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I’m 31, I have no husband, No child or house, Men I have been meeting are not serious- Lady cries out

A young woman has shared her feelings of loneliness and frustration on social media, responding to a video of another woman expressing similar sentiments about turning 30 without achieving certain life milestones.

see more below.....
https://www.naijabulze.com.ng/2024/03/im-31-i-have-no-husband-no-child-or.html

That point in life will always come.

I'll only pity her though if she has never met a good/right man.
But if she has, but turned them down because she wants to enjoy her life first, then now is not the time to lament…

Have a positive impression\vibes about men, don't see men as "scum", when you do these, good men will come your way.

Hmmm

I feel ya

Before this era, women never fought over such.
Those days wives would encourage their husbands to pick more ladies as wives and get them off the streets but see what we have in our hands today...
See what a wrongly adopted Feminism has caused.
This was never a problem before at all.

Today men are becoming Gays😭😭
The worst is many are spending their entire lifetime as bachelors because they can't keep up with empowered and disrespectful ladies while our daughters are roaming the streets confused with cucumbers in their handbags

Westerhoffe:
That point in life will always come.

I'll only pity her though if she has never met a good/right man.
But if she has, but turned them down because she wants to enjoy her life first, then now is not the time to lament…

God bless you , she may be like that call runs gal call Jennyclay

Your attitude may be affecting your altitude, work on it

Pat081:
God bless you , she may be like that call runs gal call Jennyclay

is jennyClay same as Jwessgratitude girl

It's not easy Sha.

I feel for 30+ single ladies most times.

When their Friends are doing Wedding anniversaries and Naming ceremony, They are still in the Market.😒

This is Why our Naija ladies should maximise their Time.
You will see some 28,29 yr old ladies dating a Married Man, and be telling you it's because there are no Husband materials..

Consider removing your womb like one 45 years old layer on this forum

Work, on yourself, change your friends, and your location, try to find something doing, if u are not working, ur Mr Right will locate u.

Tohsynetita1:
is jennyClay same as Jwessgratitude girl

No. The former is an hoe. The later is an over aged ex hoe .

Omo men have advantage in a scenario like this as a man even at 50 u can still marry or worst u go get baby mama

Westerhoffe:
That point in life will always come.

I'll only pity her though if she has never met a good/right man.
But if she has, but turned them down because she wants to enjoy her life first, then now is not the time to lament…

Are you saying a ladies success in life can only be fueled by meeting a good man?
Lol.
People mindset strange oh.....

The guys she meets .... or should it be the guy's she chooses to date? I believe that's the main problem with most of them .... they choose to be in relationships with guys without really checking to find out if the guys are really interested in them ... or what they have to offer. Any woman at 31 who is not in a stable relationship needs to take a long hard look in the mirror to see the root of the problem. 31 is not too late to begin correcting the problem or erasing the dirt.

Just hang in there and stay positive. It doesn't matter how people view you because of your present condition it can only get better and don't let your challenges define you. Those living In mansions are not better than you time and chance only happened to them and it will happen to you soon if you just hang in there and keep hope alive.

Ignore anyone who looks down on you because of your condition and keep it real. Don't try to fake it to please or conform to their opportunistic standard. .

You're pretty and will soon find a responsible and comfortable man who will sweep you off your feet.

Nicepoker:
No. The former is an hoe. The later is an over aged ex hoe .

Seun
nlfpmod
Mynd44
This moniker needs to be deactivated cos you can't all keep acting like you don't see how he goes about insulting people at will. What exactly are you keeping such monikers around for? To add to number or what?

Keep acting like you don't see him until he lands this forum into a big mess. Hope you've not forgotten so soon how negligence of this sort nearly crashed this site few months ago. Elites are watching .

Just asking.
Did her father or mother have house at age 31…?

Nicepoker:
No. The former is an hoe. The later is an over aged ex hoe .

Lmao 🤣 🤣

The cucumber side got me laughing out loud

APOPTOSIS:
Before this era, women never fought over such.
Those days wives would encourage their husbands to pick more ladies as wives and get them off the streets but see what we have in our hands today...
See what a wrongly adopted Feminism has caused.
This was never a problem before at all.

Today men are becoming Gays😭😭
The worst is many are spending their entire lifetime as bachelors because they can't keep up with empowered and disrespectful ladies while our daughters are roaming the streets confused with cucumbers in their handbags

I feel for her though

A woman should be careful because when she is her early 20s to mid 20s, she is in her prime esp for a woman who desires to get married.

She should do well to get a serious man because by the time she enters her 30s , her make value would be reduced greatly and it would take great luck to get a good man

Many girls in their 20s would erroneously believe that the attention they are getting now would continue indefinitely

To be forewarned is to be fore-armed

9jagist01:
I’m 31, I have no husband, No child or house, Men I have been meeting are not serious- Lady cries out

A young woman has shared her feelings of loneliness and frustration on social media, responding to a video of another woman expressing similar sentiments about turning 30 without achieving certain life milestones.

see more below.....
https://www.naijabulze.com.ng/2024/03/im-31-i-have-no-husband-no-child-or.html

let her go and sit down. It took me 5 to 6 years to fight my way through before I got married. Me as a man o not even a woman. For a woman as you enter school they are already coming but you would be doing shakara.

VinnyBaba:


It's not easy Sha.

I feel for 30+ single ladies most times.

When their Friends are doing Wedding anniversaries and Naming ceremony, They are still in the Market.😒

This is Why our Naija ladies should maximise their Time.
You will see some 28,29 yr old ladies dating a Married Man, and be telling you it's because there are no Husband materials..

dont feel for any of them o.it would be even worse with gen z. They dont take responsibility for their decisions. Never

Jewessgratitud3:


Seun
nlfpmod
Mynd44
This moniker needs to be deactivated cos you can't all keep acting like you don't see how he goes about insulting people at will. What exactly are you keeping such monikers around for? To add to number or what?

Keep acting like you don't see him until he lands this forum into a big mess. Hope you've not forgotten so soon how negligence of this sort nearly crashed this site few months ago. Elites are watching .

; you ed last year. You have spent one month already. Don't you have a job outside this space? Are you a hoe. If I may ask?

Jewessgratitud3:
Just hang in there and stay positive. It doesn't matter how people view you because of your present condition it can only get better and don't let your challenges define you. Those living In mansions are not better than you time and chance only happened to them and it will happen to you soon if you just hang in there and keep hope alive.

Ignore anyone who looks down on you because of your condition and keep it real. Don't try to fake it to please or conform to their opportunistic standard. .

You're pretty and will soon find a responsible and comfortable man who will sweep you off your feet.

Senior Special Adviser on ndi uwa mgbede

CarlosTheJackal:
Senior Special Adviser on ndi uwa mgbede

Now I know why your wife left you. With men like you around no woman should think of getting married.

It’s all programming.

The truth frees from unnecessary mental suffering.

You will have peace no matter your situation.

9jagist01:
I’m 31, I have no husband, No child or house, Men I have been meeting are not serious- Lady cries out

A young woman has shared her feelings of loneliness and frustration on social media, responding to a video of another woman expressing similar sentiments about turning 30 without achieving certain life milestones.

see more below.....
https://www.naijabulze.com.ng/2024/03/im-31-i-have-no-husband-no-child-or.html

CarlosTheJackal:
Senior Special Adviser on ndi uwa mgbede

This is wrong.
Allow women be free here

Nicepoker:
No. The former is an hoe. The later is an over aged ex hoe .

una no go kill person for this forum

…and?

Jewessgratitud3:


Seun
nlfpmod
Mynd44
This moniker needs to be deactivated cos you can't all keep acting like you don't see how he goes about insulting people at will. What exactly are you keeping such monikers around for? To add to number or what?

Keep acting like you don't see him until he lands this forum into a big mess. Hope you've not forgotten so soon how negligence of this sort nearly crashed this site few months ago. Elites are watching .

rest!
If they remove every one, will you stay alone on nairaland?
Everything na seriousness for una,yet you lots live very unserious lives out there