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tiswell(m): 1:32pm On Aug 08, 2024
Bashiii:


Omo bro,as i went through your post on this thread i knew that i have to follow you. You're a cerified OG.

What you said is the reality of some girls out there.

Normally all girls like to do shakara or put up lil resistance when it comes to sex,but they are certain set of girls that never offer any form of resistance when a man demand for sex from her. They can never say NO even if the man is ugly as hell. Also, they're neither doing it for money.

These set of girls are suffering from lack of validation and self-esteem issues and are mostly product of single mothers or grew up with either an aunt or grandmother.

Basically,they grew up without experiencing true parental love and care. As they become adults, they seek for that care and love they lack during childhood mostly from men.

So when a man throw them the slightest attention and care and thereafter demanded for sex,they will feel obligated to grant him so as not to get him angry and withdraw his LOVE.

That's why we're advising men,becareful of wifing up any lady with numerous body counts as sometimes the reason for her looseness might be psycological.

Also,becareful of marrying any girl raised by a single mothe or the ones who do not have a good relationship with their fathers.

Hausa people always say: IN KUNNE YAJI JIKI YA TSIRA

You are wise

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Leemzyy(f): 2:22pm On Aug 08, 2024
Hehehe even me as a girl will not advise u to marry a girl with bodycount of even 5 sef,but wait oo 28yrs never marry?
Clevagal(f): 2:34pm On Aug 08, 2024
ravensckar:
I hope I'm seeing properly? A 28 year old lady With a BODY COUNT of almost 20?

For a lady to garner such amount of body counts points to several things;

1- She could be a loose girl who can't keep her legs closed. i.e Cheerful giver.

2- She could be a dumbo who isn't hard to deceive. i.e those Indomie & Egg kinda b1tch.

3- She could be an immoral girl who sees no big deal in getting laid by any guy she's casually dating. i.e those sarewagba kinda girl.

If you cannot see anything wrong with any of the above, then, you need to go for a MENTAL EVALUATION because you're obviously low on cerebral fuel.

Funny enough, if you investigate further, you'll realize it's way more than 20. Most of today's guys didn't really learn anything from their Dads. May God never allow me raise a foo.l for a son. cheesy cheesy cheesy

Okay you’ve written about the girl whose body count is 20. How about the guy whose own is 30?

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Clevagal(f): 2:36pm On Aug 08, 2024
Leemzyy:
Hehehe even me as a girl will not advise u to marry a girl with bodycount of even 5 sef,but wait oo 28yrs never marry?

And what’s wrong with an unmarried 28 years old woman?
And would you also advise a woman to marry a man whose body count is 30?

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Clevagal(f): 2:42pm On Aug 08, 2024
DarkCaesar:

How is she any different from the ones we are running from on the street 😂
how many Exes will she delete?
How many past hitters will she introduced to our foolish Op as friends and harmless acquaintances?
How many times will he be depressed whenever his right side of the brain have some weird flashbacks about how over 20 men wif different baton hit the same hole repeatedly for free while he’s eating the remnants
Girls like op wife are submissive wh*r*, have you seen how men uses them in the bedroom? They are the best to try all degrading things and styles on because they know they will not resist and don’t know how to say the word NO.
Do you think our dear naive Op can ever satisfy this lady already plough to madness by different sticks?
Has the Op ever thought why none of the over 20 try marrying her since she was so good a woman and a wife material.
Lastly their is one virtuous woman too like her in ile ife who goes by the name Olamide and she’s also in her late 20s, fits the Op description and would treat any man like a king but people wey no her don sabi say she don cast. Her BC is probably more than this and she is not into hookup but can’t say NO to every dick, Tom and Harry that comes her way………DON’T MISLEAD THE POOR NAIVE MAN

So it’s very okay for OP to bag 30BC but very wrong for the woman with 20BC? Lol.
“If the woman was a good woman why didn’t one of the 20 men marry her?” Huh? Why didn’t OP marry one of the 30 women her slept with?
Your brain only reasoned the woman’s part but forgot to analyze the man’s flaws too

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Leemzyy(f): 2:42pm On Aug 08, 2024
Clevagal:


And what’s wrong with an unmarried 28 years old woman?
And would you also advise a woman to marry a man whose body count is 30?
Well something is wrong with a girl not married at 28,and 4 your other question,i will say no as well,but u shouldnt compare a girl decency status with that of a boy

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Duchexx: 2:48pm On Aug 08, 2024
Leemzyy:
Well something is wrong with a girl not married at 28,and 4 your other question,i will say no as well,but u shouldnt compare a girl decency status with that of a boy

Oh please shut up. I thought you had sense o
Nothing! absolutely nothing is wrong with an unmarried 28 years old woman or even an unmarried woman regardless of age. It’s stupid girls like you that push this pressure on women. Who told you every woman wants the “Mrs” title. Little girl with fish brain.
Such a pick me!

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Leemzyy(f): 2:51pm On Aug 08, 2024
Duchexx:


Oh please shut up. I thought you had sense o
Nothing! absolutely nothing is wrong with an unmarried 28 years old woman or even an unmarried woman regardless of age. It’s stupid girls like you that push this pressure on women. Who told you every woman wants the “Mrs” title. Little girl with fish brain.
Such a pick me!
Ok my bad!!nothing wrong with that,but what abt the body count status of a girl of that age?

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DarkCaesar(m): 3:15pm On Aug 08, 2024
Clevagal:


So it’s very okay for OP to bag 30BC but very wrong for the woman with 20BC? Lol.
“If the woman was a good woman why didn’t one of the 20 men marry her?” Huh? Why didn’t OP marry one of the 30 women her slept with?
Your brain only reasoned the woman’s part but forgot to analyze the man’s flaws too
baby girl you’re taking this very personal, you can as-well just drop your input and move on without coming for my neck since you were raised that sexuality means the same for both sex.

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skliz: 3:20pm On Aug 08, 2024
So OP, if I am going to be honest with you.

The lady has good home training and very homely. She knows how to make a man homely but she's a free giver.

Firstly you meet her just few months ago and she has moved in with you.

Also she has numerous body count and I can tell you that she may not tell you all.

I would advice you pretend like body count does not matter to you, she go tell you more later.

Also I would also advice you bug her phone and check her whatsapp. The problem with this kinds of ladies is that there would always be one ex somewhere that would want to eat from the same plate with you.

Also can you satisfy her in bed, if your answer is NO. I advice you break the relationship immediately. She would go back to one of her exes.

Then you would add up to the list of body count. I pity her unfortunate husband.

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ravensckar(m): 4:13pm On Aug 08, 2024
Clevagal:


Okay you’ve written about the girl whose body count is 20. How about the guy whose own is 30?
Shouldn't that be within you ladies jurisdiction?

Or you think sey I go burn my fellow man cable ni? My momma didn't raise me to be foolish. cheesy cheesy cheesy

#Picks_tooth
Bashiii: 6:46pm On Aug 08, 2024
tiswell:
comrade,I endorse this awesome input with two live goats✌️

My gee...i appreciate that. grin grin
Simps wan mek person run mad for this country but we no go tire. We shall continue leading them to the right path.

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Uptheante(m): 8:34pm On Aug 08, 2024
ravensckar:
I hope I'm seeing properly? A 28 year old lady With a BODY COUNT of almost 20?

For a lady to garner such amount of body counts points to several things;

1- She could be a loose girl who can't keep her legs closed. i.e Cheerful giver.

2- She could be a dumbo who isn't hard to deceive. i.e those Indomie & Egg kinda b1tch.

3- She could be an immoral girl who sees no big deal in getting laid by any guy she's casually dating. i.e those sarewagba kinda girl.

If you cannot see anything wrong with any of the above, then, you need to go for a MENTAL EVALUATION because you're obviously low on cerebral fuel.

Funny enough, if you investigate further, you'll realize it's way more than 20. Most of today's guys didn't really learn anything from their Dads. May God never allow me raise a foo.l for a son. cheesy cheesy cheesy
You are the only guy who is telling him the truth.
The other pple that commented before you are:
1. Either naive about women & female behavior
2. Deliberately want to lead him astray
BALLOSKI: 1:11am On Aug 09, 2024
DarkCaesar:

She’s more useless than a hookup girl if she has racked up that much body count with just friends…..their types are the ones we usually invite tell our friends to try their luck with and they’d bed her. They just can’t say NO, always itching for a D.
Omo, I don't even know who would be unfortunate to end up with such a public pvssy.
zed7: 5:57am On Aug 09, 2024
If your girl started dating at 18, that means she's had 20 boyfriends in 10 years. Either she dated 20 boyfriends or she was casually having sex with random guys. Anyhow we analyse it, your girl is a slut.

Some men are known for having random sex, and we call those men randy. Why shouldn't we call your girl randy? Oh, because she cooks and clean?

If you want to marry her, go ahead. But be prepared for whatever you meet ahead.

PS:, those comparing a man and woman's body count are silly. Women still go ahead and marry a man with 4 wives. . Men can impregnate 1,000 women in a year, a woman can only get pregnant once in a year. Anyone comparing a man and woman's sexual experience is rétarded

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imagrg(m): 6:19am On Aug 09, 2024
If you continue to consider body counts, you nor go marry oh.
There are some young ladies whose toto have collected many cums that they have even lost count, yet they are happily married.
Forget counts and try to tame her to your idea of an ideal woman.
You can't reverse her fvcking mistakes, after all, we men are responsible for her body counts.

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mosicola(m): 6:31am On Aug 09, 2024
ebijimi7:
Good day guys, its a beautiful day today.
I'm here to bore you with my wack stories again , If you check some of my thread you would realise there are so many things that disturbs me that I've come here to seek advice for,and the good people of the house always help with advice.
Ok let's get straight to the point

I lost my fiancee last year October 2023 I was suppose to get married to her June 2024 but death took my joy away (May her soul continue to rest in peace)
After crying brooding and weak emotionally for months I eventually landed in the hospital and i was itted for weeks because I had blood pressure as a result of over thinking.

It wasn't a easy one to be sincere I lost weight I couldn't eat for days neither can I drink because she was so dear ro my heart the only woman I've loved with all my heart.

To cut the story short after going for meditation and counseling I decided to try the relationship markets again but I kept meeting crazy hungry girls that were not delivering infact I even dated a girl for one week and we broke up I dated 10 girls between the month of December to May I lost hope in love.
Then hen i was about to theow in the towel I saw a girl on my friends status so I asked him about her, so he told me about how the girl is close to him that she's a family friend so knowing how many heart breaks the girl has been through in the hands of the guys and knowing fully well that I am a lover boy too he decided to help me talk to the girl because mu friend kept saying his family friend has ate so many break fast and he really felt bad, so after link up we started dating she moved in with me to know my kind of person it's been 5 months now all I see is just a replica of my late fiancee, she cooks, she clean, she motivates me, prays for me lend me fund when I'm broke buys me gift and created that friendship
I acknowledged all this good characters of hers but my fear is her body count she wants to be loved and each time she feels her exes loves her they get to break her heart after getting down with her so I decided to ask about her body count and she told me it's less than 20 but is 20 not too much for a 28 years old lady and she said she is sad because she never wanted to be giving her body here and there but ofcourse we guys knows ourself until we get down we don't back down.
Is it worth it since its her past or I should take my bag and leave, note that it's not certain I would see a virgin, even my own body count is more than 30 if I'm being honest here
Dear men, vagina is not measured by body count. If ashawo and hook up girls are getting married and living happily, then marry who gives you joy. No woman can tell you her body count
DarkCaesar(m): 7:58am On Aug 10, 2024
imagrg:
If you continue to consider body counts, you nor go marry oh.
There are some young ladies whose toto have collected many cums that they have even lost count, yet they are happily married.
Forget counts and try to tame her to your idea of an ideal woman.
You can't reverse her fvcking mistakes, after all, we men are responsible for her body counts.
Lol this must be the subtlest sarcasm I have ever heard in my life……he should go ahead with her because he’s so unfortunate in life that he wouldn’t be happy with a more decent girl. He should the long queue of cuckold men who have resigned to fate because there is nothing they could do about their promiscuous spouses who go around embarrassing them? Is that how weak and submissive men are where you came from? Is this how your father raised you?

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DarkCaesar(m): 8:03am On Aug 10, 2024
BALLOSKI:
Omo, I don't even know who would be unfortunate to end up with such a public pvssy.
Op is already maneuvering toward such unfortunate fate…..marry an overused sl*t because she can clean and take care of a house? Men indeed have no standards when it comes to choosing a spouse….that little happiness she’s giving him will turn to gnashing of teeth in the 3rd month of marriage

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Sapasenator: 8:31am On Aug 10, 2024
ebijimi7:
Good day guys, its a beautiful day today.
I'm here to bore you with my wack stories again , If you check some of my thread you would realise there are so many things that disturbs me that I've come here to seek advice for,and the good people of the house always help with advice.
Ok let's get straight to the point

I lost my fiancee last year October 2023 I was suppose to get married to her June 2024 but death took my joy away (May her soul continue to rest in peace)
After crying brooding and weak emotionally for months I eventually landed in the hospital and i was itted for weeks because I had blood pressure as a result of over thinking.

It wasn't a easy one to be sincere I lost weight I couldn't eat for days neither can I drink because she was so dear ro my heart the only woman I've loved with all my heart.

To cut the story short after going for meditation and counseling I decided to try the relationship markets again but I kept meeting crazy hungry girls that were not delivering infact I even dated a girl for one week and we broke up I dated 10 girls between the month of December to May I lost hope in love.
Then hen i was about to theow in the towel I saw a girl on my friends status so I asked him about her, so he told me about how the girl is close to him that she's a family friend so knowing how many heart breaks the girl has been through in the hands of the guys and knowing fully well that I am a lover boy too he decided to help me talk to the girl because mu friend kept saying his family friend has ate so many break fast and he really felt bad, so after link up we started dating she moved in with me to know my kind of person it's been 5 months now all I see is just a replica of my late fiancee, she cooks, she clean, she motivates me, prays for me lend me fund when I'm broke buys me gift and created that friendship
I acknowledged all this good characters of hers but my fear is her body count she wants to be loved and each time she feels her exes loves her they get to break her heart after getting down with her so I decided to ask about her body count and she told me it's less than 20 but is 20 not too much for a 28 years old lady and she said she is sad because she never wanted to be giving her body here and there but ofcourse we guys knows ourself until we get down we don't back down.
Is it worth it since its her past or I should take my bag and leave, note that it's not certain I would see a virgin, even my own body count is more than 30 if I'm being honest here

You own body count is more than 30 and yet you are worried about her body count?

Body count body count?
Sapasenator: 8:35am On Aug 10, 2024
ravensckar:
I hope I'm seeing properly? A 28 year old lady With a BODY COUNT of almost 20?

For a lady to garner such amount of body counts points to several things;

1- She could be a loose girl who can't keep her legs closed. i.e Cheerful giver.

2- She could be a dumbo who isn't hard to deceive. i.e those Indomie & Egg kinda b1tch.

3- She could be an immoral girl who sees no big deal in getting laid by any guy she's casually dating. i.e those sarewagba kinda girl.

If you cannot see anything wrong with any of the above, then, you need to go for a MENTAL EVALUATION because you're obviously low on cerebral fuel.

Funny enough, if you investigate further, you'll realize it's way more than 20. Most of today's guys didn't really learn anything from their Dads. May God never allow me raise a foo.l for a son. cheesy cheesy cheesy

I am quite sure you conveniently ommitted op's body count which proudly stands at 30 at the last count.
It's men like op who are responsible for the high body counts of females.
Sapasenator: 8:38am On Aug 10, 2024
Looking at the conversations above, it is safe to advise ladies NEVER to disclose their acurate body counts to new lovers.
If were a lady, I would never disclose such sensitive information even at gun point.
DarkCaesar(m): 9:06am On Aug 10, 2024
Sapasenator:
Looking at the conversations above, it is safe to advise ladies NEVER to disclose their acurate body counts to new lovers.
If were a lady, I would never disclose such sensitive information even at gun point.
And who told you men raised in the ways of wisdom wouldn’t know or guess close to it lol…..you’re a bigger fool than I thought
Sapasenator: 9:08am On Aug 10, 2024
DarkCaesar:

And who told you men raised in the ways of wisdom wouldn’t know or guess close to it lol…..you’re a bigger fool than I thought

How would you know the numbers if she did not disclose or devalue the numbers?

"Wisdom?"

Wtf are you smoking?
DarkCaesar(m): 9:28am On Aug 10, 2024
Sapasenator:


How would you know the numbers if she did not disclose or devalue the numbers?

"Wisdom?"

Wtf are you smoking?
Easier to know a woman that has been ran through or badly used than know the sex of a day old bird lol……lot of things you still need to learn about

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Sapasenator: 9:32am On Aug 10, 2024
DarkCaesar:

Easier to know a woman that has been ran through or badly used than know the sex of a day old bird lol……lot of things you still need to learn about

Yes o. Easy to know because you said so. I believe you.

Easy to know and lots of fellow men continue to unknowingly father kids not belonging to them.
You think women are dumb creatures, life will teach you.

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Johnson225(m): 9:54am On Aug 10, 2024
20 body count at 28?? that's extreme bro. a girl with body count as high as that has no discipline and possibly have a very low self esteem. she's acting all nice and loyal because you haven't settled down with her just yet. such a gal will "likely" be unfaithful in marriage cos she's used to having the D in varieties.
if you can't cope with a cheating wife, please disembark now. for sake of okafor's law

What is Congo Dynamics

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C1) , it can always be shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times .

So OP putting Okafor's Congo dynamics into perspectives, her Congo has been shined by 20 guys according to you

i.e C1 x 20boys ∜365days(P)
Johnson225(m): 9:54am On Aug 10, 2024
Clevagal:


And what’s wrong with an unmarried 28 years old woman?
And would you also advise a woman to marry a man whose body count is 30?

lol. You comparing a man's sexual life to that of a woman grin

Are you familiar with the lock and key theory?
A key that opens all lock is regarded as a master key. on the reverse, a lock that can be opened by every key is useless...reflect on that
advanceDNA: 10:04am On Aug 10, 2024
ebijimi7:
she even volunteered to help me rearrange my kitchen to her own taste all from her pocket and I've asked her to cut connection with all exes which she promised to dare not toss her away
Thank you very much bro

Marry her pls.....I want to test one theory in a couple of years when u come back to tell us how ur marriage is going cool
advanceDNA: 10:10am On Aug 10, 2024
ukaface:



Aaaaaaaahhhhhh
More than 30??

Aaaaaah
Mummy come and see o

Aaaah
Na like this Una Dey do?

Person wey get more than 30 Dey suspect person wey get less than 20😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
God Abeg oooo
Humans are funny

So u think a thief would be happy his money is stolen......as in you have not heard that single mothers don't want their own sons to marry single mother...... de playing u hear....

Even you won't want your son to marry a retired olosho even if your son has fvcked many girls.... Everybody uses double standards when it comes to their personal interest... No dey form
Clevagal(f): 10:52am On Aug 10, 2024
Johnson225:


lol. You comparing a man's sexual life to that of a woman grin

Are you familiar with the lock and key theory?
A key that opens all lock is regarded as a master key. on the reverse, a lock that can be opened by every key is useless...reflect on that

Please shut up. You sound very foolish

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ukaface(f): 11:40am On Aug 10, 2024
advanceDNA:


So u think a thief would be happy his money is stolen......as in you have not heard that single mothers don't want their own sons to marry single mother...... de playing u hear....

Even you won't want your son to marry a retired olosho even if your son has fvcked many girls.... Everybody uses double standards when it comes to their personal interest... No dey form

Abeg o
Speak for yourself

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