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ebijimi7(m): 3:25pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Good day guys, its a beautiful day today. I'm here to bore you with my wack stories again , If you check some of my thread you would realise there are so many things that disturbs me that I've come here to seek advice for,and the good people of the house always help with advice. Ok let's get straight to the point I lost my fiancee last year October 2023 I was suppose to get married to her June 2024 but death took my joy away (May her soul continue to rest in peace) After crying brooding and weak emotionally for months I eventually landed in the hospital and i was itted for weeks because I had blood pressure as a result of over thinking. It wasn't a easy one to be sincere I lost weight I couldn't eat for days neither can I drink because she was so dear ro my heart the only woman I've loved with all my heart. To cut the story short after going for meditation and counseling I decided to try the relationship markets again but I kept meeting crazy hungry girls that were not delivering infact I even dated a girl for one week and we broke up I dated 10 girls between the month of December to May I lost hope in love. Then hen i was about to theow in the towel I saw a girl on my friends status so I asked him about her, so he told me about how the girl is close to him that she's a family friend so knowing how many heart breaks the girl has been through in the hands of the guys and knowing fully well that I am a lover boy too he decided to help me talk to the girl because mu friend kept saying his family friend has ate so many break fast and he really felt bad, so after link up we started dating she moved in with me to know my kind of person it's been 5 months now all I see is just a replica of my late fiancee, she cooks, she clean, she motivates me, prays for me lend me fund when I'm broke buys me gift and created that friendship I acknowledged all this good characters of hers but my fear is her body count she wants to be loved and each time she feels her exes loves her they get to break her heart after getting down with her so I decided to ask about her body count and she told me it's less than 20 but is 20 not too much for a 28 years old lady and she said she is sad because she never wanted to be giving her body here and there but ofcourse we guys knows ourself until we get down we don't back down. Is it worth it since its her past or I should take my bag and leave, note that it's not certain I would see a virgin, even my own body count is more than 30 if I'm being honest here 2 Likes |
Sonnobax15(m): 3:26pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
![]() Bro,calm down....... I'm sorry about your late fiancee....May her soul continue to rip But then again, just like you already said,that you also have a body count that's above 30,which in my own opinion simply means your body count is equivalent to hers...So I don't see why you should be judging her based on her past and her body count when you aren't a saint too.. Moreover,if she truly possess those qualities which you just mentioned, then I must say her body count should be the last thing you should be bothering yourself over,cuz she's indeed a rare gem in the midst of Scorpion Queens ![]() A word is enough for the wise,they say. 6 Likes 1 Share |
NeeKlaus: 4:09pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
If she has all these sterling qualities that you mentioned and ticks all the boxes for a good, feminine woman, then what is your problem? ![]() As long as you are certain she didn't rack up all those body counts through a lascivious lifestyle (hookup and the likes), then I don't understand what your grouse is. Good qualities trump whatever past she had, as long as the past wasn't intentionally reckless. She was just a victim of her affections. Just ascertain if she still has any connections with those Exes (because of Okafor's Law). Tell her to cut off ALL her Exes and when you are sure she has done that, move on with your relationship and don't lose a good woman. There's nothing in the streets, I tell you... 5 Likes |
mekus15: 4:28pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Since she possesses these qualities you mentioned, her body count doesn't matter. Everyone has a past. How are you even sure if a virgin would not cheat on you someday? Grab her now, before you lose a rare gem.
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ebijimi7(m): 4:52pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
NeeKlaus:she even volunteered to help me rearrange my kitchen to her own taste all from her pocket and I've asked her to cut connection with all exes which she promised to dare not toss her away Thank you very much bro 3 Likes |
Omuuvwie(m): 7:15pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Well the choice is yours, there's a topic here on nairaland, a man is complaining of his wife he married as a virgin but slept with 15 other guys under is roof, my brother digest this issue at hand very well to your own advantage.
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ravensckar(m): 10:16pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
I hope I'm seeing properly? A 28 year old lady With a BODY COUNT of almost 20? ![]() ![]() For a lady to garner such amount of body counts points to several things; 1- She could be a loose girl who can't keep her legs closed. i.e Cheerful giver. 2- She could be a dumbo who isn't hard to deceive. i.e those Indomie & Egg kinda b1tch. 3- She could be an immoral girl who sees no big deal in getting laid by any guy she's casually dating. i.e those sarewagba kinda girl. If you cannot see anything wrong with any of the above, then, you need to go for a MENTAL EVALUATION because you're obviously low on cerebral fuel. ![]() ![]() Funny enough, if you investigate further, you'll realize it's way more than 20. Most of today's guys didn't really learn anything from their Dads. May God never allow me raise a foo.l for a son. ![]() ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
ukaface(f): 10:45pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ebijimi7: Aaaaaaaahhhhhh More than 30?? Aaaaaah Mummy come and see o Aaaah Na like this Una Dey do? Person wey get more than 30 Dey suspect person wey get less than 20ππ€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ππ God Abeg oooo Humans are funny 2 Likes |
ukaface(f): 10:47pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ravensckar:Then for a guy that has more than 30 body counts , points to several things like ![]() ![]() Abi your knowledge no reach guys own, only girls. |
ukaface(f): 10:49pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
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ravensckar(m): 11:58pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ukaface:I can't only talk about the opposite gender. It's you ladies' job to masturb8 on the guy's body counts. #Picks_tooth. |
DarkCaesar(m): 12:30am On Aug 08, 2024 |
I really canβt come to term with how a CHASTE 28y/o racked up a 20 BCβ¦β¦and being nice is always an ace up the sleeve of most women getting too old for marriage. An old trick from time immemorial to lure innocent men by ladies 26 and above
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DarkCaesar(m): 12:35am On Aug 08, 2024 |
ukaface:I know your typesβ¦β¦you are trying to find a consolation with his? |
DarkCaesar(m): 12:41am On Aug 08, 2024 |
ebijimi7: Bobo die that thought, you are only seeing the side she wants to show you and I can even bet that friend of yours had probably took his own share from her in the past before ing her to you or know about a mutual friend that has done soβ¦..Geez use your brain, thatβs why you have it! How can a responsible lady have sex with over 20 men multiple times(and she might even have trimmed down the number) while not fully 28y/o and you still had the gut to compare her with your late chaste woman. Omoo Toto don dey control this man just the same way a dickmatized lady would think and behave 2 Likes |
DarkCaesar(m): 12:56am On Aug 08, 2024 |
NeeKlaus:How is she any different from the ones we are running from on the street π how many Exes will she delete? How many past hitters will she introduced to our foolish Op as friends and harmless acquaintances? How many times will he be depressed whenever his right side of the brain have some weird flashbacks about how over 20 men wif different baton hit the same hole repeatedly for free while heβs eating the remnants Girls like op wife are submissive wh*r*, have you seen how men uses them in the bedroom? They are the best to try all degrading things and styles on because they know they will not resist and donβt know how to say the word NO. Do you think our dear naive Op can ever satisfy this lady already plough to madness by different sticks? Has the Op ever thought why none of the over 20 try marrying her since she was so good a woman and a wife material. Lastly their is one virtuous woman too like her in ile ife who goes by the name Olamide and sheβs also in her late 20s, fits the Op description and would treat any man like a king but people wey no her don sabi say she don cast. Her BC is probably more than this and she is not into hookup but canβt say NO to every dick, Tom and Harry that comes her wayβ¦β¦β¦DONβT MISLEAD THE POOR NAIVE MAN 5 Likes 1 Share |
BALLOSKI: 3:03am On Aug 08, 2024 |
ebijimi7:If she reminds of your late fiancΓ©, and she's good, then she's good to go. Men, high body count scares the daylight out of me. |
BALLOSKI: 3:08am On Aug 08, 2024 |
DarkCaesar:One useless girl with almost 40 body count told me they're all her friends. No hookup, just friends. You slept with almost 40 men who are just your friends? Omo, d thing scared me ooo May God protect our daughters. 2 Likes |
Lalami3232(m): 4:29am On Aug 08, 2024 |
And you believe it's just 20? ππ
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Whatever a lady tells you about her body count, multiply by 3, then add 4 to it, you get the exact figure. 3 Likes 1 Share |
rickleye: 6:38am On Aug 08, 2024 |
ebijimi7: You guys and your body count ! You can shove it where the sun donβt shine. Is there a way to the amount of people someone has slept with ? Is it written on someoneβs face ? Ask important questions about her goals in life . Does she make you happy ? Her background as some diseases might be hereditary. Best of luck |
ukaface(f): 7:00am On Aug 08, 2024 |
DarkCaesar:Point of correction o, Iβm not into any β typesβ Consolation with over 30 body counts ?π€£πππππππ€£πππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππππ God Abeg o |
ukaface(f): 7:02am On Aug 08, 2024 |
Lalami3232:Do we do same for guys? βWhatever a guy tells you about his body count, multiply by 3, then add 4 to it, you get the exact figureβ Shiooor |
Bashiii: 7:14am On Aug 08, 2024 |
Sonnobax15: Bro you fall my hand with this your comment. And all this while i was thinking you were a real OG. You too of all monickers here fell for the lady's act. She's doing all that only because she wants to get married to the OP,probably because he's well off or something. Picture a lady at 28 with numerous bodycounts and not doing good financially...certainly not a girl with number of good suitors,right? Op I'll advise you to abort mission and leave that girl the fu"ck alone. By the way,stop comparing yourself to a lady. You're man for God's sake. You're the crown of creation. It's in your damn right to have a body count in the thousands and still DEMAND for a young fertile VIRGIN when you're ready to settle down. Never let anyone make you believe otherwise. 4 Likes 1 Share |
DarkCaesar(m): 8:33am On Aug 08, 2024 |
ukaface:I will see this as you catching cruise hence Iβll stop gracing you with my repliesβ¦β¦ |
DarkCaesar(m): 8:36am On Aug 08, 2024 |
BALLOSKI:Sheβs more useless than a hookup girl if she has racked up that much body count with just friendsβ¦..their types are the ones we usually invite tell our friends to try their luck with and theyβd bed her. They just canβt say NO, always itching for a D. 2 Likes |
DarkCaesar(m): 8:43am On Aug 08, 2024 |
Bashiii:His brain had been malfunctioning since he started his maruwa biz otherwise how would you mislead a fellow brother who innocently asked for your opinion about a sensitive topic like this? Heβs better off marrying a hookup girl atlease he will know what heβs getting into, if this girl enter Op house fully then will he know her true colors. His neighbors will chop her tire, his street brothers will have their share and he will become a laughing stock like the man in our current apartment who six yahoo boys living in a flat in our same compound always make jest of how they always take turn on his wife when heβs not home and he was thoroughly beaten when he threatened them with a cutlass π girls like that will make you hate your existence later in life 4 Likes |
Bashiii: 9:50am On Aug 08, 2024 |
DarkCaesar: Couldn't have said it any better. At least there's no deception in marrying an olosho. Btw,that man in your compound is a massive fool. Why the hell hadn't he divorce the damn wife? 1 Like |
Bashiii: 9:53am On Aug 08, 2024 |
ukaface: Even if my body count go up to a thousand,I'm never marrying a non virgin. A young fetile vrgin is any sensible man right,unless he's a fool. 1 Like |
DarkCaesar(m): 10:02am On Aug 08, 2024 |
Bashiii:They have left their compound but when a man is already totomatized, emotions would always take the place of brain, he probably thought he would never find a better pus*y to hit again after her. Very useless man and if you see how this woman always disrespects and disregards him publicly in the compound you will know he has lost it. Na u dey go work, na madam wey be full housewife dey boss u around. Iβm sure those boys would have already given that woman to their friends living outside our neighborhood to have a taste of too or how could it not be when 6 boys living together already tasted it 2 Likes |
Bashiii: 10:14am On Aug 08, 2024 |
DarkCaesar: Omo bro,as i went through your post on this thread i knew that i have to follow you. You're a cerified OG. What you said is the reality of some girls out there. Normally all girls like to do shakara or put up lil resistance when it comes to sex,but they are certain set of girls that never offer any form of resistance when a man demand for sex from her. They can never say NO even if the man is ugly as hell. Also, they're neither doing it for money. These set of girls are suffering from lack of validation and self-esteem issues and are mostly product of single mothers or grew up with either an aunt or grandmother. Basically,they grew up without experiencing true parental love and care. As they become adults, they seek for that care and love they lack during childhood mostly from men. So when a man throw them the slightest attention and care and thereafter demanded for sex,they will feel obligated to grant him so as not to get him angry and withdraw his LOVE. That's why we're advising men,becareful of wifing up any lady with numerous body counts as sometimes the reason for her looseness might be psycological. Also,becareful of marrying any girl raised by a single mothe or the ones who do not have a good relationship with their fathers. Hausa people always say: IN KUNNE YAJI JIKI YA TSIRA 4 Likes 1 Share |
Bashiii: 10:17am On Aug 08, 2024 |
DarkCaesar: Kai...I'd rather give birth to a robber than give birth to a simp. Which kind disgrace be this one? All these kind of men deserve to be put to death wallahi. I bet it was the shame of such acts that made him move out from there. |
tiswell(m): 1:21pm On Aug 08, 2024 |
ukaface:Virginity and body counts has no place in masculinity ![]() Op is a blawdy Simp! |
tiswell(m): 1:28pm On Aug 08, 2024 |
Bashiii:comrade,I endorse this awesome input with two live goatsβοΈ 2 Likes |
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