NewStats: 3,261,247 , 8,173,497 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 04:25 PM 3h1x6

Honestly, I need to find the originator of this theory that ignoring women will make them chase you.

How does that even work?

They say you'll ignore her, don't reply her texts, don't call her often, even when she calls you form busy and promise to call back but don't call back, keep yourself busy with other women, pretend like you can thrive without her and see her chasing after you like her life depends on you.

Really?

In what world is that?

The truth is, a woman that loves you or is attracted to you can easily lose interest when she notices you don't have her time or starve her attention. Women thrives on attention, they do everything to get it, and when they don't get it, they find it elsewhere. So, even if the woman loves you to your poo, and you starve her attention, you cause her interest in you to decline. She feels "okay great, this guy doesn't like me and I don't want to disturb him, let me focus on this one that has my time".

Secondly, if the woman doesn't even like you, she'll be glad you stopped calling and texting and you gave zero chance of winning her back if you like surround yourself with multiple women to create the illusion that you're highly sought after. She'll only wonder how dumb these women are that they're flocking after you.

I conducted this survey on about 30 different women and all gave the same reply

"If a guy keeps ignoring me and starves me attention, I feel he doesn't really want me and I'll move on because I'm beautiful and there are other men who want me too, so why chase after one that shows disinterest?"

Lastly, I think the only girls that will chase a guy who ignores them are low self esteemed, insecure, less attractive, broke, without-a-life, sociopaths, and mentally unstable girls.

No real girl with beauty, brains, steeze, curves, charms, small money and high self esteem will chase a guy or crave a guy that is showing lack of interest in her. She believes she's the prize and should be chased, not the other way round.

So, I wonder again, who thought men this?

Modified.

If you hold unto this fallacious theory so strong you're willing to experiment with it, then I'm game. It will be fun while it lasts. We create a WhatsApp group to share our screenshots of chats.

We approach beautiful women online or offline, chat them up, inspire some vibes and ghost them, then see how many will chat back or call and become interested. 10 girls each. We can finally put this theory to rest and dispel the deception.

Dey there dey look while pant dey wear you...

Bannies with brains know that responsible men are scarce these days....So when they luckily meet anyone,they prefer to rather die there by chasing after him than to sit down and be looking while another banny will steal him away.

Only an ashewo dirty girl would be jumping her dirty body from one boy to another in the name of she is attractive,she has a fake brain,or he is not an attentive person...this and that,biko one boy is enough for me,u would be treated the way u present yourself

Leemzyy:
Only an ashewo dirty girl would be jumping her dirty body from one boy to another in the name of she is attractive,she has a fake brain,or he is not an attentive person...this and that,biko one boy is enough for me,u would be treated the way u present yourself

Swear with ur grave dat u avnt double date b4 in ur life. Poor gurl

haphizz57:

Swear with ur grave dat u avnt double date b4 in ur life. Poor gurl

Heyy!mind using that word "poor" pls 4 peace to reign,i am begging you now,learn to respect people status u know nothing about

Leemzyy:
Heyy!mind using that word "poor" pls 4 peace to reign,i am begging you now,learn to respect people status u know nothing about

Accept my apology & answer my question

haphizz57:

Accept my apology & answer my question

Well i would be honest with my life,i have dated only one person in my life,who i am still dating now,am bethroted to him tho

Leemzyy:
Well i would be honest with my life,i have dated only one person in my life,who i am still dating now,am bethroted to him tho

For how long av u guys bn dating? And how old are u if i may ask

haphizz57:

For how long av u guys bn dating? And how old are u if i may ask

Ahh why asking for my age?well its more than a year already

Leemzyy:
Ahh why asking for my age?well its more than a year already

I want to define u. Dats y am askin pls tell me. No lies

haphizz57:

I want to define u. Dats y am askin pls tell me. No lies

Hmm okay oo,i'm 19

it works with "some" women, and certainly doesnt with others. some women will simply believe that you are not interested and they will move on with their lives.

Sonnobax15:

Dey there dey look while pant dey wear you...

Bannies with brains know that responsible men are scarce these days....So when they luckily meet anyone,they prefer to rather die there by chasing him than to sit down and be looking while another banny will steal him away.

Then she's insecure and battling low self esteem. Period. Ignoring a woman can't be a pathway to make her crave you more. If you say something like improve yourself, your speech, your dress sense, look groomed and stuff like that, it's understandable. But ignoring a woman? You sef try it. Once the girl calls you twice in one week and you didn't return it, she may never call again because girls always have this mentality that I don't want to disturb him. If she even texts you it's to let you know that she's gone since you don't have her time. Only a jobless, broke and insecure girl will chase me n.

MrBrownJay1:
it works with "some" women, and certainly doesnt with others. some women will simply believe that you are not interested and they will move on with their lives.

Yes, the broke, low self esteem, insecure women without a life. Unless they've been with the guy for years and have had many sweet experiences. It may be difficult to let go. But not meeting a new girl and starving her attention, she'll just forget you exist. When several men battle for her attention daily why will she care when you don't.

Leemzyy:
Hmm okay oo,i'm 19

Na first love dey shark u. I pray ur guy too doesnt double date.

haphizz57:

Na first love dey shark u.
I pray ur guy too doesnt double date.

Yea i am kinda sure he don't,i pray he dont tho

Leemzyy:
Yea i am kinda sure he don't,i pray he dont tho

Wat is gonna happen if he dnt

haphizz57:
Wat is gonna happen if he dnt

I dont get you

Leemzyy:
I dont get you

Wot ll u do if he double date?

haphizz57:

Wot ll u do if he double date?

Ummm,i guess nothing,but cry and cry and get sick

Leemzyy:
Ummm,i guess nothing,but cry and cry and get sick

And ll u breakup wit him because of dat

haphizz57:
And ll u breakup wit him because of dat

Not really

OP, the Trick is when you first Approach her and woo her with some Sweet words.

Then IGNORE.

She will be left confused thinking she is not actually Pretty enough or you discovered some Nasty info about her.

She will secretly start to Monitor you.

Of course it works. Works with all humans not just women. That's human nature. If you suddenly start ignoring someone you were paying lots of attention...
Problem is after it works then what? Once you back talking to them again you're back to square one.

lacasera14:
Then she's insecure and battling low self esteem. Period. Ignoring a woman can't be a pathway to make her crave you more. If you say something like improve yourself, your speech, your dress sense, look groomed and stuff like that, it's understandable. But ignoring a woman? You sef try it. Once the girl calls you twice in one week and you didn't return it, she may never call again because girls always have this mentality that I don't want to disturb him. If she even texts you it's to let you know that she's gone since you don't have her time. Only a jobless, broke and insecure girl will chase me n.

OK, if you have a girlfriend stop picking her calls and pretend you're no longer interested in having sex with her (instead of always begging sex), see what happens.

Bros, when you are desperate and broke, you go call tire, you go chase you go tire.
The higher you go, you will see how girls will beg for your attention. Your dm will be things like “oh you just forgot me, you don’t have my time, you are always busy, all these other girls won’t let you have time for me, na wa for you oo” etc

Just continue "simping lacasera" with a girl that doesn't love you so that she won't lose interest in you . Some Simps are just irredeemable, they will always invent reasons to defend simping

DaddyCoool:
Of course it works. Works with all humans not just women. That's human nature. If you suddenly start ignoring someone you were paying lots of attention...
Problem is after it works then what? Once you back talking to them again you're back to square one

It can never work with me I'm human news flash. Ignore me and I ignore you. I have a healthy self esteem I don't even chat with women who take more than an hour to reply let alone not giving me attention. I'm the prize I know my worth, I don't simp. I show you attention once and you reciprocate, we hit it off and continue the cycle. I can't chase a woman who's running away from me.

Omoawoke:
Bros, when you are desperate and broke, you go call tire, you go chase you go tire.
The higher you go, you will see how girls will beg for your attention. Your dm will be things like “oh you just forgot me, you don’t have my time, you are always busy, all these other girls won’t let you have time for me, na wa for you oo” etc

The higher you go means you talking about improving your life and status which is great and is something that can attrac t women. Not ignoring her and acting too busy. Even wives cheat because their husbands are too busy they go for men who have their time. The female is wired to be craved for and given attention. I'm not talking about choking her with your presence. A decent dose of attention can do the trick. But starving her is a recipe for losing her.

DaddyCoool:


OK, if you have a girlfriend stop picking her calls and pretend you're no longer interested in having sex with her (instead of always begging sex), see what happens.
I just topicked on this:
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8187192/experience-ignoring-girl-game#131537318

This is your girlfriend already and you've even started having sex with her. But trust me when she notices the attention is becoming one-sided she'll give another guy a chance. After all she offended you and she's a girl with a conscience, she's only trying to make amends and there's only so much she can take. If she keeps simping for you, bro your chick is unattractive and perhaps no other man wants her.

oz4real83:
Just continue "simping lacasera" with a girl that doesn't love you so that she won't lose interest in you . Some Simps are just irredeemable, they will always event reasons to defend simping

I'm not a simp and I don't need redemption. You're the one who needs it and you're only realize it when it's too late. I repeat, those girls who chase you when you ignore them are either doing so probably because they want your money since they're broke and shameless, lack self esteem, and have a face only a mother will dig. Try it with beautiful working class who's too busy with work and replying dms from richer handsome men and see if she re your name. When you guys experiment with low lives you come up here and draw baseless conclusions.

Omoawoke:
Bros, when you are desperate and broke, you go call tire, you go chase you go tire.
The higher you go, you will see how girls will beg for your attention. Your dm will be things like “oh you just forgot me, you don’t have my time, you are always busy, all these other girls won’t let you have time for me, na wa for you oo” etc

So when a gurl tells you all these and sees a better guy who's giving her attention do you think she'll still come for you? She may even dump you and settle for less. You see why I said girls who do this don't have irers. They're hardly chased after and that's why they cling unto guys who are clearly rejecting them. What caliber of women are you guys dealing with? I roll with women who believes they are the prize and any man that's too busy for them should be left alone to continue his busy life. We can do an experiment to end this argument once and for all. Who's game?