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I posted it here the other time , imagine working hard to settle for woman that has pump and dumped,like someone is currently looking at your pre-wedding photos while bragging about how many times he has pumped your girl ,men learn how to set standards biko ,virgin or nothing .

Ballzproblem2:
I posted it here the other time , imagine working hard to settle for woman that has pump and dumped,like someone is currently looking at your pre-wedding photos while bragging about how many times he has pumped your girl ,men learn how to set standards biko ,virgin or nothing .

Even Virgin, someone could be bragging about how he was pumping the yanch saving the other hole for keeps.

Some people believe in this genuine burning desire of a thing, that there is someone for you out there, someone who will love you for you, to me I don't believe in all this nonsense. They are all coping mechanisms to get you trap in the love-hate relationship called marriage. To me you have to be a toxic person to want to get married as a man, it's not normal for a mentally healthy man to want Marriage, I just don't see the need for it. Men are in love, women are in business called marriage.

Ballzproblem2:
I posted it here the other time , imagine working hard to settle for woman that has pump and dumped,like someone is currently looking at your pre-wedding photos while bragging about how many times he has pumped your girl ,men learn how to set standards biko ,virgin or nothing .

The girls you are digging or dug, I think they will latter marry your blood brothers and first son.

Why can't you advocate virginity for alpha males too?

It is better you go for a woman that choose you (well armed with the vetting parameters) because she's highly invested and can easily submit, than the one you selected from your "whoring" adventures. Lol!

With Green light alone you will get fewer women around you, compare to when you are a pick up artist. The former is highly important when you need to commit and the later when you need to exercise your sexual prowess

Women will never find it difficult to fvck a man they desire, religion or not. The religious ones that want to fvck will always run back to God for forgiveness after satisfying their hypergamous instinct - resources and/or quality genes. But on vetting women, this even is a dealbreaker, because if she's not faithful to her God who is more superior than her man, then she will definitely betray that man at any given opportunity

If many guys put the knowledge of Redpill to good use, I believe paternity fraud cases would reduce at arms length but sadly a lot of men are not redpilled. A Redpill man knows he has to settle for quality woman who’s genuinely into him or not settle at all.

I pity most guys that date or marry women only when they’re rich, like it or not, the best time to meet a good woman is when you’re not rich yet, riches and wealth will attract all sort of leaches and tapeworms, and you end up confused to know who’s genuine. There are some benefits men have in their struggling days and this is sure one of them, at least you see things clearly for what they are and who’s for you and who’s not.

If we claim that many women who got married to rich guys don’t really have genuine love for them, is it the poor guys they really love?
Should we even really care about genuine desire nowadays? Does it really matter?
Because the person that genuinely loves you today may lose interest tomorrow for any reason.

no matter what a guy does for a girl and how faithful he is, his girlfriend will cheat if she wants to

when girls are younger, the thugs/players/bad boys always get the pussy free while the good guy/church guy/nice guy has to spend and even then not get the pussy because the girl will tell him "No sex before marriage," "I'm celibate" or some other shiit like that. Generally if you're a good guy who's Husband Material you'll not get the sex before marriage because the girl is "saving" you for marriage. When you'll have that honor of eating bad boys' left overs.

Women are seduced and aroused by strong and dominant men-----high tier men, and get disgusted by weak men.

If you maintain frame, women in general will worship you, and this is the whole essence of TRP-----improving men in all of life's diversification.

there is no soul mate anywhere. If you see the necessary qualities you desire in a woman----full of feminine essence and high value MARRY HER ut don't settle for non virgins or repentant wh%res. Virgins are for kings and wh%res for simps. Do not also consider a woman above 25 years of age, except she's a virgin and filled with an avalanche of feminine essence.

bad boys are “men who had fvcked up mothers” or men who had their heart broken by a woman they cherished. They don’t put any value on women. The good guy, on the other hand, is a man that wants to love a woman. There is nothing wrong with this. But, he “gets fvcked when he goes after the bad girl, when he goes after the woman that will never respect him for what he brings as a man and what he values.” In a world where 80% of women have been fvcked up by bad boys, it is hard for the good guy to find a woman that can receive what he has to give. Men must carefully select their women. There are still women out there who believe in loving a man, submitting to him, and putting him first.

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8206350/guys-please-should-take-back#131885368

where a woman is worshiped she doesn't love, but where she is not loved she worships

femininity is costly because a woman needs money to be feminine but she can't work for that money herself because working for it will make her masculine, and she can't be poor because poverty also brings out a woman's masculinity.

The more money a woman makes the more masculine she becomes (and the harder it is for her to practice hypergamy because the less men are on her level and the less she actually needs a man). However the more money a woman is given the more feminine she becomes. Because femininity is a receiving energy. Hence the stay-at-home wife will be the MOST FEMININE woman.

when a woman deals with effeminate men who are in their feminine (acting like women), her own Masculinity - long dormant - comes out to compensate for their lack thereof. She's forced to take charge, be in control, run things and solve all the problems - which is something that a woman rightfully resents because it's exhausting and she's not built for it. She ends up tired, bitter, resentful, irritable, short tempered, emotionally unstable and beset by high BP and depression because she's operating under undue pressure

What a woman isn't demanding from you she is getting from another man. (And vice versa, what you're not demanding from a woman another man is getting it from her)

In the age of Social Media, this generation of women has come upon a bumper harvest of Dick the likes of which no other group of women has ever come upon in all history. Never has sex been so freely available to women than it is now.

With Feminism cheering them on; with dating apps Tinder, Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp, 2go etc delivering an endless stream of men direct to their phones; with multiple contraception methods on hand and with the best medications for various STIs, women are overdosing themselves on sex and accumulating pussy-numbing Dick counts.

I need to get something off my chest, and I think a lot of you will relate to this. Let’s talk about the financial burden men carry and why it’s becoming unbearable. I know this might ruffle some feathers, but it’s a conversation we need to have.

We live in a world where men are expected to be providers—no questions asked. From the first date to the last bill, the pressure to pay, provide, and perform never stops. But here’s the thing: money isn’t easy to come by. The cost of living is insane, wages are stagnant, and the job market is brutal. Yet, men are expected to not only survive but thrive—to take care of themselves, their partners, their kids, and sometimes even extended family.

And what do we get in return? Criticism. Ridicule. Names. When we struggle, we’re called “losers” or “deadbeats.” When we can’t meet expectations, we’re told to “man up” or “do better.” But no one asks how much we’re already sacrificing. No one asks how many sleepless nights we’ve spent worrying about money. No one asks how many dreams we’ve put on hold just to keep up with the demands.

Let’s be real: the financial pressure isn’t just about money. It’s about the emotional toll it takes on us. The constant fear of failure, the guilt of not being able to provide enough, and the loneliness of suffering in silence can lead to anxiety, depression, and worse. Yet, we’re expected to keep it all inside, to “be strong” and “handle it.”

And let’s not even get started on the double standards. When a woman struggles financially, she’s met with sympathy and . When a man struggles, he’s met with judgment and blame. Women are encouraged to “follow their dreams” and “prioritize self-care,” while men are told to “suck it up” and “keep grinding.” It’s not fair, and it’s not sustainable.

So, what’s the solution? First, we need to change the narrative. Men are not ATMs. We’re human beings with our own struggles, dreams, and limitations. It’s time to stop treating us like walking wallets and start treating us with the respect and understanding we deserve.

Everyone around you wants to keep taking and expecting something from you. angry

Second, we need financial equality in relationships. Splitting bills, sharing expenses, and ing each other’s goals shouldn’t be optional—it should be the norm. It’s not about who makes more or who pays for what; it’s about working together as a team.

Finally, we need to create a culture of empathy and for men. Instead of dismissing our struggles, listen. Instead of judging our failures, offer solutions. And instead of demanding more, appreciate what we’re already doing.

Men are not invincible. We’re not machines. We’re human beings trying to navigate a world that expects everything from us but gives little in return. It’s time to acknowledge that, to address it, and to create a better future for all of us.

What are your thoughts? Have you experienced this kind of pressure? Let’s talk about it.

a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

It is this attention deceit that has kept women where they are and not any patriarchal oppression. Being associated with a king doesn't make you king, queens are not kings. These women think they are like men or even better than men because men chase them 24/7 unrelenting - testosterone doing nature's work to the detriment of men who can't simply place their hands on their libido.

I take care of myself by working out, drinking a lot of water, and eating healthy foods. You're old enough to be my mother, fat, eat everything you see, have green stretch marks all over your body, etc. I notice your advances, and let you know through my body language that I can never be interested in you. Then you start acting funny, as though it's by force. Women just can't handle rejection. The bitter ones can go to any length when rejected.

Good evening..
It's being a while here . Thank you all to everyone posting one or two to wake sleeping guys up. Im married but the lessons and knowledge from this group is tremendous. Im blessed. Oya learn or perish.

koldrun:
I take care of myself by working out, drinking a lot of water, and eating healthy foods. You're old enough to be my mother, fat, eat everything you see, have green stretch marks all over your body, etc. I notice your advances, and let you know through my body language that I can never be interested in you. Then you start acting funny, as though it's by force. Women just can't handle rejection. The bitter ones can go to any length when rejected.

Even without you rejecting them,them knowing they don't stand a chance gets them triggered. They'll go to any length.
If they can't have you,no one can

Smartb0y:

In other words....stop placing value on pussi

Exactly, bro.

But the thing is, when I tell guys to stop placing value on pussi, they think I mean they should stop going after the women they want.

But no, that’s not the idea.

As a guy, if you understand what I’m about to say now, you’ll be forced to drop weak beta behavior and start behaving differently with women.

Smartb0y, you’re a smart dude—so I believe you’ll easily relate to what I’m about to say.

Let’s get started…

When you place value on pussi, it means you’re trying to get something from the girl.

There are two different mentalities:

1. Trying to get something from the girl


2. Trying to get something off the girl



Note the key difference: "from" vs "off."

It’s a subtle difference, but it’s what separates lower-ground guys (simps, nice guys, and average guys) from higher-ground guys (p!mps, experienced playboys, and street-smart guys).


Lower-ground guys try to get something from the girl—these are the simps, nice guys, and typical men in general.

Trying to get something from a woman means you’re seeking something she possesses and can either give to you or withhold from you—things like love, affection, sex, care, or physical intimacy.

The problem with trying to get something from a girl is that you immediately put yourself in a lower-ground position. This means you give her power over you, and in the process, you tend to lose your respect.

It’s no wonder that a lot of men have lost their respect and honor because they were trying to get love, affection, acceptance, kisses, and sex from a woman.


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Higher-ground guys focus on getting something off the girl. These are the p!mps, experienced playboys, and street-smart guys.

Trying to get something "off" a girl means gaining something from her position, situation, skills, or experiences—rather than from her directly.

Note the key phrase: "rather than from her directly."

Using the example from my previous post: A p!mp is trying to make money off a girl’s pussi. He understands that an attractive, sexy woman is in a peculiar position. That position naturally attracts simps and nice guys. So, instead of trying to get something directly from the girl, he leverages her beauty and influence to extract money and material benefits from simps and nice guys…through her.

This is why most veteran p!mps are cashing out steadily, making millions, and driving fast cars “off” the women they manage. Street-smart guys are gaining access to funds and a luxury lifestyle off a girl’s beauty and sexuality.

I’ve highlighted many times in this thread how I got my first high-paying tech job through a beautiful girl I started dating.

Here’s how I met her (in case you missed the thread):

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7809463/funny-experience-beautiful-muslim-lady

I leveraged her connections to secure the high-paying job. (I’ll explain more about that in a future post.)


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Trying to get something off a girl naturally makes you more detached and confident because you’re playing a completely different game than the guys who are trying to get something from the girl.

For example, when a guy is trying to get something from a girl, in the early stages of the relationship or interaction, he’s busy trying to be nice, doing favors, or being overly agreeable—just so he can get what he wants from her.

But when you’re trying to get something off a girl, in the earliest stages of the interaction or relationship, you’re making her do little things for you.

Basically, you’re programming her to feel comfortable doing small things for you…so that later, she’ll naturally feel comfortable doing bigger things for you in the relationship.

When I begin an interaction or relationship with a woman, my mindset is:

"What can I gain ‘off’ this girl today, so that if she decides to leave tomorrow, I will feel no loss?"

But the thing is, most guys don’t think this way.

This is why most men take a long time to recover from heartbreak after a painful breakup…because when they look back, they realize how much respect, money, energy, and honor they lost just because they were busy chasing love, affection, and sex from the girl

Pukkalolo:



"What can I gain ‘off’ this girl today, so that if she decides to leave tomorrow, I will feel no loss?"

But the thing is, most guys don’t think this way.

This is why most men take a long time to recover from heartbreak after a painful breakup…because when they look back, they realize how much respect, money, energy, and honor they lost just because they were busy chasing love, affection, and sex from the girl

Very Apt.
When you leverage off her, even she would be unwilling to quit the interaction with you.
Women don't like to lose their investment, they're not bred the same way men are, to take risk.
So when they eventually take such a risk, they'll ensure they get back their investment.
In such a state, they'll behave themselves around you,treat you right and go as far as simping for you.

Like you said most guys don't think this way, they're only after what they can give to her which automatically puts them at a disadvantage.

DonroxyII:
You are An Intellect .....
Why The Star Though, When You Can Aim for the Entire Universes & Everything Therein ...

That's Super Higher Ground Goals .... Immediately Earth becomes a Micro-Objective to a Bigger Game ..... Automatically You Become an Alpha cuz You don't have time for Shitgames ....

That's how Elon Musk left them all behind ....

Women Automatically gravitate towards Money & Cowed to Powers in Submission !

Any other talk talk about women is just Stewpid English .... !

If you have money without Brain, you will waste alot of it on women ....

But if you have Powers, you won't be powerful without ing through Hells and you won't stay powerful without having the wherewithal to shut down the Hells Gates ....

When you realise all your Sufferness, Women would be like Water utilized for cooling off not what you placed your Manhood Upon as a Survival .... Nah !

Many Boys would never turned Men no matter what !

Manhood is not determined by Age ... Some 50yos are still Boys due to Immaturities...

While a Girl is already a woman at 15yo Above & That's why I don't Blame Women For Anything Because Whatever She Becomes, One or Two Men Must Be Involved In Shaping Her Essence(Womenhood)

You're on point Brother.

Like you said, "Why The Star Though, When You Can Aim for the Entire Universes & Everything Therein?"

While others are aiming for the moon, you're aiming for the Universe. That's a strategy move. At first, others might think you're weirdo who doesn't know what he's doing. But you're actually ON TO SOMETHING.

This is because, aiming for the universe would naturally get you the moon, sun and star... Because those things are all in the universe.

For example, Elon Musk moves of buying Twitter, campaigning for Trump to Win the election are all strategic moves. Now, he's busy lunching rockets to Mars...

You might call him weirdo, but he's ON TO SOMETHING. Maybe time will tell. I don't know.

But you need to understand that Elon is focused on higher ground goals.

Most guys chase lower-ground goals, and that’s why they lose out on bigger future opportunities.

Look at Solomon in the Bible. God told him, “ask me for anything you want, and I will give you.”


Most lower ground chasers would have asked for wealthy, riches, power, longevity of life, for his enemies deaths….

But Solomon understand that those are lower ground goals.

So he ask for higher ground goal—WISDOM.

Here's the trick many lower-ground people appear not to realize: Asking for higher virtue—WISDOM, instead of power and riches is an extremely CUNNING request.

It create a win—win situation.

1. He would appear not desperate for power and riches, and this would probably earn God's respect, and inspire God to give him more than what he asked for.

Or

2. Once he gets the higher wisdom, he'd probably use it to harness power and riches for himself.


IT WORKED.

He earned God's respect. And God happily gave him wealth, power, along with what you actually asked — wisdom.


Most people are looking for "destiny helpers" or connections that will change their lives. But because they operate on a lower ground mindset, even when a destiny helper arrives, they either fail to recognize it or somehow sabotage it.

It’s true that beautiful women shit test men. But it’s much easier to a woman’s shit tests when you’re focused on higher-ground goals.

Did you know that rich and wealthy people also test those from lower classes to see if they are worthy of their attention? Most average people fail these tests.

Your so-called destiny helper will test you before deciding whether to help you. If you fail their test, they will simply say:

"You’re not ready. Go work on yourself and come back in a few years."

There’s a reason why wealthy individuals try to distance themselves from poor or average people. This is because they often see them as opportunistic.

Wealthy people and celebrities think:
"This person is only trying to get something “from” me… let me avoid him."

This is why most street-smart guys don’t try to get something from rich people or celebrities. Instead, they focus on getting something “off” them.

Again, there’s a key difference between "from" and "off."

Example: Two Guys Meet Wizkid

Let’s say two guys somehow meet Wizkid at an event. (You know Wizkid, the Nigerian superstar.)

Wizkid says to the first guy:
"Okay, you seem like a cool person. How can I help you?"

The first guy, who is chasing a lower-ground goal, says:
"Ah, Wizzy Baba! Help your boy! I need money… show me love, Baba!"

Wizkid replies, "Okay, what’s your bank ?"
Then he sends him 500k naira instantly—but after that, Wizkid avoids him forever because the guy just failed his test.

Now, Wizkid asks the second guy the same question:
"Okay, you seem like a cool person. How can I help you?"

The second guy, who is focused on higher-ground goals, responds:
"I’m really inspired by your musical talent. I’d love to be of value to you in any way I can."

He just ed Wizkid’s first test, and the interaction continues…

The first guy, who chases lower-ground goals, is focused on instant gratification and immediate reward. Yes, he got the immediate reward (500k naira), but he lost Wizkid’s respect forever, lost the relationship, and missed future opportunities.

The second guy, focused on higher-ground goals, BEHAVES DIFFERENTLY. He delays gratification and, as a result, gradually earns Wizkid’s respect. Soon, he might become part of Wizkid’s crew or gain even bigger opportunities "off" Wizkid.

In a nutshell:

The first guy is trying to take value and get help → Lower-ground goal

The second guy is trying to give value and be of help → Higher-ground goal

Smartb0y:

Very Apt.
When you leverage off her, even she would be unwilling to quit the interaction with you.
Women don't like to lose their investment, they're not bred the same way men are, to take risk.
So when they eventually take such a risk, they'll ensure they get back their investment.
In such a state, they'll behave themselves around you,treat you right and go as far as simping for you.

Like you said most guys don't think this way, they're only after what they can give to her which automatically puts them at a disadvantage.

Well said brother.

@ Bolded is the essence of making a woman feel “comfortable” about taking risks with you.

I’ve said this before: Most times, a woman already knows if she'll Bleep or date you. She has already decided that the moment she sets her eyes on you or, at the latest, within a few minutes of interacting with you.

As a man, your job isn’t to convince her….it’s to make her feel comfortable about moving forward with you.

This is why I define "having game" as the ability to make a woman feel comfortable about taking risks with you.

What Does ‘Risk’ Mean for a Woman?

Opening her legs for you can feel risky for her.

Doing things for you can feel risky for her.

Making any big effort in the interaction can feel risky for her.

Your Goal is to Make her feel comfortable about taking small steps of investment by training her from the beginning to put effort into the interaction.

The Mistake Most Guys Make:

When the typical guy meets a woman, he does all the work:

1. He talks to her and asks for her number.


2. He texts her first or calls her.


The problem is that he’s making all the effort.

He’s not giving her the opportunity to invest in the interaction.

He’s not training her to feel comfortable about taking steps toward him.


How the veteran P!mp or High-Value Man Handles It:

When a confident man meets a woman:

1. Instead of asking for her number, he gives her HIS number or a business card.


2. Then he says something like:



"If you think I’m a cool guy and you’d like to continue our conversation, text me on WhatsApp later. If not, no worries—you can delete my number."

Why does he do this:

1. He shows he’s unattached and willing to walk away.


2. He subtly trains her to put in effort.



If she takes the first small step by texting him, he reinforces the behavior—encouraging her to continue investing and doing things for him.

The General Rule:

Always encourage her to put effort into the interaction from the start

women know that what they want from men (money) they can't survive without, but what men want from women (sex) men can survive without. Women know that what women want from men (money) women can't masturbate and get, but what men want from women (sex) men can masturbate and get. Because what women want from men is a real thing, but what men want from women is simply a feeling. You can create a feeling from nothing but you can't create a real thing from nothing.

And the day men fully realize this is the day the Pussy Cartel will cease to exist.


But as long as men continue to walk in ignorance women are the only winners in this Game, because women get paid while men simply get laid. Women walk away with money, men walk away with mere memories.