NewStats: 3,264,494 , 8,183,884 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 10:07 AM 2j161u

no sir, what you are is a confused immature person who cant take a MATURE decision in his life and rather claim that he loves both women. whether you love both or you love even 100women at the same time, you must take a decision as to WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH?! its a difficult decision but thats what need to be done.

here is a simple clue: would you take the chance to play them both (and ultimately look like an immature brotha) OR make an adult decision to drop one and be with your chosen one? by trying to have your cake and eat it too, you will lose both.

Fryx:
I really don’t think I am that mature. I think altruistically, that’s my principle, and it’s what I will first fight for before any other thing.
I usually can introduce them to each other. It’s not a big deal for me. The only big deal is while I have my way with words and actions. If they have reservations, they won’t tell me.
Although they are both good women, humans will always be humans. If non of them betray me, the only way forward is to continue with the both of them.
I think grounding my decision is what I am struggling with. But, moving on with them both, and even introducing them to each other is the only thing I will do if they are both faithful to me.

if the above is what you believe in then just come out with it and let them both embrace your polygamous/polyamorous lifestyle.... and if they dont, then find others who will. more grease to your elbows.

but beware, as you stand for what you believe in, you belief may end up making lose both of them.

MrBrownJay1:
no sir, what you are is a confused immature person who cant take a MATURE decision in his life and rather claim that he loves both women. whether you love both or you love even 100women at the same time, you must take a decision as to WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH?! its a difficult decision but thats what need to be done.

here is a simple clue: would you take the chance to play them both (and ultimately look like an immature brotha) OR make an adult decision to drop one and be with your chosen one? by trying to have your cake and eat it too, you will lose both.

My grandfather was in love with five women and married all of them. He was a happy man.

He is in heaven now with his five wives.

Sapasenator:
My grandfather was in love with five women and married all of them. He was a happy man.
He is in heaven now with his five wives.

your grandpa lives in a time were women were a gift.... today its not the same thing and just as many are into poygamy, its certainly not accepted by all women.

MrBrownJay1:


your grandpa lives in a time were women were a gift.... today its not the same thing and just as many are into poygamy, its certainly not accepted by all women.

Certainly acceptable by Ned Nwoko's recent wife.

What annoys me most times is when people say "To cut a long story short" after putting you through the ordeal of listening to their long story in the first place. Why didn't you just cut it short from the beginning?

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Young chap, you're simply confused 😕

Sapasenator:
Certainly acceptable by Ned Nwoko's recent wife.

domt mistake the actions of the past with the actions of rich men today using their money to entice deluded greedy pay as you go women that are as young as their granddaughters. even your own grandpa (if still alive) would be ashamed of Ned.

but since you seem to be ok with such type of social atrocities, would you marry your 18yr old daughter to a man in his 60s (just because he has money)?!

MrBrownJay1:


domt mistake the actions of the past with the actions of rich men today using their money to entice deluded greedy pay as you go women that are as young as their granddaughters. even your own grandpa (if still alive) would be ashamed of Ned.

but since you seem to be ok with such type of social atrocities, would you marry your 18yr old daughter to a man in his 60s (just because he has money)?!

In my clime, an 18yr old is an adult who makes her own marriage decisions.

Sapasenator:
In my clime, an 18yr old is an adult who makes her own marriage decisions.

you didnt answer the question... here it is again:

would you marry your 18yr old daughter to a man in his 60s (just because he has money)?!

MrBrownJay1:


you didnt answer the question... here it is again:

would you marry your 18yr old daughter to a man in his 60s (just because he has money)?!

If she loves him enough to want to marry him, yes, I would not object.

Sapasenator:
If she loves him enough to want to marry him, yes, I would not object.

here is my take on the sad reply you just gave me:
if your 18yr old daughter wants to get married to her grandpa's agemate (solely because that yeye old man is rich) then YOU as her father FAILED miserably. you FAILED as a father, FAILED as a parent... and most importantly, you FAILED as the person who should have instilled in her the proper values of life.

same if you are a father and your child is into prostitution, criminal activities, ritual killings etc

MrBrownJay1:


here is my take on the sad reply you just gave me:
if your 18yr old daughter wants to get married to her grandpa's agemate (solely because that yeye old man is rich) then YOU as her father FAILED miserably. you FAILED as a father, FAILED as a parent... and most importantly, you FAILED as the person who should have instilled in her the proper values of life.

same if you are a father and your child is into prostitution, criminal activities, ritual killings etc

Leap of logic my friend.
There is no stipulated age difference for marriage between couples both culturally and legally while prostitution is illegal under our constitution.

How were able to to compare the two beats my imaginations.
Learn to construct logical arguments.

Sapasenator:
Leap of logic my friend.
There is no stipulated age difference for marriage between couples both culturally and legally while prostitution is illegal under our constitution.

How were able to to compare the two beats my imaginations.
Learn to construct logical arguments.

lol you NLers... the question, right?! would you marry your 18yr old daughter to a man in his 60s (just because he has money)?!

as your answer is YES, then if your daughter marries a man (SOLELY because he has money) then you as a father has FAILED MISERABLY because you would have raised a cheap undercover wh0re (no offense) that any man with money can possess... to the point that you would even bless her marriage to your grandpa's agemate.

MrBrownJay1:


lol you NLers... the question, right?! would you marry your 18yr old daughter to a man in his 60s (just because he has money)?!

as your answer is YES, then if your daughter marries a man (SOLELY because he has money) then you as a father has FAILED MISERABLY because you would have raised a cheap undercover wh0re (no offense) that any man with money can possess... to the point that you would even bless her marriage to your grandpa's agemate.

we were talking about marriage before you snuck in prostitution.

Sapasenator:
we were talking about marriage before you snuck in prostitution.

a MARRIAGE solely driven by money (aka selling yourself to the highest bidder) is prostitution. if any man with money can have my daughter then she is a wh0re and i would be a failure as a parent... there are no two ways about it.

MrBrownJay1:


a MARRIAGE solely driven by money (aka selling yourself to the highest bidder) is prostitution. if any man with money can have my daughter then she is a wh0re and i would be a failure as a parent... there are no two ways about it.

so on point