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horia: 10:42pm On Dec 28, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Normal native hen mentality..

For a man to have the balls to splash thousands of naira on DNA test alone should be an enough reason to show to the female cockerel that the husband has got value for his future peace of mind......

Even my dogs and their puppies will never escape from DNA test so long they're under my roof undecided

DNA test is way cheaper than naming ceremony and ignorantly and foolishly training another man's child for free of charge..So it's left for a reasonable man to decide on which one to go for undecided...

So therefore make she get out and get lost too undecided

Too many women don’t understand talk-less of value men's peace of mind. That is why they talk and act anyhow

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skywalker240(m): 10:43pm On Dec 28, 2024
Arabk25:
Well to me DNA test is needless if I even think of running it police fit just lock me up because my 2 boys looks exactly like me infact I vomit them I swear. Doctor fit just pursue me from hospital 🏥 with niddle
Rest

DNA results should be a compulsory thing.

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Orlu13: 10:45pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.



look at this fool.... so after I have paid her bride price she will now take d child...it's like u Haven't been beaten before..stupid hoe


I'm sure dats what ur mum did to ur dad..idiot

carry dat ur useless southy mentality out of here
idahme(m): 10:49pm On Dec 28, 2024
PantShifter:
I understand the point she's making


That time of understanding has past, in the 50s,60s, 70s, until the 90s we will understand her but not anymore.

Women always say men are cheats but whenever DNA is mentioned they start blowing hot, what does that tell you? grin

DNA testing is going to that point where it will be done before a man signs on the birth certificate of the child.. If thesame DNA testing is required for traveling she will oblige without questioning the issue of trust to the embassy. When a lady tells me her blood group is AA i should take it hook line and sinker and not do w confirmatory test because o trust her. Those days are gone, there is more on the line for hik to loose than to just trust a woman and assume alll is well even when there may be signs of cracks

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Okechinwadike: 10:50pm On Dec 28, 2024
advanceDNA:


Progesterone logic: women always want men to feel they doing men a favour by birthing the same children they want......so any child thats comes out of their womb, u supposed gladly collect without doubting..their reason..... it's not easy to carry baby for 9months... grin grin

The day a lady told me that men don't have right to be upset at their bullshit and bad behaviors because they do oainful monthly period was when I found out just how unable and manipulative some women can be...
someone told me that she is doing me a favour sitting with me to eat my money. Lol, my own hard earned money ooooo . Leeches here and there, ndi ara, ndi ara

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Jovin894: 10:50pm On Dec 28, 2024
Mumu ... It means u are not sure if ursef .. a lot of men are climbing u then ...why are u afraid... Divorce him na.. plenty women dey and u no go see husband ... Who dey marry after 1 or 2 Again?
Orlu13: 10:52pm On Dec 28, 2024
ukaface:

If you have this mentality about females, then you shouldn’t have any relationship with her talk more of getting the used specie pregnant.

Just wondering


apart from child bearing and sex, wat do I need useless fools like u women for...

Man was busy enjoying his rest, I don't know who sent God to go and create women...I don't know who sent him

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Gandrova: 10:57pm On Dec 28, 2024
Easier said than done. VDM elder sis grin
Peliman: 11:06pm On Dec 28, 2024
Not when I am on this earth, not even this part of the world ,she will bring it back in distress except I chose to sit down dey look.We are Africans so this isn't Western world where woman can lay total claim on child.
JASONjnr(m): 11:13pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

I have healthy sperm to produce more kids....

If she takes the child away, I will collect all the marriage rites and what I spent to get her hand in marriage and have her keep the child and I move on.

It's a simple thing, having a DNA is telling yourself that your child is youre and you have every right to invest and take rubbish from the child.
deji17: 11:27pm On Dec 28, 2024
This one lack ability.
Omoejigbahe(m): 11:30pm On Dec 28, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy

The next man will conduct DNA too, na she go marry tire.
Austineva2: 11:37pm On Dec 28, 2024
PantShifter:
I understand the point she's making
says by an understanding man ☺️
tiswell(m): 11:39pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
story!
All these reverse psychology talks filled with manipulations and emotional blackmail,will only affect a simp.

Times have changed and era of women manipulating children against their dads is fast eroding.

It might be different only IF the child isn't truly biologically his father's.
deji17: 11:40pm On Dec 28, 2024
The decision to take care of another man pikin should be left to the man to decide and not through paternity fraud.

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Praktikals1000: 11:44pm On Dec 28, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
Your problem is you watch too much of Nigerian film undecided
Arabk25(m): 11:55pm On Dec 28, 2024
skywalker240:

Rest

DNA results should be a compulsory thing.
Yes to those who wants to do it cus paternity fraud is on the rampage

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Bar1941(m): 11:56pm On Dec 28, 2024
Mumu


If I’m your husband, you will only know I did a DNA test if the result is negative, and at that time, I’d already sent you a divorce letter.
Susily(m): 11:57pm On Dec 28, 2024
casualobserver:
Like I said in a previous test, do your test secretly and don’t use your real name. Destroy all evidence, you are doing the test for yourself not for the world or the woman. If it confirms the child is yours, nobody needs to ever know. But as a man you must do test.

No woman will ever forgive you if she knows you did a test and the child turns out to be yours and I won’t blame her. From the day she finds out never sleep with both eyes closed again and be very afraid once those children are grown and educated and hence you are no longer needed.


That's bullshit
Maeve7: 11:58pm On Dec 28, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Normal native hen mentality..

For a man to have the balls to splash thousands of naira on DNA test alone should be an enough reason to show to the female cockerel that the husband has got value for his future peace of mind......

Even my dogs and their puppies will never escape from DNA test so long they're under my roof undecided

DNA test is way cheaper than naming ceremony and ignorantly and foolishly training another man's child for free of charge..So it's left for a reasonable man to decide on which one to go for undecided...

So therefore make she get out and get lost too undecided

Married yet?
Nigerianization(m): 12:03am On Dec 29, 2024
Samantha125:
It will bring him peace of mind... Money alone will never buy you happiness if you don't have any inner peace.

That's why some millionaires and billionaires still suffer from depression despite having a lot of money.

Life is not always white or black. Sometimes it could be different shades of grey. Ned has children that he's not on talking with their mothers because he needed to divorce them so he can retain four statutory wives according to Islamic injunction. You think he cares whether the kids want his money or not? The mentality that children can be groomed to hate their parents is why many women use them as weapons when fighting their spouses. It is the child that suffers in the end.

Any woman that loves her child will consider that child when making decisions. Any man that does a DNA test is only trying to be certain that who he has as a child is truly his. If that child is raised otherwise, then, the mother of the child is vile and evil.

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Apcshyte: 12:07am On Dec 29, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

There are 2 things. The child belongs to the husband or not.
luminouz(m): 12:21am On Dec 29, 2024
Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?
Lol...like he said you watch too many Hollywood movies.
Women who talk like that online don't do shiit. It's just a manipulative tactic which always doesn't work, on me!!!

You really think such a woman will divorce the husband after DNA test....and walk away with the kid...in Nigeria?🤣🤣🤣🤣. Especially if the kid is yours after DNA test?

She is leaving without that kid which turns out to be her loss
luminouz(m): 12:23am On Dec 29, 2024
brain54:


Who go lose as how...?
You always simp so hard online....

And you still won't get the pucci!!!

Mûmû
koldrun: 12:25am On Dec 29, 2024
luminouz:

You always simp so hard online....

And you still won't get the pucci!!!

Mûmû
Really Underrated m*mu
TheWolfen(m): 12:25am On Dec 29, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.
madam sit down please. DNA test has come to stay in this new world.
NiceLegs(m): 12:39am On Dec 29, 2024
Divorce him now.

Becos he will divorce you if he does that same DNA test and finds out the child is not his.
casualobserver: 12:44am On Dec 29, 2024
Susily:



That's bullshit

You don’t know women! A woman will hold a grudge till the moment she doesn’t need you anymore. Observe the number of women who “abandon”. their husbands once their last child has graduated. At the heart of it are things you did years ago, you thought she had forgotten or forgiven.

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Sapasenator: 12:49am On Dec 29, 2024
Ishilove:

💯

Ishi, so hypotheticaly speaking, if your husband opts for a DNA to confirm paternity of one of your child, will you serve him a divorce notice?
Ishilove: 1:02am On Dec 29, 2024
joseph1832:
why would you walk out on a marriage because DNA test was conducted?
In the context of this post, yes I would.

Giving birth is a risky venture, one where the woman is between life and death. She has gone through unimaginable pain and torture to push out another living being from her body and is yet to fully recover. Now, after going through that kind of experience, only to hear that your spouse went to conduct a DNA test while you're still on the hospital bed smacks of callousness. The woman in this post wrote "after I just finish pushing out a baby", so this means the test was conducted within hours or days of the baby's delivery.

So yes, I would be willing to walk out of a marriage where my safety and well being is not a priority, but rather whether I have been díck hopping is.

Now, in other scenarios, if you want to do a DNA test on my children with you, feel free to go ahead, but never let me know. Make sure you do it in secret, because if I find out, it will taint the love I have for you and I will never forget how you doubted my fidelity and betrayed me. Where I gave you 💯 of my affection, it will go down to 40 or 50% because after all my loyalty, you still doubted me enough to run a DNA test on children that belong to you. I will NEVER trust you again.




Sapasenator, koldrun

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nani212(m): 1:06am On Dec 29, 2024
Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

From what you wrote, I guess it’s absolutely right for her to tell lies to the child to make the child hate the father

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