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Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.

While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.

To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.

I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

What stigma? People will talk for sometime and that's the end.

Op why do you love bringing different ladies home when you can just settle down since u have high libido, after all you are capable.

I like your attitude towards your parents though, I guess it's out of respect u don't want to misbehave in their presence, some ill mannered guys won't give a damn how he makes them feel simply because the parent are at his mercy.

You know your lifestyles, instead of wasting money on hotels, rent a room somewhere.

Please do and marry, I dislike irresponsible guys.

Bro, go and rent a place for yourself and enjoy different girls. What people think don't matter since they don't finance your life.

PS: don't listen to the girl, telling you to go and marry. Live your life freely, don't let anyone chain you down before you're ready.

Oizee:
What stigma? People will talk for sometime and that's the end.

Op why do you love bringing different ladies home when you can just settle down since u have high libido, after all you are capable.

I like your attitude towards your parents though, I guess it's out of respect u don't want to misbehave in their presence, some ill mannered guys won't give a damn how he makes them feel simply because the parent are at his mercy.

You know your lifestyles, instead of wasting money on hotels, rent a room somewhere.

Please do and marry, I dislike irresponsible guys.

No I am not yet ready for marriage.
They still many fishes in the ocean that I still haven't tasted yet.

Yes I respect my parents very much. If someone goes to tell my mom that see me with cigar stick she won't believe.

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021. While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive.. enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!. To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house. I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Nlfpmod

If there is still space in the compound, build a smaller apartment on it. Move into that one and leave the main building for them. If possible, create a second gate through to access it without ing through the main building.

On another note, think of settling down and stop "T0T0Vulcanizing". With this, you will become compatible with your parents and feel free with them too.

Stevenbright:


If there is still space in the compound, build a smaller apartment on it. Move into that one and leave the main building for them. If possible, create a second gate through to access it without ing through the main building.

On another note, think of settling down and stop "T0T0Vulcanizing". With this, you will become compatible with your parents and feel free with them too.

No more space
I am thinking about developing another one I got but not yet ready for that project.

T0T0Vulcanizer:

No more space
I am thinking about developing another one I got but not yet ready for that project.

Ok, I see.

Then consider the second option of my comment.

Though this is another tales by moonlight by OP but for such real life situation, the bigger problem is the "enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices....to cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week"...Hypersexuality is a mental health condition.

No need to go and spend money unnecessarily when you have tenants.... Simply quit one of them out and pack in. .

Rent an ap for them jor or you rent for yourself, na all the same...

Oizee:
What stigma? People will talk for sometime and that's the end.

Op why do you love bringing different ladies home when you can just settle down since u have high libido, after all you are capable.

I like your attitude towards your parents though, I guess it's out of respect u don't want to misbehave in their presence, some ill mannered guys won't give a damn how he makes them feel simply because the parent are at his mercy.

You know your lifestyles, instead of wasting money on hotels, rent a room somewhere.

Please do and marry, I dislike irresponsible guys.

Married men are the most sex starved.

Quit one of your tenant and get married.

Life of a man. Very uninteresting.

Tallesty1:
Married men are the most sex starved.

Don't mind her. They'll nag young men to get married; once they do, they'll weaponize sex making the man to literally beg for it.

Juwessgratitud3:
Life of a man. Very uninteresting.

See how bitter a woman can get when men don’t show interest in her in her 20s and 30s and then she suddenly realizes she’s pushing 50. Na wa o..

D

Toto vulcanizer.. na wah

I noticed no one has been crazy and bold enough to tell you to move your parents out

It's important that you and your dick enjoy your life and maximum pleasure. You parents should not Stand in the way of your pleasures.
After all, they should have built their own house.

Move them to a "face me and slap you single room". That way, you can hold parties back to back in your mansion. No one has ever built that your kind of house before. Good boy

If your siblings come around to complain, tell them to kneel down and give each of them very loud knock on their big head. Family must not come in-between you, your small dick and the several hookup girls

Look, friend, I want you to guide me genuinely. You ask for help in selecting one of the two ambiguities you are facing: "renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself." But after reading about your problems and the solution that you are planning, I am deeply concerned. Currently, you may be young and earn a good amount of money that you are spending on hotels and handling the high cost of drinks, but my friend, you are also a human, and day after day, humans get old and our bodies parts become weak, and you will be unable to generate income. As you also mention, you like to spend your time with females, which will also make you weak from the inside, which means that in older age you will suffer from many illnesses and you will require a lot of medicines and medical tests that require huge money. 

Conclusion:
1. First, you should leave or change your bad habits, like controlling your spending behavior by adopting good money attitudes.
2. As you discussed, if you are planning to move your parents into a rental house, don't do this. This will be your second destructive step or mistake.
3. Live with your parents, spend time with them and your friends, brother, and sister, and play with children and dogs. Do meditation and yoga that will help you control your inner will and your entire body.
4. Plan for the future in the present so that you can make your future. Think about investing; compound interest investing makes better use of money than spending it on useless things.

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T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021. While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!. To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house. I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

Nlfpmod

Both options are very viable but if I were in your position I’d simply find another place for myself and visit my people once in a while, meanwhile they stay there and watch over my house and tenants.

On other notes could you please help me with 2k, I am a student and I have run out of data subscription and I need it to study.

Also I am a graphic designer and printer so any jobs or referrals would be greatly appreciated.

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021. While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!. To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house. I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

Nlfpmod

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No sensible man drives his parents away from a home he built for whatever reasons

Just rent an apartment anywhere you want and since your sex drive is higher as four times a week

Rent an apartment for that purpose and furnish it to your taste and stay their to play your game whenever it's game time

You can still be leaving with your parents if you wish to still have them around you

So that means you will now be having two apartments which is very ok for you

Untill you are ready to settle down and start your own family

Uhmm

And you are even proud of it

Others are pumping tyre, you are pumping toto.

You are worried about stigma of a landlord renting an apartment, but you are not worried about stigma of patronizing ashawo.

If you marry and have kids, will you encourage your daughter to be an ashawo(one of the fishes)?

Accept Jesus and know peace 😴🕊️

For u to enjoy olosho on earth will make u burn to ashes in hell...

They're doing their job as Parent . How I wish if the consequences comes it wont affect them ...
Ọmọ pau bi ìbọn

You can use 1 stone to kill 2 birds. Rent a 2 bedroom apartment. One that allows you to rent it out as AirBnB. On the days you need it, use it to satisfy your needs. On the days or weeks you don't use it, you can rent it out to those who also need it.

Thus way, you can recover some of the cost.

What do you guys enjoy in Hook up girls?

The mere mention of them makes me wanna vomit 🤢

Dey chook penis inside public latrine. Disgusting sht.

Better go and marry.

A good attempt at writing fictions.

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.

While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.

To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.

I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

Which job do you do to be spending 200k per week on hotel bills only?

Even thou I give u advice, you will still do the contrary.

Ok