NewStats: 3,261,165 , 8,173,248 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 12:02 PM 3n5uk

OLAADEGBU:
Jamie Foxx has declared that he's done dating white women in a song on his new Netflix special, singing he's been 'cured' and is 'back on the black side of town'.

What Had Happened Was… arrived on the streaming platform on December 10 and began with the Django Unchained actor, 56, revealing that he suffered a stroke caused by a bleed on the brain, causing him to lose his memory for 20 days.

He also denied rumors that his health scare had anything to do with the disgraced mogul Sean 'Diddy' Combs.

But before the credits rolled, Jamie opted to inject some light-heartedness into proceedings.

Sitting down at a piano, the Hollywood star sang: 'Sisters, I'm here to tell you, I've been cured.

'I've been cured of everything, no more white girls. I'm serious, no more white girls. No more white girls. No more. No more white girls.'

As audience applauded and leapt out their seats, Jamie continued: 'I'm back on the Black side of town!

'No more white girls. No more potato salad and raisins. No more white girls. No more spray tan, no more big t*tties no ass, no more white girls.'

Jamie has had several high-profile relationships over the years with both black and white women.

In 1993 he dated Connie Kline, and the pair went on to welcome daughter Connie one year later.

Between 1996 and 2001, he was linked to Haitian actress Garcelle Beauvais, before going on to date actress Leila Arcieri in 2005.

In 2008, Jamie dated Kristin Grannis, the mother of his second daughter, Anelise.

He then enjoyed a six-year romance with Katie Holmes from 2013 to 2019

But if a white man sang the reverse of this, they'll say it's racist or derogatory.

Double standards everywhere!!!

bizbro:


White women < Black American women < Nigerian women.

Brother!

Checkwell:
Jimmy should shut up. Always forcing himself to be in the news for stupid reasons. Is he a kid?

It's called... SHOWBIZ

doggedfighter:
Are they the reason for his stroke ?


I thought I have been reading here that white women gives peace and prolonged life span.

That black women are problematic.

What happened in his case ?

A troublesome woman especially the one raised by single mother can give you stroke

doggedfighter:
Are they the reason for his stroke ?


I thought I have been reading here that white women gives peace and prolonged life span.

That black women are problematic.

What happened in his case ?

The stroke affected his brain is what happened. 😂

BlackfireX:
We don't know him here in USA, maybe the 11 weeshi.thol.e Nigeria might know him.

1Sharon:


Black men that date white women are taking the white man's leftovers.

Knew I'd find you here .. saying rubbish as usual

Black man, you no get. White man? He doesn't want you. You have become embittered. Shiloh is going on. Kindly online and you will be blessed. Year is almost over oh

Mariangeles:


I swear, you overestimate yourself.

Truth be told the contrary seems to be the case.

redcliff:


Anywhere wey you carry this talk go, i go stand inside witness box with you!

I watched the Netflix comedy and it was pretty good.

His daughters stayed with him and stood for him. He seemed a great father.

luminouz:

Knew I'd find you here .. saying rubbish as usual

Black man, you no get. White man? He doesn't want you. You have become embittered. Shiloh is going on. Kindly online and you will be blessed. Year is almost over oh

Enjoy your white love. Nobody dey drag am with you.

As you eat the meat, don't forget to suck the bones.

bluefilm:


Maybe Diddy fucking_ him in the ass helped in resetting his brains to default setting?

How you know this?

Or you like rumor, too?

haybhi1:
lol you don high I swear...

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But really, women scare me. Like the idea of having to live with someone who'll fit me is a hard search and work. Me who has been so single my whole life and been accustomed to that life of peace sorta, I'll now have to always want to please someone everyday of my life so she doesn't get angry, have to tolerate shits because I'm married—I who is extremely logical in ideology and hate mediocrity and nonsense. I who may want to be a particular way a particular day and I must now adjust. The list is long. I don't know how I'll cope as a married man and, at late 20's, I'm probably getting old.

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And the possibility of you taking everything I've toiled for and loved if I ultimately get successful, like children and wealth... No! For this particularly, I might just have to kill us two. I hate oppressors with ion.

Do you finally see where many modern women are coming from? I'm not trying to be a feminist or anything but the very life you are worried about is what many women in the past and presently have been told is the only way to be married. You hear people tell women if you are not willing to give up on yourself and your dreams for your husband then you are not ready to marry. You hear people say being a wife material is a woman who isn't too opinionated and too focused on her comfort.

I'm not disputing that there are bad women but men for too long have hated the idea that women say many men are bad. I once read a group chat between older women those over 50 and one said if women treated men the way men treat women, men would think their wives hate them. These were not the words of GenZ ladies but mothers born over 50 years ago.

You will see after this comment many will attack me for saying modern women also have the same fear as you have now. They won't tackle you for your own fear but will tackle me for saying that your fear is also the fear of many women.

Nonetheless, I stand by the fact that many people have married right to good spouses and their lives have drastically gone from good to great. The point is calming down and not rushing to marry. If it takes till you are 45 to find the right person as a man or woman then wait. Worrying about children, money, respect etc is what has gotten many into horrible marriages.

Until you find a person who makes your single life look sub par stay single so you won't ruin the life or another person's child and they won't ruin yours. And above all let God choose. If you like believe in God or don't, the only person that can truly tell you who a person is and who they'll become is their creator. Even you self don't know yourself well. Humans are fickle by nature so turn to God to help you find the less fickle.

But what do I know I'm just a woman and one with zero wife material in the bag.

1Sharon:


Black men that date white women are taking the white man's leftovers.

So, who takes the Black man's leftover?

1Sharon:


Enjoy your white love. Nobody dey drag am with you.

As you eat the meat, don't forget to suck the bones.

Clown ass!!!

You think these are my realities? 😂😂😂

If only you knew!!! But then, i understand these are types of guys approaching you,so it's all good

Fishlips

Dvea:



Do you finally see where many modern women are coming from? I'm not trying to be a feminist or anything but the very life you are worried about is what many women in the past and presently have been told is the only way to be married. You hear people tell women if you are not willing to give up on yourself and your dreams for your husband then you are not ready to marry. You hear people say being a wife material is a woman who isn't too opinionated and too focused on her comfort.

I'm not disputing that there are bad women but men for too long have hated the idea that women say many men are bad. I once read a group chat between older women those over 50 and one said if women treated men the way men treat women, men would think their wives hate them. These were not the words of GenZ ladies but mothers born over 50 years ago.

You will see after this comment many will attack me for saying modern women also have the same fear as you have now. They won't tackle you for your own fear but will tackle me for saying that your fear is also the fear of many women.

Nonetheless, I stand by the fact that many people have married right to good spouses and their lives have drastically gone from good to great. The point is calming down and not rushing to marry. If it takes till you are 45 to find the right person as a man or woman then wait. Worrying about children, money, respect etc is what has gotten many into horrible marriages.

Until you find a person who makes your single life look sub par stay single so you won't ruin the life or another person's child and they won't ruin yours. And above all let God choose. If you like believe in God or don't, the only person that can truly tell you who a person is and who they'll become is their creator. Even you self don't know yourself well. Humans are fickle by nature so turn to God to help you find the less fickle.

But what do I know I'm just a woman and one with zero wife material in the bag.

So you ain't married?

Dvea:
1. Do you finally see where many modern women are coming from? I'm not trying to be a feminist or anything but the very life you are worried about is what many women in the past and presently have been told is the only way to be married. 2. You hear people tell women if you are not willing to give up on yourself and your dreams for your husband then you are not ready to marry. 3. I'm not disputing that there are bad women but men for too long have hated the idea that women say many men are bad. 4. They won't tackle you for your own fear but will tackle me for saying that your fear is also the fear of many women. 5. If it takes till you are 45 to find the right person as a man or woman then wait. 6. Worrying about children, money, respect etc is what has gotten many into horrible marriages. 7. If you like believe in God or don't, the only person that can truly tell you who a person is and who they'll become is their creator. 8. But what do I know I'm just a woman and one with zero wife material in the bag.

Omo, na VN I for use for this long text cos it's exhausting but I feel a need to clear most of your positions.
1. There are no modern or ancient women or men. All women are women and all men are men. And everyone has their life to live, no one's holding anyone.

2. "You hear people...", "you hear people..." why's this common in your text? What concerns one with what people think if what they do aren't illegal? What's with people with I and my relationship. You'll do what you want and care less what people think na, after all we all come to life differently. It's a sham they say give up your dreams/careers bla bla for marriage. Who dares tell NOI to give up her dreams for her husby? If Rihanna married one dunce like that in Nigeria, we won't hear her name o. I can't even allow my daughter marry any man that lets her dreams die as far as her dreams are reasonable not to be Olosho or something. You have no point here.

3. There as many bad women as there are men. Everyone get their own for body.

4. I don't think anyone should attack you for your opinions. After all, no one would bat an eye if you were oyinbo. Plus, man and woman na the same,everyone has the right to their fears and dignity. However, I think what agitates men is the fact that most women like to eat their cake and still have it. You see a lady LovePeddler through her younger years and give this dude no single attention all the time he was broke and building himself, but the moment he's attained success and she got unfortunate not to nick a good/stable man in her hay days, you see them around him—naturally he's expected to be agitated. Won't you too? Although, some ladies are lucky sha, while some aren't. It's life na. Never fair.

5. Well, it's draining having to wait. And you may never even see that exact person you want your whole life as DNAs and circumstances are different for each person alive. That's why the need to both come down to a common place and tolerate each other exist—not one party doing that, while both respect the other's differences, given these are with limits.

6. This is absolutely correct. I second it. Society's or social's blunder.

7. Have you seen anyone God told specifically this is who you are or will be or something? Aren't we all just doing trial and error with live? Although some are endowed and lucky from birth but most obviously aren't. How exactly then does God tell you this person or thing is right for you?

8. Bad you have no wife material in bag yet you believe in God, Who enact the concept of husband and wife. Personally, I'm too much of an husband material in fact. It's my fear of abusing that by women that even grips me. Because to be a husband or a wife material is to be a father, mother or particularly, human material.
Is it hard to be a material for one's partner ni, isn't it just to be there for one another within one's capacity or there's something I'm missing? Seems you people, men and women, enjoy making life hard for you two.

9. Meanwhile, in addedum to '2', you need to understand that a bad marriage is different between a man and a woman. I've seen men living in America, came home and went to village to pick a wife, who later facilitated his deportation from US, loss of access to their children and his wealth. Lol, how many women gets this treatment? Life's a bit fairer for y'all, tbh. A 20-25 YO lady is open more opportunities than a 20-25 YO man, all things being equal—are you aware?

luminouz:

Clown ass!!!

You think these are my realities? 😂😂😂

If only you knew!!! But then, i understand these are types of guys approaching you,so it's all good

Fishlips

Ah, I keep forgetting. Alfalfa mail.

cr7lomo:
Very racist statement

I swear I was even ashamed of him, saying stuffs like this in public

Haha. no doubt

TableLeg:
Lessons have been learnt
More lessons will be learnt on the black side of town
End

haybhi1:
Omo, na VN I for use for this long text cos it's exhausting but I feel a need to clear most of your positions.
1. There are no modern or ancient women or men. All women are women and all men are men. And everyone has their life to live, no one's holding anyone.

2. "You hear people...", "you hear people..." why's this common in your text? What concerns one with what people think if what they do aren't illegal? What's with people with I and my relationship. You'll do what you want and care less what people think na, after all we all come to life differently. It's a sham they say give up your dreams/careers bla bla for marriage. Who dares tell NOI to give up her dreams for her husby? If Rihanna married one dunce like that in Nigeria, we won't hear her name o. I can't even allow my daughter marry any man that lets her dreams die as far as her dreams are reasonable not to be Olosho or something. You have no point here.

3. There as many bad women as there are men. Everyone get their own for body.

4. I don't think anyone should attack you for your opinions. After all, no one would bat an eye if you were oyinbo. Plus, man and woman na the same,everyone has the right to their fears and dignity. However, I think what agitates men is the fact that most women like to eat their cake and still have it. You see a lady LovePeddler through her younger years and give this dude no single attention all the time he was broke and building himself, but the moment he's attained success and she got unfortunate not to nick a good/stable man in her hay days, you see them around him—naturally he's expected to be agitated. Won't you too? Although, some ladies are lucky sha, while some aren't. It's life na. Never fair.

5. Well, it's draining having to wait. And you may never even see that exact person you want your whole life as DNAs and circumstances are different for each person alive. That's why the need to both come down to a common place and tolerate each other exist—not one party doing that, while both respect the other's differences, given these are with limits.

6. This is absolutely correct. I second it. Society's or social's blunder.

7. Have you seen anyone God told specifically this is who you are or will be or something? Aren't we all just doing trial and error with live? Although some are endowed and lucky from birth but most obviously aren't. How exactly then does God tell you this person or thing is right for you?

8. Bad you have no wife material in bag yet you believe in God, Who enact the concept of husband and wife. Personally, I'm too much of an husband material in fact. It's my fear of abusing that by women that even grips me. Because to be a husband or a wife material is to be a father, mother or particularly, human material.
Is it hard to be a material for one's partner ni, isn't it just to be there for one another within one's capacity or there's something I'm missing? Seems you people, men and women, enjoy making life hard for you two.

9. Meanwhile, in addedum to '2', you need to understand that a bad marriage is different between a man and a woman. I've seen men living in America, came home and went to village to pick a wife, who later facilitated his deportation from US, loss of access to their children and his wealth. Lol, how many women gets this treatment? Life's a bit fairer for y'all, tbh. A 20-25 YO lady is open more opportunities than a 20-25 YO man, all things being equal—are you aware?

I'll answer in the order you split my reply to.

1. Yes there are. The women if today want and demand respect and have the courage to do so. The women if the past might have wanted it but didn't have the courage to. Men of today seek a help mate specifically financially, men of the past internalised and lived with the notion that they had to be the provider full stop. Saying there are no modern men and women is like denying that children of today are similar to children of the past. Even the world we live in has changed.

2. I only mentioned you hear people twice and I mentioned it because much of my life as a woman has been that. 'Is this how you'll cook in your husbands house, bend down more that's how a woman should be, education is good but if your husband doesn't want it then you have to obey, you're to stubborn and you argue alot men don't like that'. Clearly you as a man won't have experienced that but I've experienced that directly, indirectly and from a distance.

3. Fact.

4. You'd be surprised what I've heard said to me or to other women. The wrong person and their family can be a major downfall to a woman.

5 and 7. It is draining to wait but I'll rather wait than end up in regret. The problem with people who hear perfect or healthy marriage or one guided by God is that they think it'll be rosy an d smooth sailing. It'll be bumpy but both of you will be willing to sacrifice for each other without counting scores. I have seen twice to be precise women who got multiple warnings prior to their marriage but went ahead. One got dreams, then a random person she met at church warned her too but according to her, he was a good man, kind, loved her. At that initial stage there was no reason to doubt. She married and he demanded she stops working to watch the new kid, 6 years down the line and 2 kids and a pregnancy man's job laid him off, he took it out on her, blamed her, mistreated her. She was determined to stay hoping for a job. He never hit her though so she has something to hold on to. She's still there hoping. Ended up getting a small job since she was out of the workforce for nearly 10 years. She's now building herself from scratch with 3 kids. Look if you want to do trial and error it's fine, it could work but if you're not willing to all you need to do is genuinely pray. I've never been one to go to pastors or priest, you should have a relationship with God enough to pray about things yourself. The problem with most people is, the person you'll get a sign or feeling that us the best person for you will most likely not be the person you like.

8. God enacted matrimony, humans created a lopsided and selfish wife or husband material list. You blame women for seeking a rich man but prior to the 2000s women were mostly expected to not be financially independent, only focus on domestic care and look good for your husband. When such a mindset has been created and formulated for generations you expect that it won't be exploited. Now the economy us telling and a single income household doesn't cut it anymore men are seeking financial ers. Basically the new demand for wife material is a woman who can do all of her traditional roles and a portion of a man's role. All fine and good but how many men are willing to contribute to domestic chores without thinking they are simps or houseboys.

9. The truth is for everyone they think the have it worse. From my own angle I believe women have it worse. Men can remarry at any age women still can't easily. Men are given a free to so many issues, women aren't. And this is the first time in my life I've heard that a woman in her 20s has better opportunities than men in their 20s. All of my life opportunities skipped me because I was female. A job that paid slightly higher, we prefer a man. A project work, men take the lead. When I was looking to move out from our old house, a woman can't do that but my brother was out the door in a flash. I've lost count of opportunities and offers that were not ment fir a woman and was handed nannying, teaching, sales girl jobs because that's more lady like. As I said earlier from your perspective you think women have it easy, from mine and my female friends we know hands down that being a man would have favoured us much more.

In case you don't know the life of a woman is filled with consistent reminder than you are not up to a man, your opinions are good but a man's own is better, you could do it well bit a man will do it better. There is a consistent reminder that no matter how much I want to break forth and succeed it's all unimportant if I don't have a logo of a man. She's a small girl what does she know is a reoccurring sentence. Nobody wants to hear my success story or what I'm achieving they want to hear about who I'm with. Even when married we are the ones who are required to compromise first, we are the ones who need to give up first, we are the ones who need to be understanding. But one error from us and we are the devil's advocate. Belittlement is ingrained in raising a girl child but it has so become normalised that we now call it good home training, submissive wife, good wife material. But you won't understand it because you were raised as a boy child. And yes, in a woman's case, a mam will marry her here in Nigeria and keep her to take care of his family and only come back for 1 month every 5 years. And you can't tell me you haven't heard of men abandoning the wife of their youth and struggle for the next fine lady.

These black American men accuse the whites of oppression yet when they make it, they leave their black women to marry white women who later dump them after helping them squander their wealth.

I think they're forced into marriage with these white women as a condition for their success.

If a white man had jokingly sang about this , it would have been called racism

1Sharon:


Ah, I keep forgetting. Alfalfa mail.

Lol...I know it's snowing in the UK right now and you are probably depressed. No man to call yours in that kinda weather.

That's not my reality, fishlips

luminouz:

Lol...I know it's snowing in the UK right now and you are probably depressed. No man to call yours in that kinda weather.

That's not my reality, fishlips

Sure. Alfalfa.

YorubaSamurai:
how much and which model

Come to my whatsapp

1Sharon:


Sure. Alfalfa.

K

luminouz:

K

L.

1Sharon:


L.

K

luminouz:

K

L.

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