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My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?

Being smooth always is boring. Thats something I learnt over time. Sometimes feigning anger and unconcern spices things up.

Blow her for teeth make her mind dey






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Sacrosanct12:
Being smooth always is boring. Thats something I learnt over time. Sometimes feigning anger and unconcern spices things up.

Maybe you are right but am a calm and peace-loving person.She's gradually turning me into an # person.

Show her less attention. More time on your phone smiling by yourself..E go pepper pepper her well well

Arobaga:
Blow her for teeth make her mind dey

I swear she gonna like it.But why?she likes it when i yell at her.Imagine.

Arobaga:
Blow her for teeth make her mind dey

Bro I love ur vibe make her mind dey make she collect

Exceed15:
Show her less attention. More time on your phone smiling by yourself..E go pepper pepper her well well

That's part of what she likes.we live on the third floor.Whenever i volunter to help move jerry cans of water up the stairs,she rejects vehemently.I don't know why anybody will just like to be treated bad.

OP, Ladies do NOT like Nice Guys.

You see ur Babe, Shout at her, Snub her, Accuse her of Fuccking another Guy
And Most importantly, Date another Girl and even Bring the Chick home to Romance/Fucck. 🤨

That ur Initial Babe will NEVER leave you.

In Relationship, Ladies love DRAMA, GbasGbos, Suspense and Female Catfights!

Well, that is something that i notice in humanity as a whole. Humans don't want to be loved. They hate love, they hate those who love them, humans despise love.

[quote author=VinnyBaba post=129026912]
OP, Ladies do NOT like Nice Guys.

You see ur Babe, Shout at her, Snub her, Accuse her of Fuccking another Guy
And Most importantly, Date another Girl and even Bring the Chick home to Romance/Fucck.

My brother in the lord, Know that you are with a damaged woman.
Either her parents marriage or her former relationship(s), has skewed her perception of what a healthy relationship should look like.
My only advise - Don’t show weakness in any way (physical or emotional) or you'll be used & kicked to the curb.
I won't say more than that.
No smooth brained person should quote me.

That's how she likes it...

Templee333:
Well, that is something that i notice in humanity as a whole. Humans don't want to be loved. They hate love, they hate those who love them, humans despise love.

Humanities Love those who make them stand on their toes & Give them a Run for Their Shits ..... Nice guys die first ... Tough Guys die last !

Bwilliam:
My brother in the lord, Know that you are with a damaged woman.
Either her parents marriage or her former relationship(s), has skewed her perception of what a healthy relationship should look like.
My only advise - Don’t show weakness in any way (physical or emotional) or you'll be used & kicked to the curb.
I won't say more than that.
No smooth brained person should quote me.

You are right.The first man made her life so miserable and that's why i don't want to treat her bad too.But now?

Bwilliam:
My brother in the lord, Know that you are with a damaged woman.
Either her parents marriage or her former relationship(s), has skewed her perception of what a healthy relationship should look like.
My only advise - Don’t show weakness in any way (physical or emotional) or you'll be used & kicked to the curb.
I won't say more than that.
No smooth brained person should quote me.

@Bwilliam,i believe you! She had a turbulent time with the first man.The guy's family made life hell for her.

Let the truth be told, that is how all 9ja girls are wired. As long as you are treating are badly, just ensure you have small thing for pocket, she will love you more.

How do you think we are always having kpekus to knack every day? Always treat them less and you will enjoy the best of them. Simple!

She's damaged. Nothing you can do about that.

I'm guessing she has a history of abusive exes. And your relationship with her is not up to a year.

With women like her, she's been conditioned to see bad treatment and toxicity as love. That's the only kind of love she's ever felt. So it has warped her reality and mindset to see things that way.

Acts of kindness and being overly loving will make her feel repulsed. And see you as weak and lower value.

Because the men she loved in the past treated her badly so that's what she's used to.

For you, reduce the too much kindness and too much love thing. Balance it with the toxic treatment.

65% toxic 35% kindness/loving. You'd be fine

Though if I were you, I'd break up with her and guide her towards therapy so she can help herself while I become her FWB.

But one thing you must never do is try to change or save her as her boyfriend. It will never work

@Rizzputin,i doff my hat for you.The relationship is barely one year.

phemyhalaby:

That's part of what she likes.we live on the third floor.Whenever i volunter to help move jerry cans of water up the stairs,she rejects vehemently.I don't know why anybody will just like to be treated bad.

Too much importance attached to women makes them misbehave instead of appreciating it. Women love attention so when you withdraw it suddenly it will shock her. To make it worse reject her food . When u come back home and serve u , tell her you are full. Na she go wake u up in the middle of night to start begging u.

They'll leave a tough guy to marry Mr nice. Then cheat on Mr nice with a tough guy.

Women are just opposite, they love gbas gbos. Next time just give her blow for eye,its their love language, she'll comport

phemyhalaby:
My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?

Because she loves you

talk2hb1:

Because she loves you

what do you know about a woman's love

PerfectStranger:

what do you know about a woman's love

Nothing Ooo, I am a single virgin at 39. I know nothing

talk2hb1:

Nothing Ooo, I am a single virgin at 39. I know nothing

You can have all the pùssy in the world yet you know nothing abt a woman's love. Copy

PerfectStranger:

You can have all the pùssy in the world yet you know nothing abt a woman's love. Copy

Like I said, I am a 39 years old single Virgin Man.

B4 nko? Na today you know that one about women ni?
You be JJC?
U never read the "Art of Seduction" by the idol Robert Greene?
Mtcheew....next!

Arobaga:
Blow her for teeth make her mind dey

Best comment so far
Her mind go too Dey

Why not tie her down first and see if she go triple her regards for you?

phemyhalaby:
My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?

phemyhalaby:
I swear she gonna like it.But why?she likes it when i yell at her.Imagine.

You Dey relationship with a masochist. Nothing new

phemyhalaby:
My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?

Marriage is balance, since you have this information use it to your advantage but no go turn woman beater oh