NewStats: 3,261,091 , 8,173,026 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 08:17 AM 5i2349

AlphaNugget:
Just a gentle reminder 🎗️

If a woman likes you, she will not make things difficult or complicated. 

she’ll make it obvious. No mixed signals, no confusion.

If you’re left guessing, it’s because she doesn’t really care.

Time to move on.

Your time is too valuable to be spent with women who do not value your presence.

🤞

Wrong. Women are different in their similarities. Some women will show mixed signals up to a point.

This your comment shows ignorance about how a woman's current mood, reality, age, experience and time of life affects her romantic relationships

Philosopher1979:
The issue is
Most women are aware of the game even before it started.
See they started toasting most girls between the ages of 13 to 18.
My nusc girlfriend said she was first toasted at 13.
Pick up artistry does not surprise girls. If u try it on a random girl on the street you will hear stiff like "sorry, I'm busy". If she like you she might just say "OK let's talk". They are aware before u even start toasting them.
A 24 year old simp trying to toast a girl is at a huge disadvantage. That 22 year old girl u are simping for has 4 boyfriends, gets toasted 10btimes a year and is just looking at ublikebu are no big deal. She is too experienced and if u don't have game, she will just exploit the guy.
If u are trying to toast a girl, she might just give u let us go straight to the point vibes. The game is rigged and most girls are too experienced.
When I talk to most girls
Me: hello
Girl: look I'm busy, I don't have time. Please just allow
Me: okay let's just have your number
Girl: she gives me her number or she just says don't bother u are wasting your time.
.I pity a 24 year old simp toasting one 23 year old girl with 4 boyfriends. She might reject him or just exploitvhim for money.
Girls are too experienced for most guys tonhandle
Also, most girls have an idea of the kind of guy they want. Some firms like tall guys so a short guy maybe wasting hus time.
Girls have too much experience. We guys don't know game and have to grow into it. A girl that met u us already thinking. CN I give him sex when will he asl for sex, should I just exploit him. OK let me entertain myself. Let's hear him entertain us.
Most guys are too naive and inexperienced with all sorts of blue pill .over.
A girl that does not like u might just ask for 70000 naira to see if she can exploit u and manage u if u have coins or hust try anything. Most guys are at the mercy of the girl thy are toasting. She can try anything and the guy will be afrid

First of all, "hello" is a terrible conversational starter. Most girls will ignore you and rightfully so. Tonight I'll post a comment here on the various mentality checkpoints a woman has before she bleeps you.

Second, a HUGE part of game is curiosity, intrigue and being DIFFERENT. If you can do these effectively, women will beg for your dìck

Guys women are driven by emotions. Not your money. Not your cars. Not handsomeness. Women love emotions and it's one thing they can never get tired of

That's why horniness, anger, tests and drama are things that WILL NEVER go away.

The more you make a woman feel, the harder it is for her to leave. Making her feel starts from when you first meet her

adambeatz:




My brother, most people think men are complicated but in reality we are simple creatures. Once a man can be in an enabling environment to be able to create and provide value to the society at large, he instinctively looks to setup a structure that'll be his kingdom. Then there's people who by nature are calm and reserved, they can go through the experience of life and come out on top but still crave for a peaceful environment.

Then there's the daughters of Eve, some who no matter how calmly and loving you treat them would never appreciate the environment you placed her in because at the back of her mind, she thinks you weak, boring and missing that spontaneous wild life.

What do you think happens when a calm reserved man gets pushed to the wall?. His patience meter overclocks and he does the unexpected by acting so extreme the society gets shocked, even the woman starts regretting cause she never realised the calm loving man she looked down on is actually a monster in disguise. Now regrets sets in, should the option she was aiming at outside doesn't work out she is forced in some cases to regret why she made that move. In some scenarios she instantly becomes an feminist and blames all men further propelling her delusional life.

My point, as a man, for the peaceful sanity of your state of mind, get you a woman that won't keep you in the edge all the time, most Nigerians have been born and raised under flight of fight mood and this affects them psychologically and they don't out grow a certain phase of their lives, they are stick stuck there while life is moving on, have you ever seen men and women who act childish, can't seem to control their emotions, na dem be that . Have you seen ladies for stable and loving homes, unless you haven't experienced it, you'd know what I mean, those babes are educated, and understand life to a certain extent, a kind of woman if she hears you've been sacked, she starts making calls, pull strings, and so on to get you something better instead of whining and bitching about .

There comes a time in a man's life he should leave the war front and grow his kingdom

''Even Kratos retire from war when en born pikin''

Your second paragraph makes it seem like you have hidden resentment for women.

That is how women are. Women are DIFFERENT from men. You shouldn't say "daughters of eve" as if it's a bad thing.

Women don't care about your investments and sacrifices. This is not necessarily a bad thing. This is just how they are

They only care about how you make her feel and her investment in you

“Men are not scared of successful women , they are just afraid of getting disrespected “ 50 Cent
“ It’s hard to see a Rich man broke shame a lady . A rich man can date a lady that has nothing without ever reminding her of her status but it’s hard to see a woman even respond to the greetings of a broke man . They’ll ask him if he doesn’t know his level .No man is intimidated by a woman’s success , they just don’t want to be disrespected. Look around you , how do women treat men without money ? How do men treat women without money ?” 50 Cent
Truth be told , it is always funny when some people say some men are intimidated by a woman’s success

[b] anything you see them rant about online just know that the moment they drop their phones they’ll do the exact opposite. If she says she does not date broke boys online , she’s fucking them offline, if she says she cannot date a man without a car online , she’s dating multiple men without cars offline , if she says she has certain standards online, i can assure you she doesn’t have those standards offline.
Women are not concrete or stable people that’s why they seek that stability in men, so I wonder why some of you are not laughing when you see what these women are demanding online, I know of multiple girls demanding One thing online and acquiescing to the opposite offline. I know of many girls who say they hate Fûck boys online and are still fûcking those same Fûck boys offline . Don’t take what she says seriously she’s only talking in the moment. Most of you don’t know how much nonsense a womans emotions will make her say and do 🤣, you’d be shocked 🤣😂 , girl done ever come Bleep you because she hate you before ? 🤣😂 Wake up boys stop allowing their social media posts deceive you bro they’re not that happy or fly in real life

Rizzputin:


Your second paragraph makes it seem like you have hidden resentment for women.

That is how women are. Women are DIFFERENT from men. You shouldn't say "daughters of eve" as if it's a bad thing.

Women don't care about your investments and sacrifices. This is not necessarily a bad thing. This is just how they are

They only care about how you make her feel and her investment in you

You can only interpret based on how self aware you are, me that's telling you, don't know why you need to repeat and even tag me to what I just said, for that I'm lost there. But thanks any ways.

Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,

Two things you should never chase:::

••• Women.

••• Money.


The reason is that these things are not what you chase after, they're not what you pursue.

These things are what you attract by who you become.


What you should chase is values.

That's the secret behind attracting those two.


To get women you just have to be more charismatic, but to get money, you have to be a whole lot more than being charismatic.


Everything resides in values, the more valuable you become, the more powerful you are & that's when you attract both.


It's a simple puzzle.


So, when we say Instead of chasing money or women, chase purpose.

This is what we mean, we mean do something valuable with your life that will make you more of a valuable person.

Go for self improvement, learn a skill, a trade, etc...

Just do something meaningful with your life...


...and in addition to this, learn game. 👌

🙌

jayAjoku:
The sad thing is most of you are still taking what women say and post online seriously 🤣😂😂 . And the fact that you are taking it seriously shows you don’t know that women will always say one thing online and do another thing offline. It’s sad sha cuz most of you are not learning from the thread you’re only here to validate your hate and disdain for women 🤣😂. Don’t regard whatever these bitches say online, they’re only saying those things to trigger Simps and catch new customers

... I don't trust any human, I don't Trust Women Thrice ....

The Man he insulted in your face ... is the man she is digging codedly .... .... !!

The day I learnt not to blame them for being them is the day I have had Peace of Mind ... All I did was to build my Defence against Being Used ... When You cross the line, I waka you go back ...

Once she sees Her pvssy, Nyansh, face & Boobs are just playthings to You & Not a Means to Influence your Decisions, She will Respect Ya Manhood & Find the next SIMP to Games ... She will still bring the Proceed from maga to share with You then Fvck You ..

No stress 😌!

DonroxyII:
... I don't trust any human, I don't Trust Women Thrice ....

The Man she insulted in your face ... is the man she is digging codedly .... .... !!

The day I learnt not to blame them for being them is the day I have had Peace of Mind ... All I did was to build my Defence against Being Used ... When You cross the line, I waka you go back ...

Once she sees Her pvssy, Nyansh, face & Boobs are just playthings to You & Not a Means to Influence your Decisions, She will Respect Ya Manhood & Find the next SIMP to Games ... She will still bring the Proceed from maga to share with You then Fvck You ..

No stress 😌!

brother you understand this game . I done see many girls crucify who them dey kpansh for mouth then those same girls dey go the man house for night 🤣🤣😂🤣 . I swear you can’t blame them for being them once you understand who they are you no go dey worry yourself 😂

jayAjoku:
brother you understand this game . I done see many girls crucify who them dey kpansh for mouth then those same girls dey go the man house for night 🤣🤣😂🤣 . I swear you can’t blame them for being them once you understand who they are you no go dey worry yourself 😂

I met a very beautiful girl with shapes ... You know .. she quizzed me like I'm entering World Bank just first day of meeting ...

I be like shuuuuu ...

When We got close ... I showed her I be Street & started sharing my sexcapades with her ....

When she opened mouth started talking her own after ascertaining I'm not a judgemental person ... Ohboy ... My body was just getting hot unnecessarily ....

I put my head for Sujud(Like when Muslim put head for ground & started praising Allah for the insight) ........

Ohboy .... She called her best sex in the middle of the night of our chat ... person wey don forget her teytey ......

I was just laughing 😃... No judgement, no Qualms ...

If you be Homeboy(Daddy & Mummy Pikin), Women go Hustle you ... Person wey Street don show shege since she was 13-15yo ....

I would never developed Toxicity for any Woman ...

Na You own ya body, use am do how you like ... why would I be building toxins in my own Body-Systems because person dey knack anyhow dey use simps dey guide ...

Person wey no know must pay to know ..

"Owo Omo Go" na ihm Yoruba dey call am (Fool-Dues, Na so you go wise) .... Pikin Wey Fool Must Pay to Become Wise ...


Na so one person dey craze say .. can't we see woman ain't beautiful Na bra & kinnikan dey make dem dey ... Abeg ...

Extreme Toxic Psychology Na Madness e go create because the brain is always greedy pushing things too far than necessary & reversal is quite painful ..

You don’t know Many women that keep to their words , so why will you expect her words on social media of all places to mean anything? If women are the gender that fakes nearly everything why wouldn’t you expect the same online ? It’s her Job to garner attention, most of you read everything here and you still don’t understand Attention makes a woman feel alive . The girls ranting about 6 figure this and that on their pages are just ranting most of them don’t even know what it means 🤣😂. You niggas are really taking a bunch of unstable people seriously online? Even if she says she only dates benz drivers and she eventually dates one, she fit still go Fûck guy wey no get car wey him mattress dey for ground 🤣😂.. Real players know this matter Be like una never understand Vagina people 🤣😂

The Most Hardcore Feminist still kneels down to suck a real Niggas Dick bro and she swallows too😎😎

Do you think Chimamanda Doesn’t kneel down to suck dick ? You must be joking 🤣, Do you think she even believes what she says in public? Do you know how well women can maintain a public Image whilst doing some nasty stuff behind doors ? 🤣😂😂 You people need to stop focusing or worrying about why these women are saying online Bruh.

I assure you if chimamanda should meet the man that Really makes her pussy wet just from his presence alone all her feminist bullshit will fly out the window and she will bend over and take it in the Ass , and I’m certain she must have met those men , but she will not tell her feminist audience.
🤣 Mother Nature doesn’t give 2 fûcks about Feminism Bruh , that’s why she keeps making simps cry 😭 . Mother Nature always wins Bruh that’s why These girls are getting pregnant by men they’re not married to Bruh because the pussy wants what the pussy wants Bruh and your money can’t stop it 🤣

Men get hornyy anyhow, small thing we catch erection, even breeze can make you hard, you wake up and you are hard, Kai, testerones is too much, libido is too high, nature don doom us, it's a reason why men would continue simping even if they don't want to, the prickk usually wins against the battle of the head

Authority
Self Control

So what can guys do

Philosopher1979:
The issue is
Most women are aware of the game even before it started.
See they started toasting most girls between the ages of 13 to 18.
My nusc girlfriend said she was first toasted at 13.
Pick up artistry does not surprise girls. If u try it on a random girl on the street you will hear stiff like "sorry, I'm busy". If she like you she might just say "OK let's talk". They are aware before u even start toasting them.
A 24 year old simp trying to toast a girl is at a huge disadvantage. That 22 year old girl u are simping for has 4 boyfriends, gets toasted 10btimes a year and is just looking at ublikebu are no big deal. She is too experienced and if u don't have game, she will just exploit the guy.
If u are trying to toast a girl, she might just give u let us go straight to the point vibes. The game is rigged and most girls are too experienced.
When I talk to most girls
Me: hello
Girl: look I'm busy, I don't have time. Please just allow
Me: okay let's just have your number
Girl: she gives me her number or she just says don't bother u are wasting your time.
.I pity a 24 year old simp toasting one 23 year old girl with 4 boyfriends. She might reject him or just exploitvhim for money.
Girls are too experienced for most guys tonhandle
Also, most girls have an idea of the kind of guy they want. Some firms like tall guys so a short guy maybe wasting hus time.
Girls have too much experience. We guys don't know game and have to grow into it. A girl that met u us already thinking. CN I give him sex when will he asl for sex, should I just exploit him. OK let me entertain myself. Let's hear him entertain us.
Most guys are too naive and inexperienced with all sorts of blue pill .over.
A girl that does not like u might just ask for 70000 naira to see if she can exploit u and manage u if u have coins or hust try anything. Most guys are at the mercy of the girl thy are toasting. She can try anything and the guy will be afrid

Boss abeg come teach me game

Rizzputin:



First of all, "hello" is a terrible conversational starter. Most girls will ignore you and rightfully so. Tonight I'll post a comment here on the various mentality checkpoints a woman has before she bleeps you.

Second, a HUGE part of game is curiosity, intrigue and being DIFFERENT. If you can do these effectively, women will beg for your dìck

Okay so hw can we influence their emotions to our own benefit

Rizzputin:
Guys women are driven by emotions. Not your money. Not your cars. Not handsomeness. Women love emotions and it's one thing they can never get tired of

That's why horniness, anger, tests and drama are things that WILL NEVER go away.

The more you make a woman feel, the harder it is for her to leave. Making her feel starts from when you first meet her

jayAjoku:
The Most Hardcore Feminist still kneels down to suck a real Niggas Dick bro and she swallows too😎😎

You are a bad boy🙂.

JESHAL007:
Men get hornyy anyhow, small thing we catch erection, even breeze can make you hard, you wake up and you are hard, Kai, testerones is too much, libido is too high, nature don doom us, it's a reason why men would continue simping even if they don't want to, the prickk usually wins against the battle of the head

Authority
Self Control

No lies detected.

emmaodet:


50 Cent “when a woman is broke, 99% of men will do everything to change her status. When a man is broke, 99% of women will walk out on him. Dear young Kings, be safe out here. Don’t go broke.

There are women who will be with you even if you are broke and have no dollars or a home. That woman is your mother and sisters. Most women these days walk out of your life the moment you got nothing.” 😳😳😳

A woman I know divorced her husband the moment she got a PhD and was making more money than him. She said 'i'm now bigger than him and he is not stepping up' I didn't even bother to question her. She is White!

I smiled in my mind...The redpill never lies.

luminouz:

A woman I know divorced her husband the moment she got a PhD and was making more money than him. She said 'i'm now bigger than him and he is not stepping up' I didn't even bother to question her. She is White!

I smiled in my mind...The redpill never lies.

Madness workd. Maybe 5gat it us why it us more important to get a woman sexuslly than just financially. A sexusl man will have women who cannot get over him.
Reality is like quantum physics. 2 different things can be true at a time.. u suspect some rich ladies are Bern sexed by poor or average men who target them sexually and not financially. These kind of women will say they don't need a man but will have one young man servicing them underneath. Ubunja arrested these issues.
Truth is stranger than fiction.
My opinion I'd
IF YOU CAN BRING OUT THE SLUTTY SIDE OF A WOMSN AND GET HER SEXUALLY, EVEN IF SHE IS TICHER THAN YOU, SHE WILL FOLLOW YOU. SHE MIGHT DO IT CODEDLY BUT YOU WILL ACCESS HER AT ANYTIME

luminouz:

A woman I know divorced her husband the moment she got a PhD and was making more money than him. She said 'i'm now bigger than him and he is not stepping up' I didn't even bother to question her. She is White!

I smiled in my mind...The redpill never lies.

JESHAL007:

If anybody here has any suggestions on what to do you can contribute, because this is one of the core of redpill, it's where simping starts

In one of your posts, you outlined how important Sexuality is in the world. So, if there is anything to do with sexual urge IMO is to embrace it dearly and channel it to your advantage. It only becomes a problem if the urge stems from scarcity and not abundance.

DonroxyII:
I met a very beautiful girl with shapes ... You know .. she quizzed me like I'm entering World Bank just first day of meeting ...

I be like shuuuuu ...

When We got close ... I showed her I be Street & started sharing my sexcapades with her ....

When she opened mouth started talking her own after ascertaining I'm not a judgemental person ... Ohboy ... My body was just getting hot unnecessarily ....

I put my head for Sujud(Like when Muslim put head for ground & started praising Allah for the insight) ........

Ohboy .... She called her best sex in the middle of the night of our chat ... person wey don forget her teytey ......

I was just laughing 😃... No judgement, no Qualms ...

If you be Homeboy(Daddy & Mummy Pikin), Women go Hustle you ... Person wey Street don show shege since she was 13-15yo ....

I would never developed Toxicity for any Woman ...

Na You own ya body, use am do how you like ... why would I be building toxins in my own Body-Systems because person dey knack anyhow dey use simps dey guide ...

Person wey no know must pay to know ..

"Owo Omo Go" na ihm Yoruba dey call am (Fool-Dues, Na so you go wise) .... Pikin Wey Fool Must Pay to Become Wise ...


Na so one person dey craze say .. can't we see woman ain't beautiful Na bra & kinnikan dey make dem dey ... Abeg ...

Extreme Toxic Psychology Na Madness e go create because the brain is always greedy pushing things too far than necessary & reversal is quite painful ..

Women are very open to you once they know that you're not a judgmental person.

The things most women have done in secret especially beautiful and married women, mhen, no be small thing o. When a woman choose to explore, she goes far and wide. I've done crazy things with women, I've seen women do crazy things... Women are wonderful creatures and should be enjoyed.

Even the virgins are not left out, many of them desire intimacy and pleasure but get it through other means like cunnilingus, anal, clit rub, heavy petting etc. Women love sex and can be wild when they're hot. The big ones may not necessarily bill you if they're interested in you, the ones will definitely bill you, the religious ones may try to guilt trip you or preach to you. I have tasted all and though it's a wonderful experience, I still feel this emptiness and enjoy my aloneness. Sampling different ladies has made it difficult for me to settle down because the thought of what a lady has done in the past either with me or other guys interferes with whatever plan of the future I have with her. It's a crazy cycle and the dating pool is polluted

Philosopher1979:


Madness workd. Maybe 5gat it us why it us more important to get a woman sexuslly than just financially. A sexusl man will have women who cannot get over him.
Reality is like quantum physics. 2 different things can be true at a time.. u suspect some rich ladies are Bern sexed by poor or average men who target them sexually and not financially. These kind of women will say they don't need a man but will have one young man servicing them underneath. Ubunja arrested these issues.
Truth is stranger than fiction.
My opinion I'd
IF YOU CAN BRING OUT THE SLUTTY SIDE OF A WOMSN AND GET HER SEXUALLY, EVEN IF SHE IS TICHER THAN YOU, SHE WILL FOLLOW YOU. SHE MIGHT DO IT CODEDLY BUT YOU WILL ACCESS HER AT ANYTIME

Yes, you're right. I've experienced it many times.

JESHAL007:
Men get hornyy anyhow, small thing we catch erection, even breeze can make you hard, you wake up and you are hard, Kai, testerones is too much, libido is too high, nature don doom us, it's a reason why men would continue simping even if they don't want to, the prickk usually wins against the battle of the head

Authority
Self Control

The average man is filled with a lot of energy hence he must learn how to convert such energy into creative energy however environment and situations stiffles most men creative energy leaving them with only one way to express or release such energy - Sex. Men use sex as an avenue to relieve stress from their system, sex is good but it's not a lasting solution and many men fall prey of getting little amount of sex while expending a large amount of resources

hopefulLandlord:

Connect a fellow pastafarian to this group of yours boss. May hi noodly appendages keep touching your everyday life, R'amen

My fellow unbeliever, it is appreciated that you wish to the whatsapp group. However, there are secret criteria (not to be told to outsiders) that determine who can receive an invitation, and you don't meet them. It might have been a different case if I was the , but I am not.

May the his noodly appendages be with you.

dontrulee:


The average man is filled with a lot of energy hence he must learn how to convert such energy into creative energy however environment and situations stiffles most men creative energy leaving them with only one way to express or release such energy - Sex. Men use sex as an avenue to relieve stress from their system, sex is good but it's not a lasting solution and many men fall prey of getting little amount of sex while expending a large amount of resources

The money men waste on sex is too much and the sex is not worth it, regardless whether it's porn, prostitutes, plates, girlfriend, wives, after orgasm you return to your sense, but money earned by sweat and labor is permanently gone, all the ladies have to do is appeal to your sexual appetite, sometimes nature does it's work when you see an attractive lady and you start simping which still costs money, my bro in this tough economy, guys suppose wise up and get sense, sexual urges are like waves they come and go

JESHAL007:



The money men waste on sex is too much and the sex is not worth it, regardless whether it's porn, prostitutes, plates, girlfriend, wives, after orgasm you return to your sense, but money earned by sweat and labor is permanently gone, all the ladies have to do is appeal to your sexual appetite, sometimes nature does it's work when you see an attractive lady and you start simping which still costs money, my bro in this tough economy, guys suppose wise up and get sense, sexual urges are like waves they come and go

I totally agree with you

JESHAL007:



The money men waste on sex is too much and the sex is not worth it, regardless whether it's porn, prostitutes, plates, girlfriend, wives, after orgasm you return to your sense, but money earned by sweat and labor is permanently gone, all the ladies have to do is appeal to your sexual appetite, sometimes nature does it's work when you see an attractive lady and you start simping which still costs money, my bro in this tough economy, guys suppose wise up and get sense, sexual urges are like waves they come and go

Self discipline is good. You transcend beyond the flesh & universe. I was thinking deeply about many things and I come to realize there are many answers and universal laws of the universe.

As humans our greatest undoing is vices, addiction, indiscipline, self esteem issues and more.

Let me break it down.

1. Obesity can be classified as also the result of Addiction on FastFoods. As opposed to dedicating time & discipline to cook your own food. One American TV station Discovery Life, you will see how the obese acknowledges their eating habits and turned a new leaf.

2. Porn & Masturbation is a quick fix to getting pleasures from sex instead of going through the long process of getting a girl or via marriage.

3. Betting/Ponzi schemes a quick money making scheme as opposed to learning a hard skill, making a product or becoming a sales man.

4. Social media can be seen as a quick way to time as opposed to meeting real world people and interacting.

5. Taking steroids as a quick fix to bulk up as opposed to putting in the workout routine for several years.

6. Patronizing call girls as opposed to finding a girlfriend

7. Taking man power as opposed to adopting healthy eating of fruits and training for stamina in the bed.

There's a common thing in all of these. QUICK FIX & LACK OF PATIENCE TO GO THROUGH THE PAIN. Which we then have the indiscipline part as well.

Close observation, and one will notice most of the life problems is due to these quick fixes.

Like there is a universal law in the universe that it will always backfire in the end. Especially not knowing when to stop!

If you observe critically this applies to the NICE GUY SYNDROME as well.

You see a hot girl & you're already thinking how you can split her legs instantly. And it happens you are a tech guy with $500K in your so at least spewing 100K Naira instantly wouldn't do you any harm to your balance.

Subconsciously, at the get go of meeting you have decided to take the easy fast way, the quick fix. To by the normal process of wooing, calling and all the shenanigans that could last for hours, days, months & years before you're able to see d color of the pantie cause in your mind spewing cash will hasten the process.

But like all other vices of quick fixes, from the law of the universe (assumptions) is a bad way to start and it will always backfire especially if you're opting to keep the woman for a long time relationship.

It's just like the universe has a special way to punish us for shortcuts whether quickly or in the foreseeable future. The law always comes to hold.

Even if you may not necessarily want to keep the ladies you be spewing cash on for a long time thing but it's like the universe has a special way of punishing us for quick fixes even without us realising.

And I come to understand 'Simping' is quite different from the 'Nice Guy syndrome'.

Many guys may not be Simp but they have the Nice Guy Syndrome. And some Redpillers just use the two to mean the same thing.

So please ehh, also saying this to myself, especially moving forward into the new year. Money should be kept aside while wooing even though you have it stashed cause there's the dopamine reward hormone, and a level of satisfaction that comes with being able to get laid after going through the hassles of wooing, gaming, marriage and all of that even if it takes several years as opposed to the instant gratification when you get laid by spewing or trying to impress with instant cash.

I know some folks will argue that instant cash saves more time and even money in the long run when you calculate all the expenses on going the longer route of wooing. But just do it for the sake of DISCIPLINE & Healthy relationship based of mutual attraction.

Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s stubborn.,


Due to her background, there has been many things off about her which I’ve been able to correct some. Before, during argument, she’ would talk back at me or go home or start crying .. I’ve been able to correct this after years… she’s the kind of person that’ll give you the impression that you can’t control her.. but the moment you start vexing or looking at her, she’ll adjust .. I’m yet to catch her cheating ( generally I don’t trust women) but tbh, I have not , sometimes I sneak around her phone and all that, but I stopped recently cos it makes me feel desperate and obsessive.

She’s caught me cheating once , and that was when we had issues, we didn’t see for like 3 weeks it was then i met one sweet nairaland babe lol.., my girl discovered and cried bitterly , she went to report me to my family ( my mom really really loves her ehn), they scolded me and she fell sick for like two weeks cos of this . She said something which I hold dear to my heart since then, she said ‘ even though she saw the evidence of cheating on my phone , that she’s still not going to believe if not that I confirmed it with my mouth’ she said was willing to die that I didn’t do it.,’

I learnt that even if a woman catches u live and direct doing something bad, baba still deny am o. lol



She’s open to me financially wise, infact she keeps her money with me and won’t take any decision concerning money without my knowledge. Shes stubborn o , except u change it for her, she no go hear word easily .. her mom and brothers really love me, especially her immediate brother … she’s currently doing her service and would travel every 2 weeks to meet me, infact she’ll lie at the school and visit me unannounced at my place ..


Let me put it like this, I make around 30-100k daily average na 60k most time sha ,
And I spend around 15-30k on her monthly .. the highest money I have spent on her at ago was 120k and 50k .. she’s spent on me too but it’s very little compared to mine.. highest she’s spent on me was 40k at a go, I’m 28 years.

Now this is the problem , I discovered that when she gained ission to school, she’s slept with an older man. And she’s had abortion for her ex. That was like two years before we met.. I narrowed down my search and discovered she’s no more in communication with them. She’s 23 years of age. And tbh, I love her but anytime I think of those things e Dey always pain me in silent …









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When I was running my NG program, I knew this girl as a friend sister, she was around 16 or so then,she added me up and we would and jokes on Facebook.. she’ll subtly profess her love for me but I Dey always body shame her that she’s below my standard, she ended up blocking me and years later , she texted me on Facebook and we started talking .. she’s 21 now , look and appearance wise, she’s 2/10.. also her cooking is 1/10 tbh she’s not my type appearance wise , she studied nursing in school and she came visiting sometimes last year..

Beauty is 2/10
Cooking is 1/10
Respect 5/10
Intelligence bookwise 10/10
Intelligence generally 5/10
Bsc( nurse).
Age 21
Exposure 3/10
Wealth nil
She can talk anywhere.
I discovered that she’s a virgin , she won’t allow me to penetrate, she was asking me to make a promise that if I do it, I must marry her, bro no be say I get bad intentions towards her o but I no fit Dey promise woman cos of sex, she’s very small in stature and she also has daddy issues. Her mom has remarried she’s living with her stepdad,,, she said so many bad things about her dad and her stepdad, I tried to mediate and reconnect her to her dad but it didn’t work out.. my relationship with her is a long distance type but I LIKE HER TOO.. and she likes me a lots ehn..






the nairaland girl I met said she has 6 body counts ( she agreed to) but from my calculations and research, e go reach 17 ( no jokes).. said shes aborted twice for diff men.
she’s rich though and the smartest of them all, she’s very beautiful too, her beauty is 8/10.. she’s super extremely smart , business wise, mentally and emotionally. Infact she’s better than me at the emboldened.. she’s 25. All of dem are ready to say yes, if I Dey ready. Her mom has divorced too, but remarried ..

Beauty 8/10
Exposure 10/10
Cooking 100/10
Respect( 5/10)
Intelligence bookwise (4/10)
Intelligence generally Omo 1000/10
She has hnd
Age 25
She can talk anyhow and dress anyhow too.. not so modest but she’s willing to address that..
Wealth ( she’s doing very good, I mean very very good) she lives alone. Shes into business , atleast from what I know..
Non of these girls are really demanding financial wise( or let me say their demands no really mean anything to my finance tbh)..
Note, in the past four years I’ve dated atleast 30 girls , but these 3 made it to Final.. lol,
I live in north central ..

I won’t lie to you, Im tired, I’m looking forward to settle down anytime soon , I have the money…




Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .