NewStats: 3,259,438 , 8,170,116 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 01:45 AM 395i1c

RedpillAdviser:
women know that what they want from men (money) they can't survive without, but what men want from women (sex) men can survive without. Women know that what women want from men (money) women can't masturbate and get, but what men want from women (sex) men can masturbate and get. Because what women want from men is a real thing, but what men want from women is simply a feeling. You can create a feeling from nothing but you can't create a real thing from nothing.

And the day men fully realize this is the day the Pussy Cartel will cease to exist.


But as long as men continue to walk in ignorance women are the only winners in this Game, because women get paid while men simply get laid. Women walk away with money, men walk away with mere memories.

Most bad boys are aware of this situation. It's only simps that are not aware that a lot of women only have sex to offer but then sex is not necessary to exist. Bad Boys treat women as if they are not important.

Ballzproblem2:
I posted it here the other time , imagine working hard to settle for woman that has pump and dumped,like someone is currently looking at your pre-wedding photos while bragging about how many times he has pumped your girl ,men learn how to set standards biko ,virgin or nothing .

do you need anymore reason to marry virgin? 🤷

Nyascobar1414:
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This sexual market game ain't fair..
Imagine what men are doing in exchange of having kids or sex😹😹..

What if I can control my sexual urge,then I'll be detached from this loosing game..

Men can't just see that nature made us losers😊..

Its okay though..
Friedrich Neiztche has already made me to stare into the abyss,same way the abyss have stared into me🚶

@bolded

You need to understand that nature didn't make men losers, it's men that made themselves loser because of their desire to “satisfy a woman”

The simps are always trying to satisfy her needs, where did that lead them too — heartbreak.

Here's the worst: Men are trying to satisfy a woman sexually.

Even here on this forum, I see guys say things like, “if you want to satisfy a woman, and keep her coming back, you need to have a good dick game.”

It's no wonder guys are taking drugs or dangerous herbal substances just to satisfy the modern woman. It's no surprise that a lot Men have lost their life during sex—they are trying to satisfy the woman.

The goal isn't to satisfy her; the goal is to make her satisfy You.

After the first kiss, I have had girls texting me, telling things along the lines, “I am sorry about our first kiss, I will make it up to you when we next meet.”

That's because after the kiss, I act unimpressed and tell them in different words that they need to learn how to kiss better.

Seriously speaking, After the first sex, I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to impress me.

This is because of my behavior or words towards them after sex.

The goal is to make them try to satisfy me. My mindset is—satisfy me or get lost.

That might make me look like an big asshole… but I don't care.

You don't keep a woman by trying to satisfy her.

As a Man, it's important that the woman is also putting in the effort to satisfy you. That's how you genuinely keep a woman.

Pukkalolo:


@bolded

You need to understand that nature didn't make men losers, it's men that made themselves loser because of their desire to “satisfy a woman”

The simps are always trying to satisfy her needs, where did that lead them too — heartbreak.

Here's the worst: Men are trying to satisfy a woman sexually.

Even here on this forum, I see guys say things like, “if you want to satisfy a woman, and keep her coming back, you need to have a good dick game.”

It's no wonder guys are taking drugs or dangerous herbal substances just to satisfy the modern woman. It's no surprise that a lot Men have lost their life during sex—they are trying to satisfy the woman.

The goal isn't to satisfy her; the goal is to make her satisfy You.

After the first kiss, I have had girls texting me, telling things along the lines, “I am sorry about our first kiss, I will make it up to you when we next meet.”

That's because after the kiss, I act unimpressed and tell them in different words that they need to learn how to kiss better.

Seriously speaking, After the first sex, I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to impress me.

This is because of my behavior or words towards them after sex.

The goal is to make them try to satisfy me. My mindset is—satisfy me or get lost.

That might make me look like an big asshole… but I don't care.

You don't keep a woman by trying to satisfy her.

As a Man, it's important that the woman is also putting in the effort to satisfy you. That's how you genuinely keep a woman.

Nah...you are wrong on this.

You develop yourself to be an Alpha in business, education, body shape and you refuse to upgrade your sex game? That's not cool.

I have never taken a sex drug on my life..trams, Viagra or burantashi or any other brand. I just keep fit and use sex as fun/exercise too. I realize men that talk like you think satisfying a woman is hard work but it's not. Satisfying a woman is both imprinting you on her pysche and developing your own bed game. You control her that way. I never knew just how poorly other men's game were till I had women cumming under me. Doesn't matter what age or shape, women will do anything for a man who unlocks her sexual well. They will take care of you, protect you and serve you, especially if they already chose you.

I'm not an advocate of using drugs for sex or killing yourself with goddamn concoctions from road side sellers. Just natural body and dick cleansing should do. We all know sex is a tool and women hold it over us all the time. If I have a means to use that to my advantage by making women cum their brains out, hell yeah I absolutely will use it. I'm good at it..hell, I'm great at it. And it's not all about banging like a warrior. It's about getting to her sensitive spots and unlocking it. Shouldn't the story of Ebanga tell us anything? You control a woman whose pussy vibrates for YOU.

This is my personal opinion.

luminouz:


Nah...you are wrong on this.

You develop yourself to be an Alpha in business, education, body shape and you refuse to upgrade your sex game? That's not cool.

I have never taken a sex drug on my life..trams, Viagra or burantashi or any other brand. I just keep fit and use sex as fun/exercise too. I realize men that talk like you think satisfying a woman is hard work but it's not. Satisfying a woman is both imprinting you on her pysche and developing your own bed game. You control her that way. I never knew just how poorly other men's game were till I had women cumming under me. Doesn't matter what age or shape, women will do anything for a man who unlocks her sexual well. They will take care of you, protect you and serve you, especially if they already chose you.

I'm not an advocate of using drugs for sex or killing yourself with goddamn concoctions from road side sellers. Just natural body and dick cleansing should do. We all know sex is a tool and women hold it over us all the time. If I have a means to use that to my advantage by making women cum their brains out, hell yeah I absolutely will use it. I'm good at it..hell, I'm great at it. And it's not all about banging like a warrior. It's about getting to her sensitive spots and unlocking it. Shouldn't the story of Ebanga tell us anything? You control a woman whose pussy vibrates for YOU.

This is my personal opinion.

I get what you are trying to say, but you still missed the major point I was trying to across.



Let's talk about the two bolded.


The first one:

You have to understand that Brothers that talk like me actually don't think satisfying a woman is hard work; infact, quite the opposite. We actually think is easy—We just think trying to satisfy a woman is NOT the goal.

Most Men who feel heartbroken, cheated, used or exploited by women, and who now have hatred for women—the vast majority of time, their problem wasn't lack of sex game.

If satisfying a woman sexually was the major problem nice guys, simps and average guys have with women—then a big thread like this wouldn't exist. Because satisfying a woman sexually is fairly easy.

I have met guys who are simps and nice guys that still knows how to Bleep girls really well and satisfy them tho.

You missed the major point: it's not about satisfying her; it's about making her satisfy you.

In that post, I sighted that example that
I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to satisfy me.

If you read that post open mindedly, you’d understand that an “unsatisfied” girl wouldn't even be making effort trying to watch videos or read stuff on ways to satisfy me.

For a girl to make those effort, it means she was sexually satisfied with me. And that's the reality—I made the girl cum her brain out. But the goal wasn't to satisfy her; it was to satisfy me. So I gave the girls the impression that they've not satisfied me the way I want. That's where the real game is.


My major “game” with women is playing hard-to-impress. I act unexcited or impressed with her. That's because I want them to put effort into trying to please me too.



Now, the second bolded

The story of Ebang doesn't tell anything special; at least from my own experience.

There are many Men in Nigeria who are smashing more women than Ebang could imagine… The only difference is that those Men aren't mounting camera to video their sex. Or worse a lot of Men also have their sex tapes but it just it haven't leaked yet.

Just like the saying, “na who dem catch, be thief.”

A lot people just hasn't been caught yet in the sexual act

If I myself or few other Men I know video taped their sexual activities with women and it got leaked, we will also trend online. Nothing special.

Anyways I hope you get my point.

Pukkalolo:




I get what you are trying to say, but you still missed the major point I was trying to across.



Let's talk about the two bolded.


The first one:

You have to understand that Brothers that talk like me actually don't think satisfying a woman is hard work; infact, quite the opposite. We actually think is easy—We just think trying to satisfy a woman is NOT the goal.

Most Men who feel heartbroken, cheated, used or exploited by women, and who now have hatred for women—the vast majority of time, their problem wasn't lack of sex game.

If satisfying a woman sexually was the major problem nice guys, simps and average guys have with women—then a big thread like this wouldn't exist. Because satisfying a woman sexually is fairly easy.

I have met guys who are simps and nice guys that still knows how to Bleep girls really well and satisfy them tho.

You missed the major point: it's not about satisfying her; it's about making her satisfy you.

In that post, I sighted that example that
I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to satisfy me.

If you read that post open mindedly, you’d understand that an “unsatisfied” girl wouldn't even be making effort trying to watch videos or read stuff on ways to satisfy me.

For a girl to make those effort, it means she was sexually satisfied with me. And that's the reality—I made the girl cum her brain out. But the goal wasn't to satisfy her; it was to satisfy me. So I gave the girls the impression that they've not satisfied me the way I want. That's where the real game is.


My major “game” with women is playing hard-to-impress. I act unexcited or impressed with her. That's because I want them to put effort into trying to please me too.



Now, the second bolded

The story of Ebang doesn't tell anything special; at least from my own experience.

There are many Men in Nigeria who are smashing more women than Ebang could imagine… The only difference is that those Men aren't mounting camera to video their sex. Or worse a lot of Men also have their sex tapes but it just it haven't leaked yet.

Just like the saying, “na who dem catch, be thief.”

A lot people just hasn't been caught yet in the sexual act

If I myself or few other Men I know video taped their sexual activities with women and it got leaked, we will also trend online. Nothing special.

Anyways I hope you get my point.

You didn't address many of what I pointed out in your earlier post but you clarified some in the new post. All I read from your earlier post was 'i couldn't give a Bleep about her bla blaaaaaaaaaa'.

I disagree about the 'majority of men who were cheated on, had sex game'. Majority of men were cheated on because they had no SEX GAME. I am talking from personal s from women I have been with and those who confided in me. Most men don't have a fuqin clue how to satisfy a woman. They think it's about WHAM WHAM GBAM AND SHAKABULA!!! Or take drugs to enlarge their diicks and just BULAWAYO her pussy with that. So men with sex game stand a higher chance of retaining women because women know how hard it is to get a guy who is good enough, lasts enough to get them off. But your diick game is not all that makes you a man.

Your will, intellect, strength, vision, hustling spirit and charisma are involved too. But most times, at the core of a woman, sex is what gets her hooked, even though you have these good qualities. But the key is...once you diick game is set and you have satisfied her a few times, then you can relax and pace yourself. You don't need to make her cum every single round or time. She knows you can do it and you know you can do it but you give yourself time to choose when and where she gets her cum. You became her love-vendor and your prowess is her crack and she is hooked to you. you don't spend every waking moment making her cum every time, because there will be days you are tired or sick and she needs to get that. Be in control and she will get hooked to you.

I'm using Ebanga as a classic example of women (no matter their status or wealth) being willing to do anything including being sex taped, so long they are hooked to a good D. That's the level of addiction your sex game can get you,if you can work on yourself and get your shit together. It shows women love a good D-game and will DO ANYTHING FOR IT. THAT'S MY POINT!!! That's special because I know from my experience that only few men reach that level without drugs or drinks


This is a technique that has always worked for me.

luminouz:


You didn't address many of what I pointed out in your earlier post but you clarified some in the new post. All I read from your earlier post was 'i couldn't give a Bleep about her bla blaaaaaaaaaa'.

I disagree about the 'majority of men who were cheated on, had sex game'. Majority of men were cheated on because they had no SEX GAME. I am talking from personal s from women I have been with and those who confided in me. Most men don't have a fuqin clue how to satisfy a woman. They think it's about WHAM WHAM GBAM AND SHAKABULA!!! Or take drugs to enlarge their diicks and just BULAWAYO her pussy with that. So men with sex game stand a higher chance of retaining women because women know how hard it is to get a guy who is good enough, lasts enough to get them off. But your diick game is not all that makes you a man.

Your will, intellect, strength, vision, hustling spirit and charisma are involved too. But most times, at the core of a woman, sex is what gets her hooked, even though you have these good qualities. But the key is...once you diick game is set and you have satisfied her a few times, then you can relax and pace yourself. You don't need to make her cum every single round or time. She knows you can do it and you know you can do it but you give yourself time to choose when and where she gets her cum. You became her love-vendor and your prowess is her crack and she is hooked to you. you don't spend every waking moment making her cum every time, because there will be days you are tired or sick and she needs to get that. Be in control and she will get hooked to you.

I'm using Ebanga as a classic example of women (no matter their status or wealth) being willing to do anything including being sex taped, so long they are hooked to a good D. That's the level of addiction your sex game can get you,if you can work on yourself and get your shit together. It shows women love a good D-game and will DO ANYTHING FOR IT. THAT'S MY POINT!!! That's special because I know from my experience that only few men reach that level without drugs or drinks


This is a technique that has always worked for me.

The bolded is wrong, actually.

Women cheat for various reasons. Lack of sex game can be one of the reasons, but it's not the major reason.

Look bro, I'm not doubting the fact that having sex game is vital, but it not the major weakness or problem of modern Men.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in the dating for guy, a redpill thread like this won't even be needed.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in dating for guys—then dating coaches or relationship coaches or even marriage counselors or redpill books won't be needed.

The problem most men experience with women is bigger than simply lacking "sex game"


A guy lack sex game, okay—but at least, he got laid. He's far ahead of many guys.

Many guys can't even get laid to save their life.

Men guys are still virgins in their late 20s...

A lot of Men are not getting even sex, talk more of having a sex game.

You still don't get my point?

Yikes

Pukkalolo:


The bolded is wrong, actually.

Women cheat for various reasons. Lack of sex game can be one of the reasons, but it's not the major reason.

Look bro, I'm not doubting the fact that having sex game is vital, but it not the major weakness or problem of modern Men.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in the dating for guy, a redpill thread like this won't even be needed.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in dating for guys—then dating coaches or relationship coaches or even marriage counselors or redpill books won't be needed.

The problem most men experience with women is bigger than simply lacking "sex game"


A guy lack sex game, okay—but at least, he got laid. He's far ahead of many guys.

Many guys can't even get laid to save their life.

Men guys are still virgins in their late 20s...

A lot of Men are not getting even sex, talk more of having a sex game.

You still don't get my point?

If men are not getting laid, how come single mothers are on the increase and most girls are not even virgins. And adultery among women is on the increase with paternity fraud.
It's a question. Is it only a small percentage of men that have constant access to female sexuality while the others get crumbs. If so why.
Sounds like what ubunja used to say

AN OVERVIEW OF THE GUN REGULATIONS IN NIGERIA: THE CURRENT STANCE AND THE WAY FORWARD
O. M. Atoyebi, SAN FCIArb.(U.K)O. M. Atoyebi, SAN FCIArb.(U.K)July 11, 2024Government


INTRODUCTION
Guns, also known as firearms under the Nigerian Law, have been in existence since the 10th century. It has from the early days, provided protection and security for people and where not properly controlled, is known to cause grievous harm and mass destruction in the society. This is the reason why countries of the world regulate firearms in their societies. Some Countries go as far as ing for every bullet that circulates in their territories. This is the relevance and sensitive nature of Firearms in society. This article seeks to examine the current gun regulations in Nigeria, the reception and effect of these laws in the society, and the next step to be taken in order to achieve a well-regulated firearm environment for the citizens of Nigeria.

THE FIREARMS CONTROL ACT NO. 32 OF 1959 CAP. F28 LAWS OF THE FEDERATION OF NIGERIA, 2004.
This Act has been responsible for the control of firearms in Nigeria for the last sixty-seven years. The Act provides that no person shall have in his possession or under his control, any firearm or ammunition except such person has a license from the President or the Inspector General of Police.

It states further that no license or permit to carry firearms should be granted to the following people;

Applicants under the age of 17;
Persons who are of unsound mind;
Persons not fit to have possession of the firearm in question on of defective eyesight; and
Persons of intemperate habits or anyone who has been convicted of an offence involving violence or the threat of violence during the previous five years.
Except for licensed firearm dealers, it is unlawful for anyone to buy or sell firearms or ammunition. The same goes for firearm manufacturing, only the Inspector–General of police can grant a license to make and repair firearms in Nigeria. However, such persons must be duly documented and ed.

Anyone who has in their possession unlicensed firearms; who imports or exports firearms or ammunition other than through prescribed ports or who manufactures, assembles, or repairs firearms and ammunition unlawfully shall be liable to a minimum sentence of ten years imprisonment[1].

Personal firearms are also prohibited including shotguns other than automatic and semi-automatic shotguns; shotguns provided with any kind of mechanical reloading device; sporting rifles, air guns, air rifles or air pistols, and humane killers of the captive bolt type. Dane guns, flint-lock guns, and cap guns are also included in the list.

One of the most important responsibilities of government is the safeguarding of lives and properties, provided under Section 14 (2) (b) of the 1999 Constitution as amended. So paramount is this responsibility that the entire economic, social and political progress of any society depends on it. Furthermore, the Constitution guarantees every citizen the right to life under Section 33 (1). It can be validly argued that beneath the right to life is the right to protect your life from harm or unlawful attack with reasonable force. Therefore Section 33 (2) (a) gives private citizens the authority to use reasonable force to defend themselves from unlawful violence or for the defense of property. This is the right to self-defense.

With the rise in insurgency all over the globe, citizens have begun to raise questions and disagree with the Firearm Act prohibition on individuals carrying firearms as a means of personal security, and in situations where self-defense is necessary.

Considering the illegality of firearms amongst unlicensed individuals in the society, Nigeria still s for 70% of illegal guns in West Africa according to United Nations report on August 3rd, 2016[2]. This can be assumed to be one of the major causes and triggers of insecurity in these times. The question remains: “Should citizens bear firearms to protect their lives and properties?”

In South Africa, the case of In Ex parte Minister of Justice: In RE S v Van Wyk[3] is very instructive. The defendant had tried numerous methods of ending hoodlums from burgling his shop. With the knowledge of the South African police, he rigged up a shotgun, which would be triggered by any hoodlum entering the shop through one of his windows or tampering with his groceries in the shop. The gun was fixated in such a way that it would aim at the legs of the intruder only, and he had also placed a notice on his shop door warning of the trap. In spite of this step, a man broke into the shop and was fatally shot. At his trial, the defendant successfully pleaded private defense and was acquitted.

The Court decided that killing in defense of property can be justified in circumstances where no other less dangerous or effective method is available to protect property. According to the Court, the test is whether the means of defending the property were reasonable by having regard to all the circumstances, such as the nature and extent of the danger, the value of the property, and the time and place of the occurrence. The value of the property seems an important factor in determining the reasonableness of the defense.

Considering the level of insecurity in Nigeria, the Firearms Act and its ancillary regulations do not foster nor enable citizens to protect themselves when security agencies fall short of their duties. The Act ought to be amended or ed with policies that are liberal as well as more favorable to the principle enunciated under section 33(2) (a) of the 1999 Constitution, which is the right to kill in defense of oneself or in defense of one’s family or property.

NEXT STEP TO ACHIEVING A WELL-REGULATED FIREARM SOCIETY
On the 2nd of February, 2022, a bill titled “The Firearms Act Cap F28 LFN (Amendment) Bill 2022 (SB. 889)” aimed at tightening firearms control and curtailing the proliferation of illegal arms, and bringing it in line with global best practices to effectively address some of the security challenges being currently plaguing Nigeria, was read on the first read on the floor of the Senate.

This bill aims to meet the needs of modern-day society in this modern-day world. The bill desires to reduce the use of small arms, specifying weapons perceived as being capable of inflicting the greatest damage and those most easily concealed (such as handguns and other short-barreled weapons).

It would further restrict persons from legal access to firearms, such as; those below a certain age or having a criminal record. Firearm licenses may be denied to those felt most at risk of harming themselves or others, such as persons with a history of domestic violence, alcoholism or substance abuse, mental illness, depression or attempted suicide.

This bill is a step in the right direction to reducing the circulation of firearms in the country, which will in turn save the lives and properties of the citizens.

CONTRIBUTED BY EFERAOMON ISEGHOHIME

Legalnaija, ‘GUNS AND LICENSES: NIGERIAN FIREARMS ACT’ (2013) < https://legalnaija.com/nigerian-firearm-act/02900951941647681314/#:~:text=The%20Nigerian%20Fire%20Arms%20Act,the%20Inspector%20General%20of%20Police.> accessed 14 December 2021 ↑
Chijioke Ifediora, ‘Insecurity and the right to bear arms’ (2020) < https://guardian.ng/opinion/insecurity-and-the-right-to-bear-arms/> accessed 15 December 2022. ↑
(1967) (1) SA 488 A and 1967 84 SAJL 123.) ↑

Tonnyray:
Considering the illegality of firearms amongst unlicensed individuals in the society, Nigeria still s for 70% of illegal guns in West Africa according to United Nations report on August 3rd, 2016[2]. This can be assumed to be one of the major causes and triggers of insecurity in these times. The question remains: “Should citizens bear firearms to protect their lives and properties?”


Considering the level of insecurity in Nigeria, the Firearms Act and its ancillary regulations do not foster nor enable citizens to protect themselves when security agencies fall short of their duties. The Act ought to be amended or ed with policies that are liberal as well as more favorable to the principle enunciated under section 33(2) (a) of the 1999 Constitution, which is the right to kill in defense of oneself or in defense of one’s family or property.

A major concern of a man especially when he begins the journey of raising a family is security. It is wired in every male the instinct to protect what is his- family, kith, territory and property.
It is as pathetic as it is heart wrenching that the only people (asides the military and law enforcement agents) with access to and in possession of weapons (firearms) in Nigeria are criminals. This is a great disservice to the manosphere and society in general especially as the government has over the years proven to be incapable of guaranteeing the security of lives and property of its citizenry. My personal experience is that there is no way you can secure possession of firearm in this country legally. Emphasis on the word legally. I strongly believe this is unreasonable, unfair and pathetic.
There are individuals who by reason of proven character, reputation, status and pedigree who if taken through a thorough due process should be granted the right to bear arms.
Selah.

You don't look for love... na love go find you

Pukkalolo:


The bolded is wrong, actually.

Women cheat for various reasons. Lack of sex game can be one of the reasons, but it's not the major reason.

Look bro, I'm not doubting the fact that having sex game is vital, but it not the major weakness or problem of modern Men.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in the dating for guy, a redpill thread like this won't even be needed.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in dating for guys—then dating coaches or relationship coaches or even marriage counselors or redpill books won't be needed.

The problem most men experience with women is bigger than simply lacking "sex game"


A guy lack sex game, okay—but at least, he got laid. He's far ahead of many guys.

Many guys can't even get laid to save their life.

Men guys are still virgins in their late 20s...

A lot of Men are not getting even sex, talk more of having a sex game.

You still don't get my point?

It's true. The red pill and this thread are much more about getting sex and more sex, than being good in bed. Being good in bed is not given half as much attention as getting sex. The truth is, putting prostitutes and oloshos asides, the average man out there has a HARD time getting ANY sex. Men who get sex regularly are the minority. Plus, most men in relationships are one break up away from being an incel.

.

Pukkalolo:


@bolded

You need to understand that [size=14pt]nature didn't make men losers[/size], it's men that made themselves loser because of their desire to “satisfy a woman”

The simps are always trying to satisfy her needs, where did that lead them too — heartbreak.

Here's the worst: Men are trying to satisfy a woman sexually.

Even here on this forum, I see guys say things like, “if you want to satisfy a woman, and keep her coming back, you need to have a good dick game.”

It's no wonder guys are taking drugs or dangerous herbal substances just to satisfy the modern woman. It's no surprise that a lot Men have lost their life during sex—they are trying to satisfy the woman.

The goal isn't to satisfy her; the goal is to make her satisfy You.

After the first kiss, I have had girls texting me, telling things along the lines, “I am sorry about our first kiss, I will make it up to you when we next meet.”

That's because after the kiss, I act unimpressed and tell them in different words that they need to learn how to kiss better.

Seriously speaking, After the first sex, I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to impress me.

This is because of my behavior or words towards them after sex.

The goal is to make them try to satisfy me. My mindset is—satisfy me or get lost.

That might make me look like an big asshole… but I don't care.

You don't keep a woman by trying to satisfy her.

As a Man, it's important that the woman is also putting in the effort to satisfy you. That's how you genuinely keep a woman.

I would really like to discuss about this point and get the perspective of OGs here (luminous, ubunja, pansophist, CaveAdullam, emmaodet, martinez39s, etc...)

When it comes to intersexual dynamics, I fail to see how the average man is not on the losing side.

Sure, any man can put in the work, time, and energy in order to develop his body (physical health, fitness, body strength), his mind (kill the simp/beta in him, maintain his boundaries, learn skills, develop his intellect, increase his knowledge, work on his childhood trauma, overcome his addiction, prioritize his peace of mind, lean on self-imposed principles, have his own opinions, do what he says and say what he means, develop his self-esteem and confidence, get rid of energy-draining people, etc.), his spirit (nurture his link with the ancestors, avoid activities that corrupt his soul, work on any spiritual blocks in his life, live in truth and justice, etc.), and his wealth (bring value to the world, monetize skills, make and maintain key connections, develop relevant habits, invest in the right things at the right time, being diligent, etc.).

All of these things can help any man becoming the best version of himself physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. A man who dedicates his time and energy to these things can become an accomplished man, with lots of benefits including the iration of his peers.

But when it comes to women, I really don't see how any of these things are going to help you.
Except it's time to look for a provider (beta buxx), women generally don't give a shït about your mind, your finances, your spiritual state, or even your athleticism, if they don't find you sexually/physically attractive in the first place.

I am all for building huge wealth, developing your best body, taking care of your physical and mental health, build your own mind and developing your mental strength, prioritizing your peace and well-being, and being spiritually healthy. I would encourage any man to do these things and put most of his time and energy on them.

However, I would also tell any man the truth that women do not give a shît about that (except, maybe, if they are looking for a provider). When it comes to sexual dynamics, your single biggest advantage is your sexual attractiveness.
If a woman finds you sexually attractive, she will sleep with you even if you don't have money, even if you never self-improved in your life, even if you don't have an athletic body, even if you are dumb, etc.
If she doesn't find you sexually attractive, she won't sleep with you, except in a betabuxx situation.
And the brutal part is that you can't do much to improve your physical attractiveness (and no, going to the gym won't make you much more sexually attractive, except you were fat before).

Given that the average man is deemed ugly/unattractive by most women, I don't see how he can win in intersexual dynamics (except he brings money into the situation—betabuxx)?


When it comes to women, I believe that regardless of who you are and what you do, the only woman you can "win" with is the one that naturally finds you sexually attractive.
And being sexually attractive (not marriage/husband material) has little to nothing to do with money, mental and spiritual health. Even ubunja said something along the lines of : "if a woman isn't sexually attracted to you, you are pretty much inexistent to her." You could be the mentally strongest man in the world, with the hardest masculine frame, the most accomplishments, and lots of money, but if a woman doesn't find you sexually attractive, how can you be a winner in front of her as far as sex/attraction is concerned?

So, pukkalolo, luminous, and the others, I would like to ask you this:

If you are short and ugly how can you be a winner with women without betabuxing?

How are men not predisposed to be losers in intersexual dynamics?








PS: The real reason most men go their own WA y(MGTOW) is because they realized they can't win with women, which is most likely because they are sexually unattractive. You will hardly see any tall and handsome man go MGTOW. (Of course, I know this doesn't apply to all MGTOWs, and that there are some MGTOW men that are attractive. True MGTOWs are very rare, most of them are just guys women don't want to deal with, except maybe for betabuxxing).


PS: If you go around town, and ask random men if they know any woman that has a genuine and burning sexual desire for him, most men won't have an answer.

Skepticus:


I've been waiting for the day the issue of rich, popular celebrities having multiple baby mamas in gynocentric society will surface so that I can give my perspective on it.

The only knowledge to pick from their issues is that having a high sexual market value, especially in entertainment (Music and Sports especially) where there is a lot of flashiness (fast luxury cars, Jewelries, fancy luxurious clothings and other entrapments of wealth) would attract women (mostly vain gold diggers seeking for a maga who has the resources to cater for her and her child). These women don't mind sharing you with others as far as the MONTHLY CHILD PAYMENTS and other benefits are assured.

Getting money and fame as a male entertainer isn't a bad thing. Money makes way for a man and it is red pill to spin plates but when spinning plates leads to multiple baby mamas in these societies, it's a blue pilled move in the long run and you end up where the society wants you, a disposable rich slave for the system and women that will be left for "dead" when he serves no purpose anymore.

These western women may portray themselves as the victims of "falling in love" with a philandering celebrity but that's bullshiit to the discerning red pilled mind. It is known that these women deliberately choose to have babies for these celebrities knowing that with the gynocentric laws of their countries, they have an "ATM Machine" that will keep paying them till he is wrecked.

It may look like these celebrities are making the best decisions in having multiple baby mamas but the baby mamas are the true winners (red pilled realists) in the end, having a rich slave for retirement while still exploring her options with other beta cuckolds who will simp with his commitment and resources after falling for the lie she brings that she (now an alpha widow might be baby mamas to a lot of men and that is a red flag) was a victim being treated badly by the rich celebrity. Most are SIMPs whose high sexual market value make them a target for gold digging leeches.

These rappers, sportsmen etc involved in the multiple baby mamas thing are setting themselves up for a future where they are likely to go bankrupt when the money and the fame is no longer there. There are numerous examples of rich american entertainment celebrities in the 80s and 90 who had more than 2 baby mamas, and are broke now, after losing almost all their retirement money in child payments. The prominent ones I can now is Shawn Kemp (Retired NBA Basketball Player who had 9 baby mamas) and Karl Malone (Another retired NBA Player with 7 baby mamas). These two players earned more than 300 Million Dollars individually, during their playing career with these ladies flocking around them like flies. In fact, when Shawn Kemp recently try to recover financially and got a grant of 300, 000 dollars to pick up again, these women found out and with help of their gynocentric court, they got their portion of the money. The dude almost committed suicide. I also learnt that paying monthly child for many years took a toll on DMX. If you earn that bag and even want to simp or have baby mamas, do it with sense. Men have weak system of in old age unlike women. Your money should be contributed to investments that shore up your future. Not in excessive spending on gold digging whores.

Kipaji:


It's true. The red pill and this thread are much more about getting sex and more sex, than being good in bed. Being good in bed is not given half as much attention as getting sex. The truth is, putting prostitutes and oloshos asides, the average man out there has a HARD time getting ANY sex. Men who get sex regularly are the minority. Plus, most men in relationships are one break up away from being an incel.

You are correct, majority of men are in the bottom 80% called betas since they are not having the sexual market value to attract women because of their average looks and scarcity of resources, they typically are monogamous by necessity managing the girlfriend that accepts to date them, living a life of sexual scarcity and in the case of incels both sexual and romantic scarcity, they are sedated by pornography and prostitutes, they are struggling even to survive, they are invisible in society, they serve as cheap labor for the top 10%,

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Be weary of girls that dress provocatively. Because she dresses as such does not mean she is very cheap and will get laid with you. In fact they are the most difficult to Bleep. They are dressing provocatively so you can give them your attention, resources and commitment with the expectation of sex, unfortunately you will not get it. This is a tactic used by golddiggers. The irony is that the girls who dress decently and who are Innocent are those very easy to Bleep.

Ballzproblem2:
Yikes

The problems with such ladies is that if you ask them to go be with their exs, they will refuse. Is a very big problem. I pray the husband sees that.

JESHAL007:
You don't look for love... na love go find you

This is so true

If you treat a woman too well, she will reward you with enough pain and betrayal to make suicide seem like a viable option – do not love too much

JESHAL007:

Be weary of girls that dress provocatively. Because she dresses as such does not mean she is very cheap and will get laid with you. In fact they are the most difficult to Bleep. They are dressing provocatively so you can give them your attention, resources and commitment with the expectation of sex, unfortunately you will not get it. This is a tactic used by golddiggers. The irony is that the girls who dress decently and who are Innocent are those very easy to Bleep.

fact!

the vast majority of men live in the romantic fantasy in which women are queens and deserve all love.and in that world sacrificing yourself and dying for women is seen as an honour.and the approval of women is the biggest goal.these men are called Blue Pill.they dont know anything about the reality you just witnessed through this post.and even if you tell them most wont be so willing to let go of the illusion of Romantic Love.

Hard times create strong men; strong men create good times; good times create weak men; weak men create hard times. The cycle continues till humanity ceases to exist. We are currently in good times which created pathetic, weak men (simps, wimps, hopeless manginas) and they have created, via their complacency, disunity, and stupidity, a gynocentric world which is getting more gynocentric with time.

Woman always keeps a man dependent and relying on her and her alone for sex. A man is not allowed to even masturbate. If a married man services himself you'll hear all the wailings from women shaming him and demanding to know if his wife is not enough for him!! He'll be Condemned for destroying his wife's self-esteem and confidence. He must always get his sex from the wife. If she's not in the mood, he must wait for her. Not go elsewhere. Not even to a prostitute.

Women are choosy with the men they sleep with. While men are choosy with the women they commit to.

Men are choosy in commitment because a man's commitment is costly to him in that he bears the financial costs of the relationship so who he commits to is a carefully made decision.

Women, on the other hand, are choosy with who they sleep with because sex carries so many physical, biological, psychological and societal risks for them. Everytime a woman sleeps with a man she risks Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) which tend to be more aggressive towards women and some of which can destroy her womb, she risks pregnancy which can go wrong if she gets an STI that can to her unborn baby, she risks physical harm on her delicate organs from sex with aggressive partners and she also risks dickmatization if the dick proves too good, driving her nuts and messing her up mentally.
A woman also risks socially when she has sex because sex with the wrong men - men who are judgemental and talk too much - will ruin her reputation in her community, church, school or workplace and bring her ratings down as far as marriage is concerned. So who a woman has sex with is a carefully made decision.

And on condoms, if a woman has to use condoms to have sex with you already she views the sex as risky and already her pleasure has been blocked. Women hate condoms. And not because they enjoy less with the rubber on or they're allergic, but because of what the rubber symbolizes: "I don't trust you and we shouldn't be doing this, so let's keep our flesh from touching". Which makes the sex cold, detached, unromantic and mechanical - like sex between a man and a prostitute.
Women don't get joy from this kind of sex because it's not intimate. Because there is no skin to skin touch and no exchange of bodily fluids that build that connection and that bond where two become one.

Babangidayaro:


1. Most baby mamas will give you hell on earth. It’s not as easy as you make it seem. I know a lot of men that are going through baby mama hell. Trust me they are suffering and regretting.

2. Most baby mamas don’t give a fukk about how you feel or your health. They just want your money. If they cared so much about you, they will not be your baby mama. This is a fact.

3. Sleeping with your baby mama is as good as sleeping with a prostitute. Lots of diseases.

4. Baby mamas come with lots of baggages especially when they have kids with other men and/or are married/in relationships with other men. You don’t want to be watching your back all the time especially if the man is a bum as you put it.

5. Baby mama children most times are raised by their mothers. Why will they care about you when you are sick or dying in the hospital? Elon Musk, Kanye West, etc have children that they rarely see. Elon’s kids really don’t give two shits about him. You think they will be there when he’s dying in the hospital?

6. Having children does not guarantee that you will not be lonely in old age. Same way not having children does not mean that a man will be lonely in old age. Good health is the key here. A man that ages well and grows old with good health has so many adventures to keep him busy. This could even involve dating women.

7. I maintain that children raised by baby mamas generally don’t turn out right. A lot of negative influences around them. Most children need a father figure who’s consistently in their lives. Fact!

8. A man doesn’t have to be married to be fulfilled in life. Same way a man does not need to have children if he doesn’t want to.

The worst thing a man can do to himself is to go the baby mama way to have children just to avoid being lonely in old age. Recipe for a very stressful life. Know this and know peace.

Zabiboy:

Thank you
The answer to the bolded is NO.
As far as i'm concerned, in this Naija, Genuine desire is pure B.S (except she's the one spending the money)..
Man... These girls would do anything for the money. Some are looking for what to eat, others are looking for where to sleep etc etc. So as a guy doing well for yourself, you'll see millions of greenlights, chosen signals, genuine desire, But ALL NA SCAM.. They are all there for the resources..

Whats the best way to filter them? tell them to invest. Not useless things like submission, cooking,cleaning,fertility, babies sex etc etc.. Invest Financially or something tangible ( maybe connections to boost your hustle as a guy) . something that they cant wake up one morning and leave behind ( which then goes down to not dealing with broke ladies).. Getting them to invest financially keeps the guy one foot ahead.

The question then is, How many can invest? Because this is where the game is won and lost

People must understand that even if you are so attracted to a woman, and she doesn't like you or she makes things difficult for you, it's okay to allow another man have her. But what isn't okay is you not severing the lines of communication with her. It's important you stop communicating with her for your mental health ( to forget about her quickly), and not because you want her to miss you.