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I don't get, isn't the same WhatsApp group that someone complained that it reeks of immature comments and the likes?. . nevertheless I don't expect much from such group cos anything that goes on there still going to be drag n drab. No pun intended.

I don't know who said that, but it's actually fun. They're always stuffs here and there but it's fun

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Been an introvert has really affected me , people think I have pride cause I keep to myself

Dchoice:
Been an introvert has really affected me , people think I have pride cause I keep to myself

I can fix you

Dchoice:
Been an introvert has really affected me , people think I have pride cause I keep to myself

I told them, I don't and I don't just like to be bothered. You see peace of mind, I love it. So let's make conscious noise together.....

Nb: this is to the word. I don't have pride too

SIXFEETUNDER:


I can fix you

how

You make it sound like introverts are broken or defective

SIXFEETUNDER:


I can fix you

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Gloria10:
Hello everyone, I'm new here)

how old are you

I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating

Dchoice:
Been an introvert has really affected me , people think I have pride cause I keep to myself

Omo, na real matter you bring so. E dey very common for people to mistake quietness for pride, especially for we wey be introverts. We just dey enjoy our own company or we no too like loud places, but others fit see am as if we dey form or we no wan mix up.

First thing na to understand say being an introvert no be bad thing at all; na just how we dey wired. E get plenty strength for being an introvert, like deep thinking, creativity, and the ability to listen well. E important make you embrace your introvert qualities, as them fit be your superpowers.

If e dey possible, try explain to people around you, when necessary, say you being quiet or keeping to yourself no mean say you dey feel too big or you no like them. Sometimes, people just need small enlightenment to understand things from another perspective.

Also, try find ways to express yourself wey dey comfortable for you. E fit be through writing, art, or online forums where you fit interact without the pressure of physical gatherings. This way, you fit still connect with others on your own .

, you no need to change who you be to fit into wetin society expect. But if you feel say you wan improve on social skills or you wan dey more comfortable around people, you fit start small. Small gatherings or one-on-one hangouts fit be easier to manage than big parties.

And for this our introverts lounge, na the perfect place to share experiences and tips with fellow introverts. Here, we understand each other and we dey one another. No matter wetin, say you no dey alone, and there's a whole community of people wey dey just like you.

So, make we dey enjoy our introvert selves. We fit dey quiet, but our minds loud with creativity and ideas. Let's keep embracing our unique self and no let anybody make us feel less because we prefer a quieter life.

Blaqbea:
I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating

Omo, I feel your pain, my person. Being an introvert no mean say people suppose dey take advantage or walk all over you. E get as e dey be frustrating when you dey feel like say you no fit express yourself how you want, and as a result, people dey take you play.

First thing na to say your voice and your feelings matter, even if e no loud like others. E dey important to set boundaries, even as an introvert. You fit no too like confrontation, which dey understandable, but you fit still let people know your stand in a calm and respectful way.

One way to start na to practice small small. Maybe you fit start by expressing yourself through writing if face-to-face talk dey hard. E fit be as simple as sending a message to explain how you feel when people do certain things. This way, you dey communicate your boundaries without the pressure of immediate confrontation.

Also, try to surround yourself with people wey understand and respect your introverted nature. True friends go understand say you no need to be loud for your feelings to be valid. They go respect your boundaries once you make them clear.

E good to say being introverted no be weakness; e actually come with its own strengths like deep thinking, empathy, and the ability to listen well. You fit use these strengths to your advantage when dealing with others.

Lastly, if e dey really tough for you, e might help to talk to someone who fit guide you on how to assert yourself more. This could be a counselor, mentor, or even online forums and books dedicated to self-improvement and assertiveness.

You get the right to be treated with respect and kindness, no forget that. It might take a bit of time and practice to get comfortable with asserting yourself, but e worth am at the end. No let anybody make you feel less, and say you get full control over how you allow people treat you. Keep your head up, my person. Your peace of mind and well-being dey important anything else.

Thanks.

maybe you guys can create a whatsapp group, where you guys can readily say what comes to mind.

With that being said, its an advantage if you dont talk too much, because you take in more information, which helps to easily asses people or situations, why is this so? thats because you already KNOW what you are about to say, you dont know what others have to say, so instead sending out what you already know, rather you are taking in new information you wont know.
if there is more you need to know ask those questions, not some fluff just to impress. If the questions are true and valid, there will be conversation.
And please take what you hear as it is, NOT as you think it should be - when people tell you who they are, believe them.

Being an introvert is just a means to an end, its not the end goal.
Most introverts are feared because no one knows what there are thinking (speaking from experience), but when the rubber hits the road you MUST prove them right. Learn to be a dangerous person, dont tolerate evil, in this world where lies and deception is the norm let TRUTH be your North Star - cos the end goal is being at peace with your conscience.

Olarewajub:
Introvert comes from Latin intro- , "inward," and vertere , "turning." It describes a person who tends to turn inward mentally. Introverts sometimes avoid large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone.

Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it. <a href="https://www.quora.com/profile/Andrew-Ferebee">okay /a>


Introvert Facts

• 75 percent of the world is extroverted.

• Being introverted affects all areas of your life.

• Nothing is wrong with you.

• Introverts feel drained and overstimulated.

• Being introverted is something to be celebrated.


Common Introversion Traits

Introversion is marked by a number of sub-traits:

1. Very self-aware

2. Thoughtful

3. Enjoys understanding details

4. Interested in self-knowledge and self-understanding

5. Tends to keep emotions private

6. Quiet and reserved in large groups or around unfamiliar people

7. More sociable and gregarious around people they know well

8. Learns well through observation.


Introverts Library

1. Quiet by Susan Cain

2. Success as an Introvert for Dummies by Joan Pastor

3. Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD

4. Introverts in Love by Sophia Dembling

5. The Awakened Introvert by Arnie Kozak

6. The Irresistible Introvert by Michaela Chung

7. Quiet Influence by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler, PhD

8. The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olsen Laney, Psy.D.

9. The Introvert Entrepreneur by Beth Buelow

10. Quiet Power: The Secret Strength of Introverted Kids by Susan Cain

11. Introvert Doodles by Maureen “Marzi” Wilson


Helpful Links

1. https://studentship.com.ng/happy-introvert/

2. https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-you-are-an-introvert-2795427

3. https://introvertdear.com/what-is-an-introvert-definition/

4. https://www.lifehack.org/302237/5-reasons-why-blogging-good-for-introverts

5. https://www.thecut.com/2015/06/apparently-there-are-four-kinds-of-introversion.html

6. https://time.com/5373403/surprising-benefits-introvert/

7. https://introvertdear.com/news/introverts-happy-need/

8. https://agileleanlife.com/a-success-guide-for-all-introverts/

9. https://gulfnews.com/lifestyle/the-secret-power-of-introverts-1.1038171

10. https://www.insider.com/introvert-struggles-doodles-2017-2

Quiet people are often found to have profound insights.
The shallow water in a brook or river runs fast:
The deep water seems calmer.

—JAMES ROGERS



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Blaqbea:
I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating

I created a community that can help us turn our weakness to greatness. A community where we invite great speakers to sharpen our mindset. What a lot of people don't know is that introverts are stronger than extroverts. To be added WhatsApp me on 0 8 1 6 2 4 6 0 8 7 0

Blaqbea:
I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating

That's not introversion, you are just a weak person that want everyone to like you. Seek help.

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Blaqbea:
I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating

Being introverted doesn't keep you from setting boundaries.

Learn to say 'No', and 'enough'. If they try to get rowdy with you, walk away if can't match their energy.

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