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Johnnoah1st: 10:40am On Nov 13, 2024
Hey everyone, I’ve been struggling with something and would appreciate your advice.

I’m in my late 20s, 5'11", with curly hair, a fit and athletic physique, and I’ve been told I exude handsomeness. I’ve noticed a recurring issue: after we have sex, they seem to leave without much thought.

When I try to play the "ignoring game" to see if it keeps them interested, it feels like they interpret it differently. Instead of drawing them closer, they seem to feel unbothered and even triumphant, as if they’ve won something by walking away. They don’t show remorse, which leaves me confused about what I might be doing wrong.

Is it my approach, or is there something deeper I need to address? How can I change this pattern and build meaningful, lasting connections?

I’m open to any insights or suggestions. Thanks in advance!

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greatnaija01: 10:45am On Nov 13, 2024
YOU ARE NOT RICH ENOUGH......
simple




NOTHING WILL KEEP A LADY ABOVE MONEY.


so leave dem ladies and go secure your destiny bag.


LADIES ARE A DISTRACTION AND A SIDE ATTRATION.


you came to this life to be great.... not to be a woman wrapper.

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Bahamas95(m): 10:48am On Nov 13, 2024
Two things are involved......


1. They discovered you're just a fine boy with no shishi

2. You nor sabi knack.

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VeryWickedGoat: 10:48am On Nov 13, 2024
Johnnoah1st:

I’m in my late 20s, 5'11", with curly hair, a fit and athletic physique, and I’ve been told I exude handsomeness. I’ve noticed a recurring issue: after we have sex, they seem to leave without much thought.

You thought you did the conquering but they did
They just wanted to know that they could bag a stud like you & you fell cheaply.

You were a score
Something to brag about among their squad

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MightySparrow: 10:57am On Nov 13, 2024
Go and take a tutorial from Ebang ( real banger) Bethazar Engonga.
Thank me later.
Wahalai, women will be like ants cover sugar for you.

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SocialJustice: 10:58am On Nov 13, 2024
Bahamas95:
Two things are involved......


1. They discovered you're just a fine boy with no shishi

2. You nor sabi knack.

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Bizmind95: 11:08am On Nov 13, 2024
Some girls just love fvck but don't want emotional attachments just like most guys do...sex is just a dirty smelly boring thing finish...nothing much in it...it is just that we tend to overhype it in this part of the world...

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AishaDant(f): 11:09am On Nov 13, 2024
You expect these girls to stay in your life and Care about you as you are playing the ignoring game?

Op, you sound like a complete joker.

For them to leave you without thinking twice simply means you might have nothing to offer outside the sex.

It's 2024, sex is pretty cheap and relationships are pretty expensive!

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Maisiba(m): 12:41pm On Nov 13, 2024
Maybe you need to upgrade your skills, you know

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pryme(m): 12:49pm On Nov 13, 2024
AishaDant:
You expect these girls to stay in your life and Care about you as you are playing the ignoring game?

Op, you sound like a complete joker.

For them to leave you without thinking twice simply means you might have nothing to offer outside the sex.

It's 2024, sex is pretty cheap and relationships are pretty expensive!

Have you decided on your relationship regarding your thread?

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AishaDant(f): 1:23pm On Nov 13, 2024
pryme:


Have you decided on your relationship regarding your thread?

I have.

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pryme(m): 1:46pm On Nov 13, 2024
AishaDant:


I have.

Resolved or you are moving on?
AishaDant(f): 2:08pm On Nov 13, 2024
pryme:


Resolved or you are moving on?

Unresolved but he has been making conscious efforts. He has until the end of the month to get into it or I am done.
Tallesty1(m): 6:52am On Nov 14, 2024
MightySparrow:
Go and take a tutorial from Ebang ( real banger) Bethazar Engonga.
Thank me later.
Wahalai, women will be like ants cover sugar for you.
His wife cheated on him too.

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eazzzy1(m): 7:32am On Nov 14, 2024
Did you ask them for a relationship? Most girls don’t want to do the casual sex thing. They may sleep with you if they think you are in the talking stage. If after a few session you don’t start asking for a relationship then some would ask you the ‘what are we doing question’, others would just leave.

A second reason may be your attitude towards them changed after the sex. You stopped being affectionate, communication reduced etc. If they move on fast enough, they can subtract you from the body count. This is how most girls keep a body count of three to four until they get married. Those sex that happened five or less times don’t count, relationships of less than six months don’t count either.

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MightySparrow: 7:43am On Nov 14, 2024
Tallesty1:
His wife cheated on him too.


It is still part of the lesson.

It may have been what inspired the man to be a pro.
gringrin

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Nonexisting: 7:45am On Nov 14, 2024
Five problems;
1. You no sabi fucck.
2. You are broke.
3. You're broke.
4. You're not rich.
5. You are still not rich.
Solve problems two thru five and you're good. Solving problem one is not necessary when you take care of the others.

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Haynnie: 10:31am On Nov 14, 2024
Post your picture let me know if you are handsome and attractive as said.

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omooba969(m): 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2024
Another women bashing thread. 🤦🤦🙄

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BigDawsNet: 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2024
Johnnoah1st:
Hey everyone, I’ve been struggling with something and would appreciate your advice.

I’m in my late 20s, 5'11", with curly hair, a fit and athletic physique, and I’ve been told I exude handsomeness. I’ve noticed a recurring issue: after we have sex, they seem to leave without much thought.

When I try to play the "ignoring game" to see if it keeps them interested, it feels like they interpret it differently. Instead of drawing them closer, they seem to feel unbothered and even triumphant, as if they’ve won something by walking away. They don’t show remorse, which leaves me confused about what I might be doing wrong.

Is it my approach, or is there something deeper I need to address? How can I change this pattern and build meaningful, lasting connections?

I’m open to any insights or suggestions. Thanks in advance!


What’s ur financial status

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MANNABBQGRILLS: 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2024
I’ve noticed a recurring issue: after we have sex, they seem to leave without much thought.
Maybe dem no enjoy am!

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marksonrick: 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2024
Either you no sabi knack or your gbola no long. grin
Better still, you cannot connect with them emotionally.

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IFECHIGCON(m): 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2024
Maybe because you don't last

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MANNABBQGRILLS: 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2024
Bahamas95:
Two things are involved......


1. They discovered you're just a fine boy with no shishi

2. You nor sabi knack.
END OF THREAD!!

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CoronaVirusPro: 2:13pm On Nov 14, 2024
Change your plugs and flush your radiator.

Modern engineering designs require more frequent maintenance to get optimum performance.

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Nahunger(m): 2:13pm On Nov 14, 2024
grin
dreamworld: 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2024
grin
9jaBloke: 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2024
You know what the problem is. Talk to a s**ologist
dreamworld: 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2024
you have a small man-hood,
or you dont know how to utilize it

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Damilola0147: 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2024
You can’t do the do grin

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Cj4charles(m): 2:14pm On Nov 14, 2024
sad
Seefinish: 2:15pm On Nov 14, 2024
Any girl you don't knack well will give you attitudes.
When you knack them well there will be respect, love care and such girls can collect money from their " knackless" boyfriends and use it to maintain you.

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