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"What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many (22673 Views)
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Veetee(m): 3:55pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse. I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself. He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad. We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest. Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time. Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips. After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k. Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck. They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story. sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me. My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce. These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle. 71 Likes 11 Shares |
advanceDNA: 4:00pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Veetee: So ..baba did u get ur money back or u just simp for nothing?? 217 Likes 13 Shares |
Veetee(m): 4:02pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
advanceDNA: She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore 41 Likes 6 Shares |
advanceDNA: 4:13pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Veetee: She should go to hell naaaa.....So all the other money nko?? Otilor?? Sigh!! Btw..why u just sending money anyhow to a girl u met online and hasn't proven to valuable or loyal to you....u just opening urself to easy exploitation..... Do u just feel u have to pay a woman to make them think u are serious...? Paying makes them think u are mugú Make a women like u first, see that she's really into you, before u start being nice with your urgent 5K 174 Likes 15 Shares |
phorget(m): 4:19pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of s. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.
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Veetee(m): 4:23pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
phorget: This aside the money he has been sending her while he was still in canada, sometimes 250k, 100k etc... 26 Likes |
Starz825(m): 4:32pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
I say women dey enjoy.... Dem go just siddon pretty dey collect money.... without doing nothing 106 Likes 4 Shares |
Lalami3232(m): 4:35pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
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phorget(m): 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Veetee: It's so heartbreaking sir, sidechick that one will need to compete with so many other contenders. 13 Likes 1 Share |
EmperorCaesar(m): 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
![]() Your friend no be saint too I believe cheats are coward MFs that are too weak to walk out of the union or take a second wife for themselves. I detest cowards That aside, your guy just dey burn burn money and wetin hin dey get in return? just the P***y? ![]() Well, you guys overprice and overvalue all these girls, and na una make dem dey get entitlement mentality. 50 Likes 1 Share |
Talkisneeded(m): 4:58pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Your married friend?? We should start from there first... Cheating on his woman and expecting truthfulness from his side-chick.. Corny man die, corny man bury am... I sell herbs for sexual enhancement tho 85 Likes 3 Shares |
BItt: 5:00pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
This is perhaps the easiest money to get back... Simply speak to some of your friends in the police force if you have any. Or even walk up to and explain everything without hiding anything... Let her explain herself... What she played on you is obviously a romance scam. She nursed you to the extent of sending upkeep and flight billing... My nigga ![]() 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Sp1ritHusband(m): 5:16pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Good for him
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Reverseng: 5:35pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Like attract like, opposite repels You attract what you are not what you deserve and what you are is a product of all your current and past lives you've lived so far. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Sp1ritHusband(m): 5:44pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Maga don pay, shout alleluia!
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dkidd: 5:46pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
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faceland: 6:43pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
If he told you N250k that means he don give her N500k. Playing long-distance. From experience, if it doesn't work out and she is broke again, she will come back briefly. 32 Likes |
faceland: 6:48pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
EmperorCaesar: Imagine young student getting N250k regularly. She would upgrade hee lifestyle and by default meet bigger men. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Zonefree(m): 6:56pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Imagine spending thousands of Naira on a side chick that will still give you infection ![]() 35 Likes 2 Shares |
flokii: 9:37pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
@OP We know you're that friend but continue mixing the zobo.. those wey go drink am dey.
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ThaThinka: 10:07pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Veetee: Him or you? 🤔 By the way, I don't sympathise with whomever was involved. I don't see any moral in all of this. Plus, na people like una dey spoil these ladies with money so tey most other guys no get rep for dem eyes. ![]() 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Wearetheugliest: 10:36pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
Veetee: Abeg your friend send you make you carry hin matter come here. Bro sorry you nor get work oo Yeye ![]() 7 Likes |
motymop: 12:25am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Ooh, your friend is married but do not want a single lady to enjoy her own life ![]() Una funny for this naija 14 Likes |
ruggedtimi(m): 4:10am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Nothing to learn here...Your friend never see person him dey send $200 steady. Yet he was complaining about spending much on runs girls. Maybe na him type dey pay runs girls 50k and above. .....No yahoo boy will send a girl on a vacation trip unless they are engaged or married. Possible a big calabar politician or business man. Your friend is likely one of those lucky once workiñg for total or mobil, cos is now a norm for them to send their wives /children to Canada. 10 Likes |
ruggedtimi(m): 4:18am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Starz825:you think dem investing on Iphone na for play. They quality pics to attract big customers. Different level girls, the once that mostly pics from local hanging spots/university enviroment you can try your luck, once posting pics only from nice looking lounge/restuarant just ready to pay steady uber and hanging out, the once posting in lagos,abuja ,port harcourt and Owerri just ask her how much when ever you notice she is in your city. But see those once posting pics from Santorini, london, Marrakech , Dubai and back to nigeria all in one month. Baba run oh. 16 Likes 5 Shares |
Sapasenator: 4:24am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Veetee: I don't believe this. Money was not sent back. 16 Likes |
Baronthecelebri: 5:25am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Hmmmmm
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zed7: 5:48am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Cheating isn't really worth it, especially when you're married. The girl will always misbehave because she thinks she's doing you a favour. She knows all she'll get from the relationship is money and she'll bill you like mad. She'll always threaten to leave, especially if she's beautiful. If you must cheat as a married man, get a mature girl who's in her 30's and has lost hope of marriage or a single mother. Those are the type that will be happy to have a man and will show some form of loyalty. If you ask me, cheating is a waste of energy, money and emotions. It depletes you spiritually, physically, financially and emotionally. Avoid it!. 30 Likes 5 Shares |
9japride(m): 6:37am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Veetee:[color=#006600][/color] I doubt this story. How has he assisted his fellow man or even family ? What's so special about that particular girl that he can't find in other girls? 2 Likes 1 Share |
MarketDispatch: 6:56am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Veetee: Your friend na Suegbe.....the girl was scamming him 7 Likes |
shortgun(m): 6:59am On Nov 12, 2024 |
I am very sure that girl didn’t refund any money to this guy. He's just saying that to save face. It's shocking that at this time men still do all the wrong things to lay a girl. Nonsense ![]() 18 Likes |
francisbarrack(m): 8:00am On Nov 12, 2024 |
MarketDispatch: My mind is telling me that d said girl might b a man pretending to b lady... no loose guide 8 Likes 1 Share |
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