NewStats: 3,264,404 , 8,183,621 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 10:36 PM 2d5sx

My pov

As a man, when you get married, try your best to make your wife your best friend, gist partner and most importantly your deputy mum, this are things men consider difficult, but believe it is not if you are determine to make your marriage work. most times, men think having sex is love making, Kapital NO, the first stage of love making is iration and petting, follow-up by in house chores, go out and have a drink or fish if you have the means,, then the last part will end up in bed, this cannot be everyday but you can can do according to your power. we men are quick to think that sides chicks are better than wife, no the simple truth is that not until you leave with a woman, you cannot truly understand her, they pretend a lot and use emotional blackmail most times to win over some arguments.

As a woman, one of the greatest undoing of a wife is to think that what works for mrs A in her home will work for mrs B, women once married are quick to think that they have arrived and they have a chair, no improvements, no fire of love burning, all they now think is i am married to him and what next is to ensure, other women do get close to him, when they finally get kids, all love is transferred to the children living the man with lots of thinking in his head, most men cannot hold it and that is when the idea of SC comes from, the truth is that most women believe that men are strong and do not need emotional , rather some men will appreciate a woman that s him emotionally more than the one that gives sex, yes this is me, Women also needs to understand that your husband abandoned several women to be with you, in any case, you are consider special, so live that special life every day in his house and make him proud.

Lastly, men make money, even the good women are going bad now because of societal pressure on men, that is why erection is becoming difficult....No romance without Finance.

Onegai:


Bro, because you haven't started cheating, please let me share some tips.

She feels EXACTLY the same way you do, about you. Like if you dropped dead, she'd cry but also be relieved.

Now, you have 2 choices:

1. Blow up your marriage.

Seems easy but I swear to you, you'll regret it when you're older. Even if you do cheat and stay, she'll know. And I'm telling you as a woman, we can hold grudges till we die. If you want to be 65 and terrified of trusting a woman who has been angry for decades about your behaviour with your old age, pray continue like several other men.

2. Fix your marriage.

Sounds hard, but take my advice and in 6-9 months, you won't be on NL talking like this. You'll be grinning in delight, your wife will be your babe once again.

To achieve no.2, turn her into your side chick

You're the man, the marriage takes its temperature from you (even biblically it is so). Fill her emotional cup (it is empty, so she can't pour into you). Love her. How so?

- sit down and make a list of everything you are attracted to in a woman. Ask her to make the same for her ideal man. Exchange the lists. INTENTIONALITY.

- spend time and attention on her. If she watches kdrama, ask to watch one with her. Forreal. Kdrama has horror, suspense, political, love, marriage, thriller, action and sci-fi. Which means, you can actually watch something with her. Then make her watch your stuff with you. AFFECTION.

- date night: every weekend this December, find somewhere you and her will go to. I can give you tips sef. ATTENTION.

- send her a link to a men's wear vendor and ask her to pick what she likes you to wear. Then buy it and wear it. Now do the same for her. Down to perfume. Pay for her manicure and pedicure. Whatever you like, you lead by example. VALIDATION AND TRUST.

- every time you see a fine girl outside, text your wife. Tell her "I was just thinking of you". Chat her up. If she's on social media, it's because YOU DON'T TALK TO HER SO SHE'S LONELY IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND IS FINDING VALIDATION ONLINE. And there are several Balthazars in Nigeria (they just don't record it ). So be chatting your wife up, gossip, gist, funny jokes, se.xy talk. ATTENTION.

- Spend some money. Be it sexxx toys, lingerie, ankle chain (you'd be surprised what she likes). Books, whatever. AFFECTION

- Pray with her. Wake up and find a prayer on Pinterest, personalise it and send "Iremide, ....". LOVE AND CARE.

- tell her "Iremide...I don't want to just lead you, I want to be your king. Be my Esther. Look good for me. Please let me pamper you. Let me solve all your problems. The problems you solve yourself, share them with me, so I can praise you. Stain my eyes with your beauty and shake my mind with your wisdom. I love you". Tell her this twice a week. LOVE AND GUIDANCE.

- Look at your flaws and start correcting them. If you can't change, then neither can she. Change starts with you, not with her. Read that again. Go and read the bible, God is very clear whose He holds responsible for the health of a marriage. Change starts with you. SELF-REFLECTION AND RESPONSIBILITY

- , you're the Head of the House, it's actually your job to lead your marriage. The reason so many marriages are unhappy are because men are being irresponsible and women are doing their jobs. RESPONSIBILITY.

There is no such thing as a submissive second-in-command who does all the work whilst Dangote stays lazy. Read that sentence again.

Do this. Work on yourself. Don't expect quick fixes, but start this December (I fit drop list of restaurants and hang outs. Come back and testify next year. Sha don't get pregnant o, because the last couple who did all this, surprise last baby at 46

So, it's upto you. Make your choice.

All the best
You must be a marriage therapist or Counsellor. I enjoyed every bit of the remedial plan of action to fix the marriage.

All these can actually work where both parties or the couple met with you individually first and were allowed to go and implement your suggestions for a period of 6 months for a start and return together for a review. This can be extended for additional 6 months for complete healing of the broken emotions.

Keep up the good work.

Onegai:


Bro, because you haven't started cheating, please let me share some tips.

She feels EXACTLY the same way you do, about you. Like if you dropped dead, she'd cry but also be relieved.

Now, you have 2 choices:

1. Blow up your marriage.

Seems easy but I swear to you, you'll regret it when you're older. Even if you do cheat and stay, she'll know. And I'm telling you as a woman, we can hold grudges till we die. If you want to be 65 and terrified of trusting a woman who has been angry for decades about your behaviour with your old age, pray continue like several other men.

2. Fix your marriage.

Sounds hard, but take my advice and in 6-9 months, you won't be on NL talking like this. You'll be grinning in delight, your wife will be your babe once again.

To achieve no.2, turn her into your side chick

You're the man, the marriage takes its temperature from you (even biblically it is so). Fill her emotional cup (it is empty, so she can't pour into you). Love her. How so?

- sit down and make a list of everything you are attracted to in a woman. Ask her to make the same for her ideal man. Exchange the lists. INTENTIONALITY.

- spend time and attention on her. If she watches kdrama, ask to watch one with her. Forreal. Kdrama has horror, suspense, political, love, marriage, thriller, action and sci-fi. Which means, you can actually watch something with her. Then make her watch your stuff with you. AFFECTION.

- date night: every weekend this December, find somewhere you and her will go to. I can give you tips sef. ATTENTION.

- send her a link to a men's wear vendor and ask her to pick what she likes you to wear. Then buy it and wear it. Now do the same for her. Down to perfume. Pay for her manicure and pedicure. Whatever you like, you lead by example. VALIDATION AND TRUST.

- every time you see a fine girl outside, text your wife. Tell her "I was just thinking of you". Chat her up. If she's on social media, it's because YOU DON'T TALK TO HER SO SHE'S LONELY IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND IS FINDING VALIDATION ONLINE. And there are several Balthazars in Nigeria (they just don't record it ). So be chatting your wife up, gossip, gist, funny jokes, se.xy talk. ATTENTION.

- Spend some money. Be it sexxx toys, lingerie, ankle chain (you'd be surprised what she likes). Books, whatever. AFFECTION

- Pray with her. Wake up and find a prayer on Pinterest, personalise it and send "Iremide, ....". LOVE AND CARE.

I had to cut off some of your advice as it was too long. I don't know if you're married or not, but trust me, if he has to go through that stress, then he married the wrong woman.

When you marry 'your own', you don't need all that work. I only wish people can experience what a beautiful marriage is. Anyways, it's not something you plan or strategize for, it just happens. Some call it favour, grace or luck.

zed7:

I had to cut off some of your advice as it was too long. I don't know if you're married or not, but trust me, if he has to go through that stress, then he married the wrong woman.

When you marry 'your own', you don't need all that work. I only wish people can experience what a beautiful marriage is. Anyways, it's not something you plan or strategize for, it just happens. Some call it favour, grace or luck.

There's no such thing as "Marrying your own". What that means is that someone is doing the heavy lifting to keep your marriage working. And it doesn't sound like it's you, bros.

Nothing in Life comes easy. There's no job that is "a great fit" without stress. Your dream house? Well, it requires maintenance to continue being your dream house. Your investments? Same hard work. Your grades? If you like, select the course meant for you. If you don't study, you'll fail.

Everything in Life requires work. And sometimes it is 30% from you, 70% from her. Other times it is 60-40.

The mistake is to think because you're having problems, it means you're incompatible. Because if it were "your own", you won't have problems, bah?

Well, even your parents didn't always love you perfectly and vice versa. So how do you expect a marriage to function based on "na my own"?

I'm married.

I'm just tired of seeing people make that mistake and divorce based on "this is so hard, therefore it means we made a mistake".

My uncle is in his 70s and he itted that if he had the emotional maturity he had now, his first marriage won't have collapsed. His 2nd wife is okay but hindsight is 20-20.

Someone I know is about to divorce his wife and so many elders have said he'll regret it. I'd never understood why but now I'm beginning to see. And I wish I could knock sense into him, because his wife is now ready to reconcile (even though it was mostly his fault), but he's stubbornly on his high horse.

Fixing a marriage is initially hard work but pays off long term. Starting afresh is initially easy work but omo (and it is very hard to leave 2nd marriages in Nigeria, as you don't want to be seen as the problem. So you'll stay and endure what you couldn't tolerate with your first wife/husband).

I've seen fixed marriages before, where both parties did the work. They're the best marriages. The problem is that in Nigeria, we don't fix, we just tell the woman to go back and endure in silence. Then she and the man hate and resent themselves till they die.

Fix your marriage, work on your flaws first. By your changing, she will change.

Onegai:


There's no such thing as "Marrying your own". What that means is that someone is doing the heavy lifting to keep your marriage working. And it doesn't sound like it's you, bros.

Nothing in Life comes easy. There's no job that is "a great fit" without stress. Your dream house? Well, it requires maintenance to continue being your dream house. Your investments? Same hard work. Your grades? If you like, select the course meant for you. If you don't study, you'll fail.

Everything in Life requires work. And sometimes it is 30% from you, 70% from her. Other times it is 60-40.

The mistake is to think because you're having problems, it means you're incompatible. Because if it were "your own", you won't have problems, bah?

Well, even your parents didn't always love you perfectly and vice versa. So how do you expect a marriage to function based on "na my own"?

I'm married.

I'm just tired of seeing people make that mistake and divorce based on "this is so hard, therefore it means we made a mistake".

My uncle is in his 70s and he itted that if he had the emotional maturity he had now, his first marriage won't have collapsed. His 2nd wife is okay but hindsight is 20-20.

Someone I know is about to divorce his wife and so many elders have said he'll regret it. I'd never understood why but now I'm beginning to see. And I wish I could knock sense into him, because his wife is now ready to reconcile (even though it was mostly his fault), but he's stubbornly on his high horse.

Fixing a marriage is initially hard work but pays off long term. Starting afresh is initially easy work but omo (and it is very hard to leave 2nd marriages in Nigeria, as you don't want to be seen as the problem. So you'll stay and endure what you couldn't tolerate with your first wife/husband).

I've seen fixed marriages before, where both parties did the work. They're the best marriages. The problem is that in Nigeria, we don't fix, we just tell the woman to go back and endure in silence. Then she and the man hate and resent themselves till they die.

Fix your marriage, work on your flaws first. By your changing, she will change.

Honestly i like your point and submission, marriage is a work in progress, one of the challenge of men who go into marriage is high expectation, it happen to me, i just realized that, expectations are there deliverables may differ...

OZIOGU1:


Honestly i like your point and submission, marriage is a work in progress, one of the challenge of men who go into marriage is high expectation, it happen to me, i just realized that, expectations are there deliverables may differ...

A lot of us think Marriage is an extension of Dating. So if you date well, you marriage will be smooth-sailing.

It was this year, I opened my eyes and realised that wasn't so. I've seen couples who dated for 4 years of university, 1 year of NYSC and 2 years of work. Married for 11 years and divorced in a blaze of anger, violence and hatred. The 7 years of Dating didn't prepare them for marriage.

I know someone who truly believed his 1st wife was a mistake because they kept fighting. He dated after divorce, met an "angel" and said "this is so easy, our relationship is so stress-free, this is what was missing the first time". Then married her. 8 years later, when the 2nd wife packed out and relocated to Canada, he cried tears of relief and pain. Now he's a better man, focused on being a good father to his kids and has sworn off any more marriages.


I have an ex whom I dated for 3 years, it has been 20 years and we're friends now. I always think "I should have married this guy!". Well, I now know that we would have had our ups and downs, with no guarantee of the future. The only reason I think we would have been happy is because na me fukup end the relationship, so I suffered karma and regretted it after. So hopefully I would have been scared of mes again. Again, no guarantees that he wouldn't have messed me up.

Marriage is constant work.

And going back to the original thread,

I hope all men realise that side chicks don't love them.

If you stop giving those babes money, ask them to cook for you and cater to you and move in with them and be dumping all your emotional needs on them and stop taking them out and treat them like your wife...

...those babes will promptly leave your arse.

Those babes are se.x workers, period. That's the only reason they're with married men. Because even though I find men attractive, I'm not planning on dating any because I have Integrity. And those side chicks are willing to act without decency or integrity. So that means they have shitty characters and are willing to do that for one thing only. And it is definitely not a man's sparkly character.

A lot of men are basically falling in love with se.x workers and devaluing their wives for se.x workers.

If you don't believe me, best know that I knew runs girls back in the day who were carrying Politicians and the way these babes used to be rude to those men, their wives couldn't talk like that to the agbayas.

So continue sinning and wasting energy and money on babes that are insulting you behind your back to their smallie friends.

Or go home and love the woman who stayed faithful to you.

Your choice.

Onegai:


There's no such thing as "Marrying your own". What that means is that someone is doing the heavy lifting to keep your marriage working. And it doesn't sound like it's you, bros.

Nothing in Life comes easy. There's no job that is "a great fit" without stress. Your dream house? Well, it requires maintenance to continue being your dream house. Your investments? Same hard work. Your grades? If you like, select the course meant for you. If you don't study, you'll fail.

Everything in Life requires work. And sometimes it is 30% from you, 70% from her. Other times it is 60-40.

The mistake is to think because you're having problems, it means you're incompatible. Because if it were "your own", you won't have problems, bah?

Well, even your parents didn't always love you perfectly and vice versa. So how do you expect a marriage to function based on "na my own"?

I'm married.

I'm just tired of seeing people make that mistake and divorce based on "this is so hard, therefore it means we made a mistake".

My uncle is in his 70s and he itted that if he had the emotional maturity he had now, his first marriage won't have collapsed. His 2nd wife is okay but hindsight is 20-20.

Someone I know is about to divorce his wife and so many elders have said he'll regret it. I'd never understood why but now I'm beginning to see. And I wish I could knock sense into him, because his wife is now ready to reconcile (even though it was mostly his fault), but he's stubbornly on his high horse.

Fixing a marriage is initially hard work but pays off long term. Starting afresh is initially easy work but omo (and it is very hard to leave 2nd marriages in Nigeria, as you don't want to be seen as the problem. So you'll stay and endure what you couldn't tolerate with your first wife/husband).

I've seen fixed marriages before, where both parties did the work. They're the best marriages. The problem is that in Nigeria, we don't fix, we just tell the woman to go back and endure in silence. Then she and the man hate and resent themselves till they die.

Fix your marriage, work on your flaws first. By your changing, she will change.

Nobody is doing any heavy lifting. If someone is doing a heavy lifting in marriage, that person is a slave in that relationship. Marriage is 50/50 and compromise.

All that talk of using money to buy loyalty and affection doesn't work. What happens when the man no longer has the zeal or funds to keep impressing the wife?

A good marriage is by luck, whether you like it or not. Most people are just enduring their marriage with no true happiness.

Onegai:
And going back to the original thread,

I hope all men realise that side chicks don't love them.

If you stop giving those babes money, ask them to cook for you and cater to you and move in with them and be dumping all your emotional needs on them and stop taking them out and treat them like your wife...

...those babes will promptly leave your arse.

Those babes are se.x workers, period. That's the only reason they're with married men. Because even though I find men attractive, I'm not planning on dating any because I have Integrity. And those side chicks are willing to act without decency or integrity. So that means they have shitty characters and are willing to do that for one thing only. And it is definitely not a man's sparkly character.

A lot of men are basically falling in love with se.x workers and devaluing their wives for se.x workers.

If you don't believe me, best know that I knew runs girls back in the day who were carrying Politicians and the way these babes used to be rude to those men, their wives couldn't talk like that to the agbayas.

So continue sinning and wasting energy and money on babes that are insulting you behind your back to their smallie friends.

Or go home and love the woman who stayed faithful to you.

Your choice.

Carry your stories and move along.

Onegai:


There's no such thing as "Marrying your own". What that means is that someone is doing the heavy lifting to keep your marriage working. And it doesn't sound like it's you, bros.

Nothing in Life comes easy. There's no job that is "a great fit" without stress. Your dream house? Well, it requires maintenance to continue being your dream house. Your investments? Same hard work. Your grades? If you like, select the course meant for you. If you don't study, you'll fail.

Everything in Life requires work. And sometimes it is 30% from you, 70% from her. Other times it is 60-40.

The mistake is to think because you're having problems, it means you're incompatible. Because if it were "your own", you won't have problems, bah?

Well, even your parents didn't always love you perfectly and vice versa. So how do you expect a marriage to function based on "na my own"?

I'm married.

I'm just tired of seeing people make that mistake and divorce based on "this is so hard, therefore it means we made a mistake".

My uncle is in his 70s and he itted that if he had the emotional maturity he had now, his first marriage won't have collapsed. His 2nd wife is okay but hindsight is 20-20.

Someone I know is about to divorce his wife and so many elders have said he'll regret it. I'd never understood why but now I'm beginning to see. And I wish I could knock sense into him, because his wife is now ready to reconcile (even though it was mostly his fault), but he's stubbornly on his high horse.

Fixing a marriage is initially hard work but pays off long term. Starting afresh is initially easy work but omo (and it is very hard to leave 2nd marriages in Nigeria, as you don't want to be seen as the problem. So you'll stay and endure what you couldn't tolerate with your first wife/husband).

I've seen fixed marriages before, where both parties did the work. They're the best marriages. The problem is that in Nigeria, we don't fix, we just tell the woman to go back and endure in silence. Then she and the man hate and resent themselves till they die.

Fix your marriage, work on your flaws first. By your changing, she will change.

Absolutely true. In marriage someone has to work extra hard to keep the marriage bond strong and going. The stronger one may be the husband or the wife. You know what it doesn't have to be 50-50 thing, it may be 60-40 even 70-30. I am not talking about sharing of the bills. I am talking about the sacrifice, commitment and level of work the stronger one will make to keep the marriage afloat.

When a one party is looking for 50-50 proportionality in making a home stand strong. You are bound to meet disappointment.

We are not equally built. So, we have different level of tolerance, endurance, resilience, giving spirit, large heart and accommodating others etcetera etcetera. Let each person identify its areas of strength to complement the other in making marriage work. There is no 100% compatibility for 2 people raised from different home without homologous value systems, upbringing and orientation.

uchkochi:

In other words side chicks are not to be married

In other words....they are all the same

Once you marry a woman who's not peaceful...then wahala is what U get.. regardless of whether they are side chicks or wives

zed7:


All that talk of using money to buy loyalty and affection doesn't work. What happens when the man no longer has the zeal or funds to keep impressing the wife?

A good marriage is by luck, whether you like it or not. Most people are just enduring their marriage with no true happiness.

The difference between a Wife and a Side Chick is that one made a commitment to you, when you were growing and the other didn't make a commitment to you but met you, when you were grown.

So you can buy one with money. And that is your side chick.

I come from the generation that saw their fathers marry their side chicks as 2nd wives and every single one of them (walai, I can even bet crypto on this) regretted it. Including my dad and every uncle who did it. It's why my generation of men and the generation before them will cheat but will never leave their wives, we all saw the mistakes of our fathers. It's also why my generation will divorce but won't remarry. I had uncles who remarried and most weren't happy.

Your wife's loyalty is tied to the commitment she made. And when you see a wife who isn't loyal, then she's a bad woman.

A lot of marriages are not happy and it is sad.

There's this I see on Instagram, @iamdennisagbeti and Pastor Femi Lazarus. If husbands and men can watch their videos and implement just 30% of what they're saying concerning the role of husbands in marriage, I swear to you, your happiness will be complete.

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pryme:


Most men cherish women that will give them good f-ukc and peace, it's that simple.
Most side chicks play these part very well even if it's a script

Very big lie... all men cheat because of lack of self control.

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Onegai:


The difference between a Wife and a Side Chick is that one made a commitment to you, when you were growing and the other didn't make a commitment to you but met you, when you were grown.

So you can buy one with money. And that is your side chick.

I come from the generation that saw their fathers marry their side chicks as 2nd wives and every single one of them (walai, I can even bet crypto on this) regretted it. Including my dad and every uncle who did it. It's why my generation of men and the generation before them will cheat but will never leave their wives, we all saw the mistakes of our fathers. It's also why my generation will divorce but won't remarry. I had uncles who remarried and most weren't happy.

Your wife's loyalty is tied to the commitment she made. And when you see a wife who isn't loyal, then she's a bad woman.

A lot of marriages are not happy and it is sad.

There's this I see on Instagram, @iamdennisagbeti and Pastor Femi Lazarus. If husbands and men can watch their videos and implement just 30% of what they're saying concerning the role of husbands in marriage, I swear to you, your happiness will be complete.

A friend that frustrated his wife to death and married his side chic almost immediately, don run for his life and is married to new woman now.

ehay:
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Very big lie... all men cheat because of lack of self control.

Do you believe you will get a good man that will Cherish you and treat you the way you want to be treated?

Nnamdipapa:


I married at 21 my dear, my biggest mistake. At that age, a guy does not really know what he wants plus she hid most of her characters then like most of our women do who desperately want to marry a well to do guy. That was 17 years ago.

Women, they can pretend.

uchkochi:
Most men after marriage realise that its their mistress they actually love. They discover that too late. The wife stops trying to win her man after marriage. The truth is men love to be seduced. After marriage and child birth women call their husband Papa John while side chicks call them baby.

You are right. However, over familiarity is the major reason.

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pryme:


Do you believe you will get a good man that will Cherish you and treat you the way you want to be treated?

I'm already married.won't consider marriage again if this one ends.

ehay:
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I'm already married.won't consider marriage again if this one ends.

Well, ALL men do not cheat or do not have self control, you don't categorize all men based on what another man did.

A4alpha:



Wow Nothing is new under the surface I must it because it's as though I'm the one talking here, almost the same experience though mine gives sex no wahala that side but lack basic life necessity when it comes to emotional intelligence, her companionship and is close to nothing. what she lacks in positivity she made-up in negativity, she's also a smart and happy liar without conscience.

I look good too and dress fairly well but I try not to cheat because I know whoever I cheat with will definitely tag along or show qualities that my wife does not have, which will increase my agitation or hasten our breakup. for over 16years now bro, I have been waiting for her to change but with the looks of things I don't think an adult can change especially those who reject advise and snobs moves that will bring her at par with me.

But I don't want to grow old with her in her condition and also wish to keep her is change happens soonest. CONFUSED!!

Me, I have refused to be confused and have started planning for myself and my future. I cancelled all the t bank , I am selling properties in both our names and I went on 3 vacations this year alone.

Life is meant to be lived and not endured, the only thing that excites her is her churche and Pastors and she has tried to drag me to church to no avail.

These kind of women want to use religion to control their men hence my refusal to step foot in any church.
Next, she will be on instagram instagram for more than 5 hours or talk with her friends. No plans for her future or life and no directions whatsoever. We never have meaningful conversations as she is only interested in social media gossips. I was deceived by virginity and being a church going lady and, I know better now. It's like I am living with an adult baby.

I will initiate divorce proceedings in about a year and be free to live my life. In the meantime I have a steady lady friend that is the exact opposite of my wife and meets all my needs.
We always meet once in a week because of my busy schedule.
People dont change and never expect her to change. We are who we are and at times we gat to it we made a mistake and find a way to move on.
I was about to move on about 5 years ago when my daughter asked me "Dad, are you coming back?". That broke me as I love that girl more than the world itself.

placeofallure:


Why? I said whatever suits you, it's good for you. Many men always return home after a long sojourn playing away match.

So what is the cause of Ori è ti daru in that one now?

Why use "lomo eranko" for me when I never insulted you and was not even talking to you?
Respect beget respect nau!

Nnamdipapa:


Why use "lomo eranko" for me when I never insulted you and was not even talking to you?
Respect beget respect nau!

It's because you don't understand the language. 'lomo ẹranko is metaphorical in that proverb, it has no direct connection to you. Anywhere or whatever circumstances that will warrant one to use the proverb, we use ọmọ eranko as the subject.

What half literacy will do,ehn! Your understanding of that language is not deep, otherwise you'd know ọmọ eranko isn't you per ṣe.

placeofallure:


It's because you don't understand the language. 'lomo ẹranko is metaphorical in that proverb, it has no direct connection to you. Anywhere or whatever circumstances that will warrant one to use the proverb, we use ọmọ eranko as the subject.

What half literacy will do,ehn! Your understanding of that language is not deep, otherwise you'd know ọmọ eranko isn't you per ṣe.

I tender my apologies then. I don't like fighting with women.

Nnamdipapa:


I tender my apologies then. I don't like fighting with women.

It's fine. It's ok. Apology accepted but you will have to appease the gods

ehay:
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Very big lie... all men cheat because of lack of self control.

It's mainly boredom that causes it

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Kobicove:


It's mainly boredom that causes it

Boredom from what?

ehay:
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Boredom from what?

From eating the same 'food' everyday