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Moshybear(f): 12:18pm On Apr 26, 2024
Good day nairalanders. So this is a true story of my life and i am currently having mixed feelings maybe your comments will make me have a peace of mind (Hopefully)

Back then in school (IMSU) I had this roommate called Juliet ( not real name). For those who attended IMSU you will know that Hookup was full blown even before other Universities got acquainted with it. I look at Young girls doing it now and i just smile.

Anyways back to the story, this roommate of mine never lacked anything. Was it groceries, expensive hair, Phones, laptops etc , you name it. And this girl was from a poor background. I know her parents.

Rich Guys have rented very expensive apartments for her more than three times but she still chose to be roommates with me so as to chop their money and have savings.

I know you guys will be expecting a sad ending for her but this is not Nollywood. Presently she visits countries around the world like Dubai, Paris, London, LA , New York, Greece etc like breeze. I saw this girls posts and story on Instagram and couldn't believe my eyes.

However me back then was hoping on love and was dating a broke guy back then who later got me pregnant and i was refusing advances from very rich older men as an understanding girlfriend and wife to be ( foolish me) . Doing all the chores for this boy who later dumped me and the child as soon as he graduated and moved overseas. Since we graduated, this guy has never asked of my welfare nor sent a kobo to me for the upkeep of our "daughter".

Right now even to feed is a difficulty not to talk of accomodations.

So Nairaland people was i foolish to believe in Love at the expenses of a good life?

Thanks for reading this far.

I will really appreciate your responses. God bless

I still have a lot of info but let me stop here for now.
dangermouse(m): 12:33pm On Apr 26, 2024
It is life and choice you made.

People always forget that not everyone's destiny are the same.

She did hook up and all that and is living a good life as you saw her posting on social media and poor you is left with a baby right?

It could have been worse for you had it been you ed her maybe.

We should learn to be contended in life. That is key

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Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:35pm On Apr 26, 2024
You were not just smart,obi cubana wife was with him when broke and today na private jet things.so,everybody doesnt have same story and experience .some girls did hookup and men don kill dem for body parts.such is life.you no just lucky

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Ahmed0336(m): 12:48pm On Apr 26, 2024
Eyahhhhhhhh.

Same thing happened with the baddest girls during my time. Honestly they got married to richer guys. Somethings about this life remains a misery.

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fyzaila: 1:06pm On Apr 26, 2024
Doing bad things and getting away with it doesn't mean it's good. I don't see any difference between the two of you. One is high-class olosho and the other low class olosho so all is olosho. You should have just focus on what you were sent to school to do, face your studies alone. You wouldn't have been in this predicament you're in now.

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Sonnobax15(m): 1:26pm On Apr 26, 2024
lipsrsealed
Dah your friend wey go soon dey regret!!!

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Moshybear(f): 1:30pm On Apr 26, 2024
fyzaila:
Doing bad things and getting away with it doesn't mean it's good. I don't see any difference between the two of you. One is high-class olosho and the other low class olosho so all is olosho. You should have just focus on what you were sent to school to do, face your studies alone. You wouldn't have been in this predicament you're in now.
And who told you i didn't focus on my studies?

I graduated with a strong 2:1 my dear but I haven't been able to get a Job since graduation and service. I even posted about my predicament here on NL so what gives?

Nigeria is full of self righteous hypocrites no lie about that angry

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FRANCISTOWN: 2:08pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Good day nairalanders. So this is a true story of my life and i am currently having mixed feelings maybe your comments will make me have a peace of mind (Hopefully)

Back then in school (IMSU) I had this roommate called Juliet ( not real name). For those who attended IMSU you will know that Hookup was full blown even before other Universities got acquainted with it. I look at Young girls doing it now and i just smile.

Anyways back to the story, this roommate of mine never lacked anything. Was it groceries, expensive hair, Phones, laptops etc , you name it. And this girl was from a poor background. I know her parents.

Rich Guys have rented very expensive apartments for her more than three times but she still chose to be roommates with me so as to chop their money and have savings.

I know you guys will be expecting a sad ending for her but this is not Nollywood. Presently she visits countries around the world like Dubai, Paris, London, LA , New York, Greece etc like breeze. I saw this girls posts and story on Instagram and couldn't believe my eyes.

However me back then was hoping on love and was dating a broke guy back then who later got me pregnant and i was refusing advances from very rich older men as an understanding girlfriend and wife to be ( foolish me) . Doing all the chores for this boy who later dumped me and the child as soon as he graduated and moved overseas. Since we graduated, this guy has never asked of my welfare nor sent a kobo to me for the upkeep of our "daughter".

Right now even to feed is a difficulty not to talk of accomodations.

So Nairaland people was i foolish to believe in Love at the expenses of a good life?

Thanks for reading this far.

I will really appreciate your responses. God bless

I still have a lot of info but let me stop here for now.


If this story is true.

One thing people don't understand is that success is on people, and not on what they do.

Let's flip your lifestyle.
If your friend had been the decent one and you had been the immoral one. Your friend would still have been "successful" and you'd still be broke up till this day.

If you realized I put the word "successful" in quotes. It means, your friend may appear successful, but is she really successful? Do you know whether she has any sicknesses or diseases that she's battling?
But fines pictures at fine spots are your own criteria for a successful lifestyle.

It's too early to determine who is truly successful.
My people go talk say "Person wey never die never know the kind death wey go kill am".

The end justifies the means.

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Moshybear(f): 2:12pm On Apr 26, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:


If this story is true.

One thing people don't understand is that success is on people, and not on what they do.

Let's flip your lifestyle.
If your friend had been the decent one and you had been the immoral one. Your friend would still have been "successful" and you'd still be broke up till this day.

If you realized I put the word "successful" in quotes. It means, your friend may appear successful, but is she really successful? Do you know whether she has any sicknesses or diseases that she's battling?
But fines pictures at fine spots are your own criteria for a successful lifestyle.

It's too early to determine who is truly successful.
My people go talk say "Person wey never die never know the kind death wey go kill am".

The end justifies the means.
Very well noted. Thanks alot dear.
otemeh01(m): 3:07pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
And who told you i didn't focus on my studies?

I graduated with a strong 2:1 my dear but I haven't been able to get a Job since graduation and service. I even posted about my predicament here on NL so what gives?

Nigeria is full of self righteous hypocrites no lie about that angry
What I think u should do at the moment is to think of a business and try and raise capital from friends and family while still looking for a job. U can even your said boyfriend overseas to assist u with capital that I won't disturb him again or him again for anything.

Concerning your hook-up rommie, such is life o. No formula for it. Being good or bad doesn't guarantee success. Besides that your roommate may possess other qualities that attract success that u may not know of too... Probably that's why she is successful in the business because I have seen other local very beautiful ashewo Wen dey stand for road too.

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Bintabisiriyu2: 3:50pm On Apr 26, 2024
So should we cry now or fry water because you were impregnated and dumped, abegi

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Elzazzi: 4:00pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Good day nairalanders. So this is a true story of my life and i am currently having mixed feelings maybe your comments will make me have a peace of mind (Hopefully)

Back then in school (IMSU) I had this roommate called Juliet ( not real name). For those who attended IMSU you will know that Hookup was full blown even before other Universities got acquainted with it. I look at Young girls doing it now and i just smile.

Anyways back to the story, this roommate of mine never lacked anything. Was it groceries, expensive hair, Phones, laptops etc , you name it. And this girl was from a poor background. I know her parents.

Rich Guys have rented very expensive apartments for her more than three times but she still chose to be roommates with me so as to chop their money and have savings.

I know you guys will be expecting a sad ending for her but this is not Nollywood. Presently she visits countries around the world like Dubai, Paris, London, LA , New York, Greece etc like breeze. I saw this girls posts and story on Instagram and couldn't believe my eyes.

However me back then was hoping on love and was dating a broke guy back then who later got me pregnant and i was refusing advances from very rich older men as an understanding girlfriend and wife to be ( foolish me) . Doing all the chores for this boy who later dumped me and the child as soon as he graduated and moved overseas. Since we graduated, this guy has never asked of my welfare nor sent a kobo to me for the upkeep of our "daughter".

Right now even to feed is a difficulty not to talk of accomodations.

So Nairaland people was i foolish to believe in Love at the expenses of a good life?

Thanks for reading this far.

I will really appreciate your responses. God bless

I still have a lot of info but let me stop here for now.


Is that you @dp
Elzazzi: 4:03pm On Apr 26, 2024
fyzaila:
Doing bad things and getting away with it doesn't mean it's good. I don't see any difference between the two of you. One is high-class olosho and the other low class olosho so all is olosho. You should have just focus on what you were sent to school to do, face your studies alone. You wouldn't have been in this predicament you're in now.

Don't mind her. She wasn't fvcking that guy alone and ofcourse he knows. Lol

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Moshybear(f): 4:26pm On Apr 26, 2024
Elzazzi:


Is that you @dp
Yea, I'm the one.
Elzazzi: 4:27pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Yea, I'm the one.

Ok
Bliztzer: 4:34pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Good day nairalanders. So this is a true story of my life and i am currently having mixed feelings maybe your comments will make me have a peace of mind (Hopefully)

Back then in school (IMSU) I had this roommate called Juliet ( not real name). For those who attended IMSU you will know that Hookup was full blown even before other Universities got acquainted with it. I look at Young girls doing it now and i just smile.

Anyways back to the story, this roommate of mine never lacked anything. Was it groceries, expensive hair, Phones, laptops etc , you name it. And this girl was from a poor background. I know her parents.

Rich Guys have rented very expensive apartments for her more than three times but she still chose to be roommates with me so as to chop their money and have savings.

I know you guys will be expecting a sad ending for her but this is not Nollywood. Presently she visits countries around the world like Dubai, Paris, London, LA , New York, Greece etc like breeze. I saw this girls posts and story on Instagram and couldn't believe my eyes.

However me back then was hoping on love and was dating a broke guy back then who later got me pregnant and i was refusing advances from very rich older men as an understanding girlfriend and wife to be ( foolish me) . Doing all the chores for this boy who later dumped me and the child as soon as he graduated and moved overseas. Since we graduated, this guy has never asked of my welfare nor sent a kobo to me for the upkeep of our "daughter".

Right now even to feed is a difficulty not to talk of accomodations.

So Nairaland people was i foolish to believe in Love at the expenses of a good life?

Thanks for reading this far.

I will really appreciate your responses. God bless

I still have a lot of info but let me stop here for now.


I hardly envy people expecially when I know their source of money is dirty. The end will never be good. Except by chance or grace the person repent, but the consequences will still linger around them.

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Jflex07(m): 5:43pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Yea, I'm the one.
I trying to get acquainted with you some time ago,but you were forming for me ,even as single mum.. Maybe ,we would have gone a long way now and your life would have been much more better.

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Moshybear(f): 7:17pm On Apr 26, 2024
Jflex07:
I trying to get acquainted with you some time ago,but you were forming for me ,even as single mum.. Maybe ,we would have gone a long way now and your life would have been much more better.
Sorry not sorry about that but i don't trust men anymore.

Will need a life time of healing unless God intervenes.

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1Sharon(f): 7:46pm On Apr 26, 2024
Yes. It was kind of foolish for you to let him get you pregnant before marrying you.

You have more to loose as a woman if you have unprotected sex.

No, he didn't get you pregnant, you know what comes if you have unprotected sex. You allowed it to happen.

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Jflex07(m): 7:46pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Sorry not sorry about that but i don't trust men anymore.

Will need a life time of healing unless God intervenes.
My dear.. You can't continue like this, while their are bad eggs out there,it doesn't mean people are not meeting the rightful people. You have to keep trying whilst praying. Life can turn around in minutes with the right people around. Cheers!

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1Sharon(f): 7:54pm On Apr 26, 2024
Jflex07:
I trying to get acquainted with you some time ago,but you were forming for me ,even as single mum.. Maybe ,we would have gone a long way now and your life would have been much more better.

What's your point? Because she's a single mother, she shouldn't have her preference?

If you feel this way about single mothers, why then are you trying to get acquainted with her?

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Newton2024: 7:55pm On Apr 26, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Dah your friend wey go soon dey regret!!!

My dear op, simply because your present situation reflects what your decency has led you into, but I must say it is/was the best decision you must have ever made.....
A student who turned herself into a 'wife' for another student while in the university. How decent is that?

She was indecent, unsmart and unlucky at the same time. However, the child she has out of wedlock is better than the life her former roommate is living. She won't understand now until few years time.

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Jflex07(m): 7:55pm On Apr 26, 2024
1Sharon:


What's your point? Because she's a single mother, she shouldn't have her preference?

If you feel this way about single mothers, why then are you trying to get acquainted with her?
Don't get me wrong please, I have nothing against single mothers. Cheers!
1Sharon(f): 7:58pm On Apr 26, 2024
Jflex07:
Don't get me wrong please, I have nothing against single mothers. Cheers!

Lol sure you don't.

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harsysky(m): 8:08pm On Apr 26, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:


If this story is true.

One thing people don't understand is that success is on people, and not on what they do.

Let's flip your lifestyle.
If your friend had been the decent one and you had been the immoral one. Your friend would still have been "successful" and you'd still be broke up till this day.

If you realized I put the word "successful" in quotes. It means, your friend may appear successful, but is she really successful? Do you know whether she has any sicknesses or diseases that she's battling?
But fines pictures at fine spots are your own criteria for a successful lifestyle.

It's too early to determine who is truly successful.
My people go talk say "Person wey never die never know the kind death wey go kill am".

The end justifies the means.

This is by far the most reasonal comment here

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stillseth: 8:30pm On Apr 26, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:


If this story is true.

One thing people don't understand is that success is on people, and not on what they do.

Let's flip your lifestyle.
If your friend had been the decent one and you had been the immoral one. Your friend would still have been "successful" and you'd still be broke up till this day.



If you realized I put the word "successful" in quotes. It means, your friend may appear successful, but is she really successful? Do you know whether she has any sicknesses or diseases that she's battling?
But fines pictures at fine spots are your own criteria for a successful lifestyle.

It's too early to determine who is truly successful.
My people go talk say "Person wey never die never know the kind death wey go kill am".

The end justifies the means.



You have a very valid point .. if the lifestyle was flipped, she might not be successfull and might have even be use for body part ..

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GreatVocalist: 8:36pm On Apr 26, 2024
Ahmed0336:
Eyahhhhhhhh.

Same thing happened with the baddest girls during my time. Honestly they got married to richer guys. Somethings about this life remains a misery.
It's not a mystery, it's a pretty simple phenomenon. How successful a person is, is not a function of how good or bad. In this context, 'success' involves finance.

Play your cards right and get the corresponding results. However, there is blessing that makes one glad, and there's another that adds sorrow.

Time will always tell.

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pansophist(m): 8:41pm On Apr 26, 2024
Success is not materially based.

She might be ''successful'', but she has sold her soul, and her dignity, something after it is sold, can't be bought back. It's like saying pornstars are successful because some are millionaires, will you be a IndecentStar then? If the men stop bankrolling her, will you still consider her successful?

When you see life for what it is, you won't envy or be jealous of anyone. She visited many countries, and so what? Being a mother is a bigger success than being a public sperm depository.

You might think some people are bigger than you, but those people know what they sacrificed, have lost, and the price they paid to be there. You are judging them from the bias of your mind, from a very narrow-angle.

Try to read up on the full explanation of ''to gain the world but lose your soul''. Then you will appreciate having your peace, dignity, honour intact, instead of sacrificing it for something that if you ain't lazy, you can even achieve on your own.

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Dream25: 9:27pm On Apr 26, 2024
Moshybear:
Yea, I'm the one.
What did you do to that guy for him to ignore you?..
You're pretty and have innocent face, no guy will do that to you without reason.. Tell us what happen?.
westlius(m): 10:21pm On Apr 26, 2024
Op pls tell us the reason ur man got u pregnant and abandoned you.
No man will do dat except u didn't give him peace of mind.
Many men don't forget women who gives them peace of mind

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Cassandraloius: 1:03am On Apr 27, 2024
Sometimes I feel say the life no balance.

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