NewStats: 3,259,422 , 8,170,051 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 10:33 PM 1c2q6q

FireUpNow:


He only wanted sex with her and was ready to pay the price of which he paid and got.

Paying way too much for anything like sex makes you a FOOL

meobizy:
I dey fold arms look you.

..so every moniker wey no talk say na fake, na alternate ?? As in u nor just normal at all

advanceDNA:


..so every moniker wey no talk say na fake, na alternate ?? As in u nor just normal at all

I still dey fold arms look you.

Nairalander248:


Because you no dey believe no mean say e never happened. If they didn't wrote it down that King Solomon married 700 wives including Jennyclay as one of his 300 concubines, would you have believed?

I saw what u did😹

Beautifulday:


How much are we talking about? Do you know how much in money and time people spend on foreign olosho?

And do you know we're in Naija?
People who have such money are sought after - and usually don't have time

Cmanforall:


It may not be fake, but the real reason for dumping her cousin was not revealed

Meaning it's fake
Contradicting yourself

This could be fake but I actually have a friend who did it. He went and dropped wine for "knocking". Knacked the babe and moved on

advanceDNA:


Weda na fake or not......Something similar happened to funke akindele.. the nigga bragged it was just a bet to show he can get her.....
some.guys nor send oooo.... They've been hurt before, and their mind has become devilish ..they can hurt anybody just to prove point

Which nigga

DaddyCoool:


Meaning it's fake
Contradicting yourself

No...
I meant it may not be a fake story that his cousin was dumped

But the actual reason maybe was not revealed. Meaning the guy might have dumped her because of what happened after the traditional marriage. So he didn't do the traditional marriage just to sleep with her.

Tame26:
this might be fake. But someone did exactly thesame to me not up to marriage, but he only asked me out just to prove a point to his friends. The relationship was great, he only disclosed this when it was going sour.

He chop u abi he no chop u?

Cmanforall:


No...
I meant it may not be a fake story that his cousin was dumped

But the actual reason maybe was not revealed. Meaning the guy might have dumped her because of what happened after the traditional marriage. So he didn't do the traditional marriage just to sleep with her.

Bolded is what story is all about and why it made FP. If that's false then story is false

DonBenny77:

Which nigga

Oloyede maroof ....the son of iyaloja of oshodu back then

rigarmortis:
This could be fake but I actually have a friend who did it. He went and dropped wine for "knocking". Knacked the babe and moved on

Chai! How did the babe's family take it?

She Sha kept ot till her wedding night.

doggedfighter:
Cooked up story

Because it damages the ego of your gender. 🤣🤣🤣

Callosobruchus:
Hehehe...she wants me to come to Abj fess before we start to negotiate.Shebi all di decent ones wey dey my area no get wetin you get? You don't need to have an eye problem to wear life's medicated glasses.Played or be played, and if you don't like the game of playing people always be sharp enough to know that people are always willing to play you.

I like this

doggedfighter:
Cooked up story

I believe you know that some men can go any length just to hit that spot ......

laplace19:

I've seen it happen in Onitsha. Though the guy only took some fake elders to go pay the girl's bride price. They came back together and after sleeping with the girl, he told her straight up that he is not marrying her. He own did it because she was forming hard to get for him(the guy na rich business guy)

superCleanworks:

Keep playing.

I have seen this happen like twice in my life.

the first one was not marriage. The guy took

steeltrust:

it might be true

This has happened to my sister years back but it was only introductions

After the intro
Slept with my sister and broke up the following week

Don’t play with some men
Dem be cras

Mosdiii:


It's not fake. I have actually done something similar to a lady before when I was in my 20s. After getting her in to a relationship with me after all the hard to get she played. I later after 2 months lost interest totally

pweeryambre:

I know a banker friend of mine that did it, he even went as far as printing wedding cards and pre wedding photos. I still have their pre wedding photos. he called it off right before they started sharing the cards after insisting he wants her to get pregnant before they wed.

bestman09:


May be real.
I witnessed one. After lots of fruitless efforts to sleep with the lady, the guy kind of RENTED fake family and friends to go with him to the girl's family with drinks showing his seriousness to marry the lady, and after all said and done, he dumped her after getting what he wanted. He spent money then for the rubbish

One thing all your stories have in common - no actual mariage.
The marriage thing is what marks it a fake story.
That and "abroad guy"

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."

Jennyclay don suffer for una hands 😁😁😁

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cococandy:
Yall do stuff like this and more yet still have the mount to count body count for women and blame them having sex with men.

It’s been a long time since I last considered the average naija a dude as ppl with common sense and everyday on this forum you guys keep proving it. Because everything you do in contradictory to what you say

channel your frustrations properly. I have nothing to do with you.
Try working on your spellings, punctuation and grammar to give yourself some little value.

Whether this story is true or not is not important. The important lesson to learn from this story is, if you are a lady never underestimate the extent some sick idiotic men can go just to put their prick inside your toto. They don't love you. They have no intention to marry you. They don't care about your life, future or destiny. All they just want is to insert their dirty penis inside of you.

Beware of men who try to manipulate or pressurise you to have sex with them and then suddenly start talking about marriage when they see that they can't sleep with you so easily.

superCleanworks:


channel your frustrations properly. I have nothing to do with you.
Try working on your spellings, punctuation and grammar to give yourself some little value.

Yes because my typo is the topic of conversation

Your little mind couldn’t think of an appropriate response but to pick at typing errors.

Proves my point

cococandy:
Y’all do stuff like this and more, yet still have the mouth to count body count for women and blame them having sex with men.

It’s been a long time since I last considered the average naija dude as ppl with common sense and everyday on this forum you guys keep proving it. Because everything you do is contradictory to what you say

Are you directing your post to us for sharing a story we experienced?

cococandy:

Yes because my typo is the topic of conversation

Your little mind couldn’t think of an appropriate response but to pick at typing errors.

Proves my point

Your multiple chaotic spelling and grammar errors show that you have never finished reading a book in your life not to talk of writing one. This has NOTHING to do with typos.
You wrote those words and clicked SUBMIT and you want to give excuses? It is a great sign of your irreparable illiteracy.
Every penny your parents spent on your education is a waste and I will not give you the honour of another reply.

laplace19:


Are you directing your post to us for sharing a story we experienced?

Yes absolutely I am.

I’m reading all the posts by men here and many of you know some guy who has done this. You don’t hold each other able for anything. It’s just seen as normal male behavior .

But in the same vein you wouldn’t hesitate to lambast a woman for daring to have had sex with some dude before she met “her husband”.

Where’s the disconnect happening? How are you not seeing the direct connection between the male desperation to do anything for sex and the fact that you can no longer have the low body count women you so dream of?

Okay I’m illiterate. Now that we agree on that and it’s out of the way, maybe you can focus on the topic?

The topic of how deplorable you guys are? Desperate to do anything for a little bit of Sex. Shameless people

superCleanworks:


Your multiple chaotic spelling and grammar errors show that you have never finished reading a book in your life not to talk of writing one. This has NOTHING to do with typos.
You wrote those words and clicked SUBMIT and you want to give excuses? It is a great sign of your irreparable illiteracy.
Every penny your parents spent on your education is a waste and I will not give you the honour of another reply.

cococandy:

Yes absolutely I am.

I’m reading all the posts by men here and many of you know some guy who has done this. You don’t hold each other able for anything. It’s just seen as normal male behavior .

But in the same vein you wouldn’t hesitate to lambast a woman for daring to have had sex with some dude before she met “her husband”.

Where’s the disconnect happening? How are you not seeing the direct connection between the male desperation to do anything for sex and the fact that you can no longer have the low body count women you so dream of?

So, if you've experienced some married women sleeping with some bachelors and you share the story. Does that make(say you're also married) you one of such women!
Whatever problem you've with men to warrant such generalization, please, heal yourself.

Tame26:
this might be fake. But someone did exactly thesame to me not up to marriage, but he only asked me out just to prove a point to his friends. The relationship was great, he only disclosed this when it was going sour.

Things happen. Some people derive joy from others misery. I assume you've moved on and pray that a good man comes your way if you're not married. May you find joy that dulls out the hurt.

bestman09:
The story may not be fake.
I witnessed something like this many years ago. Someone hired his neighbors in his face me i slap you resident and a few friends to pose as relations and took them to the lady's parents with drinks saying that he wants to marry their daughter and when everything was fixed, even the date, the young man disappeared after sleeping with the lady, which is what he actually wanted. He told his friends that the lady proved too much stubborn to him hence such expensive act.

Na wa! Karma is real sha. Many are today reaping bountifully from the seeds they sowed and busy running from pillar to post.

laplace19:


So, if you've experienced some married women sleeping with some bachelors and you share the story. Does that make(say you're also married) you one of such women!
Whatever problem you've with men to warrant such generalization, please, heal yourself.

No I wouldn’t generalize on women because we’re not online everyday body and slut shaming men. Or placing ridiculous double standards on men that we ourselves don’t hold up. So there’s no basis for comparison.

It’s takes a special lack of depth and insight to think that I personally have to have a problem with all of you to point out the folly in your ways.

My question remains. Since most of you know a man or some men who have gone to such extreme lengths just to have sex and then dump the woman after, why do you still hold women to impossible purity standards?

Knowing fully well that most of you simply exist to find a way to break down those barriers, win their trust and run away. Only to talk trash about them afterwards. I wanna know why it’s such a casual conversation amongst you guys but you don’t see the direct correlation between this behavior and some negative sexual behaviors in women?

Is this too complicated for you to understand?

laplace19:


So, if you've experienced some married women sleeping with some bachelors and you share the story. Does that make(say you're also married) you one of such women!
Whatever problem you've with men to warrant such generalization, please, heal yourself.

Nairaland guys are not nice....most of them female now have PTSD.

YoungLionken:
My subtle advice to every lady out there (directly or indirectly) is..

Stay with your man (whether broke or not) as long as he has sense and know what he's doing regarding the future, because there are so many vipers in a man's form out there. You would hardly (not impossible but improbable) see a better man than your man outside..

You can imagine the mental, emotional damage and shame on the said lady. She may never have the desire to marry, ever again because of the idiatic monster who deceived her!.

As for the SIMPs who keep enduring the consistent misbehaviors of their woman. Go out there and see what most women are ing through in the hands of men. But yet, you intentionally allow yourself to a constant stress with your problematic woman in the excuse of "I love her and I must make it work".
To you she's the best because you haven't opened your mind to other options way better...

honestly. Fine girls full everywhere