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That’s a right and very formal decision. Will lead to genuine forgiveness, healing and won’t get you typing all this again.

Good luck

If you tell your wife to take the child back to her real father and she refused which means you want the world to know that your wife is an infidel/betrayer which might cut your lifespan short and she will covered her shame by killing with poison.

Rtk4:
I've been married for over 8years now and blessed with 3kids, but always had doubt on my being the father of my first child. Last year, December 2023. I decided to run a DNA test & got to find out that i wasn't the father of my first child. It shattered me and nearly made me commit suicide.
I still found a way to forgive my wife and the marriage continued till today. But the truth is that anytime i the situation i feel like a fool due to how much i've invested in the kid... I work so hard everyday to take care of my family.
My plans right now is to tell my wife to take the child to the father cos i can't continue taking care of another man's child knowing fully well that the father is still alive and perhaps doing better than me financially. I sincerely love the child and never shown any difference amongst my kids even till today.

My problem right now is what if my wife refuse my decision to take the child to the father?
Am i heartless to take such a decision cos somehow i feel pity for the kid.

Let the child stay with you , he/she can be a blessing to you .... Last last the child go still no the truth