NewStats: 3,263,499 , 8,180,355 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 09:43 AM 4w1752

TooResilient:


Major in what aspect?

education and what do you do for a living?

TooResilient:


I don’t like taking pictures

dont mimd the hate talks just keep checking yoir email many of this boys must have sent you countless mail.

This is really bold of you.

Success in your quest. 🙏

And hey, don’t mind the naysayers.

TooResilient:


I'd like to procreate, to have children to on my knowledge and my wealth and to have them within the confines of a blessed marriage.😎

Drop me a message if truly you're ready.

Sureplug123:
education and what do you do for a living?

Oh, I get!

I'm a NSE/COREN certified engineer, worked in the power sector for a while.

Learnt some marketing and business skills alongside.

Now preparing to set up my business, taking some business management training courses at the moment and learning a foreign language.

TooResilient:


Oh, I get!

I'm a NSE/COREN certified engineer, worked in the power sector for a while.

Learnt some marketing and business skills alongside.

Now preparing to set up my business, taking some business management training courses at the moment and learning a foreign language.

that's great. What's your name on linkedin?

This life is just funny. See a matured lady that has good job now wants a husband. Useless girls with nothing will be getting married on Saturdays. I just don't understand. Op, please open your eyes well. Nothing dey happen. I have a female friend that got married at 36. She told me openly that she had given up on marriage. The day of her traditional wedding, people came to their house to check if it is really true. Some couldn't eat. They were just wondering. Calm down and fear not. Don't let family pressure get to u o. Stay blessed

Sureplug123:
that's great. What's your name on linkedin?

Ah 😁 you won't find me.

In fact, I deliberately changed my profile name on LinkedIn. I no like attention.

ItisWell22:
This is really bold of you.

Success in your quest. 🙏

And hey, don’t mind the naysayers.

Thank you sister

Namaster:
All these and no pictures.

Funny.

Na cruise jàré......

She even say she no dey snap....

U don see woman wey nor dey snap pics at all??

ukaface:

Is a spouse not a partner?🤷🏽‍♀️

Nope, Spouse is different from partner. Infact it's better to use the term as it is; husband or wife, but in some cases the word Spouse is allowed but never partner.
Your husband is not your partner neither is your husband to see you as his partner, contrary to what you've been led to believe by the culture, marriage is not a partnership but rather a relationship involving a hierarchy with the husband as the head and the wife as his helper.

Seniormanfeyi06:
This life is just funny. See a matured lady that has good job now wants a husband. Useless girls with nothing will be getting married on Saturdays. I just don't understand. Op, please open your eyes well. Nothing dey happen. I have a female friend that got married at 36. She told me openly that she had given up on marriage. The day of her traditional wedding, people came to their house to check if it is really true. Some couldn't eat. They were just wondering. Calm down and fear not. Don't let family pressure get to u o. Stay blessed

Thank you Seniorman. I'd be patient, but I don't want to stay longer so I can have all kids before 40 years.

GreatAchiever1:


Nope, Spouse is different from partner. Infact it's better to use the term as it is; husband or wife, but in some cases the word Spouse is allowed but never partner.
Your husband is not your partner neither is your husband to see you as his partner, contrary to what you've been led to believe by the culture, marriage is not a partnership but rather a relationship involving a hierarchy with the husband as the head and the wife as his helper.

OK 👌 o

advanceDNA:


Na cruise jàré......

She even say she no dey snap....

U don see woman wey nor dey snap pics at all??

At the bolden, yes! And that's me.

And I have a very good camera phone but go through my gallery, you'd hardly see pictures of myself. 🙂

There is something called law of positive attraction. Now that your mind is fully focused on getting married, be rest assured that it will come to swiftly. Nature has a way of bringing our heart desires our way when we are fully committed to it. The truth is that you spent your 20s building your career and finance without much regards for marriage. Channel the same energy you used then now to meaningful relationships henceforth and watch it metamophorse into a blissful marriage God willing. Peace

TooResilient:


Thank you Seniorman. I'd be patient, but I don't want to stay longer so I can have all kids before 40 years.

Seniormanfeyi06:

There is something called law of positive attraction. Now that your mind is fully focused on getting married, be rest assured that it will come to swiftly. Nature has a way of bringing our heart desires our way when we are fully committed to it. The truth is that you spent your 20s building your career and finance without much regards for marriage. Channel the same energy you used then now to meaningful relationships henceforth and watch it metamophorse into a blissful marriage God willing. Peace

🤔 thank you soo much, you're indeed a senior man. Thank you sir, I will.

TooResilient:


😇 I need a life partner to do the rest of life together and have kids.

I'm a mixed breed of 2 tribes: Delta/Ondo.

Ondo is not a tribe, same for Delta. Ijaw, urhobo, itsekiri etc are tribes.

Meanwhile the email address is wrong. It bounced.

Nigerianization:


Ondo is not a tribe, same for Delta. Ijaw, urhobo, itsekiri etc are tribes.

Meanwhile the email address is wrong. It bounced.

Email address is wrong? OMG!

[email protected]

Using my official email, I sent a mail to this 👆 and it went through, I don't know why it's bouncing yours🤔

TooResilient:
She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this has been deactivated but you can reach her on [email protected] for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

Reading through your post, I can readily see why you are still single. A successful man that knows his stuff will not want to mess with you. All your lofty dreams will only attract unambitious blokes who would want to take advantage of you.
I pray you get what you are searching for. But I suggest your priority needs to change.

weslay:


Reading through your post, I can readily see why you are still single. A successful man that knows his stuff will not want to mess with you. All your lofty dreams will only attract unambitious blokes who would want to take advantage of you.
I pray you get what you are searching for. But I suggest your priority needs to change.

Thank you Weslay. Amen to your prayers.

When you say my priority needs to change, how do you mean?

TooResilient:


How am I damaged?
All I listed is about who I am, not what I want the man to be.

Please read to comprehension.

I think you just have to reduce the standard you have been so that you can accommodate men that may want to approach you

You said you will make your children citizens, why not even relocate to that country where their men love and appreciate women more than the Ibo and Yoruba men

TooResilient:


Thank you Weslay. Amen to your prayers.

When you say my priority needs to change, how do you mean?

I’m actually from Sierra Leone and I’m currently residing in Freetown but would be coming to Illorin University for my Postgraduate Residency training through Fellowship in July this year and this should last up to 5 years.
I meet you age criterion to begin with.
I actually won’t mind giving a shot at this opportunity and see how it goes.
The email you shared isn’t working.
Can you share your telephone to my email please so we can start having conversations on WhatsApp?
You can search through my Nairaland profile for it.
This is my telephone by the way. +23279309521.
Good luck to us !!

AMKAG66:


I’m actually from Sierra Leone and I’m currently residing in Freetown but would be coming to Illorin University for my Postgraduate Residency training through Fellowship in July this year and this should last up to 5 years.
I meet you age criterion to begin with.
I actually won’t mind giving a shot at this opportunity and see how it goes.
The email you shared isn’t working.
Can you share your telephone to my email please so we can start having conversations on WhatsApp?
You can search through my Nairaland profile for it.
This is my telephone by the way. +23279309521.
Good luck to us !!

I'm so sorry, I mistyped that email. It's actually protonmail not protomail.

I've corrected it

frozen70:


I think you just have to reduce the standard you have been so that you can accommodate men that may want to approach you

You said you will make your children citizens, why not even relocate to that country where their men love and appreciate women more than the Ibo and Yoruba men

What I wrote in the original post was a description of myself, never gave a standard for the man except the yoruba/igbo part. And that's because I've never had luck with them.

I'm working towards visiting first before relocation but I've travelled out once before. My experience, when it comes to finding soul mate, you can find anywhere, you really don't have to wait till you go to another country.

TooResilient:


What I wrote in the original post was a description of myself, never gave a standard for the man except the yoruba/igbo part. And that's because I've never had luck with them.

I'm working towards visiting first before relocation but I've travelled out once before. My experience, when it comes to finding soul mate, you can find anywhere, you really don't have to wait till you go to another country.

Ok., keep it up

TooResilient:


I'm so sorry, I mistyped that email. It's actually protonmail not protomail.

I've corrected it

Noted.
But I’m still looking forward to your email or you can add me on WhatsApp with the phone number I shared.
Many thanks in warm anticipation.

TooResilient:


What I wrote in the original post was a description of myself, never gave a standard for the man except the yoruba/igbo part. And that's because I've never had luck with them.

I'm working towards visiting first before relocation but I've travelled out once before. My experience, when it comes to finding soul mate, you can find anywhere, you really don't have to wait till you go to another country.

Saying you don’t want Yoruba and Igbo actually reduce your chances.
The people likely to fit your profile are mostly are either Yorubas or igbos.
Or else you don’t want to marry a Nigerian at all

TooResilient:


How am I damaged?
All I listed is about who I am, not what I want the man to be.

Please read to comprehension.

Do not listen to the boys on NL and never bother to dignify with a reply. I must say you are one bold lady who knows what she certainly wants and also quite precisely.

Also not to let down your standards and I hope you find the man of your dreams.

Now, what I can say is not to have a closed minds towards those two tribes, Igbo or Yoruba as people are quite unique and different and you may never know.
Also, the past may never be a predictor for the future
even though you may have had some checkered pasts with men from those tribes.
I implore you to still keep an open mind and evaluate prospective suitors based on the merits of each.

Omoawoke:


Saying you don’t want Yoruba and Igbo actually reduce your chances.
The people likely to fit your profile are mostly are either Yorubas or igbos.
Or else you don’t want to marry a Nigerian at all

My thoughts also.

ukaface:
Like 75% of NL men no get sense, this post would it.

They won’t fail to yab the woman in the narration

Nope. There are still good people here, some are silent and never post. Always shoot your shots.

toujurs:
you are an introvert. You need to go out. Forget all these online dates or boyfriends. Most are not serious and play too much

She needs a man not an advisor. Either you apply or you let her be.

TooResilient:


Thank you Seniorman. I'd be patient, but I don't want to stay longer so I can have all kids before 40 years.

Try to settle the matta before leaving for first world countries. Relationship can be a tard hard here.