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@ 34 Officially. I'm Now A Poor Man. I Don Give Up. (4802 Views)
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Letdemsay02: 8:29pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Poverty is dealing with me seriously. You can insult me fine call,me all types of names no problem infact laugh at me. But all I know am not a lazy person. I Don hustle well well oo. I have worked hard all my life. Starting from when I'm small about 9 years start living with people who are not my parents. I started hustling for money when I was in junoir secondary up to tertiary education just having one certificate. I didn't further ahead. I had to drop to face life. Na me be last born for my family as everybody don Bleep up, them come put hope for me say na me go make am. I go raise the family from poverty. Though the signs were there, cause I take life serious . My pattern was different from my elderly ones. I have this hustling spirit that have never been see in my family. Sometime family used to tease my mom if she is the one that gave birth to me or she adopted me. Today here I am hopeless, I lack morale, weak zero zeal. Facing health and emotional challenges. I have grown to be a man now, no wife, no kid.no investment no steady source of income. I can't even take good care of myself. I'm just retrogressing, selling some of my property to feed. I'm asking this questions? did I took the wrong path to life? Are there unknown forces like spirituality controlling my family? I just wonder how a whole full family come just poor finish from A to Z nobody fit make am. To even do well small, nobody. Or did i made some wrong decisions in life that have kept me like this? 4 Likes |
uncleck: 8:34pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Listen young man. ,two years ago I was your age in this same situation. But last year I bought a car. This year I contributed handsomely to my father's burial and I will marry before this year runs out. Listen again, I was hopeless at 34 just two years ago. I'm not a rich man yet, but I live a more stable life now, I'm no longer selling my properties to feed instead I'm replacing the ones I sold. I didn't do yahoo. I didn't do money ritual. I only focused on one particular thing, became the best at it and gradually money started coming. I'm a roofer, all my clients recommend me to their friends and family who need my service because I don't disappoint. My advice? Pick something, give it your 100% and stand out in it. Money will definitely come. I made a promise to myself. If I get a contract, I shall not eat a dime from the money till I complete the project to the satisfaction of my client. The result is that I have never had issue with any client. Instead, my clientele base keep increasing and more money keep flowing because I'm building a reputation of honesty, trust and reliability. Learn from me 134 Likes 17 Shares |
njelrapheal: 8:35pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
wetin i wan talk for here. first off. the economy no de smile.. one thing i know for certain first be say person wey never fit stand no de back person. keep it grinding bro.
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mbaise1000: 8:40pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
I think if the poster is serious, he is born looser, a failure, his poverty is follow come, and if anyone will by mistake give him a billion money, he will squander it too an give up again, imagine giving up at the age of 54. Even if the poster made serious mistakes in the past, so what? How many successful people haven't made serious mistakes in their life, there are 54 year old people who haven't even married and are still hoping to marry and still hoping to be successful, the poster is weak since it is said that when the going gets tough, only the tough get going, since he stopped, that's the reason he is a failure. Mr poster you are a failure already because you have given up ALREADY, you can prove me wrong if you are not 1 Like |
wittywriter: 8:43pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Letdemsay02:Create a life of value...get yourself engaged with an online earning means which will give you at least $50(fifty dollars ) monthly rather than using your browsing gadget and internet access to lament online . wittyness. 1 Like |
Letdemsay02: 8:54pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
mbaise1000:na your opinion though. You will not understand. I have never had or meet any good opportunity that will change my life.I will now carelessly and squandered it if I had anyone. I'm well behaved. I don't do alchohol,smoking. not a gambler,I no dey womanise. I dey avoid trouble, so how I wan use squandered a life time opportunity |
Sonnobax15(m): 9:04pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
uncleck:. If I say I didn't learn one or two things from you here,that'd be the biggest lie ever......Bro, thanks for this 🙏. Not only the op needs to learn from you,but we many wey need am🙏 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Letdemsay02: 9:05pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
mbaise1000:Thank you. I'm already a failure I agreed. I have tried my best. But one thing i will let you know, not everybody will have it easy in life. The path you took in life might not be thesame with me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Nazgul: 9:21pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
mbaise1000:Don't talk like that. It's extremely difficult to make it in this Tinubu's istration most especially if you weren't lucky to have a stable foundation. Even if the OP gets a job tomorrow that's paying him 200k, how far can such amount of money take him considering how inflation keeps rising everyday? Those earning well are complaining, how much more those who are still trying to find the feet...dont condemn people who you do not know personally, cos you might not know the efforts they've made to breakout of their current situation. 25 Likes 1 Share |
sofeo(m): 9:33pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
uncleck: On point though. Same strategy I applied years ago. 1 Like |
Hop3(m): 9:58pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
uncleck:💯 2 Likes 1 Share |
Melody789: 10:48pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Abobi na who give up na him Bleep up. Foundation dey worry you. Take mata to JAH, restrategise with a new plan. Morning must break, you go make am. I say you go make am. Be encouraged.
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mbaise1000: 11:15pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Nazgul: You didn't even try to comprehend what I am saying, what I said is that giving up should never be an option, you have heard his story, I am telling you confidently here with experience that there are people who have went through worse situations than the poster and they made 8t and millions are still pushing on believing, I will repeat that the poster is a weakling, ok, how will self pity help his situation? And why must he wait on anybody to solve this problem for him? I am not saying that people are not helping people out of problems or that people shouldn't, but what if you don't meet those? Did anyone give anyone anyone money to keep for for them, what if those he expects to help him aren't there? No amount of suffering is enough to stop ANYONE from believing and focussing on his dreams and achieving them. FIRST he should find out the meaning of "" Impossible is nothing" 8 will repeat millions have seen worse and still overcame and many more haven't and will not give up, self pity is not the answer or the solution. 2 Likes |
mbaise1000: 11:18pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Nazgul:BTW he didn't say that his problems started with the government of tinubu. 1 Like |
mbaise1000: 11:36pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Letdemsay02: If you will do a little research if the billionaires of this world, you will find that less than 20% of them didn't have it easy in life, many of them come from poor backgrounds and even if all of them Comes from wealthy backgrounds, you can still be the exception, what if the path I didn't take is the one you are taking? Ok, I never gave up and you have given up and you want to be like me, if we took opposite paths, are we going to end up in the same place? No way, you took the path that all the failures of the world took and you are certainly going to end up where they did, anyone ing or encouraging you on this type of your decision hates you and are not doing you any favours, giving up on yourself is never an option if you want to succeed in life, when you give up you are not heading anywhere because you stopped so you are finished. One good advice, believe that there is nothing God gave other people that he didn't give you, it's how you manage the talent he gave you, your success is not dependent on what others say or do but what you decided to do, no one or devil will have authority over you except you gave them the authority and the only way you give them that authority is when you think they can do it and that's exactly what you have done, you can always take back that authority from them because you are the one that gave it to them and it still remains your authority. Think about this, stop doing this ostrich you are doing, it won't help you, and like I say, even if you are given millions now, with your type of mentally, you will squander it because, you have convinced yourself that you can't make anything of yourself, start by asking God for forgiveness because you have insulted Him by believing satan more than you believe God 1 Like |
mbaise1000: 11:51pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Letdemsay02:Yet without all the vices you mentioned, you still haven't made it? And how do you meet opportunities? If you haven't met opportunities, what stops you from creating opportunities? Was it not people who creat the opportunities you are waiting to meet? I want to believe that you went to some type of school even if it's elementary, maybe you won't know that most of us here didn't go to any university. like myself here for example, I will repeat here that I don't even believe this story but for the sake of people who might be tempted to think Like you are posting here: GIVING UP ON ONESELF SHOULD NOT BE AN OPTION. I know of someone who TRAVELED FIRST time out of this country at the age of 23 without any help from anyone, who his mother just gave a bible on the day he Left the country. He ended up in Europe. And raised his poor family from the ground, I know of people who have seen and gone through worse things than you are saying here and they are great men today, you can go and enjoy your weakness in private and not making some kids here start thinking the way you do and they are already flocking around you and defending your defeatist attitude |
Letdemsay02: 12:15am On Oct 06, 2024 |
mbaise1000:wtf man, is it why your are writing epistle on top of my matter. I understand your are trying to motivate me. You're not me. We are two different people. All my years on Earth I have never depend on anyone. I don't beg people for arms. From 16 years I started living on my own. Even to my present predicament I'm still taking care of my old mother with the little I have. I just contribut to pay for her house rent. Should any of my family need financial assistance I give to them the little I can. But I have never cry to to them for help. Non of them knew what I am going through, not even my mum. You just want to provoke me this night. No problem I accept I'm weak. Place where I don enter to hustle legit, dem no born you well to even think of am. Na just luck wen I no get. 2 Likes |
hector: 12:40am On Oct 06, 2024 |
mbaise1000: Oga, rest. Rest! 5 Likes |
Letdemsay02: 12:52am On Oct 06, 2024 |
mbaise1000:Ok how many opportunities have you created your self. Or which problems did you solve that is making the world to seek for your services. Nigerians go just dey cap anyhow just because as e soft for your side. come make others be mumu. You be Christian. Keep Bible aside I want you to face reality. Do you know what is really happening in the society. Do you know how people are struggling to survive. In the society there is no hope for some people. Some people don't know if they even exist but they're just living. I have worked all through my childhood till my adulthood yet I see no progress.I felt being stagnant. Is like I'm moving backward in life. You don't care. You're just fighting me for voicing out my frustrations. 2 Likes |
Solsix(m): 5:43am On Oct 06, 2024 |
Letdemsay02:I am 39 and I have not given up, I can't. 5 Likes |
mbaise1000: 8:12am On Oct 06, 2024 |
Letdemsay02:And how did you know that my side is soft or that other people's sides are soft? Listen chief all I am saying is that you should not blame anyone for whatever situation you find yourself in, accept responsibility that you contributed in one way or the other by whatever situation you are in, then you look at the mistakes you must have made, (there's no one that haven't made mistakes in this life) Look back try to see where and change, there are things that needs to be changed because you can't keep doing the same thing and expect a different result, and don't ask me the opportunities I created for myself because they are my own opportunities and I never saw the need to quit like you claim you DID. I will repeat that anyone in your line of thinking is a weakling, a more intelligent person will ask others how to improve himself and not tell them that he is quiting life, there's a mighty difference between half full and half empty, THOSE who say half empty like you will always end up like you, accept it or leave it |
mbaise1000: 8:13am On Oct 06, 2024 |
hector:No, |
mbaise1000: 8:18am On Oct 06, 2024 |
Letdemsay02:I am not trying to motivate you chief, I dey vess, it pains me to hear this type of thing from a 34 year old when most 50 something year old people are even believing that they will still need to make it and are struggling and pushing foward . Nonsense 1 Like |
Letdemsay02: 8:36am On Oct 06, 2024 |
Solsix:Are you married sir? Any kid yet? Do you have high demand skills not school cert. Do you have a business you're running or you to about to run?what about your family background? Are they in the lower, mid or high class sir. Do you have friends that are connected or know of people that are highly connected? Do you have any achievement currently at this your present age.? What about your health status? You're still strong as at when you're 15yrs to 25yrs old. No offense sir. |
Ibechris2: 8:46am On Oct 06, 2024 |
Letdemsay02: Leave that environment now and do it fast. I was once in ur shows but I relocated from Lagos to Abuja and everything changed for good. In fact,i have not gone to office for the past 1yr and two months now,my money now works for me. I am living my dream...because I knew the power of a new environment over my life. One old pattern isn't always working. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Letdemsay02: 9:11am On Oct 06, 2024 |
mbaise1000:@50 you still never settle down. You're a big liability to people around you. Let me make clear sir. Chances that a 50 yrs old will it make currently in this country is very slim. I don't mean rich just to provide for his basic need and care of his family will be very hard. At 50 he should be facing health issues. Except he is doing it, the illegal way it.he will find it hard to stand on his feet. At 50 nothing to show for your existence you will be mocked and ridiculed. Infact depression will set in. From there your health problem start. Ok, are you telling me if a 50yrs old single man should come for your 20yr old daughter for marriage you will be ok with it. Or if you have a firm you will employ 50 yrs old to work a staff not as a security guards. Oga stop to they cap anyhow. If future go better na today you go know. |
ExudeLoveToAll: 11:06am On Oct 06, 2024 |
If person tell you wetin him face for the last decade u no go believe. It got bad until dudes started using me as a point of reference, "you think say na to come out with excellent results, see him with wonderful results how far". Then boom 2years ago story changed after so many years of sorrows. Keep hope alive.
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Homeboiy: 11:51am On Oct 06, 2024 |
Boss if men should come out here to talk about how life has been treating us You will be shocked to know that yours is a small case. I slept in a casket with charm placed on my chest just because I want to make money Leave matter for another day sha 4 Likes |
frugal(m): 12:00pm On Oct 06, 2024 |
The unknown spiritual forces chasing you are the Nigerian government and political leaders ![]() If they carry you right now and dump somewhere in Europe or America, you’ll be buying houses and cars in Nigeria in the next 2-3years. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Foodqueen(f): 12:27pm On Oct 06, 2024 |
You need extra power, motivation and determination to pull through from your type of background. It wouldn't be a bad idea if you relocate to o somewhere else. 3 Likes |
Ernesthugo(m): 1:11pm On Oct 06, 2024 |
Thanks for the life advise.
uncleck: 1 Like |
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