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I'm just being curious, so I won't be a SIMP

- one knows how to handle women the other get handled by women
- one respects women but doesnt take shit from them, the other worships women and gets treated like shit from them
- one puts his foot down and says "NO/STOP" etc when women start to act a fool, the other accepts whatever degrading yeye nonsense women throws at him.

DCmaverick:
I'm just being curious, so I won't be a SIMP

Simp or Simple Man

In my opinion they're both stupid, they're both on the extreme ends of what it means to be a man. You should strive to be a good man, not an alpha man or simp

MrBrownJay1:
- one knows how to handle women the other get handled by women
- one respects women but doesnt take shit from them, the other worships women and gets treated like shit from them
- one puts his foot down and says "NO/STOP" etc when women start to act a fool, the other accepts whatever degrading yeye nonsense women throws at him.

Its appalling that "ALPHAS" as being limited to women affairs only, its beyond that

ALPHAness is all about natural attributes based on discretion, intuition and intelligence to stand out among peers (male or female)

ElliotP:
In my opinion they're both stupid, they're both on the extreme ends of what it means to be a man. You should strive to be a good man, not an alpha man or simp

Alpha or simp are natural inbuilt, you don't have to strive to be who you are

if you are a good person you don't have to strive to be good, you just find yourself doing good.

chidiokay:
Its appalling that "ALPHAS" as being limited to women affairs only, its beyond that
ALPHAness is all about natural attributes based on discretion, intuition and intelligence to stand out among peers (male or female)

stick to the issue at hand. you are giving us the definition of an alpha male but sadly, the question was not WHAT IS AN ALPHA MALE? the question is: WHATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN ALPHA MALE AND A SIMP?

now care to answer the OP's question?

MrBrownJay1:


stick to the issue at hand. you are giving us the definition of an alpha male but sadly, the question was not WHAT IS AN ALPHA MALE? the question is: WHATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN ALPHA MALE AND A SIMP?

now care to answer the OP's question?

The threads say "What's The Difference Between An Alpha Man And A Simp?)

The same way i define ALPHAs is the same extension to Simp .. inbuilt : intuition, discretion , strength and intelligences level are the major differences between an Alpha & Simp

i see people using Women as the sole yardstick, which is not valid enough

Both are mad people.
Why can't you just be normal?

ElliotP:
In my opinion they're both stupid, they're both on the extreme ends of what it means to be a man. You should strive to be a good man, not an alpha man or simp

Exactly!!!

chidiokay:
The threads say "What's The Difference Between An Alpha Man And A Simp?)

The same way i define ALPHAs is the same extension to Simp .. inbuilt : intuition, discretion , strength and intelligences level are the major differences between an Alpha & Simp

i see people using Women as the sole yardstick, which is not valid enough

yet you still not answering the question... is that so difficult to answer?

ok let me try slowly.... knowing that simps are solely graded upon their interaction with women, whats the difference between an alpha male (aka leader of the pack, top/dominant/confident brotha, decision maker etc) and a simp (aka a man who is used/abused/degraded/played by women)?

Okay. Next!

In as much as I all the points you made up there but being Alpha isn't limited to male and female affairs like someone up there told you already.

MrBrownJay1:
- one knows how to handle women the other get handled by women
- one respects women but doesnt take shit from them, the other worships women and gets treated like shit from them
- one puts his foot down and says "NO/STOP" etc when women start to act a fool, the other accepts whatever degrading yeye nonsense women throws at him.

DCmaverick:
I'm just being curious, so I won't be a SIMP

First know the meaning of Alpha
Alpha mean to be the leader in something, a group, a class or relationship etc

When we are talking of an Alpha in a relationship, we are talking about guys that are very dominant in their relationship or interaction with women, they can not easily be manipulated to do women's biddings, be disrespected or treated poorly, they won't jump through hoops and obstacles to impress any woman, more over they can easily walk away from any women that won't treat them well.

An Alpha man is the leader or dominant one in his relationship or interaction with women, his women respect him and his opinions and submit to him and will try their best to please him and make him happy because they know he won't tolerate any disrespect or mistreatment.


A simp is the opposite of what i listed above, he is not the leader or dominant one in his relationship or interaction with women, he will jump through obstacles and go overboard to please and impress women, his women don't really respect him and his opinions and won't submit to him, he is the one trying hard to please women and make them happy because he's afraid to lose them or make them dislike him instead of being otherwise.


To be an Alpha is not limited to relationship as long as you are the leader or command authority in something like a group, career, business etc You are an Alpha in that thing.

chidiokay:




The threads say "What's The Difference Between An Alpha Man And A Simp?)

The same way i define ALPHAs is the same extension to Simp .. inbuilt : intuition, discretion , strength and intelligences level are the major differences between an Alpha & Simp

i see people using Women as the sole yardstick, which is not valid enough

You are wrong

It is not truly inbuilt our environment and knowledge influences who we are but humans is capable of development and change. If you acquire the right knowledge and ready to take actions human can change.

You think people that are leaders in their career, business etc became that because it was inbuilt ? there are many losers in life that later become winners and alphas.

Your statement is like saying human is not capable of change, human change and develop all the time. Nothing is inbuilt

PureFace1:


You are wrong

It is not truly inbuilt our environment and knowledge influences who we are but humans is capable of development and change. If you acquire the right knowledge and ready to take actions human can change.

You think people that are leaders in their career, business etc became that because it was inbuilt ? there are many losers in life that later become winners and alphas.

Your statement is like saying human is not capable of change, human change and develop all the time. Nothing is inbuilt

You can be entitle to your Opinion buh desist from shooking mouth in what beyond your IQ

Leaders are born not trained , go n read about great leaders in the world, martin luther king, mandela, mahatma gandi, abram lincoln and co.. read extensive on these men and educate your ignorance

chidiokay:


You can be entitle to your Opinion buh desist from shooking mouth in what beyond your IQ

Leaders are born not trained , go n read about great leaders in the world, martin luther king, mandela, mahatma gandi, abram lincoln and co.. read extensive on these men and educate your ignorance

Anyone can put anything online, i can create a website or blog and put anything there it doesn't mean it is true or fact even science theories are not static and final, you are stupid if you believe everything online hook and sinker without ability to think critically on your own.

If your mindset is already confined and limited to one theory, it is such a waste of time to discuss with you. Ironically you are the one portraying low iQ here for having such a close mindset.

"Leaders are born" lol what a very stupid statement, most of the people you listed and many people that are leaders in their craft today were once losers and average people.

The people you called leaders were also dominant in one or two aspect they were not leaders in all aspect of life. One may command authority or be a leader in politics but not in science, relationship, marriage, Journalism, acting, writing, Advocacy, law etc

Everyone have the potential to be a leader in whatever they do as long as they improve themselves and get the necessary training and knowledge, nothing is inbuilt someone you know as kind and quiet can easily become wicked and aggressive under some bad influence, environment and experiences. People learn to do many things although many also have special skills and talents but even that will be useless without the right work and efforts.

If someone is a leader in science like Herbert Einstein it doesn't mean they are also a leader in Law, Politics, Journalism etc Herbert Einstein was only good in science and even one aspect of science which was physics just like William Shakespeare was good in Poetry and Playwright, some men can also be good in more than one aspect though. You think Herbert Einstein and Williams Shakespeare became a great scientist and a great poet the day they were born ? they didn't learn or train for anything before they became what they were.

Your statement is like saying people are born as a scientists, Politicians, Journalists, Lawyers, Doctors etc, you are really stupid and close minded. People with your mindset will be very stagnant in life with no development. No great companies or establishments will employ people with your mindset.

PureFace1:


Anyone can put anything online, i can create a website or blog and put anything there it doesn't mean it is true or fact even science theories are not static and final, you are stupid if you believe everything online hook and sinker without ability to think critically on your own.

If your mindset is already confined and limited to one theory, it is such a waste of time to discuss with you. Ironically you are the one portraying low iQ here for having such a close mindset.

"Leaders are born" lol what a very stupid statement, most of the people you listed and many people that are leaders in their craft today were once losers and average people.

The people you called leaders were also dominant in one or two aspect they were not leaders in all aspect of life. One may command authority or be a leader in politics but not in science, relationship, marriage, Journalism, acting, writing, Advocacy, law etc

Everyone have the potential to be a leader in whatever they do as long as they improve themselves and get the necessary training and knowledge, nothing is inbuilt someone you know as kind and quiet can easily become wicked and aggressive under some bad influence, environment and experiences. People learn to do many things although many also have special skills and talents but even that will be useless without the right work and efforts.

If someone is a leader in science like Herbert Einstein it doesn't mean they are also a leader in Law, Politics, Journalism etc Herbert Einstein was only good in science and even one aspect of science which was physics just like William Shakespeare was good in Poetry and Playwright, some men can also be good in more than one aspect though. You think Herbert Einstein and Williams Shakespeare became a great scientist and a great poet the day they were born ? they didn't learn or train for anything before they became what they were.

Your statement is like saying people are born as a scientists, Politicians, Journalists, Lawyers, Doctors etc, you are really stupid and close minded. People with your mindset will be very stagnant in life with no development. No great companies or establishments will employ people with your mindset.

You are just arguing blindly, your arguement is all over the place

I am talking LEADERS that "RULE" with Power or Authority, it is shameful you can't differentiate SCHOLARS from LEADERS

Albert einstein, williams Shakespeare are not leaders, they can be categorized as scholars or author.

Apparently you are a FOOL, if not you will know some profession are more of inborn than preference, people learn music but most great musicians had it inborn .. check the age M.J, beyonce, usher started singing
People learn football but there are people like Messi that are naturally gifted, academic or not Messi, ronaldo, neymar would be great footballer any day anytime. enough of the digression

Stop mixing Leadership with Profession, as a leader there are attributes you must possess for people to follow you, no lecturer or textbook can transplant attributes

A classic example is Tinubu and Peter Obi, one is inborn one is reading textbook ... are they mate on the field

chidiokay:



You are just arguing blindly, your arguement is all over the place

I am talking LEADERS that "RULE" with Power or Authority, it is shameful you can't differentiate SCHOLARS from LEADERS

Albert einstein, williams Shakespeare are not leaders, they can be categorized as scholars or author.

Apparently you are a FOOL, if not you will know some profession are more of inborn than preference, people learn music but most great musicians had it inborn .. check the age M.J, beyonce, usher started singing
People learn football but there are people like Messi that are naturally gifted, academic or not Messi, ronaldo, neymar would be great footballer any day anytime. enough of the digression

Stop mixing Leadership with Profession, as a leader there are attributes you must possess for people to follow you, no lecturer or textbook can transplant attributes

A classic example is Tinubu and Peter Obi, one is inborn one is reading textbook ... are they mate on the field

Even Tinubu was once a driver in the USA and people can learn to lead overtime through knowledge and experience no one just suddenly become a leader without putting in the work and knowledge.

You are the fool here, yes some have inborn skills and talents but they still have to work on themselves to develop themselves to become whatever that are those who didn't fail to achieve anything and a lot of people learn to do a lot of things, they just don't get there.

So messi and Ronaldo and all the players you listed didn't get any training they just became a great footballer the day they were born, what do you think the academy and training equipment in Football clubs are for ?

Pointless to discuss with a great retard like you, you are also becoming a great leader among retards.

PureFace1:


Even Tinubu was once a driver in the USA and people can learn to lead overtime through knowledge and experience no one just suddenly become a leader without putting in the work and knowledge.

You are the fool here, yes some have inborn skills and talents but they still have to work on themselves to develop themselves to become whatever that are those who didn't fail to achieve anything and a lot of people learn to do a lot of things, they just don't get there.

So messi and Ronaldo and all the players you listed didn't get any training they just became a great footballer the day they were born, what do you think the academy and training equipment in Football clubs are for ?

Pointless to discuss with a great retard like you, you are also becoming a great leader among retards.

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Stop reasoning like a slowpoke naw , Being a Leader does not mean you will grow up in white house or your beginning must be as rosy as Dangote net worth
Driver is a profession, You need a lesson teacher to teach you leadership and profession are not the same. As successive as Bill gate or dangote his they can't be called Leaders
All these brain gymnastic you are doing only resonate crossbreed stupidity .. learning is part of Life .. you might as well begin to shalaye how many titus dey inside sardine naw

You just want to argue, you can't even differentiate leadership from profession .. messi is a leader shey

olofo motherfvcka

chidiokay:


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Stop reasoning like a slowpoke naw , Being a Leader does not mean you will grow up in white house or your beginning must be as rosy as Dangote net worth
Driver is a profession, You need a lesson teacher to teach you leadership and profession are not the same. As successive as Bill gate or dangote his they can't be called Leaders
All these brain gymnastic you are doing only resonate crossbreed stupidity .. learning is part of Life .. you might as well begin to shalaye how many titus dey inside sardine naw

You just want to argue, you can't even differentiate leadership from profession .. messi is a leader shey

olofo motherfvcka

You are the fool that can't realize that when you distinguished your self enough in your profession or career, you automatically become a leader and role model in that profession and career you don't necessarily have to politics before you become a great leader in something , every thing that you do and say will be follow by a lot of people in that profession but i think something as simple as that is difficult for your small brain to comprehend.


This omo were said Dangote and billgate are not leaders lol what a dumb fvck. You think it is easy to become a billionaire without having leadership qualities. You keep distinguishing yourself as a great retard.

PureFace1:


You are the fool that can't realize that when you distinguished your self enough in your profession or career, you automatically become a leader and role model in that profession and career you don't necessarily have to politics before you become a great leader in something , every thing that you do and say will be follow by a lot of people in that profession but i think something as simple as that is difficult for your small brain to comprehend.


This omo were said Dangote and billgate are not leaders lol what a dumb fvck. You think it is easy to become a billionaire without having leadership qualities. You keep distinguishing yourself as a great retard.

If messi is the leader of the team then what does the coach represent ... are you insinuating there is an hierarchy above leader or no be coach go decide if messi go play olofo

Osiwin ! poverty is why you ascribe leader to every tom & harry that has a name your father don't have.
Oponu ! ashiere ! anybody can have money, even pets inherit gross wealth,

Leadership entails representing the interest of the people while money making entails making wise investment decisions. ode learn

chidiokay:




If messi is the leader of the team then what does the coach represent ... are you insinuating there is an hierarchy above leader or no be coach go decide if messi go play olofo

Osiwin ! poverty is why you ascribe leader to every tom & harry that has a name your father don't have.
Oponu ! ashiere ! anybody can have money, even pets inherit gross wealth,

Leadership entails representing the interest of the people while money making entails making wise investment decisions. ode learn

Anybody can have money lol. Your stupidity is beyond comprehension. So you think Dangote don't represent the interest of a lot of people ? so you don't know that being exceptional in something you do even something like making wise investment decisions can make you a leader of a lot of people that respect and acknowledge that exceptional feats?

So you don't know there are leaders among leaders and bosses among bosses ?

Tinubu is a leader in Nigeria but even he would become a follower in US or other part of the world or when compare to politicians in US or UK. There are kings among kings and emperors among emperors but i don't think your brain can cover that.


You are even contradicting yourself, so the coach that you think is leading messi didn't seek knowledge and trained for it, he just became a coach the day he was born ?

Your outburst is typical of people with small brain, i'm just tutoring you for free but i'm happy to help a retard like you.

An alpha is a man who has carved his path in life and it's hard or impossible to manipulate him into following yours.

A SIMP is a man who isn't sure of his path in life and you can manipulate him into following yours.

Both alpha and SIMP can become successful in life, so it's not a big deal.

It's just that one knows where he's going from A-Z but the other knows a little of where he's going and you can change his direction if he loves you.

For the alpha, you can't change his direction whether he loves you or not. He changes it when he wishes, not when he's told.

PureFace1:



Anybody can have money lol. Your stupidity is beyond comprehension. So you think Dangote don't represent the interest of a lot of people ? so you don't know that being exceptional in something you do even something like making wise investment decisions can make you a leader of a lot of people that respect and acknowledge that exceptional feats?

So you don't know there are leaders among leaders and bosses among bosses ?

Tinubu is a leader in Nigeria but even he would become a follower in US or other part of the world or when compare to politicians in US or UK. There are kings among kings and emperors among emperors but i don't think your brain can cover that.


You are even contradicting yourself, so the coach that you think is leading messi didn't seek knowledge and trained for it, he just became a coach the day he was born ?

Your outburst is typical of people with small brain, i'm just tutoring you for free but i'm happy to help a retard like you.

Digest, think/reason before you talk, Anybody can make no money, before now they told with education you can amount to anything but today skitmakers, influencers, hypeman are cruising benz and living in highbrow areas,

Dangote is a business mogul, that you think a business man will represent people interest shows ori e o pe rara ! cos a business man is out to represent his business and maximize profit. who are the followers of Dangote, if staff or shareholders is your answer then fool ni e !
Is dangote making decision that influence the lifes of people or influences his profitability ratio .. oponu
Tinubu is a leader by world standard, under no condition can he revert to "follower" ... what you need to know is Leaders in there growth stage have "Mentors" and when they attain leadership post and get to certain stage they become mentors to leaders ... king king is immaterial here ode !

Coach is a profession, you must enroll for it and be certified, i think "CONTEXT" is what is mes your brain. just anybody with require resume can be Leader of a team BUT i am talking real LEADERs here
Check all the leaders in the bible, its either God chose them or people did, cos Leaders are singled out and chosen.
Obi cubana is a leader afterall it is not easy to be a billionaire useless fool

chidiokay:



Digest, think/reason before you talk, Anybody can make no money, before now they told with education you can amount to anything but today skitmakers, influencers, hypeman are cruising benz and living in highbrow areas,

Dangote is a business mogul, that you think a business man will represent people interest shows ori e o pe rara ! cos a business man is out to represent his business and maximize profit. who are the followers of Dangote, if staff or shareholders is your answer then fool ni e !
Is dangote making decision that influence the lifes of people or influences his profitability ratio .. oponu
Tinubu is a leader by world standard, under no condition can he revert to "follower" ... what you need to know is Leaders in there growth stage have "Mentors" and when they attain leadership post and get to certain stage they become mentors to leaders ... king king is immaterial here ode !

Coach is a profession, you must enroll for it and be certified, i think "CONTEXT" is what is mes your brain. just anybody with require resume can be Leader of a team BUT i am talking real LEADERs here
Check all the leaders in the bible, its either God chose them or people did, cos Leaders are singled out and chosen.
Obi cubana is a leader afterall it is not easy to be a billionaire useless fool

It is that easy to make money and Nigeria and Africa is still the poverty capital of the world lol , why do Nigeria still have so many poor people if it really that easy to make money ? you are delusional and messed up in the head.

Yes Obi cubana is a leader in his own right in Nigeria, i'm sure he control and command a lot of people, for you to doubt and belittle that prove how stupid you are, you don't have to be in a political office to be a leader as long as there are people that follow and listen to whatever you say, you are a leader. You have this obscure mentality that only people in political office or power can be a leader, even your class captains or school prefects in secondary school are leaders in their own right.

There's nothing like real leader as long as you command a small group of people even if they are 5 or 10 people and they respect, listen and follow whatever you say you are a leader, but there are greater leaders or leaders can be greater than each other.

I see it is religion that messed up your brain, no wonder you can't think critically combine religion with inability to think and we have a big slowpoke like you with skewed mentality about life.

I have no time to waste on a numbskull element like you.

PureFace1:


It is that easy to make money and Nigeria and Africa is still the poverty capital of the world lol , why do Nigeria still have so many poor people if it really that easy to make money ? you are delusional and messed up in the head.

Yes Obi cubana is a leader in his own right in Nigeria, i'm sure he control and command a lot of people, for you to doubt and belittle that prove how stupid you are, you don't have to be in a political office to be a leader as long as there are people that follow and listen to whatever you say, you are a leader. You have this obscure mentality that only people in political office or power can be a leader, even your class captains or school prefects in secondary school are leaders in their own right.

There's nothing like real leader as long as you command a small group of people even if they are 5 or 10 people and they respect, listen and follow whatever you say you are a leader, but there are greater leaders or leaders can be greater than each other.

I see it is religion that messed up your brain, no wonder you can't think critically combine religion with inability to think and we have a big slowpoke like you with skewed mentality about life.

I have no time to waste on a numbskull element like you.

IF my stand that anyone can be rich or make money is what you interprete as "EASY" then i might start preping you A for apple, B for boy

Even wasiu my mechanic is a leader, since he has boiz working under him, he controls and sends to buy amala

You are a waste of time that should never have happened. ciao

chidiokay:



IF my stand that anyone can be rich or make money is what you interprete as "EASY" then i might start preping you A for apple, B for boy

Even wasiu my mechanic is a leader, since he has boiz working under him, he controls and sends to buy amala

You are a waste of time that should never have happened. ciao

Not anyone can be rich or make money, if so there wouldn't be so many poor people in the world.


Yes wasiu is a leader no matter how small or limited the scope is but i understand not everyone have the capability to comprehend some things. As long as you can make decisions on behalf of 1 or 2 people and they respect, listen and follow whatever you say, you are recognize as a leader in that place no matter how small in scope it is, leading a family or a church is smaller in scope to leading a country, an army etc but i understand not everyone that went to school that's bright.

Generally, the difference between the two is the usage of their willpower.


The former is strong willed (not necessarily rigid or stubborn, but assertive), while the latter has a weak willpower.


Cc: DCmaverick.

ElliotP:
In my opinion they're both stupid, they're both on the extreme ends of what it means to be a man. You should strive to be a good man, not an alpha man or simp

A good man is an alpha man.

A4alpha:
In as much as I all the points you made up there but being Alpha isn't limited to male and female affairs like someone up there told you already.

a simp is solely valued upon his interaction with women, so when you compare simps with alpha males, thats the only subject to judge them upon.