NewStats: 3,264,379 , 8,183,539 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 07:57 PM 3p6g2h

No be you dey buy meat N2,200 with your dirty kitchen bowl? Some women dey date nonsense sha oh. You come here dey talk yen yen yen yen yen. Post your picture make we see wetin dey attractive about you. If dem check sef d lady in question fit dey manage you as per Love dey e eye see say she don find husband.If we look sef you may be the least of the men she dey exposed to. Mtcheww attraction di ewu Gambia. Break up with her make she find better man.

MatrixReloaded:

Just as I was looking at my wife ass line in her tight green leggings last night as she was getting g something in my presence while I was seeing a movie on movienets3. The banging for night woman wey born 2 weeks ago with CS. Omor wife na wife abeg.

You don burst my head! Abeg make she rest o. Holy spirit go hold you till she heals completely. Epele

It took you 6 years...


Plus a baby to know this!

Smh. This is why I frown upon pre-marital sex. God knew what He was doing when He advised against it.

After 6-years and having a kid with her without marriage, you want to chase after someone new (because that's likely what it is). Ladies need to choose better.

IamDora:
Useless men, all they know how to do is complain complain and complain all the time

Watch how his fellow useless men will avoid this thread or create excuses for him, but when the table turns, they start insulting and talking down on the lady without knowing her side of the story,

The way NL men reason sometimes leaves me in awe, sometimes I wonder if most of them even experienced a mother's love. They insult us 2.4.7 yet slide-in to our Dms with alternates.

Alpha Nonsense online, mighty simps offline

lol I love this girl u too get mouth

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

You didn't love her in the first place,even if her beauty fades off, that love will still be there.

It seems there a woman outside that's getting attracted to you,and I sincerely think that you will still dump her after some time.

You are the problem, you can make your wife look beautiful,no woman is ugly,open a romantic communication with her,tell her the things you like

That one you are eyeing outside may be the devil you do not know.

Beverlyjean:


It's not a gender war.... he has the right to make his decisions or opt out if not satisfied....women fo that as well... u can't start cursing out cos a woman is involved...how will she now improve?? If u think the man should be blamed .... she needs to improve herself for the man to find her attractive again... stop throwing bitterness and hate...that's some psychopathic tendency

She might have lost her beauty so quick and need to work on herself but according to nature she will eventually loose it as she grow old. So its high time the mumu op know that nothing last forever.

Long term dating nor too good for this part.
6 years in marriage na long time due to rate of divorces but not dating.
Most long term dating nor dey end for marriage.
So,that time wey you don spend for dating don reach to arrange marriage.
Therefore, decide wetin you want.

TheWinterBird:
Smh. This is why I frown upon pre-marital sex. After 6-years and having a kid with her without marriage, you want to chase after someone new (because that's likely what it is). Ladies need to choose better.

Imagine! Mtcheww. You'd be amazed that this man might not be taking care of her to package herself and she might be struggling managing with him.

Zaheertyler:
Have you spoken to her about it
If yes in what manner?
I think you're the immature one

how?

IamDora:
Useless men, all they know how to do is complain complain and complain all the time

Watch how his fellow useless men will avoid this thread or create excuses for him, but when the table turns, they start insulting and talking down on the lady without knowing her side of the story,

The way NL men reason sometimes leaves me in awe, sometimes I wonder if most of them even experienced a mother's love. They insult us 2.4.7 yet slide-in to our Dms with alternates.

Alpha Nonsense online, mighty simps offline

madam don't turn this to war against men. Don't use your personal feeling or personal experiences with me to generalize.

To the topic. This man is an idiot. If you were married, Do you think you can actually stay attracted to your wife forever? There will be down. Times and up times but you stick there. Don't make a woman your fiance for 6 years and have a son with her and start talking trash.

Talk true, one girl don dey tickle you for outside. Even if you have a side chic which I do not recommend, stick with your woman. She had a son for you!!!!

My brr! No whine yourself... Wetin don b don b!!! Move on... Life goes on!!!

You are the problem, women no dey hear word, fiancee for 6years with a child. You switch to the next one, you find her unattractive after a while, work on yourself.

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

I'll blame her in this case.

Do you think those who marry keep finding their wives attractive years after the wedding?

COME ON!

Boobs sag, stretch marks show, the belly may not go totally flat, but that's where LOVE steps in.

Love sees beyond the physical. Love is what makes people get married even when they know looks will fade.

It's obvious you don't love this person, that's why the physical looks still matter to you after SIX YEARS AND A SON!

So, I'll blame her for staying with you for so long after seeing your total lack of commitment to a life together.

Oya, go and tell her she's no longer attractive.

Good luck with the rest of your life, Bro!

Your heart is somewhere else, open up!

IamDora:
Useless men, all they know how to do is complain complain and complain all the time

Watch how his fellow useless men will avoid this thread or create excuses for him, but when the table turns, they start insulting and talking down on the lady without knowing her side of the story,

The way NL men reason sometimes leaves me in awe, sometimes I wonder if most of them even experienced a mother's love. They insult us 2.4.7 yet slide-in to our Dms with alternates.

Alpha Nonsense online, mighty simps offline

You sound so pained... Be like say man don show you shege banza

This might be covert and clandestine effects of these western movies if you are a type that are addicted to such.

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

You are not mature enough to be with a woman.

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

You are a wicked person.

You are not a good friend

Mihaug:
Break off the engagement ASAP so u both don't live many years of tears and regret when it could have been avoided

Can we talk man to man

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

you're a jonsing boy, you better stand as a man firmly and carry her along in how you want her to be. Buy her toiletries and the type of clothes you want her to wear with your money. Buy her perfumes and take her out to posh places to see her mates. Tell her say na wetin you like be this but no matter what, carry that cross

Seriously, you are a weak man
For you to have said this about , a woman that you got pregnant and with a son for you.
How much have you spent to improve on her looks, clothing, l mean improving her look generally.

No be to dey complain
Your own sef full your body
Wey she never tell you.
The day she go open her mouth talk
You go find space to faint
You no go seeeeeeeeeee.

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

You are not serious

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

Bro tweak her to your taste relentlessly, you can’t afford to start over again after all your investment

Just saying though

Impregnable101:
we got engaged, did our introduction

So you're married already na. Marriage in the right sense is when parental consent and blessing has been bestowed on a union between a man and a woman who have agreed to be together. Church wedding is just an addendum or icing on the cake to the real wedding which is the introduction and parental consent. So you should address her as your wife not fiancee

You should be more patient with her, and both of you should improve in your communication. Good communication helps to fix many issues..

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

I pity you. Those people you find attractive will use and dump you. Mummu love is an intentional thing. You have to force it or ignite it. I used to think sexual lust was love. After using and dumping you, you will start looking out for your ex.

IamDora:
Useless men, all they know how to do is complain complain and complain all the time

Watch how his fellow useless men will avoid this thread or create excuses for him, but when the table turns, they start insulting and talking down on the lady without knowing her side of the story,

The way NL men reason sometimes leaves me in awe, sometimes I wonder if most of them even experienced a mother's love. They insult us 2.4.7 yet slide-in to our Dms with alternates.

Alpha Nonsense online, mighty simps offline

evening newspaper dey vex

Should have spotted those redflags under 2 years.

Whatever have kept you guys together for 6 years, should continue.

I feel communication is important, third party if its necessary.
There are solutions man.

Never seen someone undergo a project for 6 years and decides to dump it because the project isn't the dreamy one he hoped for.

Go meet real people for advice, not most fake alpha nlders.
Goodluck on your relationship. Adios

abba190:
evening newspaper dey vex

Scarrr:
Is that you @balistic4 wey marry low self esteem worwor monkey.

Fool, there's absolutely nothing you can point out to that you have achieved in this rubbish you call life. No let depression kill you before your untimely death this year

Check yourself very well. You are most likely seeing someone else or you're considering seeing someone else. It's when you compare your spouse with another person that you see only what she doesn't have but the other person has. You even tend to ignore what she has.
Try to invest more in your wife. Whatever she looks like now is a function of how you have taken care of her.
I can bet if you leave her, it's just a matter of time, you will have more complains about the next person