NewStats: 3,262,124 , 8,176,133 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 08:42 PM 1q5r1e

idahme:



Why then do they refer to men as stingy? Funny but not funny. Na mumu dey refer to her benefactor as stingy na block straight be that.

N/B not refferering to u but ladies who are parasites

Firstly i dont even see a reason why u should ask a man(not your husband)for money,then refer him as stingy bcux he didnt give you,we have our own problem for body

ruggedtimi:
Ur female circle...

Why don't this talk apply to men? Upgrade your men circle? Because irrespective of whether he is worth 2k or less a man still gives regardless. This is not a circle thing it's a general problem of women in our society. A woman who does this even if she starts making 1million won't give but will continue begging as if she is physically challenged person.

They should act better, yes as you asserted those ladies should be dropped as friends.

missjekyll:
You must be a terrible friend. Try to be a better friend.

This is the parasitic mindset of most women and it's evident in you, " you must give me money first and then I will use a little from the money u gave me to give u back when u ask"

I dated a lady like you who have this mindset u must give me before I give u a little form it , when I discovered this I put a cap of 5k to give her for whatever problem she manufactures even though I have the capacity to give her in 110 folds without been affected financially in any way. I hate stingy people, stingy people don't benefit from my affluence a bit.

Someone must not gift you because you gift the person, a lot of women hold this opinion and such women who think they can never open their hands to give should never receive anything good in return..

siofra:


As if men are better. Men will give 1k and expect something bigger in return.

Men are not better and u beg men for a living

idahme:



Why don't this talk apply to men? Upgrade your men circle? Because irrespective of whether he is worth 2k or less a man still gives regardless. This is not a circle thing it's a general problem of women in our society. A woman who does this even if she starts making 1million won't give but will continue begging as if she is physically challenged person.

They should act better, yes as you asserted those ladies should be dropped as friends.

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I really love this response! Men at all levels give. Why can women at all levels give, even if you do not have enough, give out of the little you have.


Nigerian women are naturally stingy, no matter the cycle. It is the default for them to take take take and not give.

It takes a self-conscious girl to work towards not being stingy and being a giver.

Many of them that we consider good girls are those that do not ask, but many of these not-askers are very stingy.

idahme:



Men are not better and u beg men for a living

Don't mind them.

Why don't thy ask for something in return too?

idahme:



This is not about a specific niche od females but females in general. In general it's a pathetic story.

yeah ! i get generally women are stingy , but i just have to speak from my experience

Karleb:
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I really love this response! Men at all levels give. Why can women at all levels give, even if you do not have enough, give out of the little you have.


Nigerian women are naturally stingy, no matter the cycle. It is the default for them to take take take and not give.

It takes a self-conscious girl to work towards not being stingy and being a giver.

Many of them that we consider good girls are those that do not ask, but many of these not-askers are very stingy

You are right, people erroneously say so but the act of selfless giving must be activated in those sets before you can confirm. Money is the most precious thing a human could hold especially for ladies who aren't known to giving and if you see one who is prone to doing this she is one of the rarest ladies around in our clime and should be protected.

You still see one of them wey give you,ask your fellow man, Dem go say e no dey,man with scope

idahme:



Why don't this talk apply to men? Upgrade your men circle? Because irrespective of whether he is worth 2k or less a man still gives regardless. This is not a circle thing it's a general problem of women in our society. A woman who does this even if she starts making 1million won't give but will continue begging as if she is physically challenged person.

They should act better, yes as you asserted those ladies should be dropped as friends.

the topic says female friends.

Henry2405:
women no dey ever get money🤣
Drop your comment

Last last,em go still leave Amara go marry the other ladies wey no give am anything.
Life no balance I swear

The most stingy and economically irrelevant gender in the world.

Henry2405:
women no dey ever get money🤣
Drop your comment

You are a begger


Do you also post that give you?

Or if they've given you before, will you acknowledge it here


You are just a begger

real691:
Upgrade your circle bro.

If he's not a teenage boy.

His post revealed his age range and cycle.
Asking g for 1k from friends?
if he wants to ask for money as an adult with responsibilities, not 1k. Unless his cycle are struggling themselves

All these kids and teenagers on Nairaland sef!

Nairaland 1,1k boys..na this ppl they create wailing threads all day long dey tell us Bitter Obi is the next best thing.

That's women for you. Majority do not appreciate, while few appreciate.

I cant ask them......
Most of my female friends would give even more...cuz they know they would get it in multiple folds, one way or the other.

Those are the kind of women at your level. You can't blame them. Work hard to upgrade yourself and see that you can even get a million from them.
But then, women can look a million bucks and still be left with just a 2k in their

Leemzyy:
Lol this my gender are funny and stingin oo

The men must take care of me folks, without knowing what it feels like to give our your money to other people.

Before you fit chop woman money
Either you dey treat woman infection
You be babalawo
Alfa or pastor.....

Or you go tell her say
First give me #100 l go use am give you #1miliion.

It's not new and you shouldn't be shocked about it because naturally it seems the black woman is created to be stingy with everything she has.


Even to off pant for you, you must pay through your nose, if I lie, ask Ned Nwoko, Adams Oshiomhole, Bola Tinubu, Muhammadu Buhari, Femi Funny Kayode and co who are running things with younger women

women go borrow you money , use the money buy food for you and she will make sure she eats from that food and later come back to ask you to pay full repay full amount of the money . if you dont , na wahala be dat .

siofra:


As if men are better. Men will give 1k and expect something bigger in return.

The first girl up there must be ereluroz
The third must be siofra herself..
Those low budget olosho no ge joy

Berankis:

The men must take care of me folks, without knowing what it feels like to give our your money to other people.

Leemzyy:
Lol this my gender are funny and stingin oo

Stingy.

Gadafii:
My girl is the only girl I can ask boldly for funds without fear of disappointment 😂😂

I have one other girl like Amara, she wouldn't ask if I will pay back tho cos she knows I will pay back and she in turn asks for bail out from me sometimes .

But you see an average Nigerian girl?

Dem stingy anything, the gender that frequently asks for urgent 2k will never give you 1k even if she has 100k in her .


One boldly say her bank no dey work again😂🤣

Not just to men

To their fellow women

LemTech:

Stingy.

Sorry

Fake.

Amara is not Amaka wey dey disappoint

nnamdi640:
This Amara should be a nice girl and a cheerful giver, it is really hard to see girls nowadays that will give you money. Their aka gum should be the 13th wonders of this world most especially Nigeria girls, I wonder where they are carrying their money to.

I don't know about other tribes but during my growing teen age, I regularly do get monetary help from my female igbo friends especially at critical periods... they always come tru 4 me.

Like I said, Jez igbo girls I know, I don't know about other tribes!
😙

GeneralPula:

Nah lie except you’re rolling with girls that don’t like you..

The way guys are being kind to girls dey like, it’s the same way girls are being kind to guys they like - no different !

Guys are kind to all girls

This gender is very wicked and disgusting.
I don't pity them anymore because they're very stingy and wicked