NewStats: 3,262,488 , 8,177,270 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 12:39 PM 2h573b

I just finished masturbating few hours ago.

I have always noticed this but whenever the urge comes back, I slowly throw this reminder in the gutter. When I watch porn and eventually masturbate, I lose my sense of focus and direction, and start drowning in the sea of doubts. This is not just about quitting an addiction but testing my self-discipline. After documenting a book on the secrets of the bad guys, I found out that I had the power to quit this act.

The problem is me. It's clear that I'm afraid of success, and I just don't understand the reason. I have come to realize that this is why a lot of people are broke, the fear of success is one of the reasons they lose focus and give in to procrastination.

I have decided to grab my problem by the pússy, and promise to give away 7K naira every time I go back to this addiction. I'll be trying this for 30 days, if it works, then I have a system that would help millions of people someday.

This has been a journey I have been documenting for a long time now. Let's see if I'm stingy enough to defeat my addiction .

But why is it that you guys get easily addicted to such stuff though? Like you'd find a married man neglecting his beautiful wife for porn and masturbation... What's so addictive about them?

Samantha125:
But why is it that you guys get easily addicted to such stuff though? Like you'd find a married man neglecting his beautiful wife for porn and masturbation... What's so addictive about them?

That's like writing a book to explain this. The point here is breaking free from an addiction is possible if the person is willing. I want to prove that today to show how potent my method is.

I want to understand what made you an addict in the first place.

SuperOnyi:





That's like writing a book to explain this. The point here is breaking free from an addiction is possible if the person is willing. I want to prove that today to show how potent my method is.

Samantha125:
I want to understand what made you an addict in the first place.

Watching porn triggers the release of dopamine, a chemical the brain produces when we experience feeling of pleasure. So when the more you engage in that activity, the more the brain begins to associate it with that feeling. Over time, it becomes difficult to break free from. In my case, it started since childhood but I never considered it as an addiction.

Now, don't get me wrong. When I say "addiction," it doesn't mean I do it everyday. Like I said, this is a challenge to see how disciplined I am.

Can't you then channel that addiction to the woman you get into a relationship with? Because she will also be capable of giving you that feeling of pleasure.

SuperOnyi:






Watching porn triggers the release of dopamine, a chemical the brain produces when we experience feeling of pleasure. So when the more you engage in that activity, the more the brain begins to associate it with that feeling. Over time, it becomes difficult to break free from. In my case, it started since childhood but I never considered it as an addiction.

Now, don't get me wrong. When I say "addiction," it doesn't mean I do it everyday. Like I said, this is a challenge to see how disciplined I am.

Samantha125:
Can't you then channel that addiction to the woman you get into a relationship with? Because she will also be capable of giving you that feeling of pleasure.

That's why I said, when the brain notices that a particular activity produces feeling of pleasure, it begins to "ask" for it. Like I said, I'm only calling mine an "addiction" to force my brain to see it as one so it recognizes how dangerous it is.

This thread is here to prove to people that my method works. I'm also trying to help others.

Okay, good luck.

SuperOnyi:







That's why I said, when the brain notices that a particular activity produces feeling of pleasure, it begins to "ask" for it. Like I said, I'm only calling mine an "addiction" to force my brain to see it as one so it recognizes how dangerous it is.

This thread is here to prove to people that my method works. I'm also trying to help others.

Samantha125:
But why is it that you guys get easily addicted to such stuff though? Like you'd find a married man neglecting his beautiful wife for porn and masturbation... What's so addictive about them?

As in ...
I go get beautiful wife wey dey ready anytime she's not on her period...I go come dey masturbate...

I don't understand what you're saying... Pidgin is still giving me a hard time.

Starz825:


As in ...
I go get beautiful wife wey dey ready anytime she's not on her period...I go come dey masturbate...

Giving out 7k today! Offer ends by 12:00am...I pray nobody sees this. Just fulfilling my promise.

SuperOnyi:




Giving out 7k today! Offer ends by 12:00am...I pray nobody sees this. Just fulfilling my promise.

Interested lol

Artesunark:

Interested lol

Do you know what the thread is all about? If yes, drop if you can manage 1k as others might come around before it's over.

SuperOnyi:







Do you know what the thread is all about? If yes, drop if you can manage 1k as others might come around before it's over.

U never serious ooo. From 7k to 1k. SuperOnyi my guy. 😂 😂

Samantha125:
But why is it that you guys get easily addicted to such stuff though? Like you'd find a married man neglecting his beautiful wife for porn and masturbation... What's so addictive about them?

He may be bored with his beautiful wife or the wife not ready to meet his needs when he is aroused and craving.
Or there might not be enough adventures and exploration during love making with the beautiful wife.

Op, don't beat yourself up. It is natural to for a young man to want to have sex and nothing demonic about beating your meat once in a while.
Try to get yourself busy, do not spend so much time on your phones alone, be with and around friends or family , get a girlfriend and enjoy quality, protected sex, develop hobbies- I play table tennis and droughts a lot when I was younger so no time to poetn, sex or masturbation.

The urge will naturally fizzle away if you get yourself occupied. Never allow these religious people make you feel guilty.

D00msDay:


U never serious ooo. From 7k to 1k. SuperO.nyi my guy. 😂 😂

You expect me to give everything to one person? What about others? Nawao

SuperOnyi:




Giving out 7k today! Offer ends by 12:00am...I pray nobody sees this. Just fulfilling my promise.

May God help you to be free from this

Samantha125:
Can't you then channel that addiction to the woman you get into a relationship with? Because she will also be capable of giving you that feeling of pleasure.

Naaah…


Just as when a woman wants to cheat or when she is cheating, she fantasizes about her outside lover, it wouldn’t matter if a man with six (6) packs is laying beside her in bed. She will even make excuses about headaches and tiredness and so on. The typical difference is that Men have been raised to embrace their sexuality, and men are more sexually liberal, hence they hardly ever feel too guilty about it. It is worthy of note though that Women are also breaking free and loose nowadays. They are getting bolder about matter concerning sex. They now boldly buy dildos and intimacy gadgets for self-pleasure as well. So frankly, it isn't a ''Men'' thing. There are a lot of women addicted to pornography and explocit content. In fact on Only Fans, and other sites there are more women there offering adult entertainment services. So let us not be blind towards women and bias against the male folk, acting like men are the only ones.

Now, please note that porn and masturbation involve strong things like fetishes, sexual preferences, kinks, etc. whereby the imagination is wild and beyond what most average women can do or offer. The pleasure from masturbating to an actress or hentai or AI character or even viral/leaked videos, it is usually stronger and intense as these characters provide mental and visual stimuli that 99% of women can never provide or happen in real life. The types of narratives you see and read and imagination created in a porn addict is something that have strong mental stimulation. From the regular to things that are almost taboo. If not in porn, where else can a man or woman be exposed to things like:

''Man sneaks out to **** his house girl at night''
''Woman ****ks son's best friend''
''Teen *** by mechanic''
''Co worker f*** woman in office toilet''
''step bro **** step sis''

These are the things you find on various porn sites. There are tens of categories and so on. These arent things you come by in everyday regular romantic relationships and interractions. When something like porn triggers dopamine release and the brain likes it, (whether male or female brain) it can take possession of it leading to concerning habits. For some it is sex. For some it is alcohol. For some it is gambling. For some it is food. For some it is compulsive lies. For some it is social media and doom scrolling. For some it it is stealing. For some, violence. For some it is a combination. Recall three of the popular fundamental principles of human motivation. First recall that human action and/or inaction is controlled by:

A. Inherited human Basic Instinct, and

B. Taught and Learned Accumulated Knowledge and Reasoning

In both cases:

1. The goal of every living thing is to become a full fledged life in itself.

2. In becoming a full fledged life and experiencing life, the human brain will always first want to seek out the option/choice that will provide the highest possible pleasure from the most little effort, spending the shortest time and under the most little to no cost/risk. This is how the human brain makes choices based on instinct. First choice of any human brain (male or female) is wired to take decisions this way.

3. When something is pleasant, the human brains wants to experience it again and again and again and again wanting higher and higher doses or the pleasant feeling of satisfaction. Hence be careful what you derive pleasure from. Make sure it is something uplifting and progressive and productive..

It is left for us to choose wisely things we develop interests in and getting a hold of our brains. But it is also worhty to note that as physical strength and health differs from one person to another of the 6 billion plus people on earth, that is how mental/emotional/psychological health and strength differs. Some people are easily addicted and some are not.

Please Note, I am not justifying PORN OR MASTURBATION. I am speaking from a purely professional point of view as why a man or woman can get addicted to pornography and why it shouldnt be underestimated. I am stating fact as they are. Without filters. The addiction of porn and maturbation has been shown to strain the sexual connection partners are supposed to develop, have, share and experience in serious relationships.

Samantha125:
But why is it that you guys get easily addicted to such stuff though? Like you'd find a married man neglecting his beautiful wife for porn and masturbation... What's so addictive about them?

It's because we want your ass but can't have it. Your ass and no other ass is our solace, our anecdote. So when we can't physically have your ass, we masturbate in anticipation as a toast to your ass.

Starz825:


As in ...
I go get beautiful wife wey dey ready anytime she's not on her period...I go come dey masturbate...

Tahh una life don go
See this mast addict o
As if ur thing go stand

If he's bored, he can talk to his wife and suggest that they try something new to spice things up... The wife can't always deny him sex unless he has done something unforgivable to her.

It's your duty to introduce those adventures into your love life... Do role plays, get a strip pole installed into your bedroom if possible...🤭🤭🤭... And if your children ask why there's a pole in your bedroom, tell them it's for working out, because exercise is good for everyone's health.

Sp1ritHusband:


He may be bored with his beautiful wife or the wife not ready to meet his needs when he is aroused and craving.
Or there might not be enough adventures and exploration during love making with the beautiful wife.

My brother the only effective way to stop masturbation is to not have access to the Internet. Start using Nokia tough lights and thank me later.

SuperOnyi:




I just finished masturbating few hours ago.

I have always noticed this but whenever the urge comes back, I slowly throw this reminder in the gutter. When I watch porn and eventually masturbate, I lose my sense of focus and direction, and start drowning in the sea of doubts. This is not just about quitting an addiction but testing my self-discipline. After documenting a book on the secrets of the bad guys, I found out that I had the power to quit this act.

The problem is me. It's clear that I'm afraid of success, and I just don't understand the reason. I have come to realize that this is why a lot of people are broke, the fear of success is one of the reasons they lose focus and give in to procrastination.

I have decided to grab my problem by the pússy, and promise to give away 7K naira every time I go back to this addiction. I'll be trying this for 30 days, if it works, then I have a system that would help millions of people someday.

This has been a journey I have been documenting for a long time now. Let's see if I'm stingy enough to defeat my addiction .

Should in case you mastubate, you owe me 7k be that
number 9037959273
Opay

minasu190:

Should in case you mastubate, you owe me 7k be that
number 9037959273
Opay

Okay, if nobody shows up: you will have everything. I wanted to share it yesterday but nobody met up and I was happy .

Samantha125:
If he's bored, he can talk to his wife and suggest that they try something new to spice things up... The wife can't always deny him sex unless he has done something unforgivable to her.

It's your duty to introduce those adventures into your love life... Do role plays, get a strip pole installed into your bedroom if possible...🤭🤭🤭... And if your children ask why there's a pole in your bedroom, tell them it's for working out, because exercise is good for everyone's health.

What if you introduce and your partner is not interested in those adventures. You see, it is easy when you are just married but give it about 10 years and you will realize true nature of your partner.
Sometimes when you even try to communicate and she is busy on her phone checking out instagrams and social media where she has been for upward of 4 hours.

SuperOnyi:




Giving out 7k today! Offer ends by 12:00am...I pray nobody sees this. Just fulfilling my promise.

I'm interested. Chairman.


7o678oo212
Opay

SuperOnyi:






Watching porn triggers the release of dopamine, a chemical the brain produces when we experience feeling of pleasure. So when the more you engage in that activity, the more the brain begins to associate it with that feeling.

If watching porn already releases dopamine, then maybe one can tell the brain that you've already got the dopamine you'll have from mas*turbation. So might as well watch your porn and chill, tell the brain there's no need to beat the meat.

mine is that i lack clearity when i am Hot mehn>>>

I'm not saying I'm a marriage expert, in fact, I'm far from being one... But if she's not interested, then ask her what she wants because it's possible you've been neglecting her feelings and only giving her your full attention when you want to shaboink.

Some of you men like to think that because you're paying the bills, then the women in your lives should be happy and satisfied... But sometimes we just want that intimacy from you guys... When was the last time you complimented your wife for looking nice or for doing something nice? When last did you tell her that you love her? Even if you can't tell her, show her, when last did you take her out on a date or bought her something of sentimental value? The gift doesn't have to be expensive.

I once heard a woman who's been married for ten years plus complaining about how her husband never compliments her despite her always trying to look good for him or do something nice for him... According to her, he'd even make a mockery out of her and that alone crushed her spirit.

Sp1ritHusband:


What if you introduce and your partner is not interested in those adventures. You see, it is easy when you are just married but give it about 10 years and you will realize true nature of your partner.
Sometimes when you even try to communicate and she is busy on her phone checking out instagrams and social media where she has been for upward of 4 hours.