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Why would the judge refuse when it's in the best interest of your children?

Nnamdipapa:


What happens when the judge refuses?

I don't mind being called a coward, they are mere words which have no real effect on me.
I won't pay that amount and there is nothing she can do about it.

Samantha125:
Why would the judge refuse when it's in the best interest of your children?

You don't know divorce proceedings are always adverserial with the judge always taking the side of the ex wife?

You never know what men have to through in marriage and during divorces right.

I'm a lawyer, so I know.

What does asking for a monthly financial statement for the expenses paid for your child's upkeep has to do with a judge always taking the side of the ex wife?

It's not like it's gonna cost the wife anything.

Nnamdipapa:


You don't know divorce proceedings are always adverserial with the judge always taking the side of the ex wife?

You never know what men have to through in marriage and during divorces right.

Samantha125:
I'm a lawyer, so I know.

What does asking for a monthly financial statement for the expenses paid for your child's upkeep has to do with a judge always taking the side of the ex wife?

It's not like it's gonna cost the wife anything.

It cost efforts to prepare and keep tabs of all your expenses in a month.

Why do you think people hire book keepers?

Let's perform a small experiment, can you honestly back and write down all your expense from first December to thirty first December 2024?
I used to be a chartered ant before switching to Law so, I know these things are tedious.
I also know no judge will ever grant that request so, you are free to ask but you ain't getting shit. I deal in reality as a pragmatic individual.

There's nothing tedious in keeping all financial records for expenses paid on a child's monthly upkeep...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

You can't even be comparing it with your work as a chartered ant...🤦🤦🤦

You're just trying to come up with all kinds of excuses to avoid taking responsibility as a father... If I'm your ex wife, I'll follow you to Nigeria and still take you to court for child there for the same amount in Naira...

Nnamdipapa:


It cost efforts to prepare and keep tabs of all your expenses in a month.

Why do you think people hire book keepers?

Let's perform a small experiment, can you honestly back and write down all your expense from first December to thirty first December 2024?
I used to be a chartered ant before switching to Law so, I know these things are tedious.
I also know no judge will ever grant that request so, you are free to ask but you ain't getting shit. I deal in reality as a pragmatic individual.

Samantha125:
There's nothing tedious in keeping all financial records for expenses paid on a child's monthly upkeep...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

You can't even be comparing it with your work as a chartered ant...🤦🤦🤦

You're just trying to come up with all kinds of excuses to avoid taking responsibility as a father... If I'm your ex wife, I'll follow you to Nigeria and still take you to court for child there for the same amount in Naira...

Taking responsibility does not include enriching a lazy entitled ex. We are both responsible for the child, let her go and work too.

For the last time, it's CHILD and not spousal ...🤦🤦🤦

Are you sure you're a lawyer? Because it's like you don't know the difference.

Nnamdipapa:


Taking responsibility does not include enriching a lazy entitled ex. We are both responsible for the child, let her go and work too.

Samantha125:
For the last time, it's CHILD and not spousal ...🤦🤦🤦

Are you sure you're a lawyer? Because it's like you don't know the difference.

Ok. I won't continue with ths discussion any further.

Samantha125:

You're just trying to come up with all kinds of excuses to avoid taking responsibility as a father... If I'm your ex wife, I'll follow you to Nigeria and still take you to court for child there for the same amount in Naira...

Reading your comment irritates my eyes tbh. He asked you a very simple question, which child in the US spends $15k per month?it’s very clear to me that you have certainly refused to be logical with your answer. leave your sentiment aside and answer like a human with a functioning brain.

incase you missed the question he asked, which child in the US spends $15k per month
Do you even know what the average annual income in the US is?
the system over there is designed to favor women so they leverage on that.

dkidd:

As in.. headache wan finish me for trying to give the rant some form so it can make sense but for where. And what's sainier FFS... Lawwd I just can't 😥

Samantha125:
The money is for your children and not for the woman... It's CHILD and not spousal ...🤦🤦🤦

Would you prefer your children to suffer just because you can't stand their mother?

Lol it's common knowledge that 80% of the so called "child " is just extra money to finance the woman's lifestyle and hobbies

peanutbutterr:

Thank U jarè... Even the judge its $12k for two kids generous which is and she's trying to make $15k look like nothing for one child. I'm really not surprised

Nnamdipapa:


You are newlywed married shey and lives in SA, in the US, the ex is not obligated to provide any kind of invoice to the man. Infact, i have never heard and ex who provides an invoice to the husband.
The bitch will still block the man from accessing the kids even after the hefty sum.
Even 4 kids will not spend $15k monthy,
How many people makes $15 per month in the US?

Even the judge themselves barely makes that amount after tax.

This whole discussion here is sickening. All I see is are the female folk explaining why the man must die or live a miserable life all because he’s a father.

Little wonder men are scared of marrying death in for of a wife today.

hosemujica:
Even the judge themselves barely makes that amount after tax.

I tire

irumole1975:
➜I saw a post where a man offed himself because an American mandated him to start paying $15,000 every month to his wife who want to leave him. And Nigerian men were crying about how this is evil. I mean I’m suprised to see Nigerians crying and complaining here about sainier clime. Same sainier clime with a perfect system. Same sainier clime where people don’t die because God isn’t capable of killing peopje three once they japa there. Same sainier clime where their women are better than Nigerian women and men should endeavour to marry them instead. Same clime where things are cheap and no one pays rent?

Why complaining? I think Nigerians are just ingrate. Dying in the sainier clime and losing all ur money is worth it. At least you didn’t lose it in Nigeria.

Turns out the amount was closer to $1900 per month and not $15,000.🙄

And I'm guessing you decided to skip the part where I suggested that he should request for a monthly financial statement to ensure that the money is spent solely on the children...🤦🤦🤦

You guys are just cowards... You'd rather let your children suffer simply because you're beefing with their mothers.

dkidd:

Lol it's common knowledge that 80% of the so called "child " is just extra money to finance the woman's lifestyle and hobbies

Samantha125:
And I'm guessing you decided to skip the part where I suggested that he should request for a monthly financial statement to ensure that the money is spent solely on the children...🤦🤦🤦

You guys are just cowards... You'd rather let your children suffer simply because you're beefing with their mothers.

If there's any cowards it should be U lazy ass females who depend on child to survive. I rather be certain my child is getting every money I'm sending than allow one low down dirty tramp use me to finance her lifestyle with her new boyfriend if I ever find myself in such a situation.

I'm not in the mood for arguments today, so you win.

dkidd:

If there's any cowards it should be U lazy ass females who depend on child to survive. I rather be certain my child is getting every money I'm sending than allow one low down dirty tramp use me to finance her lifestyle with her new boyfriend if I ever find myself in such a situation.

Samantha125:
I'm not in the mood for arguments today, so you win.

I didn't realise it's a competition

Okay, that's good.

dkidd:

I didn't realise it's a competition

Lound inspired!

Carndidlaydid:



what makes you think igive a shiiiit bout the money mr sir nnamdipapa..... idont care for the money... the man who killed himself is a wicked soul just like you who would have ran back to nigeria leaving your kid without a father

selfishness at it PEAKSTATE if you ask me


your problem is that you aint seeing the money

How about the women leave the children for the men? Most men will happily take the children without the need to ask for child from the women. But we know sey everybody get agenda.