posted it indicated for a man not to allow a girl spend the night instead the reverse should be the case. Since you response you still haven’t answered my question assuming the man goes visiting and dies what now happens to the girl?

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dontbothermuch: 4:52pm On Feb 08
emmabest2000:


What if u go to her house and you become the one who die nko ?

Death is inevitable dude
Death can happen to anyone at anytime in any location,

Even if you're married and your wife died in her sleep without any signs of sickness before that night

Police will still arrest you
Even if na she die. You go sleep for cell
MufasaLion: 4:52pm On Feb 08
tunize:

Thought you were the op that posted it. There was no lies there nor vex.
Person that posted it indicated for a man not to allow a girl spend the night instead the reverse should be the case. Since you response you still haven’t answered my question assuming the man goes visiting and dies what now happens to the girl?

The law enforcement should do the needful. People should stop sleeping over at random peoples house. Sexual discipline will make you avoid troubles.
IfnobeGod20(m): 5:10pm On Feb 08
maasoap:


This is normal now if there is any slightest form of suspicion, I fully it.
But in the case bf/gf sleeping over, na cell straight!
Yes, na cell straight but in an organized system, the next is to conduct autopsy to ascertain the cause of her death and not just unjustly rope the boyfriend as our police do in Nigeria.

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IfnobeGod20(m): 5:14pm On Feb 08
MufasaLion:


The law enforcement should do the needful. People should stop sleeping over at random peoples house. Sexual discipline will make you avoid troubles.
Is it only sexual pleasure that makes people to sleep over in man's or woman's house? Many conditions can warrant anyone sleeping over in another person's house and death can come at anytime, especially if a person is having serious health challenge not known to the opponent. That's why autopsy will reveal the cause of any death instead of accusing people unjustly.

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