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There's this girl at my workplace...lately we've been closed than before I told her i like her and will like to make her mine buh if she doesn't feel the same way it's fine…She said I'm joking about it. I told her I'm serious and not joking…she never said 'yes or no' yet she pays for the little things I ask her to pay, she's touchy on me, she texts me, always wanting to be in my space when I'm around etc. I'm I missing any information?... Cuz a yes or no would help in making me clarified.
Please I need your opinion.

You are there waiting for a yes while she’s waiting for

“So now that you have gotten what you want, what are we now”

Workplace romance dey come along with see-finish brah ....

It'd be better if you should just continue collecting free gifts from her like you're already doing than to later on be collecting free insults when the matter go cast...

I find it hard to have sexual romantic relationships at work place. I wonder how some men do it.

It breeds disrespect and see finish in the end. Then both of you will become strangers after the brouhahaha is done.

Sonnobax15:

Workplace romance dey come along with see-finish brah ....

It'd be better if you should just continue collecting free gifts from her like you're already doing than to later on be collecting free insults when the matter go cast...

I usually don't give her time due to the fact that she hasn't made her intentions known. Cuz a simple "yes I feel the same way about you" or "no I don't really fancy you" would help me know my stand... Buh she skips answering that. I'm not that desperate for her, I only express myself to her and I went on with my biz.
I don't want to take all those gestures for what I'm not sure of.
It's just a simple yes or no I want.

DND069:
I find it hard to have sexual romantic relationships at work place. I wonder how some men do it.

It breeds disrespect and see finish in the end. Then both of you will become strangers after the brouhahaha is done.

Rule out the environment (the workplace)
I personally don't display affections at workplace I see her as my normal colleague. My problem is her putting herself in the gf position when she haven't made any clarification on what I told her... She wants to go when I'm leaving, ever since this started I don't spend on transport(she do pay for me and her).... and I've never invited her to my house(which I feel it's like a thriller to her) cuz I want her to be the one requesting to know where I'm staying. I don't want to look desperate.

I don't want a situation I'll say okay she's mine only for her to embarrass me with "I never said yes" kind of.

Carcholce:
You are there waiting for a yes while she’s waiting for

“So now that you have gotten what you want, what are we now”

I've never slept with her... Nor spend a dime on her. I just presented myself that I liked her and then I stepped back... All what is required is just yes or no. Buh she's kinda putting herself in the spot of gf smh... also I don't initiate texts she does, I only call her when I see her missed calls.

Like it's common to ask a girl out and then you get the immediate yes or no answer but this babe wan skip that part to dey perform all those gestures and me i no wan create any illusion in my head.

If I bring up the topic she'll be like "I know you're still joking about it" like I'm joking how? Na until I go put am for billboard before she no seh I'm serious? Okay if her instincts tell her that I'm joking shey she for commot body... Omor I no con know again.

Happy Sunday

MissKudoswrite:
Happy Sunday

Same to you

Sonnobax15:

Workplace romance dey come along with see-finish brah ....

It'd be better if you should just continue collecting free gifts from her like you're already doing than to later on be collecting free insults when the matter go cast...

Perfectly said or just don't take her gifts again but looking for yes or no ? I pity u , nah ur respect and position at work you want loose so

Carcholce:
You are there waiting for a yes while she’s waiting for

“So now that you have gotten what you want, what are we now”

Lol

Kemzee01:


Rule out the environment (the workplace)
I personally don't display affections at workplace I see her as my normal colleague. My problem is her putting herself in the gf position when she haven't made any clarification on what I told her... She wants to go when I'm leaving, ever since this started I don't spend on transport(she do pay for me and her).... and I've never invited her to my house(which I feel it's like a thriller to her) cuz I want her to be the one requesting to know where I'm staying. I don't want to look desperate.

I don't want a situation I'll say okay she's mine only for her to embarrass me with "I never said yes" kind of.

Then enjoy the moment with her. Don't get carried away by the affections she is displaying.

Kemzee01:
There's this girl at my workplace...lately we've been closed than before I told her i like her and will like to make her mine buh if she doesn't feel the same way it's fine…She said I'm joking about it. I told her I'm serious and not joking…she never said 'yes or no' yet she pays for the little things I ask her to pay, she's touchy on me, she texts me, always wanting to be in my space when I'm around etc. I'm I missing any information?... Cuz a yes or no would help in making me clarified.
Please I need your opinion.

Kemzee01:
There's this girl at my workplace...lately we've been closed than before I told her i like her and will like to make her mine buh if she doesn't feel the same way it's fine…She said I'm joking about it. I told her I'm serious and not joking…she never said 'yes or no' yet she pays for the little things I ask her to pay, she's touchy on me, she texts me, always wanting to be in my space when I'm around etc. I'm I missing any information?... Cuz a yes or no would help in making me clarified.
Please I need your opinion.

Is she lightskin?