NewStats: 3,263,227 , 8,179,458 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 07:03 AM 255ru

Taquin:
LOL


I will be turning 30 in June yet I do not feel this pressure. I am a lady.

from all indications you must be doing well for yourself then

Batman2412:
If getting married will benefit you, nobody will pressure you.

wisdom!

Prettygirl200:
Godabeg ooo see what a man of 40 is saying? So you finally married a slave not a wife? What you call soulmate is a woman you will tell to sit down and she will sit down? So apparently she doesn't have a say? You succeeded in marrying a slave and you are happy, nice one!!

at his economic level should he then go for a woman that is wayward.? Mind you his wife might not even be what you are imagining. There are decent girls that are very much very well behaved and respect their man. Not until he begins to show displeasures towards her unnecessarily. I hope you are a good type

Mom007:


Don't mind the guy. He is a clown that always rushes in to comment just to look intelligent and sophisticated.

That aside, don't let anyone pressure you. My immediate younger bro is 35 and doing well by God's grace but I'm the first to tell my folks to let him be when they start with the marriage business. You don't tell a man to go and marry. In fact, I think thats the whole point exactly. If you need to tell a man to marry, then that man is not ready for marriage.

are you married?

Snowx:


Smiles...I was really surprised myself...atleast he would have read first..but it's well with his soul..

maybe he is high at the moment. Just speaking for him

luminouz:

Shût dafuq up!!!

You know damn well he meant a submissive wife but as usual your inadequate comprehension skills and zigzag emotional spectrum made you see red instead of yellow.

Are you married? No! Did you ever pay bride price? No! So how in hell do you have the guts to tell a grown ass man not to look for a submissive woman!

well done Bro. You have done really well.. for this.

She deserves better lashes on are buttocks

OZIOGU1:


I have a very nice beautiful friend of mine, she is a banker, i can connect you guys, 24yrs

Wetin my eyes see as an ex banker 11 years ago I nofit talk, but personally I nofit advise my bro to marry banker.

arkad321:
its too much someone said it to me today again

I can bet you are from the North?

luminouz:

Shût dafuq up!!!

You know damn well he meant a submissive wife but as usual your inadequate comprehension skills and zigzag emotional spectrum made you see red instead of yellow.

Are you married? No! Did you ever pay bride price? No! So how in hell do you have the guts to tell a grown ass man not to look for a submissive woman!

Why are sugarcoating his words? Does it even make sense to control a fully grown adult to sit, stand, run, come, go, lie down, or sleep? She be Bingo?

The guy could have simply said that marry a woman who is understanding and respectful. What does he mean by "a soulmate that you will tell to sit on the ground, and she will"?

Sorry to say, he is one of the worst types of men to marry. Not only do they try to control their partners, but they also try to dictate their partners' existence.

Women are generally understanding. You can explain to a woman how you want things to be, and she will often agree with you, even if she isn’t entirely convinced. But what is the purpose of a man asking a woman to sit on the ground if it is not just to degrade and disrespect her? Only insecure men would even make such a demand, and only a woman with her own insecurities would be willing to accept such an absurd behaviour.

Uchesis:


The same reason Christ didn't get married

Are you dumb?

arkad321:
poverty

lol.

verminnel:
Who you marry is more important than when you marry , as who you marry can determine your life's progression or retrogression.

WantsandMore:
Are you dumb?

If I am dumb, then Christ is dumb too. because i am emulating Jesus

verminnel:
Who you marry is more important than when you marry , as who you marry can determine your life's progression or retrogression.

Prettygirl200:
Godabeg ooo see what a man of 40 is saying? So you finally married a slave not a wife? What you call soulmate is a woman you will tell to sit down and she will sit down? So apparently she doesn't have a say? You succeeded in marrying a slave and you are happy, nice one!!

are u daft or something cant u understand simple sentence

Merry100:

Why are sugarcoating his words? Does it even make sense to control a fully grown adult to sit, stand, run, come, go, lie down, or sleep? She be Bingo?

The guy could have simply said that marry a woman who is understanding and respectful. What does he mean by "a soulmate that you will tell to sit on the ground, and she will"?

Sorry to say, he is one of the worst types of men to marry. Not only do they try to control their partners, but they also try to dictate their partners' existence.

Women are generally understanding. You can explain to a woman how you want things to be, and she will often agree with you, even if she isn’t entirely convinced. But what is the purpose of a man asking a woman to sit on the ground if it is not just to degrade and disrespect her? Only insecure men would even make such a demand, and only a woman with her own insecurities would be willing to accept such an absurd behaviour.

Women are generally understanding, dey play na 😂🤣😅

Nicoddemus:
are u daft or something cant u understand simple sentence

I understood perfectly well, he married a slave hence unmarried men in their 40s are big red flag.

Afolue:
at his economic level should he then go for a woman that is wayward.? Mind you his wife might not even be what you are imagining. There are decent girls that are very much very well behaved and respect their man. Not until he begins to show displeasures towards her unnecessarily. I hope you are a good type

Respect is reciprocal, she's not your slave, you don't tell a full grown adult to sit down in an authorative way. Na wife you marry no be your pikin. The way y'all like to accept what you can't give is disgusting. You don't want your partner to do something talk to her gently about it that's called partnership not commanding her as if na you born her.

ValarDoharis:
Bottomline is a man should marry a woman that listens to him.

Marrying someone that listens to you only if whatever it is you are saying is right, na partner we will be not slave and master, she not a dummy she has her own brains to think too and say No giving her reasons. You men of this generation should know that we aren't rye women of your mother's generation, if you want to get married you should partner with your woman not trying to command respect which you can't give all in the name of marriage. Women aren't y'all slaves.

idahme:



Most of you using this slave word if they tell you noe to bring half of the expenses in a ^{marriage so that you wouldn't be a slave anymore you will start crying and running to your father's houses when you are supposed to be happy.}[b][/b]
Every human on earth has the ability to make money it's not gender based so do not capitalize on that. It's the reasons for feminism , women should empower themselves financially so as not to be disrrspected by the enemy dey call husband's.

You want to take dame decision as your husband (equality) but when it gets to financial equality you start shouting its the man's responsibility to become a slave for you for life una mumu no get part two abeg shift

Using insults to point out your views on what I just said just shows how unlogical you are. Women these days have the potentials and ability to make money more than men, just that y'all are easily intimidated when a woman is more successful than y'all.

It seems you're in a supremacy competition with men. If you carry on with this mentality, you'll lose.

Prettygirl200:
Marrying someone that listens to you only if whatever it is you are saying is right, na partner we will be not slave and master, she not a dummy she has her own brains to think too and say No giving her reasons. You men of this generation should know that we aren't rye women of your mother's generation, if you want to get married you should partner with your woman not trying to command respect which you can't give all in the name of marriage. Women aren't y'all slaves.

ValarDoharis:
It seems you're in a supremacy competition with men. If you carry on with this mentality, you'll lose.

Nothing like competition una no like truth and when y'all see a woman pointing that to you, y'all are triggered!!

luminouz:

Shût dafuq up!!!

You know damn well he meant a submissive wife but as usual your inadequate comprehension skills and zigzag emotional spectrum made you see red instead of yellow.

Are you married? No! Did you ever pay bride price? No! So how in hell do you have the guts to tell a grown ass man not to look for a submissive woman!

Submission shouldn't be forced but should be earned, only a slave should submit to a master not a wife, she's is your partner this is just a way to show that y'all don't view women as humans. When you act right and respect your wife, submission will come naturally. Know this and have peace!!

I'm not triggered, I'm just telling you reality.

Do not set out to do competition with men. The right man will give you the respect you deserve

Prettygirl200:
Nothing like competition una no like truth and when y'all see a woman pointing that to you, y'all are triggered!!

Snowx:
Just 30..Hmm
.the pressure I am facing at 38..I don't want to get depressed but the pressure is much on my side..the pressure I am facing really getting on me..but sometimes I said "I am enough"
Though I am looking for a wife..atleast now I can boast of paying bride price and traditional marriage..she won't be hungry in my house.

But past years I can't boast of even 200,000 and I am the first and bread winner of my family..but as God may have it man can boast of 5million..

Guy take your time..look for something that fetch you money..and start looking for decent girl to settle down in future

The same with me.. am 39yrs not yet married but it is now I want to Marry. Now I can boost of building a house of my own and having a high paying income Business. Assuming I rushed into marriage at 30yrs am not sure I would have achieved what I have achieved now.. well, everybody have it's timeframe. Maybe na my own be this..

ufotty2001:

The same with me.. am 39yrs not yet married but it is now I want to Marry. Now I can boost of building a house of my own and having a high paying income Business. Assuming I rushed into marriage at 30yrs am not sure I would have achieved what I have achieved now.. well, everybody have it's timeframe. Maybe na my own be this..

Wao!! God is great bro.. I cam to discover that everybody has its own pace and time..God will perfect it

ValarDoharis:
I'm not triggered, I'm just telling you reality.

Do not set out to do competition with men. The right man will give you the respect you deserve

Exactly just as the right woman will give you the respect that you deserved, that's to tell you that respect or submission should be earned not forced.

I'm happily married for 13yrs.

Do not say you weren't advised

Prettygirl200:
Exactly just as the right woman will give you the respect that you deserved, that's to tell you that respect or submission should be earned not forced.

Prettygirl200:
Respect is reciprocal, she's not your slave, you don't tell a full grown adult to sit down in an authorative way. Na wife you marry no be your pikin. The way y'all like to accept what you can't give is disgusting. You don't want your partner to do something talk to her gently about it that's called partnership not commanding her as if na you born her.

being submissive is all that is required of a woman in a matrimonial home. Okrika get quality. For example every lady has her class of man that she will regard as masculine to her same as a guy. No man will marry who he can’t control or to say who can’t listen to him in regards as being the head factor in a home.

If your man can’t tell you to sit down and not to leave there, then you must check yourself before you become a wife. That alone es a lot of messages to who you are.

Your ideology is with those kind of couples who share bills in the home equally. I agree. It’s understandable. But mind you, there will always be problems. A man must take care of his responsibilities to a large extent. He should marry a woman of his class and contented

Nnamdipapa:


You are talking crap and should not be taken seriously. Faith ko, faith ni.

Love800:
38 is still young for marriage. As a man, from 20-49, you should be married. If you are 50 and above and not yet married, something is really wrong with you!

You get married at close to 49, don't even bother about having kids anymore. I meant, what is the difference between 49 that you approved of and 50 that you considered late? 40 is late but still okay. At 50 upwards, you can still marry but don't even think about having kids again

Uchesis:

If I am dumb, then Christ is dumb too. because i am emulating Jesus

That’s a stupid thing to say