NewStats: 3,259,531 , 8,170,436 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 01:24 PM 474f4o

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Lol stories. Legally she can't take the child away she'll be jailed if she tries nonsense.
We will visit her in prison and later bail her out and put her to her place

70% tendency She have cheated..

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

And when the child hate him what's next , the man will die abi ...dey play .. Lots of orphans needed a father .

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

What stops me from producing other children?
Will my penis suddenly stop working?

You women overrated yourselves.

Samantha125:
Well, if you're going to do it, do it in private, in case the child is yours.

Doing the test in private carries its own risks. If the DNA lab flunks the test they might claim you didn't collect the sample correctly. So the child must go to the lab to hell with the mother

Apart from DNA test, there should be another test to determine whether a wife have any extramarital sex

Husbands that have extramarital sex do not qualify for DNA test

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

madam it's a lie.....
u think u can tie men of these day with children?
sidon there , they will impregnate another woman

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Urs was finally getting to suk my dik while ur dad watch

She is a Very useless woman ...... guiltless conscience fears no accusations

PantShifter:


Someone should please call the mental health people, this person has gone mad o!

No be madness my brother.
You know say anger n madness na the same thing but different word. We no fit tell who provoke him.

Anytime a woman makes this type of statement guy she's not to be trusted. Whether she's your gf or wife make sure that DNA test is done. I have seen women naked themselves in the public swearing that they didn't cheat. When they actually did. If there wasn't concrete evidence they would have believed her.
You can't trust anything that comes out of that genders mouth. Only evidence will save you and that's conducting that DNA test.

Make the slut go use her reverse psychology on foolish men. not with you.

This is just a lame excuse...😑😑😑

Groovedaddy:


Doing the test in private carries its own risks. If the DNA lab flunks the test they might claim you didn't collect the sample correctly. So the child must go to the lab to hell with the mother

brain54:


Apologies...

But this your reasoning sounds rather myopic.

So you as a man you stand nothing to lose right? You are happy the burden of finance would be relieved from you... But you forgot other areas of lose like raising your child as a father in a broken home. Etc.

You see leaving the responsibility and burden of taking care of the child as punishment to her.

Not all women are dependent on their man by the way.

The lose you will face is not quantifyable and just because you don’t see it doesn't mean it's not there.

Everybody loses in the end... Including the unborn child!

What is the percentage of women not dependent on men

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Dey play.

EmperorCaesar:


I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

Well , many men have had your mindset and end up regretting the decision. The test is worth the risk. It saves you years of doubt and oh we ain't all perfect anyways. It's not about trust. It's about being sure.

Funny enough "Your child" instead of our child, and when the child starts asking about the father she will probably lie to the child that the dad ranaway, or the dad doesn't care that's why she left, or the dad is dead.

You will go and leave the child

beyep:
If i did dna testing she finds out and want a divorce i will gladly give her d divorce, used species think they are special, stupid empty leeches with only child bearing to offer

Hmmm

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Lol! I laugh so much at your ignorance and just like someone here said earlier,"you watch too much Nollywood movies"!

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

DNA test is not a foolish decision. The narratives on your earlier post are not enough reasons to keep a man who has doubts from doing DNA test. BTW, Kuwait makes it mandatory by law

Ke re ga ke lebelele Nollywood man...😑😑😑

VEHINTOLAR:


Lol! I laugh so much at your ignorance and just like someone here said earlier,"you watch too much Nollywood movies"!

Is Nigeria Kuwait?

victorVIC1:


DNA test is not a foolish decision. The narratives on your earlier post are not enough to keep a man who has doubts from doing DNA test. BTW, Kuwait makes it mandatory by law

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

I used to think you had sense but...SMH!

joseph1832:
See it this way, men don't just rush to conduct DNA test on their kids. There is always a reason.. So, in this case,if hubby conducted a DNA test hours after you gave birth, it's because your fidelity is seriously in doubt. I mean, the red flags have been flung over his face, so he needs to know.

For a woman giving a man 100% loyalty doesn't mean she can't cheat on him. Loyalty here doesn't necessarily mean not cheating, but helping out with finance and the likes.

Hope you know, a woman can be helplessly in love with a man, and still cheat on the man? These things aren't written in black and white. I'll say it shouldn't bother you if hubby decides to do a DNA test, just let him, when the test is positive, you have him by the balls. It's proof of your fidelity and loyalty. Then you can dominate...

Oh, and I will squeeze those dangly balls until he sings in soprano 😑

Sapasenator:


I have never had a need for a DNA but if I have to, it would be private and confidential but God help you if DNA confirms I am not the father of the child. Lol

That's the point. It has to be private and confidential because if the result confirms you're the father and your spouse finds out, it will cause a lot of emotional damage

Samantha125:
This is just a lame excuse...😑😑😑

Not when u are paying the 350k required

Still lame... Doing a DNA on a child doesn't require the mother's presence.

Groovedaddy:


Not when u are paying the 350k required

Ishilove:

In the context of this post, yes I would.

Giving birth is a risky venture, one where the woman is between life and death. She has gone through unimaginable pain and torture to push out another living being from her body and is yet to fully recover. Now, after going through that kind of experience, only to hear that your spouse went to conduct a DNA test while you're still on the hospital bed smacks of callousness. The woman in this post wrote "after I just finish pushing out a baby", so this means the test was conducted within hours or days of the baby's delivery.

So yes, I would be willing to walk out of a marriage where my safety and well being is not a priority, but rather whether I have been díck hopping is.

Now, in other scenarios, if you want to do a DNA test on my children with you, feel free to go ahead, but never let me know. Make sure you do it in secret, because if I find out, it will taint the love I have for you and I will never forget how you doubted my fidelity and betrayed me. Where I gave you 💯 of my affection, it will go down to 40 or 50% because after all my loyalty, you still doubted me enough to run a DNA test on children that belong to you. I will NEVER trust you again.


Sapasenator, koldrun

As much as I would like to agree or sympathise with your perspective, and not dismissing your feelings, your comment equally reeks of desperation and emotional blackmail.

What most people don't discuss and fail to realise is the sensitivity connected to the issue of DNA test, and what it means for the man. In some cases, it's about paranoia rather than distrust for the wife. I would expect the man to find a pragmatic means to clear his doubts and satisfy his curiosity. How he does that is another subject entirely.

My take.

Samantha125:
If you have the means to pay the lawyers, then you can do that.

Your words are so irritating... Gosh!

He has money for dna, to pay a lawyer would suddenly become impossible.. he can even represent himself in court...


Is that how you guys process stuffs in SA? Pathetic!

EmperorCaesar:


I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

Trust has been betrayed by women many times without number, it is even when she feels u trust her that she il use u to cook pepper soup. If she divorces n d child is the husbands I il advice d guy to cool down, she il come asking for child in a few years. Then he il give her a though condition.

Happy Sunday to you too...

Mayor555:



Your words are so irritating... Gosh!

He has money for dna, to pay a lawyer would suddenly become impossible.. he can even represent himself in court...


Is that how you guys process stuffs in SA? Pathetic!

Real2088:
Am not in of infidelity but I plainly told my man that any day he woke up and have decided to run DNA I wouldn't stop him just that he should make sure he finishes what he started,from baby 1 to baby 4, He should as well forget about trust in that marriage and focus on that his peace of mind that lead him to that Test

Hahahaha , mind control at its finest. Only a woman like you can pull this off....BRAVO 👏

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

You self reason am. Your husband conducts DNA test on your child. You find out and file for divorce. So, when you are gisting with the men you meet in future, you will open her mouth waah and say the reason you are a divorced woman is because your husband conducted DNA without your knowledge.

Does it even make any sense to you? Do you think any sane man will marry her with such reasoning? It's her loss o. Because no sane man will marry a woman with such reasoning. Hence, she remains a divorcee for the rest of her life. While the man will effortlessly remarry and bear more children.