NewStats: 3,263,443 , 8,180,150 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 10:57 PM 621f2b

6z3e3g

Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye - Christianity Etc (2) - Nairaland 3x5z3f

Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye (22885 Views)

(4)

Go Down)

FORWARDEVERLY: 8:42am On Nov 24, 2024
Man spoke Facts....
A manipulative wife doesn't care nor respect the job or personality of her husband...
She will always manipulate, Gaslight and make him do all she wishes .. if not no peace in the home and she lets the world know that all is not well...
Only a Stupid Man cares what and how his (useless) wife feels.. Throw those animals (wives) away when they start misbehaving... No amount of talking to will change them till they self destruct..

Almighty God pls punish and make all Simpz miserable AMEN

9 Likes

GreatAchiever1: 8:43am On Nov 24, 2024
And that's because they have feminized the church. They don't call out women sins. They downplay submission in the bible with equality while saying things like the husband is the head, wife is the neck. They don't talk about the authority and headship of the husband, and how the wife ought to submit and reverence him with utmost respect. Infact we even see the evidence when most Churches now ordain and have female pastors, a position of authority, which the bible ordain it to be for men.

Woke ideologies have crept in into the church and what we see now is the feminization of men and the masculinization of women. Where are the sweet, gentle women and the tough, meek but hard headed men we used to have?

14 Likes 3 Shares

DrAda(f): 8:43am On Nov 24, 2024
Ok

2 Likes

achorladey: 8:43am On Nov 24, 2024
The behaviour root and stem from the warped ideology the same pastors inculcate in them before marriage. Check am well, you go see. It then eventually becomes what the pastors sow they reap.

5 Likes

FuckYeyeMods: 8:44am On Nov 24, 2024
Capillary88:
Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight
Because of the duo, I am now scared of marriage.
I'm married but sincerely, marriage is not all it seems.
If you're not very strong, the institution can break you. Married people are really trying.
It's more difficult that the women can now easily subscribe to adultery.
Different bad and toxic groups on Facebook and WhatsApp.
Marriage can change your view about everything you think you know.
Are you a kind hearted person? Marriage can make you become hateful being.
Are you a quiet person? Marriage can make you become talkertive.
Are very playful and jovial? Marriage can make you become strict and insensitive.
Are you a good guy? Marriage can make you a complete bad guy.
In all, before going into marriage, get Pen and Paper and boldly define exactly who you're and to which people have testified to it.
Because when that is about to change,you can use it to retrace your true self. When your supposed wife want to make make you look like the worst person on earth.
Marriage is not for Simps bro!

15 Likes 1 Share

Wrackcityoffici: 8:45am On Nov 24, 2024
If we tell them to talk to women when they were young, they would say GOD would choose a wife for me…why una come complain unto wife wey GOD choose, these women are irritated that you guys know nothing about relationship, she’s irritated that you lack substance outside the church and bible…

4 Likes

Teymanhenry(f): 8:46am On Nov 24, 2024
jesusjnr2020:
Of course there's bound to be ups and downs in marriage, but the root cause of marriage becoming a bondage, even to those who were true servants of God, is when they make the grave error of choosing the wrong marriage partner.

That's why it's crucial not to rush into marriage, because once in, it's until death, hence why one ought to get it right before getting in.

God bless.
Until death abi? Dey there na. I'm married and I can tell you this for free, if my marriage is not working (which I don't pray for) and I've tried all I could to make it work and it doesn't work. I will definitely move

11 Likes 4 Shares

Thundafireseun: 8:46am On Nov 24, 2024
Legitpro01:
lol, na true he talk sha.


Nah true I talk too …

He is talking out of experience

1 Like

budaatum: 8:48am On Nov 24, 2024
Thundafireseun:
grin I know he is talking out of experience

He's complaining that he can't beat his wife.

1 Like

Thundafireseun: 8:49am On Nov 24, 2024
budaatum:


He's complaining that he can't beat his wife.

Lol 😀😀😀….

1 Like

kingthreat(m): 8:50am On Nov 24, 2024
Women are very smart beings. They use every situation for their own benefit. Men please be wise. Don't exalt your wife over yourself.

4 Likes 1 Share

Capillary88(m): 8:51am On Nov 24, 2024
FuckYeyeMods:

I'm married but sincerely, marriage is not all it seems.
If you're not very strong, the institution can break you. Married people are really trying.
It's more difficult that the women can now easily subscribe to adultery.
Different bad and toxic groups on Facebook and WhatsApp.
Marriage can change your view about everything you think you know.
Are you a kind hearted person? Marriage can make you become hateful being.
Are you a quiet person? Marriage can make you become talkertive.
Are very playful and jovial? Marriage can make you become strict and insensitive.
Are you a good guy? Marriage can make you a complete bad guy.
In all, before going into marriage, get Pen and Paper and boldly define exactly who you're and to which people have testified to it.
Because when that is about to change,you can use it to retrace your true self. When your supposed wife want to make make you look like the worst person on earth.
Marriage is not for Simps bro!

Well said. You've spoken like a Veteran.
Pls sir bless my Sunday. Since yesterday, na hunger wan kpai me. I'm in dire need of help 🙏 🙏 pls

2 Likes

kingthreat(m): 8:53am On Nov 24, 2024
Capillary88:
Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight
Because of the duo, I am now scared of marriage.

Don't be scared of marriage. But do your due diligence to marry your match before marriage. IF your zodiac is a water element, marry either a earth or water element. And if it is a fire element marry either an air or fire element. Even pastors are using the basics of zodiacs for marriage. Because if you miss it, you might mistakenly marry your enemy.

3 Likes 1 Share

BlackfireX: 8:53am On Nov 24, 2024
Capillary88:
Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight
Because of the duo, I am now scared of marriage.


The wife had kid before marriage and is having steady fucc.kking from another young discreet church member, that her attitude is to keep the man in check of any surprises.

Thank me later

1 Like

Basiljoe: 8:56am On Nov 24, 2024
I hate to break this to you, from my observations, most Pastors are feminine conditioned Beta males.

This is why I laugh whenever I see people take their marital issues to pastors for advice.
You want someone who is only experienced in theology to give you advice on intersexual dynamics?

"In all social situations the default is to side with the feminine, the “weaker sex”– women, from sympathy or empathy, and men, from a desire to eventually become intimate with them." - Book 1, RM

"Experience teaches harsh, but it teaches best and the breadth of experience serves a man well. Whose insight is more beneficial, the man who’s sailed the world over or the man who’s never ventured beyond a lake?" - Book 1, RM

8 Likes

APOPTOSIS: 9:01am On Nov 24, 2024
It's a Pandemic.
Welcome to the Pandemic.
What stops them from divorcing?
Don't trade your mental health for anything, not even for your kids.
Women should also sue for their sanity too, not just men.

1 Like

udemzyudex(m): 9:01am On Nov 24, 2024
True.
udemzyudex(m): 9:03am On Nov 24, 2024
I believe in divorce oo, I can't tolerate things for too long.
Children or no children if I can't take it anymore and things are not working omo na to bail.
FuckYeyeMods: 9:03am On Nov 24, 2024
kingthreat:


Don't be scared of marriage. But do your due diligence to marry your match before marriage. IF your zodiac is a water element, marry either a earth or water element. And if it is a fire element marry either an air or fire element. Even pastors are using the basics of zodiacs for marriage. Because if you miss it, you might mistakenly marry your enemy.
More light bro

1 Like

bitbillionaire: 9:04am On Nov 24, 2024
Then quit the marriage!

This is why I advise people against making the "for better or for worse..... till death do us part" vow they normally make at weddings.

Marriage need to be enjoyed. If you are not enjoying the marriage and you don't see anything good coming out of the union you should have a right to break the union.

But when you stand in the presence of God and vow that you will stay married 'till death do you part, for better and for worse' you have to stick to that vow at all cost otherwise you would be committing a sin!

We shouldn't be using our own hands to enslave ourselves

2 Likes

Fiscus105(m): 9:05am On Nov 24, 2024
ExAngel007:
Mike Bamiloye reveals how the attitude of several pastors' wives are causing their husbands not to enjoy their marriages

Mike Bamiloye has said that many pastors are not enjoying their marriages due to their wives' behaviours.

The Christian film maker said many pastors' wives use their husbands' pastor profession to blackmail them.

He said that the wives believe their husbands can't beat or divorce them like other men so they act as they like.



Not far from truth, many devoted Christians, enduring marriages, far more than ordinary Christians


Infact, many house wives deliberately frustrating their husbands in bed, claiming 'I'm your wife".

7 Likes 1 Share

FuckYeyeMods: 9:06am On Nov 24, 2024
kingthreat:
Women are very smart beings. They use every situation for their own benefit. Men please be wise. Don't exalt your wife over yourself.
They're very cunny being.. very very gender.
Women are very selfish

5 Likes

Singhabele: 9:11am On Nov 24, 2024
Capillary88:
Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight
Because of the duo, I am now scared of marriage.
NB: Happy Sunday brethren, someone should pls assist me. I dunno how to describe this hunger. Anything pls🙏🙏🙏


The man should send her parking take d toxic characters elsewhere...
Capillary88(m): 9:12am On Nov 24, 2024
Singhabele:



The man should send her parking take d toxic characters elsewhere...

I feel so too. But they forbid divorce.

Pls sir kindly help me with something to eat 🙏🙏
Fiscus105(m): 9:14am On Nov 24, 2024
bitbillionaire:
Then quit the marriage!

This is why I advise people against making the "for better or for worse..... till death do us part" vow they normally make at weddings.

Marriage need to be enjoyed. If you are not enjoying the marriage and you don't see anything good coming out of the union you should have a right to break the union.

But when you stand in the presence of God and vow that you will stay married 'till death do you part, for better and for worse' you have to stick to that vow at all cost otherwise you would be committing a sin!

We shouldn't be using our own hands to enslave ourselves



In other word, if you, as husband starts experiencing difficulties, wife should abandon you and moves on for better man.


foolish talks before examining his utterances!

2 Likes

Kobicove(m): 9:14am On Nov 24, 2024
ExAngel007:
Mike Bamiloye reveals how the attitude of several pastors' wives are causing their husbands not to enjoy their marriages

Mike Bamiloye has said that many pastors are not enjoying their marriages due to their wives' behaviours.

The Christian film maker said many pastors' wives use their husbands' pastor profession to blackmail them.

He said that the wives believe their husbands can't beat or divorce them like other men so they act as they like.

i think eh is indirectly referring to a pastor colleague undecided

1 Like

Lifemanage: 9:20am On Nov 24, 2024
lonelydora:
This is very true. Many pastors wives misbehave at home and believe their husbands can't do anything because he's a pastor.

I even know some pastors wives knacking secretly outside. Some are into lesbianism sef.

But, one day... monkey go enter market e no go return.
Really
folake4u(f): 9:30am On Nov 24, 2024
Vifx:
Lol always the woman's fault

Lol I'm even tired.

3 Likes

GloriousGbola: 9:34am On Nov 24, 2024
folake4u:


Lol I'm even tired.

get used to it.

what i have picked from the fallout of the us election is that the manosphere is not an aberration to be laughed at but a real movement that is subsuming men off all ages everywhere.

a lot of genz and younger may already be gone. older generations are falling too. if your algorithms push this to you - e don be.
folake4u(f): 9:39am On Nov 24, 2024
GloriousGbola:


get used to it.

what i have picked from the fallout of the us election is that the manosphere is not an aberration to be laughed at but a real movement that is subsuming men off all ages everywhere.

a lot of genz and younger may already be gone. older generations are falling too. if your algorithms push this to you - e don be.

It is even tiring at this point. These people should allow women to breathe in peace.
jaxxy(m): 9:43am On Nov 24, 2024
The pastors are responsible for the behaviour of their wives.

Reply)

T. B Joshua At 55: The Story Behind His Glory Revealed

(Go Up)

Sections: How To . 49
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or s on Nairaland.