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My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off.

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose?

This case has been resolved several times

Divorce the one with the smallest ass..
Simple as ABC

Omoawoke:
This case has been resolved several times

Divorce the one with the smallest ass..
Simple as ABC

LMAOOOO

paxx:
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose?

A man still manipulated and controlled by his parents for thier selfish interests is not a man. Put your self in her shoes if the tables were reversed. All you feminine men will come here screaming and call her names but here you are indecisive and worse off living your life on your father's . Most of you guys are weaklings. I bet you plait hair like women too. gay boy

Ofcos you're really crazy.. You married the person wey abort ur child... Hmm ok, continue..

IfyAwazie:
Ofcos you're really crazy.. You married the person wey abort ur child... Hmm ok, continue..

can u abort the child of a man who loves u

paxx:


can u abort the child of a man who loves u

.. God forbid

IfyAwazie:
.. God forbid

what if u suspect he will marry someone else

paxx:
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off.

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose?

You can go ahead and marry the lady selected for you. I totally understand that you are a child incapable of making life-long decisions, thus your parents must be applauded for stepping in. Don't worry about your two-year relationship. Just make sure you delete your address from Karma's visiting list.

Do well to watch war room before marrying your highly connected wife. Congratulations and all the best.

Confusing write up.

She took hard decision aborting your child..you too take hard decision divorcing her and follow the money...Good women no dey finish.

Gorgeous gorgeous without getting to know her

Their are so many beauties without brain

You were not supposed to marry any of them in the first place until you've resolved the issue of your family's dominance over your choice as a grown up man. That's the foundation of your problems. If that isn't settled, you'll have a big problem in future like you're already having now and it may extend to your children if care is not taken and expect bigger problems still

Look for a third one with bigger boobs and giant ass than the first two.

Which of them have good character

The girl who aborted your child made the job of choosing easier for you. God knows I can never marry a girl who deliberately aborts my child, never.

paxx:


what if u suspect he will marry someone else

... Say NO to abortion

What will make a lady abort the pregnancy of a guy she claims to love?
Guy use ur tongue count your teeth.

Abortion is a deal breaker for me( no matter how e be or what caused it).

Secondly, you don't want to be at war with your family. Nobody will love u more than your family.

Thirdly, think about the future.

Ask questions before you leap, to avoid had I known.
Happy Sunday

paxx:
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off.

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose?

Your post is the reason why your parents even chose for you….because you as a man don’t even know what you want for yourself. Imagine coming online to ask this silly question. Do what pleases you.

paxx:
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off.

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose? First and foremost, you are a confused soul and u are not a man but a boy. Secondly u dont even knw what you want and I wonder wetin those gals dey do with you; may be because u get small change.... Lastly, u no need advice but factory reset

Okay you need to face your reality and ask yourself one simple question, if your life went south, who among them would stay by you. Don't look at shinying objects, then don't last ..look at geniuness ...just carry a loyalty test ...

Who else feels like hi-fiving this guy with a chair?

A confused man.

Enjoy your situation alone

You didn't consult any of us before you made the foolish decision.

Don't come and add to my anger today

I doubt the authenticity of this story sha! Because who take such decisions without thinking about the possible outcome.

You’re one STVPID idiot bastard devil fool

Your STVPID pathetic putrid bastard shit eating demon of a LovePeddler BAs TARD idiot mother will rot and di.e with your STVPID pathetic foolish existence

Fvcking STVPID idiot bastard devil bastard animal idiot bastard

Blitzking:
She took hard decision aborting your child..you too take hard decision divorcing her and follow the money...Good women no dey finish.

fearle55:

A man still manipulated and controlled by his parents for thier selfish interests is not a man. Put your self in her shoes if the tables were reversed. All you feminine men will come here screaming and call her names but here you are indecisive and worse off living your life on your father's . Most of you guys are weaklings. I bet you plait hair like women too. gay boy

Perfectly said

Bleep what your parents want

They will forgive you in the end

Marry the one that loves you and respects you

That goes for the wedding too

Her parents don't need to like you as a man

Just how you treat her and you make her happy

Your life
Her life

Your future
Her future

Your happiness
Her happiness

Your woman
Her man

So your decision
And her decision

And Bleep what anyone else says

Your family won't be around forever and at some point your happiness has to come first

fearle55:

A man still manipulated and controlled by his parents for thier selfish interests is not a man. Put your self in her shoes if the tables were reversed. All you feminine men will come here screaming and call her names but here you are indecisive and worse off living your life on your father's . Most of you guys are weaklings. I bet you plait hair like women too. gay boy

Fathers in Nigeria are nothing but bullies and with bullies you have 3 options

1) shut up and take it like the bitch You are

2) learn to run but you learn to run fast because you'll be running forever

3) be a man and stand up for yourself 1 good blow to a glass jaw changes everything

Most men are big not hard and mostly it's little men with big egos

paxx:
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off.

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose?

which one get the biggest nyaash?

...

Yaiba:
You’re one STVPID idiot bastard devil fool

Your STVPID pathetic putrid bastard shit eating demon of a LovePeddler BAs TARD idiot mother will rot and di.e with your STVPID pathetic foolish existence

Fvcking STVPID idiot bastard devil bastard animal idiot bastard

Are you male or female? Wetin I do? E pain you?

paxx:
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together.

My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME.

Who should I pick?

The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her.

The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off.

I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy)

Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one.

If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family.

What should I choose?

I guess you are asking from who will always be referee whenever, two of you want to play bedmatic game.

Still doesn't know, why someone who is mature to marry will be asking unseen multitude, the woman that she plans to be leaving with.

Marry both but don't let them live together in same house with you make war no go dey

Who asked you divorce any of them


Is this not a win win situation for everyone.

As long as you can sustain it, you are free to marry two or more, ask Alhaji Ned.