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I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore (27424 Views)
ThaFirstLady: 1:03pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
No be you dey buy meat N2,200 with your dirty kitchen bowl? Some women dey date nonsense sha oh. You come here dey talk yen yen yen yen yen. Post your picture make we see wetin dey attractive about you. If dem check sef d lady in question fit dey manage you as per Love dey e eye see say she don find husband.If we look sef you may be the least of the men she dey exposed to. Mtcheww attraction di ewu Gambia. Break up with her make she find better man.
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harsysky(m): 1:03pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
MatrixReloaded: You don burst my head! Abeg make she rest o. Holy spirit go hold you till she heals completely. Epele |
brain54(m): 1:04pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
It took you 6 years... Plus a baby to know this! |
TheWinterBird: 1:04pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Smh. This is why I frown upon pre-marital sex. God knew what He was doing when He advised against it. After 6-years and having a kid with her without marriage, you want to chase after someone new (because that's likely what it is). Ladies need to choose better. 4 Likes |
Trophy12: 1:05pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
IamDora:lol I love this girl u too get mouth |
coputa(m): 1:05pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:You didn't love her in the first place,even if her beauty fades off, that love will still be there. It seems there a woman outside that's getting attracted to you,and I sincerely think that you will still dump her after some time. You are the problem, you can make your wife look beautiful,no woman is ugly,open a romantic communication with her,tell her the things you like That one you are eyeing outside may be the devil you do not know. 2 Likes |
tollyboy5(m): 1:06pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Beverlyjean:She might have lost her beauty so quick and need to work on herself but according to nature she will eventually loose it as she grow old. So its high time the mumu op know that nothing last forever. |
favour32(m): 1:06pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Long term dating nor too good for this part. 6 years in marriage na long time due to rate of divorces but not dating. Most long term dating nor dey end for marriage. So,that time wey you don spend for dating don reach to arrange marriage. Therefore, decide wetin you want. |
ThaFirstLady: 1:06pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
TheWinterBird:Imagine! Mtcheww. You'd be amazed that this man might not be taking care of her to package herself and she might be struggling managing with him. 1 Like 1 Share |
schoolboymatt(m): 1:06pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
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GlobeTrotter2: 1:08pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
IamDora:madam don't turn this to war against men. Don't use your personal feeling or personal experiences with me to generalize. To the topic. This man is an idiot. If you were married, Do you think you can actually stay attracted to your wife forever? There will be down. Times and up times but you stick there. Don't make a woman your fiance for 6 years and have a son with her and start talking trash. Talk true, one girl don dey tickle you for outside. Even if you have a side chic which I do not recommend, stick with your woman. She had a son for you!!!! |
Patojargz: 1:10pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
My brr! No whine yourself... Wetin don b don b!!! Move on... Life goes on!!!
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Kemadealadire(f): 1:10pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
You are the problem, women no dey hear word, fiancee for 6years with a child. You switch to the next one, you find her unattractive after a while, work on yourself.
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Jeezuzpick(m): 1:10pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: I'll blame her in this case. Do you think those who marry keep finding their wives attractive years after the wedding? COME ON! Boobs sag, stretch marks show, the belly may not go totally flat, but that's where LOVE steps in. Love sees beyond the physical. Love is what makes people get married even when they know looks will fade. It's obvious you don't love this person, that's why the physical looks still matter to you after SIX YEARS AND A SON! So, I'll blame her for staying with you for so long after seeing your total lack of commitment to a life together. Oya, go and tell her she's no longer attractive. Good luck with the rest of your life, Bro! 2 Likes |
maureensylvia(f): 1:11pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Your heart is somewhere else, open up!
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Blizzy9ja: 1:11pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
IamDora:You sound so pained... Be like say man don show you shege banza |
bolajisunday: 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
This might be covert and clandestine effects of these western movies if you are a type that are addicted to such.
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wrongnumber: 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: You are not mature enough to be with a woman. |
Justiceleague1: 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: You are a wicked person. You are not a good friend |
Toluwanise247(m): 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Mihaug:Can we talk man to man |
MASTAkiLLAh(m): 1:13pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:you're a jonsing boy, you better stand as a man firmly and carry her along in how you want her to be. Buy her toiletries and the type of clothes you want her to wear with your money. Buy her perfumes and take her out to posh places to see her mates. Tell her say na wetin you like be this but no matter what, carry that cross |
gigabyte13: 1:13pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Seriously, you are a weak man For you to have said this about , a woman that you got pregnant and with a son for you. How much have you spent to improve on her looks, clothing, l mean improving her look generally. No be to dey complain Your own sef full your body Wey she never tell you. The day she go open her mouth talk You go find space to faint You no go seeeeeeeeeee. 1 Like |
Lamasta(m): 1:13pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: You are not serious |
Temp: 1:16pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:Bro tweak her to your taste relentlessly, you can’t afford to start over again after all your investment Just saying though ![]() |
chymeze: 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:So you're married already na. Marriage in the right sense is when parental consent and blessing has been bestowed on a union between a man and a woman who have agreed to be together. Church wedding is just an addendum or icing on the cake to the real wedding which is the introduction and parental consent. So you should address her as your wife not fiancee 2 Likes |
foreverfavoured(f): 1:18pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
You should be more patient with her, and both of you should improve in your communication. Good communication helps to fix many issues..
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vickydevoka(m): 1:19pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:I pity you. Those people you find attractive will use and dump you. Mummu love is an intentional thing. You have to force it or ignite it. I used to think sexual lust was love. After using and dumping you, you will start looking out for your ex. |
abba190: 1:20pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
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DemonAngel(m): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Should have spotted those redflags under 2 years. Whatever have kept you guys together for 6 years, should continue. I feel communication is important, third party if its necessary. There are solutions man. Never seen someone undergo a project for 6 years and decides to dump it because the project isn't the dreamy one he hoped for. ![]() Go meet real people for advice, not most fake alpha nlders. Goodluck on your relationship. Adios |
Justiceleague1: 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
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Balistic4: 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Scarrr:Fool, there's absolutely nothing you can point out to that you have achieved in this rubbish you call life. No let depression kill you before your untimely death this year ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Strokes: 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Check yourself very well. You are most likely seeing someone else or you're considering seeing someone else. It's when you compare your spouse with another person that you see only what she doesn't have but the other person has. You even tend to ignore what she has. Try to invest more in your wife. Whatever she looks like now is a function of how you have taken care of her. I can bet if you leave her, it's just a matter of time, you will have more complains about the next person 1 Like |
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