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4 Reasons she would Cheat on You

By Soibi Versatile



Relationships that are faithful are rare these days. A cheating partner has several reasons for which they may not stay faithful in a relationship. The reason for their infidelity may sometimes be unruly and absurd but ladies often have good reasons for their infidelity in relationships. Here are four reasons she may cheat on you




1) You don't call her often

Ladies are very sensitive to the amount of times you call them daily. When as a guy you fail to call your baby often she may have the impression that you have someone else you call that is why you do not always call her thus promoting her to give her own time to someone else out of fear of your own lack of commitment. It is very vital you try to call her at least twice daily or more. Sometimes send her text messages to make her smile




2) You don't Giver her Quality Time

Quality time in relationships cannot be overlooked. A man in love must show he is in love by the amount of time he sets aside for his baby. No matter how busy a man is he should be able to create time for affectionate conversations. When there is a lack of affectionate convos in a relationship it may create the impression that you are less caring. As a guy try asking her important questions when talking with her. Make her feel you desire to know what is going on in her life and how she is feeling about various situations affecting her. When conversations are lacking in empathy and affection it could open the door to infidelity in the relationship



3) You don't Spend On Her

Giving and love cannot be easily separated as most women judge love based on how generous their man is. If they are in a relationship with someone who rarely gives or is tight fisted they may feel as though they are not worth it that is why he doesn't give them. When someone else who is also trying to woo them decides to give them more it could swing the balance in the relationship. While a few may try to endure the relationship. Many would likely cheat emotionally with another guy who proves to be a giver.



4) You Hide Her from Key People in Your Life

One way of knowing a boyfriend who is not truly sure of who he loves is his refusal to make his love known to key people in his life. A good boyfriend would not hide his girlfriend from his close friends or family . He has has to have people in his life whom he has a rapport with enough to show his lover to. When he hides her from everyone or doesn't let her visit his vicinity or work environment it may be as a result of a lack of commitment on his part and this may raise doubts in her own mind about the seriousness of their relationship thus pushing her to play two sides too. Be fair enough to introduce her to those you trust at least so she can feel comfortable enough in the relationship not to cheat on you.



Women would most likely be stable in relationships where their partner displays some of the trust worthy traits discussed above and an absence of it may be a path down the stairway of infidelity.



Soibi Versatile is Daily Memoirs Chief Writer.

Some of us we hate calls... Three calls in a day should be enough, unless it's something important.

One call is for morning, second call is for during the day, and the last call is for the night... Even two calls can be enough because we have other things to do with our lives during the day.

This thing of calling five times in a day for no particular reason is gonna be a problem, get a life.

All these long epistle sef. Women are CONTROLLED BY THEIR EMOTIONS so whatever she is feeling at a given time determines her actions. Only a handful of them are guided by logic and reasoning. They understand nothing outside how people or circumstances make them feel. Call too much and she says you're monitoring her, expose her to friends and she could say they are exerting bad influence on you and blame her actions on what they did or say.

Just leave matter. Besides you're talking about people who shave their eyebrows only to use pencil to draw it again. You go tire for evidence.

Samantha125:
Some of us we hate calls... Three calls in a day should be enough, unless it's something important.

One call is for morning, second call is for during the day, and the last call is for the night... Even two calls can be enough because we have other things to do with our lives during the day.

This thing of calling five times in a day for no particular reason is gonna be a problem, get a life.

If I dey date you. You go starve for affection o.

Hilarious!

Dude still thinks women need a REASON to cheat.

Namaster:


Hilarious!

Dude still thinks women need a REASON to cheat.

I just dey read the whole thing dey laugh 😂

;DThis guy is a comedian, …. Give her all these things you listed,even more and still watch her cheat with a guy who has vibe more than you….

Namaster:


Hilarious!

Dude still thinks women need a REASON to cheat.

Lol as in

Can you explain the last sentence?

Padipadi:

If I dey date you. You go starve for affection o.

Samantha125:
Can you explain the last sentence?

You hated calls naa and possibly some other things men do as check ups for women.

Booked for nukes.

You said "you go starve for affection o", and want to know what it means in good English.

You know I don't speak pidgin, right?

Padipadi:

You hated calls naa and possibly some other things men do as check ups for women.

A simp has dropped a quote. These days, men only get serious with ladies when they are ready to marry. Outside that, it is pay as you go. If you like treat a woman like a queen, 98 percent of them would still cheat. They can even cheat with someone that doesn't take them serious. As a man, I have been on top of many ladies in bed and their serious boyfriend's were busy calling them

Samantha125:
Some of us we hate calls... Three calls in a day should be enough, unless it's something important.

One call is for morning, second call is for during the day, and the last call is for the night... Even two calls can be enough because we have other things to do with our lives during the day.

This thing of calling five times in a day for no particular reason is gonna be a problem, get a life.

Three calls in a day is too much.
One call (at night) with constant chatter via text or on WhatsApp in a day is ok

Like I said, even two is enough.

Most of the time I prefer calls than WhatsApp, especially if you're a Pedi person because I like chatting in my home language and the autocorrect can be very frustrating.

And with WhatsApp, sometimes the person will see the text much later on when you needed to talk to him ASAP.

Colson:
Three calls in a day is too much.

You have begin on the wrong footing. The goal is not to make her not cheat. The goal is to be hard to replace in consistency and intensity. To achieve this u always upgrade urself spiritually, emotionally, financially and physically. It's not abt her.. it's you versus you. When u re on point. U always have options, control and contribution.

Samantha125:
You said "you go starve for affection o", and want to know what it means in good English.

You know I don't speak pidgin, right?

He will starve you of affection....since you hate calls

Rubbish

Aww!!! Did you just translate for me? A whole Sad African?

Thanks and I shall reward you with xenophobia next time...🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

Starz825:


He will starve you of affection....since you hate calls

Samantha125:
Like I said, even two is enough.

Most of the time I prefer calls than WhatsApp, especially if you're a Pedi person because I like chatting in my home language and the autocorrect can be very frustrating.

And with WhatsApp, sometimes the person will see the text much later on when you needed to talk to him ASAP.

Prefer calls to WhatsApp.

Thanks.

Flows001:

Prefer calls to WhatsApp.