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O ti lor... She don go be that.

paxx:
We got married in October. 2 days after the marriage my father came into my house and yelled at her that im already a married man. My father wants me to marry someone else. I did not defend her. She cried 3 times in 10 minutes.

She then told me she wants to take a 2 year break until we do a wedding. We did not do a wedding we just went to the goverment office.

What should I do? She told me that shes no longer ready to be married and even before my dad yelled at her she had reservations.

It has been 1month and she doesnt want me to call her wife anymore. She prefers financE. she is telling her friends that she is engaged.

What should I do?

First things first; what do you mean by "we just went to the goverment office."?

Chai! Poor girl. So u mean as a man, Ur father will pick the wife U will marry? Omor I really thank God for my very enlightened parents sha... See nollywood abi Bollywood 😂😂😂

Omoh,it's painful but the truth is that she's gone bro ......

dawnomike:
First things first; what do you mean by "we just went to the goverment office."?

we just did a legal marriage

Only a foolish man gets married

Broken Arrow

Well, you stand for what you want. You should have protected her from even your dad. Ask her what she wants next and if the wedding she desires will pacify her. You did not marry her, that court thing seems like a secret wedding. Do the wedding a Nigerian girl desires; and also is your dad paying your bills? that is the only way most parents have strong hold on their kids.

paxx:
We got married in October. 2 days after the marriage my father came into my house and yelled at her that im already a married man. My father wants me to marry someone else. I did not defend her. She cried 3 times in 10 minutes.

She then told me she wants to take a 2 year break until we do a wedding. We did not do a wedding we just went to the goverment office.

What should I do? She told me that shes no longer ready to be married and even before my dad yelled at her she had reservations.

It has been 1month and she doesnt want me to call her wife anymore. She prefers financE. she is telling her friends that she is engaged.

What should I do?

What an Olodo u are....... Who doesn't know his left from his right..... By going to registry, u are already married........ Both u and ur wife are not even ripe enough to involve in marriage in the first place.

Just forget her and find another babe. See this as a blessing in disguise

Which one be Government office?
You are both legally married now and only divorced will separate you guys and you'll be forced to share your things with her.

As someone said up there , you were trying to hide the marriage and be low key.

I'll advice you be carefully and stand your ground if you really like her. Defend her by all means else if she change colour for you e go be red

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Which AI generated prompt is this? I refuse to believe this is a real story.

Her reaction is not because of what your father said, it's because of what you did or did not do after that. I'm only siding her because she still tells people that she is engaged. It shows that she is still very much into you and probably one of the very good few we have left. She is a good woman so convince her that you're a man of your own and not just an extension of your father, she will turn around easily. She will be looking at other options soon so act fast before you lose a good woman. There are too many daughters of Jezebel around now that whenever I see men with good women, I step in to advise them right and not just preach redpill.

dkidd:
Chai! Poor girl. So u mean as a man, Ur father will pick the wife U will marry? Omor I really thank God for my very enlightened parents sha... See nollywood abi Bollywood 😂😂😂

Some fathers are like that especially when they sense their son is not man enough to handle women. My father would have done same if I had brought a girl few years ago to marry. He no longer will because he knows that his boy has now taken the dreaded redpill and no longer tolerates rubbish.

Afonja44:
Only a foolish man gets married

I disagree with this

Stupid SIMP,if she's not interested,then let her go, before she kill you. Your father knows that you're not man enough.

If I let her go will she come back? She said that she still wants to see me but she cant live with me

paxx:
If I let her go will she come back? She said that she still wants to see me but she cant live with me

mumu

paxx:
We got married in October. 2 days after the marriage my father came into my house and yelled at her that im already a married man. My father wants me to marry someone else. I did not defend her. She cried 3 times in 10 minutes.

She then told me she wants to take a 2 year break until we do a wedding. We did not do a wedding we just went to the goverment office.

What should I do? She told me that shes no longer ready to be married and even before my dad yelled at her she had reservations.

It has been 1month and she doesnt want me to call her wife anymore. She prefers financE. she is telling her friends that she is engaged.

What should I do?

😂😂😂

Both of you are not mature enough for a relationship.

Baronthecelebri:
mumu

answer the question

paxx:


we just did a legal marriage

You are funny o! You did a court wedding and you call it "just". Did you not pay bride price?

TEYA:

You are funny o! You did a court wedding and you call it "just". Did you not pay bride price?

I didn't do a bride price

TEYA:

You are funny o! You did a court wedding and you call it "just". Did you not pay bride price?

You're even funnier.

Court doesn't demand for bride price. That's a cultural thing.

Idonweak:

You're even funnier.

Court doesn't demand for bride price. That's a cultural thing.

what do you mean?

paxx:


what do you mean?

Bro, you guys are legally married as @emmy512 already told you above. All other ceremonies are just formalities.

Some of you guys are funny

You impregnated a woman while you are to marry another.

You then went on to get married to a woman in registry and you are still claiming you aren't married yet just because you didn't pay pride price.

You don't know that you have entered into a very serious marriage that's very much respected by the law.

You can't even defend your wife and let her suffer attacks by your father. What kind of husband are you?

Babies ought not to get married as marriages are for grown men - men who are mentally, enotionally, physically and psychologically grown up.

You obviously have no business with marriage.

Get your acts right. Take care of your wife and your baby mama who is with your child. You better not try to get married again unless you divorce this your wife.

PlsBanMe:
Some of you guys are funny

You impregnated a woman while you are to marry another.

You then went on to get married to a woman in registry and you are still claiming you aren't married yet just because you didn't pay pride price.

You don't know that you have entered into a very serious marriage that's very much respected by the law.

You can't even defend your wife and let her suffer attacks by your father. What kind of husband are you?

Babies ought not to get married as marriages are for grown men - men who are mentally, enotionally, physically and psychologically grown up.

You obviously have no business with marriage.

Get your acts right. Take care of your wife and your baby mama who is with your child. You better not try to get married again unless you divorce this your wife.

This lady that was with my child is now the woman I married. we lost the child

Idonweak:

You're even funnier.

Court doesn't demand for bride price. That's a cultural thing.

You are the funniest person I have ever met to think I don't know courts don't demand for bride price. Which Nigerian will go and do court wedding with a fellow Nigerian without paying the necessary rites? You just carry a girl and do court wedding? How will she not ask for a two year break after two days?

dkidd:
Chai! Poor girl. So u mean as a man, Ur father will pick the wife U will marry? Omor I really thank God for my very enlightened parents sha... See nollywood abi Bollywood 😂😂😂

Different strokes. what works for some will work differently for others. Do you know there are families today whose spouses were selected by their parents? Yes, they exist. It should neither be a surprise to you nor a sign that some one is enlightened or not.