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Is This A Minor Issue Or We Should Just End The Relationship? (1297 Views)

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Netcry0(m): 11:29am On Dec 30, 2023
Have been dating my girl for a year and half now, ever since we’ve been having sex she haven’t even got pregnant for once we both live together. I had to ask what could be wrong she told me that she think she’s not the type that gets pregnant easily she said she have only gotten pregnant once in her life..
Pls she’s not on family planning, she’s not aborting our babies..
There’s was a time she said she want us to have a baby i said okay.. we tried and nothing happened.
This issue will be a problem on the long run , it’s bothering me because this is a lady i plan on getting married to . We’ve been living together and she still sees her period every month.
I know i’m not impotent cuz or my previous relationships .. so what could be the problem with her?
Zonefree(m): 11:31am On Dec 30, 2023
she said she have only gotten pregnant once in her life.

And you didn't care to ask her what happened to the pregnancy? undecided


Abortion?
Then be rest assured, she's aborting yours too.


She's playing you.

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Netcry0(m): 11:34am On Dec 30, 2023
Zonefree:

And you didn't care to ask her what happened to the pregnancy? undecided


Abortion?
Then be rest assured, she's aborting yours too.


She's playing you.



This babe is seeing period every month end.. we’ve been living together
TheDarkporeShow: 11:39am On Dec 30, 2023
Zonefree:

And you didn't care to ask her what happened to the pregnancy? undecided


Abortion?
Then be rest assured, she's aborting yours too.


She's playing you.

seconded. you're being played.

Chances are she's sleeping with several folks like you and is either on family planning or terminating the pregnancies just as the man above has mentioned. Listen to these ladies share their secrets and ask if your girlfriend could do the same


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

You can thank me later.
austine4real(m): 11:39am On Dec 30, 2023
Alaye you are shooting blank


grin cheesy grin

Or she's aborting your babies


She's on family planning


Wo I need money for new year


Relationship matter I don't have time for it now

Colson(m): 11:40am On Dec 30, 2023
She doesn't want to be a baby Mama maybe...
Why don't you get married to her and start making babies as you want?
Netcry0(m): 11:43am On Dec 30, 2023
austine4real:
Alaye you are shooting blank


grin cheesy grin

Or she's aborting your babies


She's on family planning

No she’s not on family planning
She’s not aborting.


Wo I need money for new year


Relationship matter I don't have time for it now
Netcry0(m): 11:44am On Dec 30, 2023
Colson:
She doesn't want to be a baby Mama maybe...
Why don't you get married to her and start making babies as you want?
There’s was a time she said she want us to have a baby i said okay.. we tried and nothing happened.
JustPowerApps(m): 12:06pm On Dec 30, 2023
Maybe she's got herself a medical ish. Care to ask her what happened to the first pregnancy? Nay! You welcomed her hook, line, and sinker. Now you are expecting a baby with an ex abortee cheesy
ikeno(m): 12:07pm On Dec 30, 2023
An obstetrician will be in a better position to know what the problem is and why your girlfriend is finding it difficult to conceive. Infection can also be the cause.
JustPowerApps(m): 12:08pm On Dec 30, 2023
Netcry0:

There’s was a time she said she want us to have a baby i said okay.. we tried and nothing happened.

You gf is either abrting your babies cheesy or she couldn't conceive due to her previous actions.
Waffarianman(m): 12:09pm On Dec 30, 2023
If you're in Lagos visit those mamas that use to sell agbo herbs you'll find your answers there.
MeekGram7(m): 12:13pm On Dec 30, 2023
Question is “Are you fertile” don’t blame her for everything sir, the problem might be from you

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Godoverevery: 12:33pm On Dec 30, 2023
I can relate.

Op don't worry yourself too much...She knows what wrong with her and will never tell you.

Some of them have medical issues resulting from infections or abortion which makes it difficult for them to get pregnant.

My own was for 2yrs and she never got pregnant one day but luckily for me I was looking for pen one day and I discovered a note in her bag which reveal things I never knew........she did an abortion in her 200l which went bad.

I confronted her and it was the end.....up till today she hasn't gotten pregnant.
TheFinesseKid: 12:47pm On Dec 30, 2023
I have a feeling relationship palava go many this year. 🙁

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ItisWell22(f): 1:56pm On Dec 30, 2023
MeekGram7:
Question is “Are you fertile” don’t blame her for everything sir, the problem might be from you

Op, answer this.

I do am before no mean sey e still dey now.

You both need to get checked by a Gynaecologist.

For those saying it’s the previous abortion she had, you know nothing; I’m sorry. 😏

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Netcry0(m): 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2023
MeekGram7:
Question is “Are you fertile” don’t blame her for everything sir, the problem might be from you
yes I’m fertile

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Namaster: 6:07pm On Dec 30, 2023
Dump the girl!

NEVER get serious with a Nigerian girl who's done an abortion.

ALSO, visit a fertility clinic to get tested.
Foodqueen(f): 10:05pm On Dec 30, 2023
How many children do you have from your previous relationships
SPAMBOX7: 10:08pm On Dec 30, 2023
Netcry0:

There’s was a time she said she want us to have a baby i said okay.. we tried and nothing happened.
That your girl Don abort till e affect her womb. My ex girl had same ish. Them go live rough life abort till e affect their womb and then when it's time to have babies wahala go come dey. Those type just for nacs while you still waiting for the one that's for you
elmagnifico411(m): 10:15pm On Dec 30, 2023
I think the problme is that the gods are angry with you. No wedding plans in place yet, your just nacking oshofree and want her to get preggy.. haba now. If you want the gods to smile at u, do things the right way.
Netcry0:
Have been dating my girl for a year and half now, ever since we’ve been having sex she haven’t even got pregnant for once we both live together. I had to ask what could be wrong she told me that she think she’s not the type that gets pregnant easily she said she have only gotten pregnant once in her life..
Pls she’s not on family planning, she’s not aborting our babies..
There’s was a time she said she want us to have a baby i said okay.. we tried and nothing happened.
This issue will be a problem on the long run , it’s bothering me because this is a lady i plan on getting married to . We’ve been living together and she still sees her period every month.
I know i’m not impotent cuz or my previous relationships .. so what could be the problem with her?

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