NewStats: 3,259,744 , 8,170,765 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 08:49 PM 4j4k54

Offpoint1:
Headline made it seems like it died because of pressure to get married, while the reason is lack of progress and life struggles.

Rich or broke, marriage is never a man's problem. There are hundreds of women out there ready to marry any type of man.


The man simply lost hope in life, he's not the only one... Millions are going through same thing, they are just hanging on something or fear of afterlife.

If we were consulted before we were born, earth population will be less than a million. Billions of us don't want to be here, if you take religious delusions out... Life has no purpose.

So, you're offpoint, But this your comment is ON-POINT. so true sir. 👍

You see everyone has a different personality and emotional build. Some are introverts while some are extroverts. Some do not have the training of Spiritual emotional intelligence based on the Holy spirit or maybe with family or friends who can train them on how to cope with pain and disappointments. We need to be concerned about our neighbors and close ones especially when we notice they are staying away from people or are beginning to act strange. Above all lets always pray and show love for one another and avoid hurting or taunting others no matter what. RIP and may God comfort the family and close ones...

Oceanfl0w:
No matter what, death is never the answer.

Pray not to have problem

This isn't just about pressure to get married, his rent also expired and he was asked to vacate.

Rip 🪦

No let anyone pressure you!

Sunnyrado:


Good Evening, how was your day, I am a 45 years Old man not married and no kids too, this Year started Bad just yesterday I was sacked from work, and alot of negative thoughts has been through my mind, I was working as a security personnel but, Long story short I was giving letter of termination yesterday I just think I should end at all.

Don't end it my brother. Keep striving.. I hv some online hustles for u which i believe can set u free in d long run. Im sure b4 you 48..you will be financially free

Offpoint1:
Headline made it seems like it died because of pressure to get married, while the reason is lack of progress and life struggles.

Rich or broke, marriage is never a man's problem. There are hundreds of women out there ready to marry any type of man.


The man simply lost hope in life, he's not the only one... Millions are going through same thing, they are just hanging on something or fear of afterlife.

If we were consulted before we were born, earth population will be less than a million. Billions of us don't want to be here, if you take religious delusions out... Life has no purpose.

Well said. Ur Moniker should be Onpoint1.

Marrigae dose and that ask ur self na olosho una wan marry ...when d society in nigeria is upside down

80 percent of women are runs gals ...d few good ones have been engaged abi una wan de share married women with married men na die una wan de

Look dont pressure ur self ..notin de marriage its just a scam ...try born one or two from one street gal with lamba ....and leave her alone amd be happy for d rest of ur life

pocohantas:
Probably a compound issue. No money and no partner to go through life with.

He should have known people must talk.
You marry, they start checking your womb.
You born one, they tell you to give him/her a sibling. You born girls, they say your family name go end. You born boys, they say no daughter to care for you in old age.

Life na per head. As our fingers are unequal, so are our paths also different.

Stand strong and give it time.

May his soul rest in peace.

💯

UDOKABESTLUV:


Source: https://leadership.ng/man-commits-suicide-over-pressure-to-get-married-in-osun/

he died cowardly

UDOKABESTLUV:


Source: https://leadership.ng/man-commits-suicide-over-pressure-to-get-married-in-osun/

Lol He Chickened Out

In as much as i'm older too and i wouldn't want to make mockery of the dead. But somehow he efffed up.

My people are on my Neck too but na Whining we dey end up dey Whine ourselves last last as Machiavellian wey i be. There is no need to be defensive, aggressive or angry. They are all Learners to me😂

I'm not someone anyone can Influence or Shame on Trivial Issues such as Marriage

Me wey i don see Orishirishi Shege with better Aroma for this Life and i no die nor kill myself plus i don read Books tire and i have access to classified informations about life

Well, Different stroke for different folks.

Best of luck to him on his way to Valhalla

Lalami3232:

Imagine what he will tell God when he gets to heaven.
Angel: what took your life?
Man: my family was pressuring me to get married to a non-virgin aka borehole.
Angel: **spits**

Dear fellow nairalanders, don't let anyone pressure you atall. There's always a time/season for everything to manifest, it will surely come to when the time is right. No be me promise to give una an app wey go help in DNA test since last year? I'm getting really frustrated because I never fit accomplish my promise but I'm still holding on, someday E go show. So my people, no accept pressure from people wey no know how things dey go for your side.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news.

Oga before my DNA app come out, oga try to go for DNA test for hospital to check if that pikin wey dey call you daddy should continue or he should start calling you uncle

This one na Weereey

Wetin happen here, Wetin you dey Talk

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Why Do You Say That Please 🥺[/quote]

Didn't you read the story? He has been death starved since 2023........so 2025 finally favoured him.

He could have stayed away from his family pressuring him. The life self no balance. Those who are married with children around him behaving like a god before him could be the reason for his death. When an average low iq Nigerian is married with children, he/she tends to feel like they have made it in life and use that to oppress and intimidate those who aren't married with children. They would begin to show off and make you feel like you are worthless before them. This is where the competition comes. This attitude is more common in women than in men.

Zico5:
What is he doing when his mates are marrying? Everything is not about money. You get to a stage in life that u do what's necessary irrespective of ur situation. If you want to wait till when u get money before getting married, u will wait tire cos money may not come on time. Get a girl, impregnate her and start ur life. I have never seen anyone dying of hunger unless you are a lazy brat.

This one Sense don Kpai😂

Truvelisback:
He could have stayed away from his family pressuring him. The life self no balance. Those who are married with children around him behaving like a god before him could be the reason for his death. When an average low iq Nigerian is married with children, he/she tends to feel like they have made it in life and use that to oppress and intimidate those who aren't married with children. They would begin to show off and make you feel like you are worthless before them. This is where the competition comes. This attitude is more common in women than in men.

Only "Weak Minded People" which i'm aware most Nigerians falls into, Can be intimidated with Societal Norms. Most Nigerians likes to do what their peers are doing.

It's not easy but one has to be Confirm Corporate Weereey and grow Very Thick Skin if you want to triumph over most Nigerians because most of them na Weereeys

People cannot mind their business they continue to pressure you and then when you get married and have kids they won't help you if u cannot meet their basic needs.

PopQueenAgency:
Chei! Na im make we dey tell pipol like Ishilove wey neva marry since 19 gbogboro make dem mind as dem dey waka for nairaland. Person go curse am na, call am opo, agan, she go come enter thread for Agriculture go dey find who go sellam ddt. Tufiakwa!

Hehehe

She and Poco came to my mind as i saw this Thread. I believe both of them would be older than me.

The Pressure no be here but i dey on my Second Ph.D now in Wereey Studies so i go fit Face these Weereey Nigerians😂

I will do my things on my and at the right time that suits me.

Pennilessword1:


The one wey the guy die no do you..you still dey abuse am. Na WA o for you this God fearing people o

what is my own about his dead he dead a foolish man dead and hope.his family will be happy now, no late comer in marriage sir

Ashawoman82:
Oga u are an adult so If u have a very healthy self esteem no one can pressure u even ur family ... Personally anyone that tries it in my family and it becomes much and I'll temporarily block the person both for calls and WhatsApp, that's my mentality... Even my own parent knows.. As a man u need to be very decisive, if babe try pressure u, dump her and move on, ur sanity is more important than any relationship wether blood or romantic.

At last, I don see my Twin brother

phadul:
People cannot mind their business they continue to pressure you and then when you get married and have kids they won't help you if u cannot meet their basic needs.

stand with you 100 % on this sir and they will be the ones to tell him why do you get married when you know that you can not take care of your family

So sad. I don't think he did it just because of pressure to get married. A lot was involved. From the story you can see he was going through a lot trying to survive as best as he could and it was never easy for him. The road was rough and rugged but he just couldn't hold on any more and then accommodation problems, plus his people mounting pressure on him to get married when he can hardly fend for himself. All of that culminated to his decision to just end it all and damn the consequences. The pressures of life got him finally. He wasn't built for it.

Loveenthed:


Lol He Chickened Out

In as much as i'm older too and i wouldn't want to make mockery of the dead. But somehow he efffed up.

Loveenthed:


Hehehe

She and Poco came to my mind as i saw this Thread. I believe both of them would be older than me.

You are older than the deceased, a man well into his 40s and somehow you believe we are both older than you?

I always knew the bile ÿou and your kind display is from a place of emptiness. Continue believing. Hopefully it gives you the needed succour to hang in there. 🤍

Mrexcell:
John cena is almost 50yrs has vehemently refused to get married or have kids with all his millions in dollars yet this one is still killing himself because of marriage.

Same with Don Jazzy.

pocohantas:


You are older than the deceased, a man well into his 40s and somehow you believe we are both older than you?

I always knew the bile ÿou and your kind display is from a place of emptiness. Continue believing. Hopefully it gives you the needed succour to hang in there. 🤍

Lol Read Well

There was no where i said i was "Older Than The Deceased"

I literally mean i'm a Matured Man too.

BTW i'm in my 30's if that's what you want to know and I think i'm old enough to Wife you

Abeg ooo, I'm still young and enjoying my Life.

Loveenthed:


Lol Read Well

There was no where i said i was "Older Than The Deceased"

I literally mean i'm a Matured Man too.

BTW i'm in my 30's if that's what you want to know and I think i'm old enough to Wife you

Abeg ooo, I'm still young and enjoying my Life.

Still continue believing. If the deceased had random women on the internet to compare himself with, I bet he would still be alive. It is working for you. Just tell yourself, Poco and Ishi are single and miserable - I have time. 🫂

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Godwin4444:
so tinubu that took over less than 2 years stopped a 46 years old man from getting married?

What happened between d age of 25- 44?

No wonder the Bible said wise man left d east

..that guy is a great fo*l no mind am

post=133716637:


Why Do You Say That Please 🥺

Permit me to answer your question on his behalf. No be you post the story? You no read am say him attempt suicide twice before this one?

Depression is one fat hell of a hell I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy. Been there in 2012.

Helinues, Yarimo; they won't see this!

Loveenthed:


Hehehe

She and Poco came to my mind as i saw this Thread. I believe both of them would be older than me.

There was a time i usually read a quote on Ishilove Profile which says "Grow Thick Skin" or something. Na now i dey understand that quote very well

The Pressure no be here but i dey on my Second Ph.D now in Wereey Studies so i go fit Face these Weereey Nigerians😂

I will do my things on my and at the right time that suits me.

Correct. Na who pressure epp? Ishilove old Seun sef. Person wey write waec when dem dey call am west africa agency exam council. Dat wan na pikin?