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Newlymarried: 6:04am On Nov 19, 2024
A Nigerian woman, Adejumorekeh Balogun has called on Nigerians and relevant authorities for help after allegedly losing her left eye in alleged domestic violence.

In a Facebook post on Saturday, November 16, 2024, the woman shared photos showing her battered face and swollen left eye, alleging that she has been in an abusive relationship with her husband, who she described as a beast, for 15 years.

“This is what fifteen years in an abusive relationship with a beast has cost me. My left eye…. Please I need help from the masses. Justice must be served, he knows I don’t have anybody that’s why he’s been treating me this bad. Direct line to call for more info 08167340977, you can WhatsApp too on the same line,” she wrote.

In another post on Sunday, November 17, she alleged that her husband and his family are threatening her over the previous post.

The entrepreneur added that she is currently in an undisclosed hospital.

“Pls share till it gets the right authorities that will help me. I ‘m helpless. His family and him are threatening me. I ’ve been hospitalized and they don't know where I am."

She also shared photos of the abuse she endured in the hands of her husband in December 2022, alleging that he did same to his ex-wives.

"This is Dec 4, 2022. This man has been a beast since we’ve been together his friends can testify, my family and friends can testify even his ex wives can be witness because he does it to them too. His family are telling my family that it has only happened once before. They’re threatening me to bring down the posts I’ve made on social media. I’m dropping this update to let you know that I haven’t gotten a particular authority to handle the matter , I’m counting on you all, he already told me I don’t have solid background and no one will come to my rescue. Now I’m counting on GOD,I must not Suffer in Vain,my one eye is already blind ,I deserve justice"
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Karlman: 6:13am On Nov 19, 2024
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

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ttaiwo09: 6:17am On Nov 19, 2024
This is insane! We need more than love to make relationship work.

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GOFRONT(m): 6:17am On Nov 19, 2024
Madam, yours is even better.....ThanksGod that you are even alive, you only lost one eye..

The other man on the other thread Killed his Wife, killed his Kids and then killed himself

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madone: 6:24am On Nov 19, 2024
This man whats his gain now

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Sonnobax15(m): 6:27am On Nov 19, 2024
lipsrsealed
Mumu man angry

Pounding a helpless woman as if she's your mate angry

I trust Nigerian authorities, especially NPF if the case reach their desk,the idiot own don finish...

As for the woman,you knew he did the same thing to his ex wives but you still went ahead to marry him angry. Was it because he was spending lavishly on you that made you to think the animal would change and treat you better than all his ex wives? angry

Enduring an abusive marriage is a NO NO for me and I always warn my younger sisters and neices to steer clear from anyone who seems to possess such anger issues......

Las las,the last time an animal did a similar thing to my late sister of blessed memory,na so my elder brothers settle down condemn the idiot ears till today....

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biyams(m): 6:38am On Nov 19, 2024
Ahh.. when he can use this same energy for UFC to earn or lose woefully but he's directing it to a weaker vessel, he's not a man! There is nothing left in his right brain, and there is nothing right in his left brain. So sad 😢.

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richiemcgold: 7:19am On Nov 19, 2024
Whenever I come across situations like this, one question I always ask myself: "can I ever lay my hands on a woman?"

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Tallesty1(m): 7:21am On Nov 19, 2024
Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.
Actually there is.

If you kick my blokos because you can, I will forget that you have breasts and beat you more than this.

First to do no dey pain but na them dey mostly first complain.

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beeblack: 7:24am On Nov 19, 2024
This is the result u get if u marry agbero.

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Shaneroberts: 7:26am On Nov 19, 2024
Though this is sad but I refuse to pity her.
I just can't afford to pity people that choose to stay in abusive unions.
To whom it may concern,keep staying in abusive marriages because of what people will say. You hear?

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Zico5(m): 7:28am On Nov 19, 2024
The sad reality is that like attract like. I wonder how a woman that turn herself to lord of the ring want a man to respect her and her dignity. You litter you ear, face and body with rings and u expect man to respect u. Man only see such a woman as loose and nothing good for home. You are original olosho and wayward woman. You should enjoy what u attracted to ur life. I no dey pity people like this. The man has seen it all in you.

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Houseofglam7(f): 7:28am On Nov 19, 2024
You waited 15 years to know he’s a beast??
🤦🏽‍♀️

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Kenobsky(m): 7:29am On Nov 19, 2024
This reminds me of the sermon choosing your life partner by prof D.K Olukoya

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NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
GOD!

15 solid years? Life's tough and strangely enough, this story isn't complete and the woman know that.

If you can stand the heat leave the kitchen, but many are blinded in their so called relationships that they ignore the red flags just because there's an hopeless strand of the ab changing soon, many didn't live to even tell the story after while few are unfortunate enough to tell us what goes on.

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Wizman423: 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
She for wait for another 5 more years so he can kuku take her life. How van one stay in an abusive relationship for good 15 years, na God save you say na only eye you lose and not your life. People must learn how to let go when situations is getting out of control

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letitrainnow(m): 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
azpekuliar: 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
GOFRONT:
Madam, yours is even better.....ThanksGod that you are even alive, you only lost one eye..

The other man on the other thread Killed his Wife, killed his Kids and then killed himself


Thread?

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seanery: 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
Sigh
jordyspices: 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
Despite what nobody should be treated this way dem suppose lock the man for ring with jake Paul Mike tyson nd the rest useless man

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RichBoy247: 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
Ogun kee your Mama. Na the money wey he dey give dey make you to wan commit suicide by merciless beating. You see where Olosho work carry you reach?

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Frigga13: 7:30am On Nov 19, 2024
Go date Yoruba demon… he unleashed his demons grin

Na why e dey hard then marry their women… beating day and night


Them go soon flood my mention with their abuses and curse

Truth too pain those people

God bless Nigerians

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MTCLimited(m): 7:31am On Nov 19, 2024
Hmmm
MightySparrow: 7:31am On Nov 19, 2024
Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.


Really? I don't violence in the home but the kind of verbal assault some women will give you can make you lose your sense.

I bet you this woman can never be innocent.

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Lithiumite: 7:31am On Nov 19, 2024
richiemcgold:
Whenever I come across situations like this, one question I always ask myself: "can I ever lay my hands on a woman?"

This is the only point I would a divorce.....a woman should be able to endure any other thing but violence shouldn't be tolerated at all.....her family should go rescue her before they kill each other ....funny thing is men are even more vulnerable in domestic violence issues.

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dynicks(m): 7:31am On Nov 19, 2024
richiemcgold:
Whenever I come across situations like this, one question I always ask myself: "can I ever lay my hands on a woman?"
you never can tell till such temptation comes to you bro .........Humans are mere mortals and it only takes the grace of God to overcome certain temptations especially the ones that bares itself confidently before you.....

As a man, if you can't withstand it, just walk away......But honestly, it's not easy

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WeddingParol: 7:31am On Nov 19, 2024
This is one of the advices I always give men, don't wait till you are provoked to beat a woman before you do something about a hopeless relationship.

Look at how the man has been labeled a beast and some other simps are ing to castigate the man without hearing the other side of the story.

However, there is no justification whatsoever to beat a woman though some women can make your life a living hell. When you discover that the relationship is heading south, bite the humble pie and leave. Forget whatever people will say or the emotional blackmail, they are just setups to get you demonised.

This man has just fallen a victim.

Men, wakeup and take charge and defend your life and sanity. You cannever win a mud fight with a pig.

To the few remaining great women out there, God bless you.

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Nwaokunkpara: 7:31am On Nov 19, 2024
Why is it usually so hard for women to leave an abusive relationship but can easily let go off a good and loyal guy 🤔🤔🤔🤔

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ravensckar(m): 7:32am On Nov 19, 2024
For the woman in question not to mention her husband's name, location or narrate what actually transpired. It shows there's more to this story than meets the eye.

Be it as it may, no man has the right to " beat" his wife in this manner.

I hereby call on the relevant authorities to immediately swing into action.

#Say_No_To_Domestic_Violence

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ardejesk: 7:32am On Nov 19, 2024
Make we hear from the other party.
We don too dey regret jumping into conclusion these days

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