NewStats: 3,261,173 , 8,173,273 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 12:28 PM 4a4t67

YoungBlackRico:
No let anyone into your space, greet when and if necessary though.

Very important.

Ernesthugo:
you can still rent one to get the experience and diseases from toilet

It's too late now. They won't have me.

THEN DO NOT WISH FOR THE UNWANTED.

Sapasenator:


It's too late now. They won't have me.

Tayorshd87:
Say hi and don't mingle to avoid too much intimacy

Dance from where again?

Verydarkhearted:
I only talk to my landlord. No body else . Most times I don’t even greet fellow tenants my landlord has begged me to associate or communicate with fellow tenants I laugh and . But you see that cat that always come to window and cry I will kill it.. I don’t care if it’s a tenant or not.. secondly I noticed my landlord is fuvking one of the tenants wife.. but Wetin concern me ??

your landlord go suffer oo Abi Na arrangee between him and the tenant maybe he use his wife as collateral to pay house rent?

Sapasenator:
My biggest regret was not living in a face me I slap you. I missed out a lot. hahahha

I am sure you don't want to have that experience or do you?

Eagleways:
I am sure you don't want to have that experience or do you?

I wanted to but too late now, do you have a face me I face you for me to rent?

Tokskob2008:
I try as much as I can to avoid everyone in the compound, make everybody hold him side.

As long as you exchange greetings when you come across them.

uniquetechng:
I live alone with my wife and kids in my compound and sometimes it gets boring especially when my kids has gone to school and wifey go to the market.
Often wish to have tenants but I after reading and listening to what some landlords goes through in the hands of their tenants I just died the idea of having one.

It pays to stay alone and mind your business but there are times you will need people especially in times of health emergencies.

congrats landlord, just pray for normal humans and give them one flat, it is necessary. I also enjoy alone time a lot but I'm in good and talking with all my 12 flat neighbours.

Make sure fine fine young girls dey wey u fit d use cure konji
but avoid landlord daughter no matter what

Tokskob2008:

Unnecessary association with neighbours no mean say make dem no forsake you when you need them. It's best you say hi and give everyone their long rope.

Yes you're right. That's my formula.

It is not advisable to completely avoid relating with people, especially neighbours because you may need them one day.

The vagaries of life can befall you that you may need their assistance.

However, you need to establish healthy boundaries to ensure that you're not taken for granted and the relationship is not abused.

I believe you should be able to share a casual greeting of good morning/evening.

No man is island



You will need them,when you started having children.

MaziObinnaokija:
Hope ur flat have personal prepaid meter sha abi nah CIVILIAN BARRACKS . To avoid trouble.Ensure u have ur own prepaid meter(not the type wey you go dey contribute till dey finish paying. Pay ur compound/house cleaner. Water bill. Avoid gossip

This is one of the issues I am currently battling with my neighbour now. Using 1 prepaid Meter. As dem Port us for Band A we don dey have issues. I dey plan to buy my prepaid Meter before the year end. I have sought permission from landlady and she has given the go ahead. I no fit come and get BP cos of one stupid neighbour.

Emma09:
This is one of the issues I am currently battling with my neighbour now. Using 1 prepaid Meter. As dem Port us for Band A we don dey have issues. I dey plan to buy my prepaid Meter before the year end. I have sought permission from landlady and she has given the go ahead. I no fit come and get BP cos of one stupid neighbour.

Good.But u won't be able to go with it if u ate moving out/relocate elsewhere

Also ignore that flirty lady. Her boyfriend is the local underworld kingpin. U can thank me later on this one.

MaziObinnaokija:
Good.But u won't be able to go with it if u ate moving out/relocate elsewhere

I don't mind o. Make I get my peace of mind from a crazy neighbour first.

Verydarkhearted:
I only talk to my landlord. No body else . Most times I don’t even greet fellow tenants my landlord has begged me to associate or communicate with fellow tenants I laugh and . But you see that cat that always come to window and cry I will kill it.. I don’t care if it’s a tenant or not.. secondly I noticed my landlord is fuvking one of the tenants wife.. but Wetin concern me ??

No one ever live in isolation, you may not be their friend but at least be in good term with them by just greeting. Trust me, you may unknowingly need their helps someday.

RoyalBlu:


Which one be CIVILIAN BARRACKS again

It's just three apartments in the compound.

Getting a prepaid meter na by serious connection o. So far, no issues with light bills.

Three apartments only na him you dey shout.....abeg make friendly interactions with the single ones there n live your life to the fullest!

When I read some comments here I laugh
Let me tell you it is good to avoid people in the compound where you stay but very risky at same time.

I was 8 months pregnant when I came out by 2.am with my husband to rescue a dying neighbour

Mind you this neighbour his wife and children don't greet anybody in the compound , they fight everyone mostly cos of wire to dry clothes and well they don't let tennants fetch water.

For this reason nobody goes close to them and everyone in the compound is minding their business.

But when mid night sickness set for that man , his wife and children were in their flat crying close neighbours were hearing them but nobody went close to know what was going on


When the woman could not bear it she sent her children to come knock my door by 2a:m

That was how my husband and myself entered their flat and saw the condition of this man

Nobody in the compound came out some were even gisting in their flats.

The funny part is all of them in the compound are from same region even they speak same language

Am the only one from the north.

No be to mind your business be the problem ooo but when emergency comes at night who will come through for you?

People should be careful and learn to coexist

Verydarkhearted:
I only talk to my landlord. No body else . Most times I don’t even greet fellow tenants my landlord has begged me to associate or communicate with fellow tenants I laugh and . But you see that cat that always come to window and cry I will kill it.. I don’t care if it’s a tenant or not.. secondly I noticed my landlord is fuvking one of the tenants wife.. but Wetin concern me ??

The day rain will beat your clothe outside, nobody go send you o. Hope you get the message.

You can get a card checker or reader to monitor individual usage instead of a prepaid meter. Each flat must have one. You can remove it when moving out of the apartment.I use it . Great peace of mind! Ask PHCN official or any good electrical shop sell it

Emma09:
This is one of the issues I am currently battling with my neighbour now. Using 1 prepaid Meter. As dem Port us for Band A we don dey have issues. I dey plan to buy my prepaid Meter before the year end. I have sought permission from landlady and she has given the go ahead. I no fit come and get BP cos of one stupid neighbour.

Sapasenator:


I wanted to but too late now, do you have a face me I face you for me to rent?

omor it is not too difficult to get one. The one of near completion will even sweet you . Just ask around okoko or ajegunle.

The wahala you are want to taste will start from the agent/omonile that will take you to the compound

cardoctor:
Also ignore that flirty lady. Her boyfriend is the local underworld kingpin. U can thank me later on this one.

Flirty lady

Didn't mention that in my post o.

I'm a woman btw.

Eagleways:
omor it is not too difficult to get one. The one of near completion will even sweet you . Just ask around okoko or ajegunle.

The wahala you are want to taste will start from the agent/omonile that will take you to the compound

Thank you for this information, let me get ready to go to Ajegunle. Face -me-I-face -you, here I come.

Sapasenator:


I.missed so much dramas

And Bleep

Even me as a landlord i dont socialize with tenant... Pay your rent and go your way

LtChisom:


And Bleep

not that. I miss the fights from overstaying in the bathrooms

EmperorCaesar:


I dont even say hi, i no send anybody

But then, this life is too short to have some useless rules wrap around yourself just because you wanna feel like the highest around

Somehow, u fit need their help one day o... U go con begin dey force convo with shame

So you know that one abi... Oga op associate with your neighbours, e get why

Mind your business!

funmilead:
You can get a card checker or reader to monitor individual usage instead of a prepaid meter. Each flat must have one. You can remove it when moving out of the apartment.I use it . Great peace of mind! Ask PHCN official or any good electrical shop sell it

Same with me, the flat I came in to had one prepaid meter with debt on it, I needed a prepaid meter but they said they will split the debt and put it on the new meter, So I am using the card reader now, and I haVe peace of mind.

So I used to mind my business and ignored everybody till they I left my gas on and went to work.........one of them that I have not greeted or talked managed to get my number and called me. How she got the number i don't know......she saved me from burning someone's house.

My orientation Don change o