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Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

My guy cross border, he become supermodel.

Karleb:


My guy cross border, he become supermodel.

Bros its just that I want to remain anonymous on Nairaland but even me sef dey fear the kind of women I have now. If anyone had told me that I can have such women like a year ago, I for say na lie. It can never happen

Lol fruity clean girls ooo, abroad sweet lol, no be those ones back home wey infections don destroy dem finish and dem go still dey gallivant, me no dey send dem normally lol

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

Because it you, i believe u

tensazangetsu20:


Bros its just that I want to remain anonymous on Nairaland but even me sef dey fear the kind of women I have now. If anyone had told me that I can have such women like a year ago, I for say na lie. It can never happen

Give them belle make we add you to our igbo-worldwide record mix. This one will enter igbo-Chile category

lastkingsman:


Give them belle make we add you to our igbo-worldwide record mix. This one will enter igbo-Chile category

Omho this people are ready o. They don't even wanna use condoms at all but I want my child to have an American port so I need to plan everything well

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

Technically true.

In a country whose,system is better than naija.

What u expect before??

Nairaland mongrels will boost this thread. I know what bingos in this forum like. Front page any time soon.

meobizy:
Nairaland mongrels will boost this thread. I know what bingos in this forum like. Front page any time soon.

😂 lol watch them flock this thread to wish evil on Nigerian women , and wish bad on Nigeria 🇳🇬 as a whole. The OP lied. He’s fat, if they born u well, go to America or Canada and watch if u can command same following

I think the OP is right, however, he did add a bit of exaggeration.

Having interacted with quite a handful of white ladies, I've come to realize that their taste in men is quite different from our typical Nigerian women.

A typical white lady for example is easily fascinated by any of the following guys; humorous guys or smart guys (who know a little bit of everything), or guys who can hold conversations. Physically fit guys (with nice abs & six packs) or guys who dress well and smell nice.

If you fall into any of this category, even your village people won't stop them from loving you.

But you see our typical Nigerian ladies; they desire only two qualities in their men. Have plenty money or a big CUCUMBER.

#Picks_tooth

Another thread aimed at taunting Nigerian women.

Where is mosdii.

Maybe I'm wrong on this but I see that you're using one country as a reference to "abroad" & the country itself is not fully Western. Your comparison of experience of women in South America is night & day compared to places like Canada or other Western countries. It's like comparing Brazilian women to women in other parts of the world who are less beautiful than them by a mile, It is not a true comparison.

Also, most Nigerians don't usually Japa to South America so their experience of women will be completely different from yours. Nigerians moving to or UK/Canada where black African men are not in demand, they won't experience this at all.

Only 1% of Nigerian men who Japa can relate to your experience.

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

tosinhtml:
Maybe I'm wrong on this but I see that you're using one country as a reference to "abroad" & the country itself is not fully Western. Your comparison of experience of women in South America is night & day compared to places like Canada or other Western countries. It's like comparing Brazilian women to women in other parts of the world who are less beautiful than them by a mile, It is not a true comparison.

Also, most Nigerians don't usually Japa to South America so their experience of women will be completely different from yours. Nigerians moving to or UK/Canada where black African men are not in demand, they won't experience this at all.

Only 1% of Nigerian men who Japa can relate to your experience.

If I was in the west, I will get western women too. I have gotten western women here too. They call them gringos lol 😂😅. They are everywhere here.

The truth is that a lot of Nigerian men abroad are very fat liars. They say no job. You know how many jobs I have. They say no woman. Woman wan kill me for Chile and this is Chile o. Country that is not even an a list country. Then if I dey Canada, and such places, I will be a dollar millionaire in 3 to 5 years.

tensazangetsu20:


If I was in the west, I will get western women too. I have gotten western women here too. They call them gringos lol 😂😅. They are everywhere here.

Okay, the problem here is you think the experience in Chile is going to be the same in Canada & all those places. Everybody in the West is saying the same thing, I don't understand why you think they are lying. You are basically comparing women in Chile or whole of South America to the rest of world.

tensazangetsu20:

The truth is that a lot of Nigerian men abroad are very fat liars. They say no job. You know how many jobs I have. They say no woman. Woman wan kill me for Chile and this is Chile o. Country that is not even an a list country. Then if I dey Canada, and such places, I will be a dollar millionaire in 3 to 5 years.

Tax in is 45%, it is easier to become a millionaire where you are than any Western or A list country because of taxes. People I know in since 2020 haven't saved up to €100k and they are in tech.

Why don't you create a Poll or ask people in Travel section who live in these countries for years if they experience the same thing. I mean hear from horses mouth directly.

NEUDUDE:
Lol fruity clean girls ooo, abroad sweet lol, no be those ones back home wey infections don destroy dem finish and dem go still dey gallivant, me no dey send dem normally lol

We know naija gurls are messing u p but can freaking stop dissing our girls online. Stop demarketing them. Which abroad are you in sef? The girls we meet abroad are not the high class ones.. theyre the left overs. They nay look fine facially but the mileage on the honey pot and mouth na 1 million dckies.. plus yeast infection eerywhere. So be careful.

tosinhtml:


Okay, the problem here is you think the experience in Chile is going to be the same in Canada & all those places. Everybody in the West is saying the same thing, I don't understand why you think they are lying. You are basically comparing women in Chile or whole of South America to the rest of world.



Tax in is 45%, it is easier to become a millionaire where you are than any Western or A list country because of taxes. People I know in since 2020 haven't saved up to €100k and they are in tech.

Why don't you create a Poll or ask people in Travel section who live in these countries for years if they experience the same thing. I mean hear from horses mouth directly.

Bros I still believe that my case will be different. There are Nigerians in this Chile who are happy making 450 thousand pesos a month. The taxes I pay is more than that. I before I came here a Nigerian guy in Santiago told me to go and Bleep as much as possible before I leave Nigeria say the women here hate black men. This same person ran to marry a lady he met on Facebook from Nigeria without even dating or knowing her. I came and everything they told me has been a lie. I still believe if I was in or Canada or where ever I will still be rich and successful

Even as horrible as Nigeria was, I wasn't doing badly financially in Nigeria.

tensazangetsu20:


Bros I still believe that my case will be different. There are Nigerians in this Chile who are happy making 450 thousand pesos a month. The taxes I pay is more than that. I before I came here a Nigerian guy in Santiago told me to go and Bleep as much as possible before I leave Nigeria say the women here hate black men. This same person ran to marry a lady he met on Facebook from Nigeria without even dating or knowing her. I came and everything they told me has been a lie. I still believe if I was in or Canada or where ever I will still be rich and successful

Even as horrible as Nigeria was, I wasn't doing badly financially in Nigeria.

that is what they called " my case is different o , I go dey shakara.
Is wrong to live a life based on what people say, life is all about running your race

Henryfocoyo:
that is what they called " my case is different o , I go dey shakara.
Is wrong to live a life based on what people say, life is all about running your race

Exactly. This is what I tell people. Go and see things for yourself. If it doesn't work out, at least you tried. This life na only one we get. No need to spend time living with regrets of had I known or I wish. One thing can favor one person very well and will not favor another person. Even as bad as Nigeria is, Nigeria is still favoring plenty people.

Karleb:


My guy cross border, he become supermodel.

abeg give am Brazilian hair to him ministry.

tosinhtml:
Maybe I'm wrong on this but I see that you're using one country as a reference to "abroad" & the country itself is not fully Western. Your comparison of experience of women in South America is night & day compared to places like Canada or other Western countries. It's like comparing Brazilian women to women in other parts of the world who are less beautiful than them by a mile, It is not a true comparison. Also, most Nigerians don't usually Japa to South America so their experience of women will be completely different from yours. Nigerians moving to or UK/Canada where black African men are not in demand, they won't experience this at all. Only 1% of Nigerian men who Japa can relate to your experience.

I have to agree with you. His issue is that the Nigerian men in Chile spoilt his mind with the narrative that black men are not desirable. However, they did not put in the work as he did. One of such men cannot speak Spanish and even complains that every woman speaks Spanish (the official language is Spanish o). However, Tensa speaks Spanish and I must confess is bold enough to approach random women (this isn't culturally permissible everywhere).

However, his narration cannot be applied to every part of the world. At best, he can adapt to the system. As we've discussed, most Nigerian men who relocated recently did so as married men with children, have loans to offset, have building projects in Nigeria, are over 30, yet to get a good/stable job, have families to cater for back home etc. So, his profile is markedly different. Also, the country too is different in that there are few black people. So any well-dressed, well-spoken (Spanish) and economically stable black man would be attractive. While Chile is a Spanish-speaking country, I bet the narrative would be different in Spain because they have interacted more with black men than their Chilean counterparts.

revolt:


We know naija gurls are messing u p but can freaking stop dissing our girls online. Stop demarketing them. Which abroad are you in sef? The girls we meet abroad are not the high class ones.. theyre the left overs. They nay look fine facially but the mileage on the honey pot and mouth na 1 million dckies.. plus yeast infection eerywhere. So be careful.

Nigerian men will marry Nigerian women. So, I don't understand the fight both genders keep involving themselves in. On Twitter, South Africans already know Nigerians by their ethnicities and what they indulge in.

tosinhtml:


Tax in is 45%, it is easier to become a millionaire where you are than any Western or A list country because of taxes. People I know in since 2020 haven't saved up to €100k and they are in tech.

Why don't you create a Poll or ask people in Travel section who live in these countries for years if they experience the same thing. I mean hear from horses mouth directly.

On what level of income is that applied? Another thing our people need to understand is that to earn extremely high salaries in some countries especially those that historically did not experience black migrantion is the purported glass ceiling. Management positions in most if not almost every non-Anglophone country are kept for the natives. So, anyone who wants to attain wealth in a country like , Norway, or Korea should be entrepreneurial.

South America...has a lot of problems.

When a male goes there and raves about the women, he's likely clueless about how messed up the country and/or society is, or he's a lowlife that thinks exploiting poor women is okay.

If you're a guy and you go to one of those countries, these are some of the reasons women will be all over you:
-She wants to set you up to get robbed.
-She's a hooker.
-She's a known hooker and no other men will date her.
-She's bait for human trafficking.
-She thinks you make at least 40,000USD annually, which is a ton of money to them. And you're her potentially "rich" boyfriend to squeeze money from that her and her local boyfriend/husband spend.
-In her insanely racist/colorist country, the fact that she's slightly darker than an albino causes all kinds of problems in her life, and she knows she'll get the opposite treatment from you. But the fact is, she's racist as well.
-She thinks you're her ticket out of the hellhole country she's in.
-Men in those countries are known to smack women, and she's trying to escape that culture by marrying you.
-It's a purely sexual relationship that will go nowhere because she will only or already has married a local.

ETA: It doesn't matter what one of these women does for you or how many different ways you have sex with her, she's still racist.

Cousin9999:
South America...has a lot of problems.

When a male goes there and raves about the women, he's likely clueless about how messed up the country and/or society is, or he's a lowlife that thinks exploiting poor women is okay.

If you're a guy and you go to one of those countries, these are some of the reasons women will be all over you:
-She wants to set you up to get robbed.
-She's a hooker.
-She's a known hooker and no other men will date her.
-She's bait for human trafficking.
-She thinks you make at least 40,000USD annually, which is a ton of money to them. And you're her potentially "rich" boyfriend to squeeze money from that her and her local boyfriend/husband spend.
-In her insanely racist/colorist country, the fact that she's slightly darker than an albino causes all kinds of problems in her life, and she knows she'll get the opposite treatment from you. But the fact is, she's racist as well.
-She thinks you're her ticket out of the hellhole country she's in.
-Men in those countries are known to smack women, and she's trying to escape that culture by marrying you.

One of my gfs here is a medical doctor and medical doctors in Chile are highly fucking paid . Specialists get equivalent of 20000 usd a month. Another girl coming from her city to mind tomorrow is a nurse and nurses are fucking well paid in Chile. Infact I am the one that begs them to let me spend sometimes especially when we go out. Chilean women never let you spend your money. Also I don't know what part of south America you are talking about but Chilean citizens have visa free access to every country on earth that matters including the US, Canada and all of Europe.

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly, if you’re still in Nigeria and have plans to relocate abroad, especially as a single man, I strongly advise staying single. The rumors you’ve heard about black men not being in demand abroad or not being loved are completely false.

Back in Nigeria, I was ugly. If I got a girl’s number, she would either block me or ignore my messages. My last girlfriend before leaving Nigeria was by sheer luck—I still don’t know how it happened. But when I moved abroad, it felt like I’d transformed into a supermodel. It got to the point where I had to delete my dating apps because I’m focusing on earning certifications to boost my income, and managing conversations with so many women became overwhelming. Even approaching women in real life yields the same results—if I approach 10 women, 8 of them want me as their boyfriend.

I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.

they dont know.me sef dey yankee and I like anonymous. I no fit count my oyibo babes sef.normally I be fine dude,so with my long dreads now,the attention is too much ,just too much.i also started gyming and I am 6ft.my problem now is i too dey select women.i get tired easily .some pple know me on this platform.if I post photo I go cast.i even do a good job,so when they ask where I work..I send them the website link,my photos dey there will colleagues.that one na finishing

Aaaaarghmed:
they dont know.me sef dey yankee and I like anonymous. I no fit count my oyibo babes sef.normally I be fine dude,so with my long dreads now,the attention is too much ,just too much.i also started gyming and I am 6ft.my problem now is i too dey select women.i get tired easily .some pple know me on this platform.if I post photo I go cast

See eh me I was ugly in Nigeria but it's too much. I have deleted tinder from my phone. I started wondering if it's the same abroad that they said Nigerian men or black men aren't loved lol

tensazangetsu20:


One of my gfs here is a medical doctor and medical doctors in Chile are highly fucking paid . Specialists get equivalent of 20000 usd a month. Another girl coming from her city to mind tomorrow is a nurse and nurses are fucking well paid in Chile. Infact I am the one that begs them to let me spend sometimes especially when we go out. Chilean women never let you spend your money. Also I don't know what part of south America you are talking about but Chilean citizens have visa free access to every country on earth that matters including the US, Canada and all of Europe.

lol

I hope no one actually believes this.

tensazangetsu20:


See eh me I was ugly in Nigeria but it's too much. I have deleted tinder from my phone. I started wondering if it's the same abroad that they said Nigerian men or black men aren't loved lol

I am loving it like kilode.i also deleted some apps.i left only 1 mk I fit focus

Cousin9999:


lol

I hope no one actually believes this.

Dey play lol