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According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and she is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔

She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage to another girl?😭😭😭

I'm confused, you said girlfriend then in the same breath you mentioned remarry? Are you married to her? If yes, then she's not your girlfriend but a wife

40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔

She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

This is heartbreaking. What type of sickness is that?

40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔
She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

2 weeks old new profile on NL and already 2 yeye stories contradicting themselves. 1st, you didnt want to use the free house her father would supposedly give you (after marriage). now 2nd, she is dying bla bla bla.... hhmm ok sir. CUNT-E-NEW!

40 year old fool. Dem swr for you ni.

Your moniker says it all
No worry

You are already there

No need to advise you

40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔

She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

if you were in her situation do you really think she would remain single after your gone? use your head dont be a mugu . people die every day... life goes on

This is painful 💔

RealityKings:
I'm confused, you said girlfriend then in the same breath you mentioned remarry? Are you married to her? If yes, then she's not your girlfriend but a wife

Go back and read again. This time slowly

40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔

She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

At your age , stop creating fake stories. Get up go outside and get a job.

Don't be a lazy youth. Tomorrow you will carry placard to protest when you sef need brain resetting
Your mates are doing things yours is to chase likes on Nairaland with fake stories.

Bros you are don old o

MrBrownJay1:


2 weeks old new profile on NL and already 2 yeye stories contradicting themselves. 1st, you didnt want to use the free house her father would supposedly give you (after marriage). now 2nd, she is dying bla bla bla.... hhmm ok sir. CUNT-E-NEW!

Leave the old fool to be writing fake stories up and down .

That is an old man o

CountinBlessins:


At your age , stop creating fake stories. Get up go outside and get a job.

Don't be a lazy youth. Tomorrow you will carry placard to protest when you sef need brain resetting
Your mates are doing things yours is to chase likes on Nairaland with fake stories.

Bros you are don old o

I wish the story is fake but unfortunately it's not.
It's hurtful that many people commenting think I am making up stories...to what end?
I am a 40 year old man and I can't be trolling.
I am not interested in any politicking or carrying placards. God has blessed me financially, my only wish is for my girlfriend to live for us to get married and live happily ever after.
Whenever I call her and she doesn't pick up immediately; my heart skips😔

I

MrBrownJay1:


2 weeks old new profile on NL and already 2 yeye stories contradicting themselves. 1st, you didnt want to use the free house her father would supposedly give you (after marriage). now 2nd, she is dying bla bla bla.... hhmm ok sir. CUNT-E-NEW!

It's easy to connect the dots and the stories are not contradictory neither are they made up.
I know she has a condition that's not life threatening, but I just got to find out she won't survive the illness recently according to her doctors...she's likes to keep stuffs like that to herself.

40yroldman:

I wish the story is fake but unfortunately it's not.
It's hurtful that many people commenting think I am making up stories...to what end?
I am a 40 year old man and I can't be trolling.
I am not interested in any politicking or carrying placards. God has blessed me financially, my only wish is for my girlfriend to live for us to get married and live happily ever after.
Whenever I call her and she doesn't pick up immediately; my heart skips😔

I

Oga go find work and stop making up stores. This is just sad that at your age this is how you chose to waste your time?

Shame o

Get marry to her, she will die a happy woman.Lowest key wedding no fanfare,just few friends and family.She needs it.

40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔

She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

Guy,

Is this story true or just for traffic as usual?

Anyways, your statement is contradictory about the marriage aspect.

What type of childhood illness does she has that's about to consume her right now? Epilepsy, cancer, sickle cell or what?

Best bet is to wish her well in the afterlife and move on.

Don't marry her, as she's gonna soon and be tagged a widower.

There's no time to be depressed or else, you would be consumed in a space of months.

Cheers!

Loud don cloud most youths mind.
See this one now with twisted mind!

40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she es, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔

She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

Tori leke plazas

40yroldman:

Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

Don't waste one more day without marrying her the more you waste time the more God will punish you. Oponu Oshi.

onlinestaff247:


Guy,

Is this story true or just for traffic as usual?

Anyways, your statement is contradictory about the marriage aspect.

What type of childhood illness does she has that's about to consume her right now? Epilepsy, cancer, sickle cell or what?

Best bet is to wish her well in the afterlife and move on.

Don't marry her, as she's gonna soon and be tagged a widower.

There's no time to be depressed or else, you would be consumed in a space of months.

Cheers!

My stories are true, nobody pays me to write on this forum. I am only sharing here because I'll remain anonymous.
For the sake of the respect I have for her, I don't think it will be wise for me to reveal her illness here. She might see it or someone close to her might.
I just feel that getting married to her will bring her happiness for the remaining days of her life if she doesn't make at the end.
I don't really care what people will tag me when she's gone. At 40 years, I've met girls and none is to be compared with her. I just wish she can live 😩

Usmanovic95:
Get marry to her, she will die a happy woman.Lowest key wedding no fanfare,just few friends and family.She needs it.

Thanks, I also feel this is the best gift I'll give to her even if she didn't make it at the end.
She's such a beautiful soul and she deserves it.

imagrg:
Loud don cloud most youths mind.
See this one now with twisted mind!

What do you mean bro?

Jobless men go dey post fictional content. This generation is weird.

40yroldman:

My stories are true, nobody pays me to write on this forum. I am only sharing here because I'll remain anonymous.
For the sake of the respect I have for her, I don't think it will be wise for me to reveal her illness here. She might see it or someone close to her might.
I just feel that getting married to her will bring her happiness for the remaining days of her life if she doesn't make at the end.
I don't really care what people will tag me when she's gone. At 40 years, I've met girls and none is to be compared with her. I just wish she can live 😩

Out of the more than 250 million Nigerians, is she the only female with that illness that she would be able to pinpoint it here on Nairaland if you reveal it?

Guy, at 40 years old that you said you are, don't you know what to do when you're faced with real life situations?

Stop whining, most of your mates already have kids that are teenagers. Here you're wailing over a sinking ship.

If this story is really true and not fabricated as usual, you would soon hit depression.